The main reason we broke up is that she wanted to travelshrew and thingdo constantly and that wasn't my thing. I just wasn't into that lifestyle and she was unhappy dating a guy who didn't want to do what she wanted to do.

My cousin swooped in after I left. I saw on social media they just got back from an elaborate overseas trip. I know that was the exact kind of thing she would have wanted me to do for her. I could have been that type of guy but I'm just not like that and I have other interests. We were never aligned on lifestyle and goals. We had no future.

The thing about my cousin is that he basically has no inherent capability to meet women on his own. Before he was dating my ex he had a longterm crush on his best friend's sister, who went on to date one of his other close friends and my cousin was extremely bitter and jealous about this for many years. This guy just sits around coveting other dude's girlfriends until something opens up. This is pretty sick, right?

And here's the other thing that bothers me about him. He runs a fake business which his parents bought him that loses money every year. His friend started a business and didn't want to run it anymore. So my cousin's parents just bought it for him. The business loses money every year and his parents just give him more money to run it. He pays himself a salary out of a failing business. To compound the irony, my cousin's parents, my aunt and uncle, in true boomer fashion live way above their means not from their own sweat and toil but because they inherited a ton of money from their parents.

In other words my cousin is second generation hand me down fun money running a fake business that to my knowledge has never been profitable. He is flying around the world with my materialistic travelshrew ex who I used to do in the butt for 4 years paying with essentially his grandparents hand me down equity after he couldn't find a gf of his own and sat around for decades pining after his friends girlfriends. Literally a moans of my future wife situation where he had to endure listening to me plow her for ages through the wall when we all lived together.

I'm not saying I'm a saint here but am I the asshole?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49474101)

I am jealous because my ex has enormous natural beasts and is really good at sex. Dare I say, she had perfect tits. Porn star level cans. She is very submissive in the bedroom and will do anything. I seriously miss fucking her which was a great joy in my life. I would say her body comp is someone like Skylar Vox. For a tittiboi like me she was perfect.

She was also very doting and kind. Basically just worshipped me and heaped affection constantly and was extremely warm and loving. I really liked that. She absolutely threw herself at me, which was enjoyable. If I was upset about something she would move heaven and earth to make me feel better.

Things I don't miss: she was incredibly boring and dull at conversation. Bordering on mind numbing. She was a Disney Adult. I basically couldn't relate to her at all. Her stories sucked, her friends were trashy and prole. I don't think I was ever fully in love.

Overall the situation though was pretty good until I had to put more effort into the relationship to keep her happy at which point dating her became a massive chore and was exhausting. Keeping up with all her prole travel shit was annoying as fuck and I hated it. I was miserable towards the end. She also ruined her body with really terrible, disgusting tattoos after we broke up. She was resentful that I didn't like tats so after we broke up she went crazy with the tats that look horrible.

I don't really think about her anymore but I get enraged when I think about my cousin who I now hate although to be fair I kind of began hating him long before this but now it's worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49474144)

Sadly I only have porn of us we made 😣. Too graphic for zozo I don't want you all to see my wang.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49474218)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49474322)

I predict you will remain resentful about the situation for two months and then something new will happen in 2026 that makes this back of mind for you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49474210)

Thank u saar 180. I have to find a new pair of big cans then I will restore my inherent level of happiness. I'm a fairly positive person. Mostly upbeat guy. Just brings me down when I think of my idiot cousin. My undying love of giant boobs is really what sustains me in life. I just hate my cousin and feel guilty about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49474225)

I just feel guilty about having a trash opinion of my cousin. I don't like to be consumers by hate and negativity but I can't help it. Feels bad to feel bad.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49474247)

