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Subordinate, Thread 2

I had a work thing last night where she knew a cute girl tha...
Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button
  12/06/25
Mistake to mske a new thread, the original was reaching crit...
Cracking Stead
  12/06/25
Things with wife are deteriorating. She accuses me of cheati...
Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button
  12/11/25
Can’t believe no one in the other thread warned you
Excitant misunderstood french chef
  12/15/25
claiming my real estate in a 300+ reply poast previous th...
gaped flickering yarmulke
  12/11/25
"Normally, a giant red flag. But she sounded so hot&quo...
boyish school cafeteria
  12/11/25
So, pretty big problems. I went out for a walk so I could ta...
Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button
  12/11/25
hmm that's a tough spot shame nobody here warned you
gaped flickering yarmulke
  12/11/25
It’s not going well. She isn’t going to let up u...
Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button
  12/12/25
Also it was 1am when it happened. She’s not going to b...
Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button
  12/12/25
marriage problem madness
insecure mad cow disease
  12/12/25
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Cracking Stead
  12/12/25
I am fucked, might be able to repair it but it’s bruta...
Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button
  12/12/25
I thought you said that part of your plan was to never get c...
Excitant misunderstood french chef
  12/15/25
I am not caught, just got very close. And I said the opposit...
Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button
  12/16/25
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Hyperventilating Mischievous Circlehead Theatre
  12/12/25
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boyish school cafeteria
  12/12/25
This is the lamest way for you to have the flame jump the sh...
medicated bright gunner
  12/13/25
It’s real. The good news is I navigated my way through...
Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button
  12/14/25
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gaped flickering yarmulke
  12/12/25
hey fag, describe the sex. any ass play?
Charismatic Hunting Ground Abode
  12/12/25
FML. Buddy says he’ll cover for me and say it was him ...
Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button
  12/12/25
describe the sex you fag.
Charismatic Hunting Ground Abode
  12/12/25
My wife keeps asking me for more info about the call, circli...
Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button
  12/15/25
...
Cracking Stead
  12/15/25
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gaped flickering yarmulke
  12/15/25
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boyish school cafeteria
  12/15/25
https://youtu.be/qls9Pl1S-ZQ?si=d-qwHX6npLm_5Pdp
Excitant misunderstood french chef
  12/15/25
This thread actually makes me think the whole thing is BS. I...
soul-stirring violent theater
  12/15/25
It’s true, sadly. It was a really dramatic scene. The ...
Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button
  12/16/25
This whole thing is dumb to a degree I can hardly fathom. Ev...
soul-stirring violent theater
  12/16/25
I would lose interest maybe because I’d be in a huge l...
Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button
  12/16/25
Explain how you "objectively" go well with the sub...
soul-stirring violent theater
  12/16/25
Good chemistry, similar personalities, similar IQ, enjoy doi...
Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button
  12/16/25
Just to recap, you’re a mid level executive who was fu...
Excitant misunderstood french chef
  12/16/25
That’s about right but it’s not another coworker...
Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button
  12/16/25
is this fag still refusing to discuss the sex?
Charismatic Hunting Ground Abode
  12/16/25
I think the issue, per the old thread, is he only fucked her...
soul-stirring violent theater
  12/16/25
why do we need so many poasts for that? this thread is pathe...
angry violent associate
  12/16/25
OP needed to buy a Porsche or some bullshit.
soul-stirring violent theater
  12/16/25
The reason you pay hookers is so they’ll go away
Excitant misunderstood french chef
  12/16/25


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Date: December 6th, 2025 9:02 AM
Author: Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button

I had a work thing last night where she knew a cute girl that has been flirty with me was at. She spiraled and pushed for a call at like 2am, was totally drunk, said if I’m not going to give her attention then she’ll find someone else who will. Normally, a giant red flag. But she sounded so hot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49488076)



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Date: December 6th, 2025 9:17 AM
Author: Cracking Stead

Mistake to mske a new thread, the original was reaching critical mass

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49488086)



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Date: December 11th, 2025 4:05 PM
Author: Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button

Things with wife are deteriorating. She accuses me of cheating every few days, says I’m distant. Subordinate is still very attached, sends me messages about how she’s thinking about me whenever she can’t chat like when she’s at random dinners or whatever. She also shows zero guilt, gets giggly around her husband when she’s talking to me. Seems to enjoy the danger.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49502770)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:49 PM
Author: Excitant misunderstood french chef

