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Wife left: tell me about seeking arrangements

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to tr...
hot emerald den
  09/22/25
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histrionic church building
  09/23/25
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histrionic church building
  09/23/25
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histrionic church building
  09/23/25
I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar cons...
nudist dead range
  09/22/25
If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t d...
hot emerald den
  09/22/25
Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.
nudist dead range
  09/22/25
6’2” 220 (terrible build) Slight receding...
hot emerald den
  09/23/25
why did your wife leave you?
brass dashing roast beef
  09/22/25
Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to h...
hot emerald den
  09/23/25
if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust...
lake boltzmann generalized bond
  09/22/25
Grinder.com
gaped irradiated pozpig
  09/22/25
I don't believe OP is gay, though
nudist dead range
  09/23/25
There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade th...
Purple hilarious associate
  09/23/25
Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. ...
Poppy racy brethren
  09/23/25
wow
Insane alcoholic gas station
  09/23/25
What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography? DESCRIBE ur terr...
mentally impaired nursing home
  09/23/25
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histrionic church building
  09/23/25
"Don’t want to risk hookers" I've got som...
Idiotic business firm pistol
  09/23/25
There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s ...
Purple hilarious associate
  09/23/25
It is all literally sex for money.
Idiotic business firm pistol
  09/23/25
They're not hookers. They're just seeking Mutually Benefi...
nudist dead range
  09/23/25
Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.
Trip Preventive Strike
  09/23/25
How so?
Purple hilarious associate
  09/23/25
They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you...
Trip Preventive Strike
  09/23/25
I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professi...
Purple hilarious associate
  09/23/25
professional hookers are in business bcs they are profession...
supple crimson striped hyena
  09/23/25
…?
Purple hilarious associate
  09/23/25
Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.
Up-to-no-good box office macaca
  09/23/25
I’m speaking from experience, are you?
Purple hilarious associate
  09/24/25
that's why you give them a burner number and not your real n...
nudist dead range
  09/23/25
Also this
Purple hilarious associate
  09/23/25
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onyx submissive home
  09/23/25
What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically get...
Poppy racy brethren
  09/23/25
I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarshi...
Purple hilarious associate
  09/23/25
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onyx submissive home
  09/23/25
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Insane alcoholic gas station
  09/23/25
The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches t...
Up-to-no-good box office macaca
  09/23/25
Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry
sadistic crackhouse
  09/23/25
1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very...
Up-to-no-good box office macaca
  09/24/25
You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, famil...
Citrine shaky kitchen gaming laptop
  09/23/25
...
nudist dead range
  09/24/25
lol, sounds ghastly
Idiotic business firm pistol
  09/24/25
SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and ...
zombie-like hairraiser partner
  09/23/25
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onyx submissive home
  09/23/25
It is until you get caught in a sting.
nudist dead range
  09/24/25
There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps...
Heady indian lodge giraffe
  09/24/25
SA Poaster Here... I got into a more serious relationship...
harsh aphrodisiac cruise ship indirect expression
  10/21/25
What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?
hot emerald den
  10/21/25
WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR
Vermilion Electric Fanboi
  11/02/25
Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport...
Vermilion Electric Fanboi
  01/13/26
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Vermilion Electric Fanboi
  01/13/26
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nyuug
  06/08/26
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nyuug
  06/08/26
This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to ...
hot emerald den
  01/21/26
These women are nuts
hot emerald den
  01/24/26


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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:05 PM
Author: hot emerald den

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to try dating again but it’s been too long with the wife.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49291749)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: histrionic church building

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49293910)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:50 AM
Author: histrionic church building

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49293939)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:40 PM
Author: histrionic church building

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296549)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:08 PM
Author: nudist dead range

I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar considering your:

- age;

- height;

- remaining hair

But give it a go!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49291759)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:17 PM
Author: hot emerald den

If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t deserve me at my best

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49291776)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: nudist dead range

Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49291944)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:00 AM
Author: hot emerald den

6’2”

220 (terrible build)

Slight receding with a widows peak. I don’t look balding yet but I’ve got some worries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49293643)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: brass dashing roast beef

why did your wife leave you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49291946)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: hot emerald den

Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to have kids so I’m not sure what her problem is.

I work too much is part of it.

She didn’t cuck me before separation but I assume she has by now.

So I’m done.

Don’t really want another wife while my kids are young.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49293651)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:11 PM
Author: lake boltzmann generalized bond

if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust caked pipes, do that over and over instead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49292139)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:40 PM
Author: gaped irradiated pozpig

Grinder.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49292243)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:22 PM
Author: nudist dead range

I don't believe OP is gay, though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49295397)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: Purple hilarious associate

There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade through the trash. Ideal would be to find a cute-ish 20-25 yo girl who will have sex for $500 a pop that you can see twice a month or so. There’s a lot of flakes, I suggest quickly moving conversation to “hey let’s meet up for a drink, are you free tonight?” to see if they are serious / interested or not.

Don’t talk about money / sex on the app, wait to meet up and feel things out in person. Hopefully you have a least a little game.

Also, get in shape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49293677)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:20 AM
Author: Poppy racy brethren

Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. All the scholarship you need.

The short version is if you are moderately good looking you’ll do great. Tell them up front you are looking for pay per meet. You will undoubtedly have some kooky situations. Ultimately, you will grow tired of it and your soul will be diminished.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49293681)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:21 PM
Author: Insane alcoholic gas station

wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296963)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: mentally impaired nursing home

What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography?

