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My older son has been dating a gal for a year and a half now...
Multi-colored place of business set
  02/23/13
sounds pretty fucked up
Jet-lagged casino
  02/23/13
elaborate
Multi-colored place of business set
  02/23/13
very immature and half-assed. like going back to a college l...
Jet-lagged casino
  02/23/13
I don't think there's that much of community. It's not like ...
Multi-colored place of business set
  02/23/13
wtf is wrong with these people?
cheese-eating corner
  02/23/13
Is this NYC where you can be a 32 year old and live like a 1...
Light nofapping tattoo bawdyhouse
  02/23/13
I think there are situations like this all over the place. M...
Multi-colored place of business set
  02/23/13
Seems pretty chill and intellectual.
Harsh slap-happy range famous landscape painting
  02/23/13
elaborate
Multi-colored place of business set
  02/23/13
Do you not understand "chill?" wtf
Harsh slap-happy range famous landscape painting
  02/23/13
In what ways do you find it chill & intellectual? Explai...
Multi-colored place of business set
  02/23/13
they don't wanna grow up, they're just toys-r-us kids
aphrodisiac gas station
  02/23/13
my buddy and his wife always have had random people living w...
Copper flatulent reading party
  02/23/13
weird
Up-to-no-good ivory candlestick maker roommate
  02/23/13
unusual, but could be good if the other people are. separate...
Concupiscible locale trump supporter
  02/23/13
communal style living can be credited. worth a shot
Nudist gaping base
  02/23/13
a part of me likes the idea b/c if they were just to start l...
Multi-colored place of business set
  02/23/13


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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:04 PM
Author: Multi-colored place of business set

My older son has been dating a gal for a year and a half now. He works, she's in grad school (but she's actually a little older than him). He lives in a 3-bdrm apt with 2 other guys. She lives alone. They want to live together but seem afraid to make that leap. So they're looking at a huge rental house that is shared with a bunch of people... there must be 8 bedrooms and about as many people. It has 3 bathrooms and 2 kitchens, plus communal rooms. So they say they're going to take 2 of the bedrooms so they'd each "have their own space" but one room would be like their real bedroom and the other more like an office, but it would have a daybed in it too. So my son says if things don't work out one of them doesn't have to move. First of all this seems cynical to me. And also don't they want their privacy from all the others? I guess they get their privacy in their 2 rooms. My son says he likes living with other people and she says she misses living with other people. Sorry if this is tldr. Also I can't believe I am divulging this much about his life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694708)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:11 PM
Author: Jet-lagged casino

sounds pretty fucked up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694738)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:14 PM
Author: Multi-colored place of business set

elaborate

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694756)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:19 PM
Author: Jet-lagged casino

very immature and half-assed. like going back to a college living arrangement. also if they break up one of them will end up moving anyway, or else the "community" of the house will be poisoned. just seems pointless.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694783)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:25 PM
Author: Multi-colored place of business set

I don't think there's that much of community. It's not like they're all friends or anything, or even found each other to move into the house. Everybody seems independent, each moved into the place on their own at different times, each has his/her own lease, and they hang out together only if they feel like it. I think some of the people are hardly at home, some people are in their rooms most of the time, but others hang out more.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694822)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:12 PM
Author: cheese-eating corner

wtf is wrong with these people?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694747)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:20 PM
Author: Light nofapping tattoo bawdyhouse

Is this NYC where you can be a 32 year old and live like a 19 yo?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694790)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:26 PM
Author: Multi-colored place of business set

I think there are situations like this all over the place. My son & his gf are not that old.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694827)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:20 PM
Author: Harsh slap-happy range famous landscape painting

Seems pretty chill and intellectual.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694792)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:21 PM
Author: Multi-colored place of business set

elaborate

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694800)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:27 PM
Author: Harsh slap-happy range famous landscape painting

Do you not understand "chill?" wtf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694831)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:29 PM
Author: Multi-colored place of business set

In what ways do you find it chill & intellectual? Explain how you disagree with others in this thread.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694845)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:39 PM
Author: aphrodisiac gas station

they don't wanna grow up, they're just toys-r-us kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694893)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:42 PM
Author: Copper flatulent reading party

my buddy and his wife always have had random people living with them since the time they were married. they live in a 4 bedroom home and often have 2 of the rooms "rented" to acquaintances. if anyone needs a place to stay and they have a room they just offer to let someone live with them for like $300. it's sorta weird.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694906)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:43 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good ivory candlestick maker roommate

weird

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694915)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:47 PM
Author: Concupiscible locale trump supporter

unusual, but could be good if the other people are. separate bedrooms is, of course, the credited response.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694939)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:49 PM
Author: Nudist gaping base

communal style living can be credited. worth a shot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694950)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:52 PM
Author: Multi-colored place of business set

a part of me likes the idea b/c if they were just to start living together alone tbh I would worry about whether it's the right step to take and also it's too close to marriage and even though I like her very much I'm not ready to lose my baby

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694963)