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Life Advice for Youngs: go to the funerals you don't want to attend

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:05 AM
Author: turquoise big casino preventive strike

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. As you get older, there will be so many occasions where someone who you aren't close to passes away: a former co-worker who you have lost touch with, the younger brother of a friend from high school who you barely remember, or the dad of a college roommate you haven't seen since graduation. Go to all of these visitations if you can. It's good for the family and it's good for you. I have seen decades-old grudges dissolved in 30 seconds by this gesture. People are at their weakest when a loved one dies and the gratitude they feel when people take the time to pay their respects will last for the rest of their lives. My mom and dad are both gone and I can recall every single person who took the time to show up and pay their respects. It's powerful.

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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:22 PM
Author: Zombie-like mahogany hell



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:11 AM
Author: rough-skinned lodge

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:13 AM
Author: lake theater stage

180 advice. It really is good for your mind too, instant perspective.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: turquoise big casino preventive strike



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:57 AM
Author: Cracking buff genital piercing

I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad’s funeral and the one-off stories they shared with me about how they knew him. One old lady had a flat tire in the bank parking lot and he changed it for her. Small town America. She would see him at the store or pharmacy for years and thank him.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:29 AM
Author: galvanic jet death wish native

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:36 AM
Author: Olive mewling locale jap

Make sure to bring business cards, brother.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:33 AM
Author: 180 Den



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:36 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: Stirring Mother



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:41 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:42 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:49 AM
Author: nighttime pit people who are hurt



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:32 AM
Author: 180 Den

I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:35 AM
Author: milky internal respiration

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:40 PM
Author: Vibrant drab hunting ground site



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:23 PM
Author: Haunting stimulating indirect expression



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: Juan Eighty



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: chartreuse toaster

Important OP

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:55 AM
Author: Cracking buff genital piercing

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: transparent jet-lagged lay famous landscape painting

(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: Titillating Stead



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:33 PM
Author: orange wrinkle blood rage

Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:36 PM
Author: Swollen irradiated goal in life

Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get a discount/tax write off on your travel

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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:10 PM
Author: wonderful narrow-minded corner

OP is correct.

ty OP, and Merry Christmas

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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:32 PM
Author: Cocky Nowag

My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grandfather died at 94. Church was barren.

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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:24 PM
Author: Haunting stimulating indirect expression



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:52 AM
Author: spectacular stage sneaky criminal

live fast

die young

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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:34 PM
Author: heady zippy range

theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. its basically boomer level selfishness.

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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:19 PM
Author: Gold pocket flask locus



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:21 PM
Author: Zombie-like mahogany hell

very good advice here. i have been making an effort to attend more funerals of acquaintances after a personal experience made me realize how much it can mean to those close to the deceased.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2"#43680638)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 6:32 PM
Author: boyish queen of the night



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Date: January 15th, 2022 4:44 PM
Author: turquoise big casino preventive strike



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:51 PM
Author: Gold pocket flask locus

this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best experience was nervously attending the funeral of dude's dad who I had beef with after high school and hadn't spoken to in forever (the kid not the dad). Anyways, the gratitude you could see on that guy's face when I showed up was something I'll remember for the rest of my life.

Thanks to the immortal Yanagita for making this thread. This is something a younger person simply cannot understand on their own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2"#44856920)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: boyish queen of the night



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:54 PM
Author: Bateful brindle location

(junior soprano)

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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:44 AM
Author: turquoise big casino preventive strike



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:47 AM
Author: thirsty shrine sex offender

I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was because he predeceased my birth so it wasn’t possible, but the other 2 I was in law school states away.

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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:57 PM
Author: Splenetic Big-titted Kitchen Main People



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:59 PM
Author: Painfully honest thriller bawdyhouse pervert



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Date: March 14th, 2023 7:24 PM
Author: green dilemma macaca

Absolutely credited.

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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:36 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: whimsy the cat

should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?

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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: ruinous phenotype



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