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We Walked In on My Husband With a Man. Now Our Son Is Acting Homophobic. (slate)

Dear Care and Feeding, A few weeks ago, I was supposed to...
transparent exhilarant sneaky criminal
  12/13/20
a good 30 to 60 seconds a good 30 to 60 seconds a good 30 ...
violent weed whacker
  12/13/20
we’ve had the sex talk with him, but in hindsight, we ...
violent weed whacker
  12/13/20
hindsight is 20/20, shitcons
Green JoIIy Squancher
  10/27/25
this is why its so important to include mandatory homosexual...
zoomer sexuality expert
  10/27/25
it's downright cruel not to take them on excursions to bathh...
Green JoIIy Squancher
  10/27/25
(Mike McQueary)
lfo
  10/27/25
literally laughed out loud when i read this. set your phone ...
todd bonzalez
  10/27/25
*unzips* go on ....
Green JoIIy Squancher
  10/27/25
lmao What’s with all these “straight husband ...
Gold Box Office
  12/13/20
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transparent exhilarant sneaky criminal
  12/14/20
Just do spend an entire minute watching your dad have sex wi...
silver irradiated hall
  12/14/20
having fairly rough sex on our dining room table
Boyish dog poop sweet tailpipe
  12/14/20
"having fairly rough sex" lol this is fantasy
Supple fear-inspiring yarmulke faggot firefighter
  12/14/20
for you maybe
Boyish dog poop sweet tailpipe
  12/14/20
Reality for us. Fantasy for doobs while he recuperates
Lemon Office Hominid
  12/14/20
"in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking abou...
zoomer sexuality expert
  10/27/25
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Trust If Aryan
  10/27/25


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Date: December 13th, 2020 7:28 PM
Author: transparent exhilarant sneaky criminal

Dear Care and Feeding,

A few weeks ago, I was supposed to take my sons to an outdoor activity that ended up getting canceled due to weather. We found out about the cancellation when we were halfway there. Before I turned around, I texted my husband that we would be heading home and never got a text back. This wasn’t unusual, as he usually puts his phone on “do not disturb” while he’s working. When we got home, I opened the door to find my husband and his best friend, “Ryan,” completely naked, and having fairly rough sex on our dining room table. They had music blaring, so they didn’t hear us come in, and my sons and I were all in shock and just stood there for a good 30 to 60 seconds before I was able to shut the music off, and they realized what was going on and could cover up. Obviously, this is a bit of a chaotic situation.

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Ryan is like an uncle to my kids, has dinner at our house several times a week, has occasionally lived with us, and he and my husband actually work together. My husband and I are planning on staying together and are still trying to figure a lot of things out. Here’s the problem: My younger son (6) is pretty oblivious and thought Uncle Ryan was wrestling with his dad. My middle son (9) is very confused about the mechanics of what we saw (we’ve had the sex talk with him, but in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex). My older son (12) is having a very difficult time. My middle son has a lot of questions that I’m not really sure how to answer, and I’m not sure how much detail I should be going into, and who should be leading this conversation (me? my husband? a doctor?). I’ve been getting phone calls home from my older son’s school. Ever since the incident, he has apparently been making derogatory remarks about gay people, using slurs, and is also refusing to speak to his father (they were previously pretty close). The school is threatening to expel him. We’re on the waitlist for individual and family therapy, but I was wondering if you guys had any advice about what to do with my two older sons?

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Date: December 13th, 2020 7:29 PM
Author: violent weed whacker

a good 30 to 60 seconds

a good 30 to 60 seconds

a good 30 to 60 seconds

a good 30 to 60 seconds

a good 30 to 60 seconds

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Date: December 13th, 2020 7:30 PM
Author: violent weed whacker

we’ve had the sex talk with him, but in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex

we’ve had the sex talk with him, but in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex

we’ve had the sex talk with him, but in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex

we’ve had the sex talk with him, but in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex

we’ve had the sex talk with him, but in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex

we’ve had the sex talk with him, but in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex

we’ve had the sex talk with him, but in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex

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Date: October 27th, 2025 11:35 AM
Author: Green JoIIy Squancher (✅🍑)

hindsight is 20/20, shitcons

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Date: October 27th, 2025 11:37 AM
Author: zoomer sexuality expert

this is why its so important to include mandatory homosexuality in the kindergarten curriculum. 9 years old is just far far too late.

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Date: October 27th, 2025 11:49 AM
Author: Green JoIIy Squancher (✅🍑)

it's downright cruel not to take them on excursions to bathhouses during K or 1st grade

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Date: October 27th, 2025 11:51 AM
Author: lfo

(Mike McQueary)

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Date: October 27th, 2025 11:54 AM
Author: todd bonzalez

literally laughed out loud when i read this. set your phone timer for 60 seconds and just imagine watching your dad getting rawdogged in person for the duration of that span.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2)#49378689)



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Date: October 27th, 2025 11:56 AM
Author: Green JoIIy Squancher (✅🍑)

*unzips* go on ....

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Date: December 13th, 2020 7:30 PM
Author: Gold Box Office

lmao

What’s with all these “straight husband taking cock on the side” stories lately?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2)#41541043)



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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:52 PM
Author: transparent exhilarant sneaky criminal



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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:54 PM
Author: silver irradiated hall

Just do spend an entire minute watching your dad have sex with another man

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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:54 PM
Author: Boyish dog poop sweet tailpipe

having fairly rough sex on our dining room table

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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:54 PM
Author: Supple fear-inspiring yarmulke faggot firefighter

"having fairly rough sex"

lol this is fantasy

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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:58 PM
Author: Boyish dog poop sweet tailpipe

for you maybe

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Date: December 14th, 2020 2:01 PM
Author: Lemon Office Hominid

Reality for us. Fantasy for doobs while he recuperates

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2)#41546363)



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Date: October 27th, 2025 11:32 AM
Author: zoomer sexuality expert

"in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2)#49378631)



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Date: October 27th, 2025 11:56 AM
Author: Trust If Aryan



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2)#49378704)