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Life Advice for Youngs: go to the funerals you don't want to attend

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. A...
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I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:05 AM
Author: Flesh Tantric University Trust Fund

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. As you get older, there will be so many occasions where someone who you aren't close to passes away: a former co-worker who you have lost touch with, the younger brother of a friend from high school who you barely remember, or the dad of a college roommate you haven't seen since graduation. Go to all of these visitations if you can. It's good for the family and it's good for you. I have seen decades-old grudges dissolved in 30 seconds by this gesture. People are at their weakest when a loved one dies and the gratitude they feel when people take the time to pay their respects will last for the rest of their lives. My mom and dad are both gone and I can recall every single person who took the time to show up and pay their respects. It's powerful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2"#43672622)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:22 PM
Author: Disrespectful Greedy Incel Alpha



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:11 AM
Author: glittery cuckoldry faggot firefighter

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:13 AM
Author: Crawly brass mad-dog skullcap

180 advice. It really is good for your mind too, instant perspective.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: Flesh Tantric University Trust Fund



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:57 AM
Author: maroon balding associate

I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad’s funeral and the one-off stories they shared with me about how they knew him. One old lady had a flat tire in the bank parking lot and he changed it for her. Small town America. She would see him at the store or pharmacy for years and thank him.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:29 AM
Author: Aromatic hell

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:36 AM
Author: Contagious House

Make sure to bring business cards, brother.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:33 AM
Author: arrogant native



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:36 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:41 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:42 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:49 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:32 AM
Author: arrogant native

I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:35 AM
Author: razzle skinny woman

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:40 PM
Author: electric market



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:23 PM
Author: Internet-worthy lavender kitchen athletic conference



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: Juan Eighty



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: Underhanded whorehouse

Important OP

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:55 AM
Author: maroon balding associate

Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: Cracking mildly autistic dilemma prole

(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: Floppy cumskin



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:33 PM
Author: Flushed passionate circlehead dragon

Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:36 PM
Author: Cerise nofapping goyim legend

Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get a discount/tax write off on your travel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2"#43673721)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:10 PM
Author: primrose giraffe

OP is correct.

ty OP, and Merry Christmas

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2"#43673924)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:32 PM
Author: aqua mother national

My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grandfather died at 94. Church was barren.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2"#43674038)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:24 PM
Author: Internet-worthy lavender kitchen athletic conference



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:52 AM
Author: Trip Orchid Bbw

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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:34 PM
Author: Excitant ticket booth travel guidebook

theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. its basically boomer level selfishness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2"#43674045)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:19 PM
Author: filthy site place of business



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:21 PM
Author: Disrespectful Greedy Incel Alpha

very good advice here. i have been making an effort to attend more funerals of acquaintances after a personal experience made me realize how much it can mean to those close to the deceased.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2"#43680638)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 6:32 PM
Author: fear-inspiring factory reset button



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Date: January 15th, 2022 4:44 PM
Author: Flesh Tantric University Trust Fund



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:51 PM
Author: filthy site place of business

this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best experience was nervously attending the funeral of dude's dad who I had beef with after high school and hadn't spoken to in forever (the kid not the dad). Anyways, the gratitude you could see on that guy's face when I showed up was something I'll remember for the rest of my life.

Thanks to the immortal Yanagita for making this thread. This is something a younger person simply cannot understand on their own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2"#44856920)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: fear-inspiring factory reset button



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:54 PM
Author: Garnet cruel-hearted voyeur

(junior soprano)

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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:44 AM
Author: Flesh Tantric University Trust Fund



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:47 AM
Author: Multi-colored rambunctious school cafeteria

I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was because he predeceased my birth so it wasn’t possible, but the other 2 I was in law school states away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2"#45965887)



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:57 PM
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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:59 PM
Author: zombie-like coral piazza



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Date: March 14th, 2023 7:24 PM
Author: Stirring Hairy Legs Partner

Absolutely credited.

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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:36 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: whimsy the cat

should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2"#49460900)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: ruinous phenotype



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