Date: September 30th, 2026 11:17 PM Author: ferengi
"is this your gf? wow she's gorgeous, i hope you know how lucky you are!"
for some reason people (almost always women, but occasionally men) say this to my bf often and he takes it as an insult, like they're saying he doesn't deserve me or we're unevenly matched or whatever. it's not always "gorgeous" in particular, but some variation of that, and the "i hope you know how lucky you are" is a near-constant. maybe it's because he's shorter than me, idk.
Date: September 30th, 2026 11:24 PM Author: ferengi
one time it was an older lady and she followed it up by talking about how she married for love rather than looks or money... THAT one was pretty rude, both to her husband who was nearby and to my bf because she was obviously trying to draw a parallel lol