DESCRIBE ur terrible physique and honestly rate ur facial aesthetics and genetic makeup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49293908)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: histrionic church building

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49293911)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:16 PM
Author: Idiotic business firm pistol

"Don’t want to risk hookers"

I've got some bad news about SA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49294299)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:54 PM
Author: Purple hilarious associate

There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s also some college girls looking for an allowance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49294402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 2:57 PM
Author: Idiotic business firm pistol

It is all literally sex for money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49295292)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: nudist dead range

They're not hookers.

They're just seeking Mutually Beneficial arrangements, tee-hee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49295402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:57 PM
Author: Trip Preventive Strike

Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49294413)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:59 PM
Author: Purple hilarious associate

How so?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49294425)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:18 PM
Author: Trip Preventive Strike

They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you at the wrong time or go nuts on you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49294503)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:15 PM
Author: Purple hilarious associate

I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professional one, the pros are more likely to be sketchy, have a criminal record, drug use, poverty, STDs, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49295355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:23 PM
Author: supple crimson striped hyena

professional hookers are in business bcs they are professional, not on drugs, germ-free, take credit cards where as amateurs are all dirty druggies with std's they dont even know about, "oh that itch/rash/sore/fever, i thought it was cuz I havent showered in 5 days".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49295517)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:25 PM
Author: Purple hilarious associate

…?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:43 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good box office macaca

Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296572)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:09 AM
Author: Purple hilarious associate

I’m speaking from experience, are you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49297045)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: nudist dead range

that's why you give them a burner number and not your real name.

Rookie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49295406)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:13 PM
Author: Purple hilarious associate

Also this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49295494)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:00 PM
Author: onyx submissive home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49294429)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:14 PM
Author: Poppy racy brethren

What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically getting to a surrogate activity”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296185)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:26 PM
Author: Purple hilarious associate

I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarship instead of wasting time on women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296383)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:55 PM
Author: onyx submissive home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296940)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:22 PM
Author: Insane alcoholic gas station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296966)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:39 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good box office macaca

The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches that can come from the fake dating with SA always seemed like a big negative to me. That single non-parent dude in CO who was lining them up 3 per night and poasted all those pics and sex diaries seemed like the right way to SA. Ie it’s a tool suited to single middle aged dudes with a lot of time to search for a daddy issues Cinderella. But for a single dad with young kids it seems awful. Requires time you don’t have and energy/stress you should spare yourself. If you want to fuck a hot chick, pay over $500/hr (usually $800 in a big city), get a burner, use a fake name, set up a fake LinkedIn and treat yourself to a high end escort every once in a while. No reason that would prevent you from dating later on or concurrently, in fact I’d argue it would improve your performance because you won’t depend on dating for sex, you’ll have more time and you will be more rational in your assessments of potential long term candidates.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296544)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:16 PM
Author: sadistic crackhouse

Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296958)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 3:24 AM
Author: Up-to-no-good box office macaca

1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very hard as a single parent with little kids, 3) the only women at church who see a single dad wrangling two kids and think to themselves “ohh I wonder if he’s single or his wife just has a stomach bug” are 300+ lbs. You’re right that mongering is a soul-rotting practice, but he’s the rare dude where the soul rot is worth the trade for the convenient access to sex with a woman who is otherwise far too attractive for him to ever have a chance with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49297191)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:47 PM
Author: Citrine shaky kitchen gaming laptop

You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, family members/pets have costly medical emergencies, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296638)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:51 AM
Author: nudist dead range



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49297113)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 2:08 PM
Author: Idiotic business firm pistol

lol, sounds ghastly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49298625)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:07 PM
Author: zombie-like hairraiser partner

SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296951)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:10 PM
Author: onyx submissive home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296954)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:50 AM
Author: nudist dead range

It is until you get caught in a sting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49297112)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:03 AM
Author: Heady indian lodge giraffe

There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps died. The hot chicks are on instagram and if they need extra cash post on onlyfans. The dude who posted here about SA posted a lot of 30s women. Why bother with that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49297025)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:03 PM
Author: harsh aphrodisiac cruise ship indirect expression

SA Poaster Here...

I got into a more serious relationship with a chick I met off a dating app... We ended up having a bunch of mutual friends in common and went from there so I haven't been on SA in ages... I also started doing great on the apps (this takes a bit of time as the algo ranks you and can be frustrating/discouraging at first so be patient), so I got off SA completely.

However, for your situation I think it's fine, just use a google voice burner number and ideally don't take them to where you live until you've hooked up with them at least once and aren't getting any sketchy or crazy vibes. I only say that because you have kids. I met up with plenty of chicks straight at my house straight away, including late at night and it was fine but if I had kids I wouldn't do that.

If you search SA on here you'll get all my poasts which have quite a bit of scholarship on the matter. Ideally you find 1 or 2 you actually have some fun hanging out with who are great in bed and you just keep them on rotation whenever you're free.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49364680)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:44 PM
Author: hot emerald den

What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49364751)



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Date: November 2nd, 2025 7:21 PM
Author: Vermilion Electric Fanboi

WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49396314)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 6:54 PM
Author: Vermilion Electric Fanboi

Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport

http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3466376&forum_id=2#32188261



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49587124)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 7:08 PM
Author: Vermilion Electric Fanboi



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49587194)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:38 AM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49921692)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:54 AM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49921779)



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Date: January 21st, 2026 5:33 PM
Author: hot emerald den

This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to pay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49607174)



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Date: January 24th, 2026 9:40 AM
Author: hot emerald den

These women are nuts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49614072)