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Soul-stirring soggy mother
  09/19/17
they make for better lyrical fodder
godawful vigorous hall windowlicker
  09/19/17
because u like women?
Rose Excitant Parlour Persian
  09/19/17
Because you have low self esteem and dont make any effort to...
Pink passionate church
  09/19/17
yeah all of this is accurate having female friends is so ...
Soul-stirring soggy mother
  09/19/17
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cracking medicated institution fat ankles
  09/19/17
have you seen these faggots with female friends? or mixed ge...
Soul-stirring soggy mother
  09/19/17
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cracking medicated institution fat ankles
  09/19/17
cr and so you date the slutty flirtatious girls who open the...
Effete Garrison
  09/19/17
yeah this is what bites me in the ass the most with women an...
Soul-stirring soggy mother
  09/19/17
me too :(
Effete Garrison
  09/19/17
should we read pua shit
Soul-stirring soggy mother
  09/19/17
ugh maybe, my fear of rejection is crippling
Effete Garrison
  09/19/17
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fragrant free-loading home stock car
  09/19/17
? This has been most of my relationships
Effete Garrison
  09/19/17
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Soul-stirring soggy mother
  09/19/17
Compatibility is a huge thing inrelationships. Finding someo...
Pink passionate church
  09/19/17
idk if that's entirely true its very difficult to determi...
Soul-stirring soggy mother
  09/19/17
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Effete Garrison
  09/19/17
you could date someone for months only to realize you think ...
Soul-stirring soggy mother
  09/19/17
Yeah, you can't win. You date organically and this happens, ...
Effete Garrison
  09/19/17
yeah its depressing
Soul-stirring soggy mother
  09/19/17
Do you not actually talk to women youre interested in and as...
Pink passionate church
  09/19/17
i only date girls that i enjoy talking to and share hobbies ...
Soul-stirring soggy mother
  09/19/17
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fragrant free-loading home stock car
  09/19/17
Let me guess: whenever you bring this up to other people, t...
adventurous idiot cuckold
  09/19/17
"consider the possibility that you only find terrible/h...
Effete Garrison
  09/19/17
bc u can
Razzle cordovan reading party regret
  09/19/17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Iyv2Ar3H6Y
Multi-colored feces
  09/19/17
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Black pozpig circlehead
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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Soul-stirring soggy mother



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34243861)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: godawful vigorous hall windowlicker

they make for better lyrical fodder

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34243868)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:29 PM
Author: Rose Excitant Parlour Persian

because u like women?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34243869)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:29 PM
Author: Pink passionate church

Because you have low self esteem and dont make any effort to connect w women or have female friends so you dont like or understand women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34243881)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: Soul-stirring soggy mother

yeah all of this is accurate

having female friends is so fucking gay though fuck that id rather get cucked

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34243884)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: cracking medicated institution fat ankles



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34243943)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: Soul-stirring soggy mother

have you seen these faggots with female friends? or mixed gender friend groups? it's disgusting. bunch of dorks walking on eggshells and acting like a bunch of dickheads. it's awful to the point of causing suicidal ideation. you want to kill yourself around these people.

anyway--this is why we need fascism now more than ever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34243954)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:41 PM
Author: cracking medicated institution fat ankles



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34243993)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:32 PM
Author: Effete Garrison

cr and so you date the slutty flirtatious girls who open themselves up to you, rather than you seeking out someone more compatible

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34243915)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: Soul-stirring soggy mother

yeah this is what bites me in the ass the most with women and dating i literally never approach anyone so naturally the results are shitty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34243932)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:48 PM
Author: Effete Garrison

me too :(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34244049)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:49 PM
Author: Soul-stirring soggy mother

should we read pua shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34244059)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:55 PM
Author: Effete Garrison

ugh maybe, my fear of rejection is crippling

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34244109)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: fragrant free-loading home stock car



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34243935)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:48 PM
Author: Effete Garrison

? This has been most of my relationships

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34244047)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:50 PM
Author: Soul-stirring soggy mother