Definitely using grandads bux to appease my big titted ex's dreams of consooming was the move for him. It only took him 35 years of waiting around pining for his friends and relatives girlfriends to finally get some pussy. May he take this birdbrain to Disneyland in perpetuity. I swear to God this bitch had the absolute worst taste in movies of any woman I've ever met. Gag me. Also her recounting her day and feuds with coworkers and sundry was like nails on a chalkboard. Her friends were ruthlessly prole and would do shit like go out to the bar and order $1000 worth of shit and stick her with the bill and never repay her. I literally despised her friends. And her mom was a stay at home pillhead addicted to Xanax. Hated her too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49474255)

The story in the OP states that he has trouble meeting girls

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49474494)

I resent my sister too although not nearly as much. I just don't know what her job is. I have a hard time believing she's not some sort of sex worker. She has a lot of money and no resume. I don't get it but I fear the worst.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49474275)

Did he try to fuck her while you were with her? No. Did she dump you bc she wanted to be with him? No.

So who cares?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49474299)

they have nothing to even do w u

r u a woman

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49474482)

Sorry, bro, you are you are definitely the autist in this story. Oh, wait... You mean you wanted to know if you were the asshole? My bad.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49474508)

At this point I think marriage is a lock.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49474545)

before that he went through a phase where he tried to hang out with all of my female friends. these are chicks I was never involved with just friends of mine that he met through me. Like 10 of em. he would call them and want to hang out. That's what he was doing before my ex and I broke up. It's just sad man. Who wants a leech in their life? Do you want leech in your life? would u tolerate any guy friend who did this if they weren't related to you? No. No, you wouldn't.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49474592)

I have to admit, I didn't read much of your poast but this sentence jumped out at me.

There's a lot of hard-to-swallow truths in dating. One of the biggest is that if a woman isn't married, she's fair game. It's essentially noble that he's waiting for a breakup before he makes a move. What the fuck else is he supposed to do? Give her months after a breakup before registering his interest?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49476304)

"Maybe you fuck a lot of your friends girlfriends."

I've never fucked a friend's girlfriend. One time I had a friend's girlfriend ask me to go to the bars with her and a girlfriend.

I thought it was a little weird that I would be hanging out with my friend's girlfriend without him on a night that he was busy. But I decided that this must be a platonic thing, so I went through the whole evening on that assumption. She was very flirty, touching my arm and stuff, but I didn't reciprocate whatsoever.

Next time I saw my friend he was fucking pissed at me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49476385)

Assuming I had been less naive, and recognized this invite as non-platonic, and rejected it - what else am I supposed to do? I now know that my buddy's GF is looking to step out on him, and I'm supposed to keep her little secret?

I would have told my buddy about her invite, and then he'd be just as pissed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49477502)

You 100% should have informed him immediately that the cunt was asking you out ("platonically" lol my man)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49477523)

I was very naive back then. I thought these 20s friend groups could operate like TV sitcoms where it's totally normal for people in relationships to hang out with members of the opposite sex without the SO present.

I have extremely low self esteem and I have been extremely unsuccessful with women. The idea that this woman was willing to hurt my friend so badly & torch this friendship between me and him just to get with *me* is still pretty fucking unfathomable for me to grasp over 15 years later.

The only permutation of things that wouldn't have ended up with my friend quite so hurt (in the short term) is if I rejected her invite and kept quiet about it. But that just prolongs things, she very likely would have just strung him along until she found the next better guy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49477849)

For example, whenever I reflected on this incident, I assumed that whatever she was angling for was still quasi-noble. Like, perhaps she was hoping that on that night that we went out to the bars, we would make out at the end of the night, then she would immediately break up with my buddy and commence dating me.

It never really occurred to me until just now that she might have been hoping for (or open to) something darker. As in full blown sexual cheating.

In fact, the more I think about it, the 'straight up cheating' angle seems most likely. Because if she was so noble, why didn't she break things off with my buddy first?

Women are so awful wtf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49478484)

To boost the poasting volume on the bort.

I'm glad we still have poasters ready willing

To spill their guts with style online for us.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49482341)

To life, no novels or the like entice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49482353)

Deep in the thread that you got STDs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2)#49482362)