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Wife quitting her job to be SAHM

I think this is going to be a good thing, but interested in ...
comical poppy property digit ratio
  02/10/26
State the terms of your prenup before I engage you further
titillating iridescent indian lodge famous landscape painting
  02/10/26
Prenup status is non existant
comical poppy property digit ratio
  02/10/26
Pepper angus my man!
titillating iridescent indian lodge famous landscape painting
  02/10/26
Nature of the assignment
comical poppy property digit ratio
  02/10/26
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Vigorous buff psychic
  02/10/26
how many kids do you have
Racy White Idea He Suggested Dopamine
  02/10/26
2, elementary and early middle school
comical poppy property digit ratio
  02/10/26
lol, she ain’t never going back to work
low-t plaza half-breed
  02/10/26
cr cr
comical poppy property digit ratio
  02/10/26
what's her #?
flickering blathering stage gunner
  02/10/26
Rude, but 1!
comical poppy property digit ratio
  02/10/26
He meant phone number, sicko
low-t plaza half-breed
  02/10/26
what could go wrong?
Charcoal Zippy Mexican Tank
  02/10/26
Mainly worries that she will spend all new free time thinkin...
comical poppy property digit ratio
  02/10/26
...
Vigorous buff psychic
  02/10/26
odds are your household chores actually go up after this
mind-boggling forum roommate
  02/10/26
she will get bored and want to open a "bead store"...
Medicated Mauve Mother
  02/10/26
*anal bead store
nofapping appetizing space jew
  02/10/26
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titillating iridescent indian lodge famous landscape painting
  02/10/26
Zero chance
comical poppy property digit ratio
  02/10/26
she's taking on a ton of emotional labor bro, help her out
beady-eyed turdskin black woman
  02/10/26
Cr. They lose momentum and get in the habit of doing nothing...
Sable Magical Parlour
  02/10/26
Meh there are definitely periods like this for my SAHM wife ...
light french mediation nursing home
  02/11/26
Cr. More time in the house means more messes for op to clean...
yapping casino travel guidebook
  02/10/26
how involved were you in this "decision"?
beady-eyed turdskin black woman
  02/10/26
My comp increase this year was 2x her salary (and I already ...
comical poppy property digit ratio
  02/10/26
How much is she making now?
Bisexual Razzle Blood Rage Hospital
  02/10/26
Part time job making around 45k
comical poppy property digit ratio
  02/10/26
Lol don't u realize that housechores/nanny costs more than 4...
Shaky Bright Stag Film Boistinker
  02/10/26
Congrats friend. You made it.
Jade parlor
  02/10/26
seems a little late for that if the youngest is in elementar...
mint stubborn codepig elastic band
  02/10/26
We will see what unfolds. I do think it will be a QoL impro...
comical poppy property digit ratio
  02/10/26
Wait is this tree man?
Bronze pontificating pisswyrm affirmative action
  02/10/26
bad call the point isn't for her to make money, the point...
blue field
  02/10/26
Or she can plan your vacations. I.e. you tell her April 1-15...
Shaky Bright Stag Film Boistinker
  02/10/26
here's the counterintuitive thing: it gets *easier* to do mo...
blue field
  02/10/26
...
Adventurous Navy Prole Garrison
  02/10/26
...
Sable Magical Parlour
  02/10/26
Guy speaking from experience
low-t plaza half-breed
  02/11/26
this is retarded. having a SAHW makes them more dependent on...
flickering blathering stage gunner
  02/10/26
that dependency is exactly the argument she'll use in divorc...
blue field
  02/10/26
Are you married?
purple passionate gas station
  02/10/26
(((Consuela))) married a Guatamalan with the body shape of a...
House-broken flushed lodge generalized bond
  02/10/26
which he complains about all the time. clearly the best ...
flickering blathering stage gunner
  02/10/26
Yes
blue field
  02/10/26
You have kids? I don't know all the Consuela lore and will a...
purple passionate gas station
  02/10/26
id rather than do the socially and personally optimal thing ...
flickering blathering stage gunner
  02/10/26
Good luck!
blue field
  02/10/26
here comes the opinion of a genetic dead end black piller, g...
House-broken flushed lodge generalized bond
  02/10/26
divorce just isn’t a big concern. Unthinkable
comical poppy property digit ratio
  02/10/26
You may be the only poster who doesn’t come from a bro...
blue field
  02/10/26
I am not married but plan to have a sahw. Basically it means...
Shaky Bright Stag Film Boistinker
  02/10/26
but you will marry a mongolian
House-broken flushed lodge generalized bond
  02/10/26
Explain how you write off taxes or have a Roth ira for a sah...
Tripping menage hairy legs
  02/10/26
Aren't you like 45 by now
Medicated Mauve Mother
  02/10/26
he's 52, not flame
House-broken flushed lodge generalized bond
  02/10/26
lol you’re never having sex again
blue field
  02/10/26
Can answer questions. What do you want to know? She seems ha...
ruby cracking old irish cottage
  02/10/26
LOL the last thing I want to do is devote more time to my ca...
comical poppy property digit ratio
  02/10/26
That's the thing, isn't it? It is important to have clear...
ruby cracking old irish cottage
  02/10/26
In like a decade when she’s banging the tennis trainer...
low-t plaza half-breed
  02/10/26
Cmon man
comical poppy property digit ratio
  02/10/26
It's good if she's conscientious and motivated. She should g...
Tripping menage hairy legs
  02/10/26
Yea, she is already super involved with school volunteer stu...
comical poppy property digit ratio
  02/10/26
lol SAHM for two kids? It’s only worth it as an invest...
territorial feces
  02/10/26
...
blue field
  02/10/26
I don’t see this as an “investment” (which...
comical poppy property digit ratio
  02/10/26
she should keep a part time job for lols, but if she hates i...
Charcoal Zippy Mexican Tank
  02/10/26
She likes to ride me with sometimes and mess around, but nev...
comical poppy property digit ratio
  02/10/26
Props to her for jumping on the SAHM mom train after the kid...
self-absorbed orchestra pit partner
  02/10/26
To be fair, of kids are / will be big into sports a lot of t...
Jade parlor
  02/10/26
Why is she staying at home when both kids are in school all ...
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  02/10/26


