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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:04 PM Author: Concupiscible church My older son has been dating a gal for a year and a half now. He works, she's in grad school (but she's actually a little older than him). He lives in a 3-bdrm apt with 2 other guys. She lives alone. They want to live together but seem afraid to make that leap. So they're looking at a huge rental house that is shared with a bunch of people... there must be 8 bedrooms and about as many people. It has 3 bathrooms and 2 kitchens, plus communal rooms. So they say they're going to take 2 of the bedrooms so they'd each "have their own space" but one room would be like their real bedroom and the other more like an office, but it would have a daybed in it too. So my son says if things don't work out one of them doesn't have to move. First of all this seems cynical to me. And also don't they want their privacy from all the others? I guess they get their privacy in their 2 rooms. My son says he likes living with other people and she says she misses living with other people. Sorry if this is tldr. Also I can't believe I am divulging this much about his life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694708) |
Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:11 PM Author: Multi-colored indirect expression famous landscape painting sounds pretty fucked up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694738) |
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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:14 PM Author: Concupiscible church elaborate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694756) |
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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:19 PM Author: Multi-colored indirect expression famous landscape painting very immature and half-assed. like going back to a college living arrangement. also if they break up one of them will end up moving anyway, or else the "community" of the house will be poisoned. just seems pointless. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694783) |
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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:25 PM Author: Concupiscible church I don't think there's that much of community. It's not like they're all friends or anything, or even found each other to move into the house. Everybody seems independent, each moved into the place on their own at different times, each has his/her own lease, and they hang out together only if they feel like it. I think some of the people are hardly at home, some people are in their rooms most of the time, but others hang out more. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694822) |
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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:12 PM Author: Motley idea he suggested wtf is wrong with these people? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694747) |
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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:20 PM Author: aqua filthy immigrant liquid oxygen Is this NYC where you can be a 32 year old and live like a 19 yo? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694790) |
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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:26 PM Author: Concupiscible church I think there are situations like this all over the place. My son & his gf are not that old. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694827) |
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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:20 PM Author: talking locus gaming laptop Seems pretty chill and intellectual. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694792) |
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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:21 PM Author: Concupiscible church elaborate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694800) |
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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:27 PM Author: talking locus gaming laptop Do you not understand "chill?" wtf (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694831) |
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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:29 PM Author: Concupiscible church In what ways do you find it chill & intellectual? Explain how you disagree with others in this thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694845) |
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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:39 PM Author: Twinkling hunting ground they don't wanna grow up, they're just toys-r-us kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694893) |
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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:42 PM Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Mahogany Potus Home my buddy and his wife always have had random people living with them since the time they were married. they live in a 4 bedroom home and often have 2 of the rooms "rented" to acquaintances. if anyone needs a place to stay and they have a room they just offer to let someone live with them for like $300. it's sorta weird. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694906) |
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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:43 PM Author: Beady-eyed kitchen weird (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694915) |
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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:47 PM Author: bright library newt unusual, but could be good if the other people are. separate bedrooms is, of course, the credited response. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694939) |
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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:49 PM Author: galvanic garrison communal style living can be credited. worth a shot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694950) |
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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:52 PM Author: Concupiscible church a part of me likes the idea b/c if they were just to start living together alone tbh I would worry about whether it's the right step to take and also it's too close to marriage and even though I like her very much I'm not ready to lose my baby (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694963) |