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My working wife has never received a raise and makes less than when she started

This is all while retirement benefits have been cut, contrib...
disco fries
  09/25/24
Here are my inflation adjusted earnings over the last 10 yea...
disco fries
  09/25/24
Did you graduate law school in 2014? Jesus, how old are you?...
Enkidu
  09/25/24
I just used 10 years because it’s 10 years. I got my f...
disco fries
  09/25/24
Really hope you're not a litigator. $225k is not remotely cl...
Enkidu
  09/25/24
I will tell you that I am almost at my breaking point in ter...
disco fries
  09/25/24
lol holy shit, these are like spaceporn level
rickpanama
  09/25/24
Do you run your own firm or something?
.,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,...,:,...:..:.,:.::,.
  09/25/24
No. My earnings are pathetic. I don't know what is wrong wit...
disco fries
  09/25/24
How is your income that variable?
.,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,...,:,...:..:.,:.::,.
  09/25/24
Because I work for other people and I have been squeezed and...
disco fries
  09/25/24
Obvious flame
.,.,.;.,..,..,.,:.,:,..,..,::,..,:,.,.:,..:.,:.:,
  09/25/24
to make this thread actionable, what are some things I can d...
disco fries
  09/25/24
I've heard the app "WhatNot" is a great place to p...
Juan Eighty
  09/25/24
Yeah, I have deleted and I am never going back. I realize no...
disco fries
  09/25/24
Going on solo vacations certainly didn't build your career, ...
.,.,.;.,..,..,.,:.,:,..,..,::,..,:,.,.:,..:.,:.:,
  09/25/24
None of this is true. I am a great father and husband and my...
disco fries
  09/25/24
You're not a great father or husband. We've been reading yo...
.,.,.;.,..,..,.,:.,:,..,..,::,..,:,.,.:,..:.,:.:,
  09/25/24
I don't know what you are even talking about now.
disco fries
  09/25/24
Same. From everything I can tell, you're a great father -- a...
Enkidu
  09/25/24
I poast because it is better than reviewing shit I scarecely...
disco fries
  09/25/24
My phone autocorrected "posts" to "lists"...
.,.,.;.,..,..,.,:.,:,..,..,::,..,:,.,.:,..:.,:.:,
  09/25/24
Thought this was going to be a thread about OP's work wife.
Enkidu
  09/25/24
No, I allow my wife to go to work and get chadded around by ...
disco fries
  09/25/24
what went wrong in 2019?
peeface
  09/25/24
I actually got like 3 raises in 2019. The trouble was in 201...
disco fries
  09/25/24
I am a textbook example of why it’s so hard to get ahe...
disco fries
  09/25/24
Because you overeat, goof around on the Internet constantly ...
.,.,.;.,..,..,.,:.,:,..,..,::,..,:,.,.:,..:.,:.:,
  09/25/24
I do none of those things
disco fries
  09/25/24
wow maybe you should beat her, then call her a loser, then e...
.,.,....,.,.;,.,,,:,.,.,::,...,:,..;,..,
  09/25/24
I feel like this was written to hurt my feelings.
disco fries
  09/25/24
I am giving you legitimate advice
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  09/25/24
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disco fries
  09/25/24


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Date: September 25th, 2024 11:49 AM
Author: disco fries (28.5 fortnights to Teewinot friends - 355lbs)

This is all while retirement benefits have been cut, contributions to health insurance have been cut, costs have skyrocketed, and the job itself provides very little benefit. Still we need the paycheck.

I make about $8k more in real terms than I did 8 years ago. My own earnings are going nowhere.

I mention this because I spent the last 8 years building out my family. I will spend the next 8 years building my business and getting my lovely wife to a position where she doesn’t have to work at her underwhelming job anymore (if she doesn’t want to).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130314)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 11:57 AM
Author: disco fries (28.5 fortnights to Teewinot friends - 355lbs)

Here are my inflation adjusted earnings over the last 10 years (2024 dollars):

2024: $226,791.67

2023: $241,700.17

2022: $226,704.11

2021: $217,946.59

2020: $123,206.74

2019: $96,717.85

2018: $118,503.41

2017: $177,636.54

2016: $190,005.32

2015: $168,865.98



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130343)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:16 PM
Author: Enkidu

Did you graduate law school in 2014? Jesus, how old are you? You look 10-15 years older than me and I graduated well before then.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130420)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:18 PM
Author: disco fries (28.5 fortnights to Teewinot friends - 355lbs)

I just used 10 years because it’s 10 years. I got my first job in 2003.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130425)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:26 PM
Author: Enkidu

Really hope you're not a litigator. $225k is not remotely close enough to be worth the torture that it litigation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130464)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:29 PM
Author: disco fries (28.5 fortnights to Teewinot friends - 355lbs)

I will tell you that I am almost at my breaking point in terms of throwing up my hands because I'm not making any progress towards anything anymore.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130480)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:46 PM
Author: rickpanama

lol holy shit, these are like spaceporn level

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130563)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:48 PM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,...,:,...:..:.,:.::,.