Can’t believe no one in the other thread warned you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49512505)



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Date: December 11th, 2025 4:23 PM
Author: gaped flickering yarmulke

claiming my real estate in a 300+ reply poast

previous thread: https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&mc=370&forum_id=2

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49502816)



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Date: December 11th, 2025 4:26 PM
Author: boyish school cafeteria

"Normally, a giant red flag. But she sounded so hot"

narrator's voice: "it was still a red flag"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49502828)



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Date: December 11th, 2025 9:22 PM
Author: Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button

So, pretty big problems. I went out for a walk so I could talk to her. My wife tried calling a bunch and I didn’t pick up. We got intimate on the phone and next thing I know I turned around and my wife is there. I hung up quickly but she immediately accused me of cheating and demanded to see my phone. Wife is now openly talking of divorce unless I can come up with a good excuse of who I was on the phone with. There is no excuse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49503365)



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Date: December 11th, 2025 9:35 PM
Author: gaped flickering yarmulke

hmm that's a tough spot

shame nobody here warned you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49503397)



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Date: December 12th, 2025 1:39 PM
Author: Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button

It’s not going well. She isn’t going to let up until I tell her who I was on with. And that I didn’t immediately tell her already tells her it’s something meaningful. The story should just be yeah was talking to my coworker about work late and then somehow it spiraled into a big convo, won’t happen again. I think I’m just fucked either way. Now she’s saying she doesn’t want me to come to the kid's birth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49504699)



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Date: December 12th, 2025 1:40 PM
Author: Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button

Also it was 1am when it happened. She’s not going to believe nothing is going on, too many empty holes in the story.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49504702)



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Date: December 12th, 2025 1:41 PM
Author: insecure mad cow disease

marriage problem madness

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49504705)



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Date: December 12th, 2025 1:42 PM
Author: Cracking Stead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49504707)



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Date: December 12th, 2025 1:42 PM
Author: Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button

I am fucked, might be able to repair it but it’s brutal. Really bad luck that she stumbled upon me. But yeah, guess I always knew my luck would run out eventually over a long enough period

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49504709)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:50 PM
Author: Excitant misunderstood french chef

I thought you said that part of your plan was to never get caught?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49512508)



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Date: December 16th, 2025 4:23 PM
Author: Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button

I am not caught, just got very close. And I said the opposite. Statistically, it’s very likely we are caught at some point if it goes on long enough, goes to near 100 with long enough runway. Tough to talk to someone this much, often hours a day, without some slip happening after months. What I did say is my life wasn’t good and I understood those risks and wished to continue because it gives something to me. But I realized it was kicking the can down the road hoping it would resolve itself before I have to deal with the consequences

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49514646)



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Date: December 12th, 2025 1:51 PM
Author: Hyperventilating Mischievous Circlehead Theatre



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49504732)



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Date: December 12th, 2025 1:52 PM
Author: boyish school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49504734)



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Date: December 13th, 2025 7:05 AM
Author: medicated bright gunner

This is the lamest way for you to have the flame jump the shark

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49506388)



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Date: December 14th, 2025 10:55 AM
Author: Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button

It’s real. The good news is I navigated my way through the mess. A buddy stepped up and he was the one I was on the phone with. What a stressful few days though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49508499)



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Date: December 12th, 2025 2:06 AM
Author: gaped flickering yarmulke



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49503775)



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Date: December 12th, 2025 1:43 PM
Author: Charismatic Hunting Ground Abode

hey fag, describe the sex. any ass play?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49504712)



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Date: December 12th, 2025 3:28 PM
Author: Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button

FML. Buddy says he’ll cover for me and say it was him on the phone with me but there’s no proof we talked. He suggested I just come clean and put myself out of the stress. Doesn’t seem smart

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49504950)



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Date: December 12th, 2025 4:36 PM
Author: Charismatic Hunting Ground Abode

describe the sex you fag.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49505146)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 1:09 PM
Author: Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button

My wife keeps asking me for more info about the call, circling back over and over. It’s a bit brutal. Thinking about confessing soon just to be free of the dynamic. It’s stressful as fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49511294)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 7:01 PM
Author: Cracking Stead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49512232)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 7:18 PM
Author: gaped flickering yarmulke



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49512267)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 7:56 PM
Author: boyish school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49512363)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:51 PM
Author: Excitant misunderstood french chef

https://youtu.be/qls9Pl1S-ZQ?si=d-qwHX6npLm_5Pdp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49512512)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:27 PM
Author: soul-stirring violent theater