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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:28 PM
Author: comical poppy property digit ratio

I think this is going to be a good thing, but interested in others experiences

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660831)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:32 PM
Author: titillating iridescent indian lodge famous landscape painting

State the terms of your prenup before I engage you further

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660842)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:57 PM
Author: comical poppy property digit ratio

Prenup status is non existant

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660946)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:02 PM
Author: titillating iridescent indian lodge famous landscape painting

Pepper angus my man!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660980)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:05 PM
Author: comical poppy property digit ratio

Nature of the assignment

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660997)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:07 PM
Author: Vigorous buff psychic



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:32 PM
Author: Racy White Idea He Suggested Dopamine

how many kids do you have

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660845)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:57 PM
Author: comical poppy property digit ratio

2, elementary and early middle school

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660950)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:06 PM
Author: low-t plaza half-breed

lol, she ain’t never going back to work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661008)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:08 PM
Author: comical poppy property digit ratio

cr cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661018)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:36 PM
Author: flickering blathering stage gunner

what's her #?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660854)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:57 PM
Author: comical poppy property digit ratio

Rude, but 1!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660952)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:07 PM
Author: low-t plaza half-breed

He meant phone number, sicko

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661009)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:37 PM
Author: Charcoal Zippy Mexican Tank

what could go wrong?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660858)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:58 PM
Author: comical poppy property digit ratio

Mainly worries that she will spend all new free time thinking of new ways to spend money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660957)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:35 PM
Author: Vigorous buff psychic



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661104)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:47 PM
Author: mind-boggling forum roommate

odds are your household chores actually go up after this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660904)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:48 PM
Author: Medicated Mauve Mother

she will get bored and want to open a "bead store" or something

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660909)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:50 PM
Author: nofapping appetizing space jew

*anal bead store

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660915)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:02 PM
Author: titillating iridescent indian lodge famous landscape painting



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:59 PM
Author: comical poppy property digit ratio

Zero chance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660965)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:01 PM
Author: beady-eyed turdskin black woman

she's taking on a ton of emotional labor bro, help her out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660972)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 7:04 PM
Author: Sable Magical Parlour

Cr. They lose momentum and get in the habit of doing nothing vs. a multitasking synchronized sprint to coordinate dishwasher, clothes washer, and dryer cycles with kids’ bath time in the lulls like they had to when they only had a couple of hours to do 4 hours’ worth of work on a weeknight evening. You will come home to a disaster almost daily. *You* will be doing dishes at 11:30pm. *You* will be folding clothes on the weekend because the fucking baskets full have been sitting there since last week. And god forbid you ever make a suggestion that perhaps she could handle some of this shit and wtf do you actually do all day. And she will be less happy than when she was working because of years of conditioning that American female fulfillment can only come from email jobs. You may not notice any of this right away, but after the honeymoon, it is almost certain.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661904)



