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What do you make of a woman wanting a video call before a date in person?
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 11:27 AM Author: .....;;...,,;;;;,,.....,,;;;... Red flag? Worth pursuing? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48510717) |
Date: January 2nd, 2025 11:29 AM Author: cannon Had one ask once I told her no I never use FaceTime with anyone. She was ok with and still met up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48510736) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 11:30 AM ? You should want this too, she can confirm you're not bald and you can confirm she's not fat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48510740) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 11:47 AM Author: alive girl tp credited, not sure what the issue is here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48510878) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 11:58 AM Author: .....;;...,,;;;;,,.....,,;;;... I thought I wanted it, but when the moment came, it felt like it would be an awkward and irritating 5–10 minutes I'd rather skip. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48510943) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 11:59 AM Author: Idris "You Voted for This" Elba (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48510951) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 12:00 PM Author: Lizard Fuckboi 100%
been catfished by too many girls with filtered pix, including a tranny. can also ensure she can hold a convo. nothing worse than showing up for a date and realizing in the first minute you want it to be over. |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 12:10 PM Author: ...,;;...,;;...,..,.,;,.,;;,.,;...; as if 'fat' has ever been a deal breaker on xo. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48510983) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 12:20 PM Author: .....;;...,,;;;;,,.....,,;;;... 99.9% here are married to fats, but dead afraid to match one on Tinder, lol. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511029) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 8:40 PM Author: Wang Hernandez That’s because our wives are only fat due to birthing our children (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48512875) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 1:42 PM Author: .....;;...,,;;;;,,.....,,;;;... Afaik, video calls show the face and neck. Plenty of women with huge bodies don't have huge faces. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511407) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 2:25 PM Author: chill online bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511578) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 2:35 PM Author: """'""""" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511621) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 11:50 AM Author: regular guy go to the gym for your face first then FaceTime this hag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48510887) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 12:33 PM Author: Gay Grandpa What do you mean by "the gym for your face"? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511081) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 2:01 PM Author: Diamond Dallas Trump he means repeatedly bashing an 80lb dumbell into your ugly fucking face would be an improvement (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511491) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 11:51 AM Author: ChadGPT-5 so yea if she asks you to jerk off with her don't do it, most likely it's a Nigerian from a French jail using spoofing software to then extort you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48510893) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 11:59 AM Author: Idris "You Voted for This" Elba Or maybe he wants to jerk off with the OP? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48510955) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 12:11 PM Author: ...,;;...,;;...,..,.,;,.,;;,.,;...; sexy Nigerian in French jail tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48510988) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 11:51 AM Author: michael doodikoff No issue with it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48510896) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 11:56 AM Author: .....;;...,,;;;;,,.....,,;;;... The issue is that it makes things feel even more forced and unnatural, taking away any sense of organic connection. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48510935) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 12:18 PM Author: Kenneth Play People do video calls at work and for all sorts of other things now, like language instruction, telemedicine, etc. It's a big time commitment to show up in person, and often the women don't look like their photos. I hear where you're coming from but I'd also be open to trying a video call. Of course you just need to be confident, upbeat, ask a few questions, and don't let the call last too long - your goal is to just make sure she meets your minimum requirements, and then you can proceed to proposing a real first date (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511019) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 12:32 PM Author: .....;;...,,;;;;,,.....,,;;;... Imagine she turns out to be fat and asks, "When are we meeting?" Plus, video calls miss some of the positive attributes you can pick up on in person, like their overall vibe or aura. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511075) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 12:42 PM Author: Kenneth Play Are you flame? You just say something noncommittal like "oh let me take a look at my schedule and get back to you, I've got some trips coming up." Agree that you get superior information in person but video is way better than text or voice (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511124) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 12:47 PM Author: .....;;...,,;;;;,,.....,,;;;... We had planned to meet this weekend, and then she asked for the video call. Yeah, it would be an awkward cancellation I guess. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511146) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 1:59 PM Author: Kenneth Play oh, that sounds annoying. women often move the goalposts, cancel, go hot and cold, etc, especially before you've met them. as a result setting up dates can be awkward, but you've got to just stay positive and power through it. you are interested in her, but not desperate. no need to overthink the what ifs on future cancellations - if that's where you end up, i don't think it's too awkward for you to be like "I’ve been thinking about it, and I feel we’re not the right match. I appreciated speaking, but I think it’s best if we don’t meet. Wishing you all the best moving forward" |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 2:05 PM Author: Diamond Dallas Trump it's a shit test to see what you will put up with. just avoid her if the date was already set up and she's backtracking (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511502) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2025 10:32 AM Author: Kenneth Play so there's no way to pass such a shit test, he's just doomed? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48514154) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 12:34 PM Author: Slow Children Playing youre meeting over a fuck app. that ship sailed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511086) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 12:49 PM Author: alive girl tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511151) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 12:00 PM Author: Idris "You Voted for This" Elba She wants to confirm your height.