This thread actually makes me think the whole thing is BS. I believed the first one, but this just sounds like a stretch.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49512469)



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Date: December 16th, 2025 3:23 AM
Author: Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button

It’s true, sadly. It was a really dramatic scene. The subordinate was masturbating and we were talking dirty and then suddenly I turn around and BAM my wife is standing there. I hung up and refused to tell her who I was on the call with. She tried to steal my phone in the middle of the night. I had to take her phone from her to eventually get her to give it back to me. She was sobbing on the ground asking what she and the baby were going to do. I felt like a POS. A few days later I talked to my buddy and told him I was just gonna tell her it was the coworker and that she called me late about work but ended up spiraling into a longer conversation. He said man that’s a terrible idea she’s never gonna believe you were talking to a hot coworker at 1am while drunk about work and acting sketchy about it. Then he said just say it was him and he’ll corroborate. Thank god he talked me off that ledge. It worked because she accepted it initially but she’s already started asking questions about it and I don’t have the call logs to prove the call happened. I’m going to buy a new iPhone soon and claim my entire call log history was wiped.

But real talk, the bigger problem is I don’t think I’m willing to cut off the new relationship, and the relationship with wife has deteriorated significantly. She’s hard to be around. It just seems like only a matter of time that it blows up again and this time probably much worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49513005)



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Date: December 16th, 2025 12:32 PM
Author: soul-stirring violent theater

This whole thing is dumb to a degree I can hardly fathom. Even though I am opposed to it, I can at least somewhat understand a guy fucking a random chick on the side and never seeing her again. But having a "relationship" with a long distance (LJL) "work wife" is just sad.

You complain that your wife is being difficult and distant, meanwhile you are acting like a drug addict sneaking around on her and staying up on the phone all hours of the night like a teenage girl. All while your wife is pregnant with your child.

I believe in the previous thread that you said you're 43 years old. You are clearly just seeking self-destruction on account of your age and the fact that you have your (presumably) first kid on the way. You feel that your old life is over and you are effectively blowing it up on the way out. The reason I continue to think this has to be bullshit is because this level of homotional short sighted thinking is something I would only expect from a woman.

If this really is true, I think you know deep down that the moment you tell your wife the situation you are going to sour on the co-worker completely. So in essence you have made a mess for no reason other than you have no impulse control and needed a mid-life ego boost. Sad!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49513776)



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Date: December 16th, 2025 2:09 PM
Author: Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button

I would lose interest maybe because I’d be in a huge life crisis and trying to maintain it would be a mess during that. But objectively I go well with the subordinate.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49514162)



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Date: December 16th, 2025 2:12 PM
Author: soul-stirring violent theater

Explain how you "objectively" go well with the subordinate.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49514169)



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Date: December 16th, 2025 4:18 PM
Author: Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button

Good chemistry, similar personalities, similar IQ, enjoy doing same things, mutual attraction, you know, the normal stuff that draws two people very close together

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49514631)



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Date: December 16th, 2025 1:33 PM
Author: Excitant misunderstood french chef

Just to recap, you’re a mid level executive who was fucking a subordinate and now you are using other coworkers (subordinate?) to help maintain a lie to your wife? In the history of corporate America this has always worked out fine.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49514042)



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Date: December 16th, 2025 2:07 PM
Author: Offensive aquamarine nibblets factory reset button

That’s about right but it’s not another coworker. It’s just my irl friend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49514157)



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Date: December 16th, 2025 12:00 PM
Author: Charismatic Hunting Ground Abode

is this fag still refusing to discuss the sex?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49513671)



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Date: December 16th, 2025 12:33 PM
Author: soul-stirring violent theater

I think the issue, per the old thread, is he only fucked her once. They were drunk after some work event. Other than that, it's been some fucking weird long distance relationship. Fucking LJL.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49513778)



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Date: December 16th, 2025 12:36 PM
Author: angry violent associate

why do we need so many poasts for that? this thread is pathetic and needs to die - so does op.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49513788)



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Date: December 16th, 2025 12:38 PM
Author: soul-stirring violent theater

OP needed to buy a Porsche or some bullshit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49513794)



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Date: December 16th, 2025 1:33 PM
Author: Excitant misunderstood french chef

The reason you pay hookers is so they’ll go away

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5806918&forum_id=2:#49514044)