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Men’s SMV peaks at 40, women’s at 18
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:46 PM Author: Boyish heaven You’re past the peak and it’s all downhill from here hth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677908) |
Date: May 20th, 2024 6:47 PM Author: Rambunctious coldplay fan set most men at 40 look like complete and utter shit trust me. though they do tend to have more confidence + money. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677910) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 9:39 PM Author: Cerebral messiness clown OP said SMV, not physical appearance. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678330) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:46 AM Author: beady-eyed kitchen (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47679081) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:52 AM Author: Gold Community Account Nursing Home *pushes up glasses* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47679092) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:32 PM Author: Heady sex offender (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47681457) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 1:45 PM Author: Boyish heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683558) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 9:04 PM Author: orchid hilarious mood space *chuckles slightly*
*casts a long glance at the gun on the table next to him* |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:49 PM Author: Gold Community Account Nursing Home yes people are commodities (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677916) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 6:01 AM Author: Adulterous Hall (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678937) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:51 PM Author: Swashbuckling magenta school becky Men are within 1 SD of their individual peak value at any age from 16-55 if they are sub 15% bodyfat. The issue for men is much less maximizing what they have and much more the reality of hypergamy, which is that women left to their own devices have no sexual interest in the bottom 95-97% of men in pure SMV, and 90+% of men who secure a long term female partner do it primarily as resource providers. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677921) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:55 PM Author: Marvelous fortuitous meteor market This hits me like a pile of books every time I see it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677936) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:48 AM Author: beady-eyed kitchen men need to understand that women aren't primarily driven by physical appearance in the way that men are. the issue here is that men expect women to think and be like men, but they aren't.
if you're not some jacked chad you should be very happy women value personality, status, resources, etc. more than looks. |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:52 AM Author: Gold Community Account Nursing Home Women aren’t sentient (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47679091) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:57 AM Author: beady-eyed kitchen and the sooner a man realizes this the happier he'll be (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47679094) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 2:04 PM Author: Milky irradiated brunch 180! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683607) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:51 PM Author: Hateful Associate VERY few men have a higher SMV at 40 than at every earlier point in their lives (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677922) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:53 PM Author: Swashbuckling magenta school becky Based purely on looks, yes. But factoring resource potential 40 year olds are competitive with many men who are at the peak of their aesthetics, especially if the 40 year old is also not fat and reasonably tall (ie 6’ or taller). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677927) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:54 PM Author: Boyish heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677930) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:55 PM Author: Hateful Associate LMAO no. The vast majority of men will find it easier to hook up with a 22 year old woman at age 25 than at age 40 and it's not even close (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677933) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:56 PM Author: Gold Community Account Nursing Home (guy poasting from 2009) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677939) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:04 PM Author: Pink Hell Antidepressant Drug This is only because you have more daily exposure to 22 year olds when you're 25 than when you're 40.
But go start making moves on your 21-year-old babysitters when you're 37 and you'll immediately see that your success rate is higher than it ever was when your were in your 20s. |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:08 PM Author: wonderful hideous boiling water field 180 advice going to try this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677953) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:10 PM Author: Boyish heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677957) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:23 PM Author: Garnet soul-stirring selfie 180% agree. They don't want a 25yo fuckboi when they can have a daddy who knows how to really lay the sheetrock ... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677997) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:26 PM Author: cracking factory reset button jap You don't do this so how do you know? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678008) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:50 PM Author: Marvelous fortuitous meteor market His college-age daughter works as a babysitter. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678042) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:57 PM Author: Gold Community Account Nursing Home (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678054) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:54 PM Author: Garnet soul-stirring selfie Easy as long as you are not short, fat, or bald. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678050) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 9:05 PM Author: orchid hilarious mood space *Hundreds of Poasters suddenly logging off in rage* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47684766) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 9:44 PM Author: At-the-ready travel guidebook sounds like you have some good stories to tell about babysitters, tell us (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678354) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 10:53 PM Author: Khaki Supple Persian Center (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678549) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 9:06 PM Author: orchid hilarious mood space *Unzips and takes a seat* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47684768) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 9:05 PM Author: orchid hilarious mood space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47684764) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:55 PM Author: cracking factory reset button jap (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677934) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:32 PM Author: Pink Hell Antidepressant Drug And very few lsat-takers make exactly a 150, statistics masterman. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678013) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:50 AM Author: beady-eyed kitchen incorrect. if you stay somewhat in shape and hold down a somewhat decent job it is trivial to fuck and suck women 10+ years younger than you. meanwhile a 40 year old women is as marketable as green hamburger. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47679087) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:00 PM Author: Cheese-eating locus ?
im a 17 y/o girl hehe |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:25 PM Author: mind-boggling bonkers jew legend what is my sexual mating value? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678002) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:33 PM Author: Boyish heaven extremely low (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678016) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:40 PM Author: cerise house blood rage (39 y/o) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678025) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:44 PM Author: curious hyperactive crackhouse flaem you can make it at any age (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678028) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:47 PM Author: Boyish heaven (she said, voice quaking, suppressing panic) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678032) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 8:01 PM Author: curious hyperactive crackhouse I've met a few women at the office who are making it every day (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678063) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 9:06 PM Author: orchid hilarious mood space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47684769) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 8:15 PM Author: learning disabled shaky abode glad fucktarded inconsistent cumskins are making the trillionth iteration of this thread in 2024 whilst accusing nyuug of being "repetitive"!!!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678098) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 8:20 PM Author: curious hyperactive crackhouse that seems like the opposite of "inconsistent" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678103) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 8:20 PM Author: learning disabled shaky abode lol@ this retarded fuck getting irate at my receipts (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678104) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 8:23 PM Author: Boyish heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678111) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 4:58 AM Author: Brass talented spot pistol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678900) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:51 AM Author: beady-eyed kitchen (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47679089) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 10:48 PM Author: Magical 180 dysfunction Aristotle recommends 35-37 as the best age of marriage for the husband, 18 for the wife (Pol. 7.16).