too many women have been victims of being HeightFished |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 12:06 PM Author: .....;;...,,;;;;,,.....,,;;;... How do you confirm height on video, though? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48510971) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 12:13 PM Author: ...,;;...,;;...,..,.,;,.,;;,.,;...; jaw-to-shoulder ratio (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48510993) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 12:14 PM Author: Metal Up Your Ass stand next to a doorframe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48510995) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 12:17 PM Author: Idris "You Voted for This" Elba This.
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 8:21 PM Author: Candy Ride (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48512824) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 12:49 PM Author: average/ordinary/typical citizen/person Verification non-negotiable (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511147) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 1:11 PM Author: alive girl tp being serious for a minute, from a womans perspective, its probably to make sure youre not creepy/sketchy.
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 1:13 PM Author: Bill DaWall just respond "no" then dont respond further (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511256) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 1:43 PM Author: .....;;...,,;;;;,,.....,,;;;... Credited for women you don't give two fucks about. A video call should be saved for those actually worth pursuing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511417) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 1:46 PM Author: Bill DaWall no woman you have never met before is worth "pursuing" lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511432) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 1:52 PM Author: .....;;...,,;;;;,,.....,,;;;... Obviously I'm talking physically. If a 6 wants a call, ding. If an 8-9 asks, you might consider it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511463) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 8:22 PM Author: Candy Ride If you don't want to do it, she can't make you do it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48512827) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 2:22 PM Author: the place where there is no darkness I did this before, for over an hour, and it helped us both realize I'm gay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511573) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 2:24 PM Author: chill online bro it's normal these days
put yourself in her shoes. it's the rational thing to do from her perspective. tbh a chick doing this is kind of a green flag
also you get to see if she's fat/doesn't match her profile pics so it's good for you too |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 2:27 PM Author: Bill DaWall i guess if shes 23 and just out of college this is cr. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511587) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 2:38 PM Author: chill online bro honestly man it's kind of completely insane that women are willing to go meet up with some random guy 1 on 1 just from some online pictures and a self-description of him, either of which could be totally fake
like for all she knows you could be some psycho or brown person trying to rape or rob or murder her. any woman smart enough to do a video call screening is 1. not an idiot, 2. probably not a slut either
i've even heard of people going on "virtual first dates" but that seems like a little much and probably a waste of time |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 2:39 PM Author: VoteRepublican (A true Chad!! where's your gf/wifew?) w ur logic then all dates (not just 1st) should just be over the net (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511635) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 2:39 PM Author: Bill DaWall they can meet at a bar or restaurant or something like normal adults. if it feels like the tech noir scene in the terminator then just leave. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511636) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 3:29 PM Author: .....;;...,,;;;;,,.....,,;;;... Exactly my point. Why are people so afraid of meeting like normal adults? It's like everyone's turning into hermits. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48511801) |
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 3:26 PM Author: .....;;...,,;;;;,,.....,,;;;... Obviously, you're meeting at a public spot like a restaurant or coffee shop, and if the guy doesn't match his description, she can just leave. Sure, doing it online might seem safer, but it also feels like a chore and kills the excitement of a first date. Plus, it's way easier to flake on someone online simply because of how dull it feels.
IME, only the controlling ones with high expectations expect a call.
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Date: January 2nd, 2025 8:39 PM Author: Nippon Professional Baseball I ask them to show tits during video call (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5658223&forum_id=2#48512874) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2025 10:33 AM Author: Paddy O'Wagon you're dating an escort. did you venmo a 50% deposit for dinner? |