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Turned 40 today. Parents didn't remember. Friends called. Wife canceled dinner

Spoke to my folks, separately, for 10-15 minutes and neither...
Fat Teddy
  11/21/25
Hey, happy birthday man! BTW, you are going to age 10 years...
Paralegal Six Nine
  11/21/25
Thanks, man. What can I do to slow down aging aggressively? ...
Fat Teddy
  11/21/25
TRT accelerates aging pathways
Itamar Ben-Gvir
  11/21/25
Limit the amount of crap you eat. Don't neglect strength tr...
Paralegal Six Nine
  11/21/25
and make sure your ass ejaculates daily. Metemucil should be...
""''"'"'"'"''
  11/22/25
Expected disco fries. Birthdays are for children. You’...
Raul Mondesi circa 1998
  11/21/25
That's what I'm doing, man. Felt like the wife could have go...
Fat Teddy
  11/21/25
wait, op is a man? i just assumed it was a 40yo married lesb...
real men wearing real watches
  11/21/25
disco would never poast a thread like this. Also, op, hbd.
lucius quinctius cincinnatus
  11/21/25
Making a cake for you is already a huge lift. You’re b...
Fyre festival founder
  11/21/25
ty needed to hear this.
Fat Teddy
  11/21/25
No one remembered my 40th birthday besides my parents, fianc...
yooper
  11/21/25
Nice. I remember the first birthday of mine that my parents ...
lucius quinctius cincinnatus
  11/21/25
hi i luv u if that's any consolation
Gay Gujarati
  11/21/25
What the fuck are you talking about? In any halfway respecta...
concern boner
  11/21/25
Your xo bros are here for you. Were your kids excited fo...
Nazca Redlines
  11/22/25
you have a wife and kids. I will probably blow my head off o...
Buck Broken
  11/22/25
...
Itamar Ben-Gvir
  11/22/25
buy bitcoin with the money your wife saved you and thank her...
\'\'\"\"\'\'\'\"
  11/22/25
...
Long TERF War for PeterBoi Poon
  11/22/25
I did not even remember my 40th birthday.
Drunkard
  11/22/25
I’ll stick up for OP. We have one side of the story, b...
Josh_Allen asking Hailee Steinfeld to keep sox on
  11/22/25
i'll cosign on this. happy belated birthday, OP.
Paralegal Jahangir
  11/22/25
This is just what women are/do fundamentally
kelso
  11/22/25
i remember my 40 birthday. we had concert tickets and i was ...
UhOh
  11/22/25
As a man, no one cares about you at all. If they pretend to,...
Diane Rehm talking dirty
  11/22/25
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kelso
  11/22/25
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.,...,..,,,.,:;,:,.,.,:::,.,.,:..,,:;.:.,:.::,.
  11/22/25
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bungulator
  11/22/25
How do you have kids and still think about yourself this muc...
Patel Philippe
  11/22/25
happy birthday, Fat Teddy
spherequeer
  11/22/25


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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:09 PM
Author: Fat Teddy

Spoke to my folks, separately, for 10-15 minutes and neither of them remembered.

Had a bunch of my close friends reach out via text and two of them even called.

Mother in law called too.

Wife made a strawberry shortcake with our boys (my favorite) but made our family cancel dinner plans (she said I could take our 2 older kids if I wanted) because she felt tired and like our youngest was "coming down with something" so she said we should order dinner instead. She just didn't feel like going out at 6:30pm.

The boys made me a bracelet (Best Dad Ever) and she bought me some clothes and socks.

I was a complete asshole to her for canceling dinner and we got in a fight in front of the kids. I was being kind of a bitch about her canceling the dinner because I was looking forward to it. She called my behavior "bitchy" which obviously didn't go over well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49450829)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:11 PM
Author: Paralegal Six Nine

Hey, happy birthday man! BTW, you are going to age 10 years in the next 3 years...it's pretty fucking unreal. But at least they can't discriminate against you at work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49450835)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:15 PM
Author: Fat Teddy

Thanks, man. What can I do to slow down aging aggressively? I am not on TRT - should I be?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49450851)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:17 PM
Author: Itamar Ben-Gvir

TRT accelerates aging pathways



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49450853)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:19 PM
Author: Paralegal Six Nine

Limit the amount of crap you eat. Don't neglect strength training. Get a colonoscopy at 45. Ejaculate daily.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49450857)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 2:08 PM
Author: ""''"'"'"'"''

and make sure your ass ejaculates daily. Metemucil should be your new friend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49452100)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:12 PM
Author: Raul Mondesi circa 1998