Do you run your own firm or something?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130579)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:51 PM
Author: disco fries (28.5 fortnights to Teewinot friends - 355lbs)

No. My earnings are pathetic. I don't know what is wrong with me. It is time to get my act together.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130595)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:51 PM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,...,:,...:..:.,:.::,.


How is your income that variable?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130597)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:53 PM
Author: disco fries (28.5 fortnights to Teewinot friends - 355lbs)

Because I work for other people and I have been squeezed and wrung out a couple of times. My superpower is that I can tolerate abuse, hell I even like it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130602)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 2:18 PM
Author: .,.,.;.,..,..,.,:.,:,..,..,::,..,:,.,.:,..:.,:.:,


Obvious flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130936)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:03 PM
Author: disco fries (28.5 fortnights to Teewinot friends - 355lbs)

to make this thread actionable, what are some things I can do to improve my life?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130363)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:45 PM
Author: Juan Eighty

I've heard the app "WhatNot" is a great place to pick up some deals

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130555)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:46 PM
Author: disco fries (28.5 fortnights to Teewinot friends - 355lbs)

Yeah, I have deleted and I am never going back. I realize now that there is absolutely nothing that I can get from that website that will either fulfill me or make me into a better person.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130564)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:05 PM
Author: .,.,.;.,..,..,.,:.,:,..,..,::,..,:,.,.:,..:.,:.:,


Going on solo vacations certainly didn't build your career, but I don't see how it built your family either. It seems like you have a family only passively -- you married your wife for whatever reason (perhaps she initiated?) and had kids because your wife chose not to use birth control and you went along with it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130372)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:07 PM
Author: disco fries (28.5 fortnights to Teewinot friends - 355lbs)

None of this is true. I am a great father and husband and my primary goal was having a family. I achieved that goal. Now I need to focus on providing for them and making sure that each and every one of them flourishes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130386)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:12 PM
Author: .,.,.;.,..,..,.,:.,:,..,..,::,..,:,.,.:,..:.,:.:,


You're not a great father or husband. We've been reading your lists for years, man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130397)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:12 PM
Author: disco fries (28.5 fortnights to Teewinot friends - 355lbs)

I don't know what you are even talking about now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130399)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:28 PM
Author: Enkidu

Same. From everything I can tell, you're a great father -- although possibly poast too much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130473)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:30 PM
Author: disco fries (28.5 fortnights to Teewinot friends - 355lbs)

I poast because it is better than reviewing shit I scarecely care about.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130488)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:38 PM
Author: .,.,.;.,..,..,.,:.,:,..,..,::,..,:,.,.:,..:.,:.:,


My phone autocorrected "posts" to "lists" because I guess it likes the second word more

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130529)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:14 PM
Author: Enkidu

Thought this was going to be a thread about OP's work wife.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130408)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:16 PM
Author: disco fries (28.5 fortnights to Teewinot friends - 355lbs)

No, I allow my wife to go to work and get chadded around by a boss out of financial desperation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130421)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:31 PM
Author: peeface

what went wrong in 2019?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130492)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 12:45 PM
Author: disco fries (28.5 fortnights to Teewinot friends - 355lbs)

I actually got like 3 raises in 2019. The trouble was in 2018, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130556)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 1:22 PM
Author: disco fries (28.5 fortnights to Teewinot friends - 355lbs)

I am a textbook example of why it’s so hard to get ahead in Amerikkka.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130758)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 1:28 PM
Author: .,.,.;.,..,..,.,:.,:,..,..,::,..,:,.,.:,..:.,:.:,


Because you overeat, goof around on the Internet constantly and go on too many solo vacations?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130791)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 1:33 PM
Author: disco fries (28.5 fortnights to Teewinot friends - 355lbs)

I do none of those things

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130804)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 1:37 PM
Author: .,.,....,.,.;,.,,,:,.,.,::,...,:,..;,..,


wow maybe you should beat her, then call her a loser, then eat 8000 calories of Outback, then blow $12K on shitty coins from online auctions, then go on vacation by yourself to a suburb of cleveland so you can go on a nice long walk.

make sure you do not interact or attempt to parent your kids at any point during this process except to remind them what a financial burden they are.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130817)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 2:01 PM
Author: disco fries (28.5 fortnights to Teewinot friends - 355lbs)

I feel like this was written to hurt my feelings.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130892)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 2:18 PM
Author: .,.,....,.,.;,.,,,:,.,.,::,...,:,..;,..,


I am giving you legitimate advice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130933)



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Date: September 25th, 2024 2:17 PM
Author: disco fries (28.5 fortnights to Teewinot friends - 355lbs)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5601276&forum_id=2...id#48130929)