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Date: February 11th, 2026 10:07 AM
Author: light french mediation nursing home

Meh there are definitely periods like this for my SAHM wife and periods where she does everything, and for sure she acknowledges that having more time means more phone means shittier brain and less motivated and more depression prone overall, but 1) that’s also periodically true of many/most wives with email jobs unless your wife is really a super striver at work (in which case it’s dumb to have her SAHM), but my wife was down this path pre-SAHM, 2) the same critique obviously also applies to me and my lazy non-striver antics at my job, and 3) SAHM wife still does a great job managing kids and making sure they are doing all the bullshit kids have to do now to be functional and develop normally in 2026. For me 3) is a reasonable trade to accept doing some dishes and cooking some times, and I basically never fold laundry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49662828)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 11:21 PM
Author: yapping casino travel guidebook

Cr. More time in the house means more messes for op to clean up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49662466)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:50 PM
Author: beady-eyed turdskin black woman

how involved were you in this "decision"?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660914)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:01 PM
Author: comical poppy property digit ratio

My comp increase this year was 2x her salary (and I already made 90% of HHI) before. I told her if her if she didn’t enjoy her job, what’s the point? You don’t need to work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660970)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:00 PM
Author: Bisexual Razzle Blood Rage Hospital

How much is she making now?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660969)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:01 PM
Author: comical poppy property digit ratio

Part time job making around 45k

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49660975)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:20 PM
Author: Shaky Bright Stag Film Boistinker

Lol don't u realize that housechores/nanny costs more than 45k. And you actually get better tax writeoff I'd she can make jobs for your llc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661390)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:37 PM
Author: Jade parlor

Congrats friend. You made it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661107)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:38 PM
Author: mint stubborn codepig elastic band

seems a little late for that if the youngest is in elementary school lmao. say no.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661109)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:15 PM
Author: comical poppy property digit ratio

We will see what unfolds. I do think it will be a QoL improvement for both of us (her more so obviously!)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661364)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:17 PM
Author: Bronze pontificating pisswyrm affirmative action

Wait is this tree man?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661373)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:17 PM
Author: blue field

bad call

the point isn't for her to make money, the point is so she doesn't lose total perspective over hard it is to make money, and to keep her busy so that retarded hamster wheel in her mind doesn't go amok

now she will have brunch with friends every day, compare husbands, spend your money, think of new ways to spend your money, fuck darnell then take you to the cleaners

rip

you should have kept her pushing up the rock like sisyphus

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661372)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:22 PM
Author: Shaky Bright Stag Film Boistinker

Or she can plan your vacations. I.e. you tell her April 1-15 is vacation and she figures out how to spend it in antalya or Greece or Tel Aviv. Instead of pretending like her job makes her too busy to take care of that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661397)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:26 PM
Author: blue field

here's the counterintuitive thing: it gets *easier* to do more stuff the more you do. it gets *harder* to do more stuff the less you do. when your whole day is open, doing the littlest thing becomes hell after awhile

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661415)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:44 PM
Author: Adventurous Navy Prole Garrison



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Date: February 10th, 2026 7:05 PM
Author: Sable Magical Parlour



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Date: February 11th, 2026 11:05 AM
Author: low-t plaza half-breed

Guy speaking from experience

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49662982)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:27 PM
Author: flickering blathering stage gunner

this is retarded. having a SAHW makes them more dependent on you.

anyone that forces their wife to send emails for kikes when they don't need the money is part of the problem. renormalizing traditional single income families is 180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661417)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:27 PM
Author: blue field

that dependency is exactly the argument she'll use in divorce court (for you the second time), enjoy!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661419)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:33 PM
Author: purple passionate gas station

Are you married?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661437)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:35 PM
Author: House-broken flushed lodge generalized bond

(((Consuela))) married a Guatamalan with the body shape of a microwave box

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661446)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:37 PM
Author: flickering blathering stage gunner

which he complains about all the time.

clearly the best resource for advice on a maintaining a happy marriage!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661456)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:38 PM
Author: blue field

Yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661457)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 5:26 PM
Author: purple passionate gas station

You have kids? I don't know all the Consuela lore and will always think of you as Cock of Michael Obama btw.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661724)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:33 PM
Author: flickering blathering stage gunner

id rather than do the socially and personally optimal thing than fret about getting divorceraped when even in that worse case scenario i still would be fine. also prenups, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661438)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:39 PM
Author: blue field

Good luck!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661460)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:31 PM
Author: House-broken flushed lodge generalized bond

here comes the opinion of a genetic dead end black piller, guys!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661432)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:39 PM
Author: comical poppy property digit ratio

divorce just isn’t a big concern. Unthinkable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661461)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:46 PM
Author: blue field

