My cousin (who we will call K) and I are super close. She lives in Jamaica and I live in Canada, but we have a good long distance relationship. She's one of the few family members who don't disrespect me and my siblings cause we're mixed and she's just so supportive.

She had been dating a guy since she was 17 ( she's now 21) but no one met him because he's always busy. All we knew was that he was wealthy and showered her with gifts. My aunt ( her mom) was hoping he was a white man so she could have cute grandbabies or whatever. She announced they were engaged and soon they will meet him.

So today, she invited all her close family members that live in Jamaica to meet him at her and her mothers house. So she showed up with him and in her words " 95% of them had mortified expressions". They were kinda cold to him but polite and they all ate lunch together. He even played some ball with my cousins and helped clean dishes.

When he left all hell broke loose. 3 out 7 uncles were screaming at her for dating a " chini mon" and for giving herself away to apparently " Jamaicas most problematic people like * insert my dads name* ".

Our two aunts ( by blood not in law, the in laws are the chillest Jamaicans you'll meet) got on her case questioning her " why couldn't you marry one of them white boys? Are blacks not good enough? Do you just want the " chini seed" ( which means uh genitals). They said that her children will have fucked up eyes like me and my siblings, they said that they will hate the Jamaican side and all that.

Her mother was the worse though, she screamed at her first saying that she hated her, that she was a failure of a daughter ( the girl got into med school), an embarrassment like my dad, and then told her that she either calls off the engagement or she gets kicked out.

She called my dad 30 minutes ago crying. She told him that she's never been so embarrassed or disrespected. She told him all the stuff they said about him ,my siblings, myself, and my mother. He was already mad but got even more mad because of the whole " I'll kick you out" thing because we can't do anything about and she doesn't come to Canada for med school until August. My dads currently cussing out whichever of my family members right now.

But let me just say this, 90% of Jamaicans love Asian people because they helped in the revolution. Most Jamaicans do not care about interracial and don't hate it like my family does. Please do not let this leave a bad mark of black people or Jamaican people on you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924969&forum_id=2#35655834)