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My older son has been dating a gal for a year and a half now...
Magical state electric furnace
  02/23/13
sounds pretty fucked up
out-of-control stead wagecucks
  02/23/13
elaborate
Magical state electric furnace
  02/23/13
very immature and half-assed. like going back to a college l...
out-of-control stead wagecucks
  02/23/13
I don't think there's that much of community. It's not like ...
Magical state electric furnace
  02/23/13
wtf is wrong with these people?
Angry stain
  02/23/13
Is this NYC where you can be a 32 year old and live like a 1...
odious roast beef
  02/23/13
I think there are situations like this all over the place. M...
Magical state electric furnace
  02/23/13
Seems pretty chill and intellectual.
Aqua Greedy Trailer Park Cumskin
  02/23/13
elaborate
Magical state electric furnace
  02/23/13
Do you not understand "chill?" wtf
Aqua Greedy Trailer Park Cumskin
  02/23/13
In what ways do you find it chill & intellectual? Explai...
Magical state electric furnace
  02/23/13
they don't wanna grow up, they're just toys-r-us kids
Rusted Frozen Fat Ankles Piazza
  02/23/13
my buddy and his wife always have had random people living w...
claret national
  02/23/13
weird
Doobsian Milk Meetinghouse
  02/23/13
unusual, but could be good if the other people are. separate...
Charcoal Plaza
  02/23/13
communal style living can be credited. worth a shot
splenetic gay house
  02/23/13
a part of me likes the idea b/c if they were just to start l...
Magical state electric furnace
  02/23/13


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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:04 PM
Author: Magical state electric furnace

My older son has been dating a gal for a year and a half now. He works, she's in grad school (but she's actually a little older than him). He lives in a 3-bdrm apt with 2 other guys. She lives alone. They want to live together but seem afraid to make that leap. So they're looking at a huge rental house that is shared with a bunch of people... there must be 8 bedrooms and about as many people. It has 3 bathrooms and 2 kitchens, plus communal rooms. So they say they're going to take 2 of the bedrooms so they'd each "have their own space" but one room would be like their real bedroom and the other more like an office, but it would have a daybed in it too. So my son says if things don't work out one of them doesn't have to move. First of all this seems cynical to me. And also don't they want their privacy from all the others? I guess they get their privacy in their 2 rooms. My son says he likes living with other people and she says she misses living with other people. Sorry if this is tldr. Also I can't believe I am divulging this much about his life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694708)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:11 PM
Author: out-of-control stead wagecucks

sounds pretty fucked up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694738)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:14 PM
Author: Magical state electric furnace

elaborate

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694756)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:19 PM
Author: out-of-control stead wagecucks

very immature and half-assed. like going back to a college living arrangement. also if they break up one of them will end up moving anyway, or else the "community" of the house will be poisoned. just seems pointless.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694783)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:25 PM
Author: Magical state electric furnace

I don't think there's that much of community. It's not like they're all friends or anything, or even found each other to move into the house. Everybody seems independent, each moved into the place on their own at different times, each has his/her own lease, and they hang out together only if they feel like it. I think some of the people are hardly at home, some people are in their rooms most of the time, but others hang out more.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694822)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:12 PM
Author: Angry stain

wtf is wrong with these people?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694747)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:20 PM
Author: odious roast beef

Is this NYC where you can be a 32 year old and live like a 19 yo?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694790)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:26 PM
Author: Magical state electric furnace

I think there are situations like this all over the place. My son & his gf are not that old.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694827)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:20 PM
Author: Aqua Greedy Trailer Park Cumskin

Seems pretty chill and intellectual.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694792)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:21 PM
Author: Magical state electric furnace

elaborate

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694800)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:27 PM
Author: Aqua Greedy Trailer Park Cumskin

Do you not understand "chill?" wtf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694831)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:29 PM
Author: Magical state electric furnace

In what ways do you find it chill & intellectual? Explain how you disagree with others in this thread.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694845)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:39 PM
Author: Rusted Frozen Fat Ankles Piazza

they don't wanna grow up, they're just toys-r-us kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694893)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:42 PM
Author: claret national

my buddy and his wife always have had random people living with them since the time they were married. they live in a 4 bedroom home and often have 2 of the rooms "rented" to acquaintances. if anyone needs a place to stay and they have a room they just offer to let someone live with them for like $300. it's sorta weird.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694906)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:43 PM
Author: Doobsian Milk Meetinghouse

weird

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694915)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:47 PM
Author: Charcoal Plaza

unusual, but could be good if the other people are. separate bedrooms is, of course, the credited response.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694939)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:49 PM
Author: splenetic gay house

communal style living can be credited. worth a shot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694950)



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Date: February 23rd, 2013 2:52 PM
Author: Magical state electric furnace

a part of me likes the idea b/c if they were just to start living together alone tbh I would worry about whether it's the right step to take and also it's too close to marriage and even though I like her very much I'm not ready to lose my baby

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2190643&forum_id=2#22694963)