If I recall right 4-5 month post-college relationship, nothing remarkable about it. We were young and partied a lot so had lots of sex. Early on she was cool with a little rougher or more athletic sex and I was into it so naturally there some mild 'throw-around' moments or I would pick her up or something. She always responded really enthusiastically to that so I did it more and eventually she just grabbed me during sex and told me to ragdoll her around periodically and otherwise just manhandle.

From that session on, she would always want this borderline elaborate throwing her around (but not too hard), drag her across the bed, pick her up and throw her somewhere else, but all of this was always fairly gentle. It was like the pageantry of roughness and she would complain about too much jackhammering and never cared much for hair pulling, spanking, choking, other escalating contact like that. But she would basically whine if we didn't do the ragdoll routine and it got wearisome after a while. I swear I felt pressure to come up with new moves or sequences to satisfy her lust for getting lightly dominated in a highly specific fashion.

Second was what I thought of as a cougar but now understand was a shrew. I was 21 and she was early 30s at least. She was obsessed with watching me jack off and started demanding this early in. We just had a hookup relationship and she was upfront about sex.

She would kind of react while I was doing it but mostly just passive and kind of rub her pussy but not a ton. She was usually in underwear and she always wanted me at minimum nude from the waist down. I thought it was weird was down for whatever at that age and she just seemed into this to get turned on. She always wanted to fuck afterward (it seemed understood that if I jerked off for her we would fuck) and she was usually crazily turned on and sopping wet by the time we got to it.

Neither kink added much to the sex for me but I was happy to play along. That being said there is no hyperbole about #1 being a pain int the ass at times. A cab home following a long night at the bars and then I have to do this little wrestling routine or she'll be disappointed. We fucked without doing this if it wasn't really feasible or whatever other circumstances but still, what was the future, dragging her fat ass around the bedroom as she weathers menopause?

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