You may be the only poster who doesn’t come from a broken home

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661483)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:17 PM
Author: Shaky Bright Stag Film Boistinker

I am not married but plan to have a sahw. Basically it means I can get head before work and after work(I work from home in my office). And if you think about it chores that a woman can do like raising kids costs 100k+ and you can write off all the taxes, make her a roth ira, solo 401k, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661375)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:32 PM
Author: House-broken flushed lodge generalized bond

but you will marry a mongolian

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661435)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:43 PM
Author: Tripping menage hairy legs

Explain how you write off taxes or have a Roth ira for a sahm?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661474)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:44 PM
Author: Medicated Mauve Mother

Aren't you like 45 by now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661476)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:55 PM
Author: House-broken flushed lodge generalized bond

he's 52, not flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661507)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:45 PM
Author: blue field

lol you’re never having sex again

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661480)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:30 PM
Author: ruby cracking old irish cottage

Can answer questions. What do you want to know? She seems happy and has been a great wife and mother but it's not for everyone. Based on your other posts it appears you're already HNW and that's the main reason she's stopping work. No denying having a SAHW allows you to dedicate more time to your career, which typically means more travel. Which is why quite a few men above a certain career threshold have SAHWs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661424)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:34 PM
Author: comical poppy property digit ratio

LOL the last thing I want to do is devote more time to my career, but probably need to. I’m also about to inherit a huge book from a retiring partner and income could easily double over the next few years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661444)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:43 PM
Author: ruby cracking old irish cottage

That's the thing, isn't it?

It is important to have clear expectations and communication around the expectations. For us it was a natural evolution that was kickstarted by having our first baby at the same time I was offered an expat gig. From that moment she never went back to work and it undeniably made it easier for me to be aggressive about work. Not too many years later it became clear if she returned to the workforce her income would barely reach 25% of what I was bringing home (and even worse now) the economics just wasn't there.

Some women will miss work. Some women feel the need to be generating wealth and assets of their own. In our case I do treat her well. Very well. Everything is comingled. Properties in both names.

Do suggest she find something to do outside the house and projects. In my wife's case it's exercise and fitness. Unfortunately her projects includes the rest of the family so our meals are the meals of health and fitness people rather than the search for umami. But I don't mind. It keeps her busy.

Also don't nitpick her spending. As long as she isn't unreasonably extravagant. We have cleaners and outsource stuff. I'm not having her scrubbing toilets just because she isn't working.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661473)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 4:24 PM
Author: low-t plaza half-breed

In like a decade when she’s banging the tennis trainer you’ll need to come back to this thread and remember how you got there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661568)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 4:31 PM
Author: comical poppy property digit ratio

Cmon man

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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:42 PM
Author: Tripping menage hairy legs

It's good if she's conscientious and motivated. She should get involved in school stuff, pta, volunteer for kids extracurriculars etc. This can be a huge boost to the kids social lives since all those involved sahms form a clique and organize play dates and other social events for their kids, but she needs to be social and proactive.

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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:43 PM
Author: comical poppy property digit ratio

Yea, she is already super involved with school volunteer stuff so I can see more of that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661472)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:57 PM
Author: territorial feces

lol SAHM for two kids? It’s only worth it as an investment if you have 4 or more

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49661512)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 4:14 PM
Author: blue field



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Date: February 10th, 2026 4:30 PM
Author: comical poppy property digit ratio

I don’t see this as an “investment” (which would be a terrible one) but as a luxury

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Date: February 10th, 2026 6:02 PM
Author: Charcoal Zippy Mexican Tank

she should keep a part time job for lols, but if she hates it, then stay at home looks pretty good. does she golf at all?

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Date: February 10th, 2026 6:15 PM
Author: comical poppy property digit ratio

She likes to ride me with sometimes and mess around, but never tried to seriously play. My oldest daughter is a golf nut so I think she would enjoy picking it up

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Date: February 10th, 2026 8:45 PM
Author: self-absorbed orchestra pit partner

Props to her for jumping on the SAHM mom train after the kids leave the house lol.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49662133)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 9:25 PM
Author: Jade parlor

To be fair, of kids are / will be big into sports a lot of the heavy lifting is just now starting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49662207)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 11:37 PM
Author: ocher fragrant pistol

Why is she staying at home when both kids are in school all day? It would have made sense if the kids were both between 0-4 years old. Now she’s just cooking and cleaning which won’t keep her busy enough.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2...#49662485)