Expected disco fries. Birthdays are for children. You’re a 40 year old man. Have a glass of whiskey or a garage beer and poast with your bros, you don’t need a dinner or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49450838)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:15 PM
Author: Fat Teddy

That's what I'm doing, man. Felt like the wife could have gotten her ass out the door for my fucking birthday though. Birthdays are for children - I told her I didn't want to do anything and then she insisted on making these plans and I was so disappointed she wanted to stay in. She said "let's order instead" and, out of spite, I said no and skipped dinner.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49450849)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:36 PM
Author: real men wearing real watches

wait, op is a man? i just assumed it was a 40yo married lesbian with kids. i mean, nobody even coming close to that demographic description has ever poasted here, but that still seemed more plausible than the op being drafted by an adult genetic male.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49450929)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:44 PM
Author: lucius quinctius cincinnatus (his own flesh as well as all space was still a cage)

disco would never poast a thread like this. Also, op, hbd.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49450942)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:26 PM
Author: Fyre festival founder

Making a cake for you is already a huge lift. You’re being a bitch imo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49450878)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:48 PM
Author: Fat Teddy

ty

needed to hear this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49450953)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:54 PM
Author: yooper (πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ πŸ‡΅πŸ‡±)

No one remembered my 40th birthday besides my parents, fiancee, and her parents, and my godparents. My fiancee and I share a birthday, so I just celebrate hers instead.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49450980)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:58 PM
Author: lucius quinctius cincinnatus (his own flesh as well as all space was still a cage)

Nice. I remember the first birthday of mine that my parents forgot. It was my 18th. Birthdays are for kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49450993)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:59 PM
Author: Gay Gujarati

hi

i luv u if that's any consolation

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49450999)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 11:33 PM
Author: concern boner

What the fuck are you talking about? In any halfway respectable century, you’d already have been carved open in glorious battle, not whining about a missed birthday call from parents who can barely remember what day it is.

Happy b-day btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49451114)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 1:07 PM
Author: Nazca Redlines

Your xo bros are here for you.

Were your kids excited for your birthday? My kids are very excited about their birthdays, which translates into them being excited for me for my birthday, which is 180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49451965)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 1:09 PM
Author: Buck Broken

you have a wife and kids. I will probably blow my head off on 40th bday

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49451968)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 3:47 PM
Author: Itamar Ben-Gvir



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49452305)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 1:14 PM
Author: \'\'\"\"\'\'\'\"

buy bitcoin with the money your wife saved you and thank her when you're 41

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49451979)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 1:37 PM
Author: Long TERF War for PeterBoi Poon ( )



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49452030)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 1:43 PM
Author: Drunkard

I did not even remember my 40th birthday.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49452046)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 2:06 PM
Author: Josh_Allen asking Hailee Steinfeld to keep sox on

I’ll stick up for OP. We have one side of the story, but that’s lazy behavior from a woman who is not trying as hard as she should be to make her husband happy and feel appreciated.

Just think of the number of times per week we suck it up and do shit that we don’t want to do to keep the paycheck coming and the family machine going. Nice to be acknowledged every once in a while and extremely hurtful to have it strongly suggested that your feelings don’t matter. Bro was looking forward to this family dinner all week. Life is all about managing expectations, but OP just wanted to spend his 40th with his wife and kids and she couldn’t get it together.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49452096)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 2:20 PM
Author: Paralegal Jahangir

i'll cosign on this. happy belated birthday, OP.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49452119)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 2:37 PM
Author: kelso

This is just what women are/do fundamentally

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49452155)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 2:45 PM
Author: UhOh

i remember my 40 birthday. we had concert tickets and i was eager to leave early so i could see the opener. wife was on the couch casually filling out the census that had been laying around for weeks. i think it was the last day you could do it? she was taking forever. i asked her to please blow it off so that we could go, it was my 40th birthday for god's sake. she slammed it down, said fine let's go and got sour and didn't say a word to me for hours.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49452169)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 2:53 PM
Author: Diane Rehm talking dirty (🐿️ )

As a man, no one cares about you at all. If they pretend to, it’s an act in furtherance of some other goal. This is often unconscious. You’ll never be able to be happy until you make full peace with this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49452181)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 2:54 PM
Author: kelso



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49452182)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 2:57 PM
Author: .,...,..,,,.,:;,:,.,.,:::,.,.,:..,,:;.:.,:.::,.




(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49452188)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 3:03 PM
Author: bungulator



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49452202)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 3:02 PM
Author: Patel Philippe

How do you have kids and still think about yourself this much

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49452199)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 4:05 PM
Author: spherequeer (βœ…πŸ‘)

happy birthday, Fat Teddy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2...id#49452344)