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My older son has been dating a gal for a year and a half now...
flatulent offensive mother pistol
  02/23/13
sounds pretty fucked up
dun cracking karate mad-dog skullcap
  02/23/13
elaborate
flatulent offensive mother pistol
  02/23/13
very immature and half-assed. like going back to a college l...
dun cracking karate mad-dog skullcap
  02/23/13
I don't think there's that much of community. It's not like ...
flatulent offensive mother pistol
  02/23/13
wtf is wrong with these people?
canary spot
  02/23/13
Is this NYC where you can be a 32 year old and live like a 1...
Soggy striped hyena
  02/23/13
I think there are situations like this all over the place. M...
flatulent offensive mother pistol
  02/23/13
Seems pretty chill and intellectual.
Dark shrine
  02/23/13
elaborate
flatulent offensive mother pistol
  02/23/13
Do you not understand "chill?" wtf
Dark shrine
  02/23/13
In what ways do you find it chill & intellectual? Explai...
flatulent offensive mother pistol
  02/23/13
they don't wanna grow up, they're just toys-r-us kids
titillating fiercely-loyal generalized bond philosopher-king
  02/23/13
my buddy and his wife always have had random people living w...
Comical circlehead
  02/23/13
weird
at-the-ready orange antidepressant drug blood rage
  02/23/13
unusual, but could be good if the other people are. separate...
Erotic flirting ladyboy
  02/23/13
communal style living can be credited. worth a shot
Yapping plaza shitlib
  02/23/13
a part of me likes the idea b/c if they were just to start l...
flatulent offensive mother pistol
  02/23/13


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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:04 PM
Author: flatulent offensive mother pistol

My older son has been dating a gal for a year and a half now. He works, she's in grad school (but she's actually a little older than him). He lives in a 3-bdrm apt with 2 other guys. She lives alone. They want to live together but seem afraid to make that leap. So they're looking at a huge rental house that is shared with a bunch of people... there must be 8 bedrooms and about as many people. It has 3 bathrooms and 2 kitchens, plus communal rooms. So they say they're going to take 2 of the bedrooms so they'd each "have their own space" but one room would be like their real bedroom and the other more like an office, but it would have a daybed in it too. So my son says if things don't work out one of them doesn't have to move. First of all this seems cynical to me. And also don't they want their privacy from all the others? I guess they get their privacy in their 2 rooms. My son says he likes living with other people and she says she misses living with other people. Sorry if this is tldr. Also I can't believe I am divulging this much about his life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694708)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:11 PM
Author: dun cracking karate mad-dog skullcap

sounds pretty fucked up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694738)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:14 PM
Author: flatulent offensive mother pistol

elaborate

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694756)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:19 PM
Author: dun cracking karate mad-dog skullcap

very immature and half-assed. like going back to a college living arrangement. also if they break up one of them will end up moving anyway, or else the "community" of the house will be poisoned. just seems pointless.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694783)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:25 PM
Author: flatulent offensive mother pistol

I don't think there's that much of community. It's not like they're all friends or anything, or even found each other to move into the house. Everybody seems independent, each moved into the place on their own at different times, each has his/her own lease, and they hang out together only if they feel like it. I think some of the people are hardly at home, some people are in their rooms most of the time, but others hang out more.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694822)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:12 PM
Author: canary spot

wtf is wrong with these people?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694747)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:20 PM
Author: Soggy striped hyena

Is this NYC where you can be a 32 year old and live like a 19 yo?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694790)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:26 PM
Author: flatulent offensive mother pistol

I think there are situations like this all over the place. My son & his gf are not that old.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694827)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:20 PM
Author: Dark shrine

Seems pretty chill and intellectual.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694792)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:21 PM
Author: flatulent offensive mother pistol

elaborate

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694800)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:27 PM
Author: Dark shrine

Do you not understand "chill?" wtf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694831)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:29 PM
Author: flatulent offensive mother pistol

In what ways do you find it chill & intellectual? Explain how you disagree with others in this thread.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694845)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:39 PM
Author: titillating fiercely-loyal generalized bond philosopher-king

they don't wanna grow up, they're just toys-r-us kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694893)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:42 PM
Author: Comical circlehead

my buddy and his wife always have had random people living with them since the time they were married. they live in a 4 bedroom home and often have 2 of the rooms "rented" to acquaintances. if anyone needs a place to stay and they have a room they just offer to let someone live with them for like $300. it's sorta weird.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694906)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:43 PM
Author: at-the-ready orange antidepressant drug blood rage

weird

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694915)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:47 PM
Author: Erotic flirting ladyboy

unusual, but could be good if the other people are. separate bedrooms is, of course, the credited response.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694939)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:49 PM
Author: Yapping plaza shitlib

communal style living can be credited. worth a shot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694950)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:52 PM
Author: flatulent offensive mother pistol

a part of me likes the idea b/c if they were just to start living together alone tbh I would worry about whether it's the right step to take and also it's too close to marriage and even though I like her very much I'm not ready to lose my baby

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694963)