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Therefore it is fitting for the women to be married at about the age of eighteen and the men at thirty-seven or a little before80—for that will give long enough for the union to take place with their bodily vigor at its prime, and for it to arrive with a convenient coincidence of dates at the time when procreation ceases. |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 10:54 PM Author: Khaki Supple Persian Center (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678552) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 4:38 AM Author: curious hyperactive crackhouse married a little before 80 tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678886) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 4:52 PM Author: cream macaca stead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680762) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 5:33 AM Author: Bossy hominid hairy legs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678912) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:51 AM Author: beady-eyed kitchen (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47679090) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 10:23 AM Author: Boyish heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47679421) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 8:06 PM Author: At-the-ready travel guidebook (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47684587) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 4:42 PM Author: Bronze Temple Candlestick Maker Male SMV factors include Face, looks, money and status (exhaustive list). I believe you are correct. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680705) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 4:44 PM Author: beady-eyed kitchen lmfao at an exhaustive list not including Height (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680718) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 4:45 PM Author: Bronze Temple Candlestick Maker Yeah this is important and worth mentioning on its own if face is, but in my head it's a subcategory of looks. You're right though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680726) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 4:50 PM Author: beady-eyed kitchen "how far away is his face from the earth when he is standing?" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680756) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 5:01 PM Author: Bronze Temple Candlestick Maker lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680820) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:27 PM Author: curious hyperactive crackhouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47681414) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 9:07 PM Author: orchid hilarious mood space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47684771) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 4:48 PM Author: aphrodisiac canary wrinkle theater stage as much as I would like to believe I haven't reached my peak yet, this is flame middle-aged sadsacks tell themselves to justify blowing up their marriages before they die alone or married to a worse woman than the one they started with (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680747) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 4:53 PM Author: beady-eyed kitchen marty hart is a good example. gets a ton of pussy but winds up alone after his marriage blows up. the difference is only that marty's career fell apart after his divorce.
if a man's SMV is based in large part on his success. age doesn't factor in until he's visibly old. |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 5:00 PM Author: aphrodisiac canary wrinkle theater stage I've seen men whose careers don't blow up when they get divorced think because they pulled off a few affairs they can lock down a better wife blow things up and then end up in this situation
as a man, it's hard not to judge yourself by your success with women, and being in a monogamous relationship takes that away from you, but huh maybe people are supposed to do that and you should follow the BIBLE and not your DICK |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 5:07 PM Author: beady-eyed kitchen i agree. also being married is also a SMV status/success signal for a woman. most men have experienced how women seem to be more into them when they're dating someone else.
i certainly don't think guys should cheat or leave their wife. only that age isn't a huge factor for women until a certain point. you're right that men often do overestimate their SMV when they're married thinking it'll be the same if they got divorced. a lot of women are interested in them *because* they're married, and will lose interest once you're they're not and/or demonstrate their lack of loyalty by getting divorced for no good reason.
the tale of a guy leaving his wife only to come back begging when the homewrecker loses interest is common tale for a reason. |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 6:15 PM Author: At-the-ready travel guidebook sadly cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680999) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 9:08 PM Author: orchid hilarious mood space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47684774) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 5:18 PM Author: bateful stage boltzmann A woman in my family in her 50s just recently got married to a millionaire software developer in his 60s. Definitely not over for women at 19. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680877) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 10:38 AM Author: Boyish heaven are you aware of a concept called a "bell curve"? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47682976) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 1:44 PM Author: bateful stage boltzmann It's true that Asians do tend to be on the eastern side of those. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683556) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 2:03 PM Author: beady-eyed kitchen brandon weeden got drafted in the first round at 28 years old. you can make it at sport at any age, champ! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683601) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:31 PM Author: Passionate menage crotch Men at 40 probably attract lower quality women but a wider range, so I wouldn't say that's a higher SMV. A 40 year old will find it easier to get women in the 30-50 range than a 22 year old man, but he'll find it a lot harder to get women in the 18-25 range. So can the 40 year old get more women? Yeah, but he can't get as many good women |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 10:50 AM Author: Magical 180 dysfunction and just for the record, Jerry Seinfeld was 37 when he dated 17 year old Shoshanna -- almost exactly the ages that Aristotle recommended.
https://x.com/MediumSizeMeech/status/1706033291676074453 |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 2:19 PM Author: motley bawdyhouse lol at engaging consuela on a topic like this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683640) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 2:20 PM Author: Boyish heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683645) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 2:26 PM Author: Frozen haunting philosopher-king (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683666) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 2:30 PM Author: Flesh jet-lagged locale stain God help me if I'm posting here at 40+ years of age (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683673) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 2:46 PM Author: Cheese-eating locus (90% of poasters 20 years ago) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683725) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 9:09 PM Author: orchid hilarious mood space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47684777) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 2:50 PM Author: vibrant nudist public bath potus Women peak well before 18 but social values in this country don’t allow that to be acknowledged. Age of consent laws in most of Europe and Latin America make it more clear. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683733) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 8:20 PM Author: histrionic demanding property tattoo mid to late thirties is probably more accurate for a guy who's in shape and has kept his hair.
what's the point of this poast? |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 8:24 PM Author: Boyish heaven for entertainment, what's the point of any post
oh and to make posters feel better when they go through their mid-life crisis and get divorced |