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Would you leave your wife if you found out she had a crush?
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Date: September 17th, 2024 11:55 AM Author: .,.,...,..,.,..:,,:,......,;:.,.:..:.,:,::,. But she never acted on it? Just a crush on a co-worker or something like that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48098955) |
Date: September 17th, 2024 11:57 AM Author: A Technologically Advanced Pontiac Firebird *jerks off to sick and depraved porn* *leaves wife because she likes The Notebook* |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 11:58 AM Author: .,.,...,..,.,..:,,:,......,;:.,.:..:.,:,::,. Not a crush on a celebrity but on someone she knows IRL. Celeb crushes are innocent (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48098968) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 12:02 PM Author: A Technologically Advanced Pontiac Firebird Are you in sixth grade? Are we passing notes right now? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48098992) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 12:04 PM Author: Nippon Professional Baseball Meet me after school by the jungle gym, faggot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48099001) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 12:08 PM Author: penis capitalism (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48099034) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 12:35 PM Author: A Technologically Advanced Pontiac Firebird (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48099190) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 12:08 PM Author: penis capitalism based (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48099033) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 12:01 PM Author: bjork in venus as a boy Answering this question with the assumption that what youre referring to is in fact just a "crush" or feelings of attraction/fondness and not a full-blown affair (whether emotional or otherwise), which is completely different...
But fuck no. Take your marriage vows seriously and work on that shit. Divorce is AIDS. Dont give up on a lifetime vow over some fleeting feelings. |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 12:08 PM Author: .,.,...,..,.,..:,,:,......,;:.,.:..:.,:,::,. Right she told a friend that she had feelings for the neighbor or a co-worker and she's trying not to be alone with him so nothing happens. That kind of thing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48099032) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 12:30 PM Author: bjork in venus as a boy Sounds like she developed minor feelings that she realizes arent appropriate or good for your marriage and is doing what she can to quash them.
Advice: talk to your wife. Find out whats up and try not to imagine worst-case shit or get too mentally ill about it. It sounds like this is very minor and fixable. Sometimes people get weird attractions, doesnt need to be the end of the world.
Take her away for a day or a weekend and re-connect. Get the attraction going between the two of you again. Make an effort to spend more time with her. Activities, dates, shared experiences, Etc.
And if problems persist, get 3rd party help- a counselor or spiritual advisor. But honestly in the case of a minor, fleeting attraction, just rekindling the spark between you two will in a lot of cases fix it on its own. |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 12:33 PM Author: zurich is stained This is cr, and if it turns out that your marriage is det then so be it, but you really should try to fix things. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48099167) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 12:44 PM Author: .,.,...,..,.,..:,,:,......,;:.,.:..:.,:,::,. Marriage counseling doesn't actually work. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48099237) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 2:08 PM Author: zurich is stained Depends on a lot of factors. It’s definitely worth a shot before just blowing everything up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48099719) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 2:13 PM Author: bjork in venus as a boy Sometimes marriage counselors are trash. 100% depends on the counselor. Obviously under no circumstance do you want a shitlib that doesnt respect the bonds of marriage.
This is why I suggested simply communicating with his wife and making an effort to rekindle their spark first and foremost.
Also mentioned 'spiritual advisor as someone to reach out to, if applicable and problems continue. If they need to go the counselor route, obviously check around and dont settle until youve found one that will focus their energies on healing the marriage. |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 12:02 PM Author: tim heidegger if it was a crush on me, i'd be repulsed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48098994) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 12:07 PM Author: .,.,...,..,.,..:,,:,......,;:.,.:..:.,:,::,. How about a crush on someone else (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48099023) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 12:07 PM Author: tim heidegger w/e (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48099027) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 12:11 PM Author: puff daddy we now have middle schoolers posting (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48099047) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 12:12 PM Author: .,.,...,..,.,..:,,:,......,;:.,.:..:.,:,::,. Seems like guys here are cool with their wives having feelings for other guys. Interesting (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48099052) |
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Date: September 19th, 2024 10:36 PM Author: shushwhat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48111522) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 12:34 PM Author: PrestigeWhore LOL at having a “wife” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48099181) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 2:02 PM Author: ceci n'est pas un avocat She wants you to rise up in righteous fury pick a fight with him. If you lose the fight she will get "the ick". If you don't fight him she will also get the ick. beating him up *too* bad is a poor look as well.
I take no pleasure in reporting this, but it is my responsibility to explain the works of the female mind to xo. |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 2:15 PM Author: Person Familiar With His Internet Thoughts Thank god we have someone here to give it to us straight
Btw if she knew you were consulting your internet friends about this she would get the ick too |
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Date: September 18th, 2024 7:53 AM Author: jewish pussy is a blessing What is the opposite gender equivalent? My wife beating my work-wife in a cleaning and bj competition? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48102808) |
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Date: September 18th, 2024 9:19 AM Author: ,..,,,,,,....,,,..., Do you work in an office without a cleaning lady and live in a home without a maid? Or is your wife the maid and our work wife a Guatemalan lady who apologizes while half-heartedly wiping off any part of your desk with nothing on it?
The events in this contest should be BJs and subtly undermining the social standing and mental health of peer women. |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 2:21 PM Author: Enkidu The real problem here is that she's telling third-parties that she has a crush on someone else. This is extremely humiliating and degrading towards you and shows a lack of respect. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48099760) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 2:52 PM Author: Young and fresh Bboooooooooom (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48099931) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 5:07 PM Author: richard clock (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48100463) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 5:08 PM Author: snoot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48100467) |
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Date: September 17th, 2024 5:10 PM Author: Self-serious Macbook Airplane Girl tioctcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48100474) |
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Date: September 18th, 2024 7:56 AM Author: Wallace and Solace (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48102818) |
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Date: September 18th, 2024 7:49 AM Author: My boyfriend's penis is small and on the soft side (If I May, tp) Lol no of course not. It would be weird if she didn't occasionally get crushes. Don't you? I've got one going on a sassy white trash redhead girl from work, I'm just not going to act on it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48102792) |
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Date: September 18th, 2024 8:37 AM Author: snoot But you'd never tell your wife about it. Imagine how that would make her feel? Inadequate, ugly, insufficient etc.
And imagine how she'd feeling if you told other people about the crush? Humiliated.
We are all human and have desires. There's no way to go through life interacting with people and not occasionally be drawn to someone.
The importance isn't just not acting on it but keeping it entirely to yourself. |
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Date: September 18th, 2024 8:41 AM Author: jewish pussy is a blessing What if wife finds autoadmit poasts of you talking about your crush? Does that count? Did u have a reasonable expectation of privacy with participating on an anonymous forum? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48102948) |
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Date: September 18th, 2024 9:02 AM Author: snoot Good question. Raises the issue more of anonymity IMO. On the one hand its anonymous so there's no intentional disclosure either to the husband or to their social community.
On the other, it's a public forum, so putting these details out there seems hurtful especially given the risk of outing and then mass public disclosure.
Re: privacy, i suppose that depends on if it was done on a shared device and the husband would see it. also if she was aware that he knew she was a poster. that would be just like communicating it directly to him. If the husband finds out by snooping on her devices then i don't think shes to blame for the disclosure. |
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Date: September 18th, 2024 10:32 AM Author: Self-serious Macbook Airplane Girl lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5596346&forum_id=2/en-en/#48103307) |