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34244068)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:38 PM
Author: Pink passionate church

Compatibility is a huge thing inrelationships. Finding someone you have things in common with (hobbies, interests, world view, etc) is important in making a relationship last. I think too many dudes on this site just go for looks. Find a chick that you can like and respect as well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34243973)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:44 PM
Author: Soul-stirring soggy mother

idk if that's entirely true

its very difficult to determine compatibility because it requires so much time to get to know someone

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34244014)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:48 PM
Author: Effete Garrison



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34244054)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:50 PM
Author: Soul-stirring soggy mother

you could date someone for months only to realize you think theyre complete shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34244066)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:56 PM
Author: Effete Garrison

Yeah, you can't win. You date organically and this happens, or you do online dating based on "compatibility" and just have no spark anyway and keep doing the rounds

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34244117)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:58 PM
Author: Soul-stirring soggy mother

yeah its depressing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34244136)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:51 PM
Author: Pink passionate church

Do you not actually talk to women youre interested in and ask them about their opinions/hobbies/interests/life goals? Etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34244078)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:58 PM
Author: Soul-stirring soggy mother

i only date girls that i enjoy talking to and share hobbies with i just dont actually approach them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34244135)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: fragrant free-loading home stock car



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34243882)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 3:31 PM
Author: adventurous idiot cuckold

Let me guess: whenever you bring this up to other people, they look shocked and say “What? The opposite sex isn’t unfeeling / uncaring / horrible / likely to screw you over! How did you come to believe such terrible things?” and then you dismiss them as corrupted by society and regurgitating platitudes.

(the exact way this conversation goes depends on your gender, but either way, I’m sure it happens)

I don’t think either one of you is wrong. My own experience as a guy is that I both know mostly really good, honest, caring, honorable guys, and that I’ve dated mostly really good, honest, caring, honorable women (and XX nonbinaries). I swear that I’m not just failing to think this through or trying to regurgitate platitudes. On the other hand, I do know people who have really and truly had the opposite experience.

So the question is - why do different people have such different experiences?

My guess is that you’re doing one of the following:

1. Biasedly interpreting social cues from opposite-sex people in a hostile way.

2. Inadvertently exhibiting behavior that causes opposite-sex people to react in a hostile way.

3. Selecting for only the worst members of the opposite sex.

I know people of both sexes for whom each of these three is true. In particular, number 3 is a big deal. There are some people, male and female, who seem to have some kind of compulsion to seek out terrible people to date. They don’t realize this. They don’t want this. But they unfailing spot the worst person in the bar and end up in a relationship with them.

If I were you, I would try some experiments to figure out which of these three is true. For example, if you have a same-sex friend who also knows the opposite-sex people who have betrayed/hurt you, etc, ask if that same-sex friend agrees the opposite-sex person has been a bad person in their interactions with them. If no, that’s some evidence for 1 or 2; if yes, that’s some evidence for 3.

If you have a same-sex friend who always has good experiences with the opposite sex, ask them to set you up on a date with the sort of person they would like. If you don’t find them sexy at all, ignore that feeling and keep going. See if this person is also terrible and wants to hurt you. If not, consider the possibility that you only find terrible/hurtful people sexy and unintentionally seek them out.

https://slatestarscratchpad.tumblr.com/post/164043842541/since-a-young-age-ive-valued-romance-very-much

(not totally on point, I do think that the when things repeat themselves, you should consider that you're inadvertently selecting for it)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34244456)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 3:47 PM
Author: Effete Garrison

"consider the possibility that you only find terrible/hurtful people sexy and unintentionally seek them out"

God I'm fucked

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34244591)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 3:34 PM
Author: Razzle cordovan reading party regret

bc u can

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34244476)



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Date: September 19th, 2017 3:49 PM
Author: Multi-colored feces

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Iyv2Ar3H6Y

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#34244613)



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Date: September 20th, 2022 3:16 AM
Author: Black pozpig circlehead



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Date: September 21st, 2022 11:52 AM
Author: Black pozpig circlehead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3736583&forum_id=2#45206653)