When I asked her what he would do that qualified as narcissism, she would give examples like "he would always go down to his basement to watch tv by himself" (not flame), and I guess sometimes say things in an unkind tone of voice.

We ran into him at a bar once, he came up to say hi and he was really nice to me, she acted like she had seen her rapist or something, like shaking and fearful.

Eight months into our relationship she was still making frequent facebook posts about "narcissism," I finally had to tell her to stop because by now people would think those were about me. She got really pissed when I requested this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5697585&forum_id=2#48768551)

prompt it to write like a "sassy and fierce boss bitch who knows her worth... and the right wine for any occasion"

create a black woman pseudonym (not too black, a black best friend for white girls with no black friends) and start a publishing empire

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5697585&forum_id=2#48769265)

Alright, queen—enough is enough. You’ve spent too long tiptoeing around someone else’s ego, dimming your light so they could shine, and questioning your own reality because a narcissist told you the sky was green when you damn well knew it was blue. But guess what? That chapter is over. Done. Closed. And now? Now, it’s your time.

This book is your roadmap back to yourself—the bold, brilliant, take-no-BS woman you were always meant to be. You’re not just surviving. You’re reclaiming, rebuilding, and reinventing. You’re stepping into your power like a Louboutin-clad goddess who knows exactly where she’s going (and yes, we’ll find the perfect wine to pair with every step of this journey).

Here’s what you won’t find in these pages: sugarcoating, victimhood, or passive “just think positive” nonsense. Here’s what you will find: a battle plan for detoxing from narcissistic manipulation, tools to rewrite the narrative in your favor, and strategies to glow up in every sense—mentally, emotionally, financially, and yes, fashionably.

Because let’s be real: You didn’t walk through hell just to come out the other side playing small. You’re about to own your life, your confidence, and your happiness like the boss bitch you truly are. And when you do? That ex—who once thought they held all the power—won’t even recognize the unstoppable force you’ve become.

So grab a glass of something fabulous (a bold Malbec if you’re feeling fired up, a crisp Sauvignon Blanc if you need a fresh start), take a deep breath, and let’s get to work.

Your comeback story starts now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5697585&forum_id=2#48772474)

i witnessed this phenomenon first-hand a few weeks ago in a group of women. its so fucking annoying.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5697585&forum_id=2#48772416)