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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:33 PM Author: curious whorehouse tattoo My personality is permanently altered by the fact that my parents divorced when I was four or five and the consequent dysfunction (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832897) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 4:46 PM Author: Sexy sienna chad How has this manifested in your IRL friend? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47835238) |
Date: July 11th, 2024 8:34 PM Author: vermilion athletic conference everything permanently effects your personality so try again (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832898) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:34 PM Author: curious whorehouse tattoo I don't know if that's true brother. Trauma leaves you much worse off (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832902) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:35 PM Author: vermilion athletic conference so you'd prefer to go through life without any alterations to your infant personality? not following here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832904) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:36 PM Author: curious whorehouse tattoo I don't know, I was trying to start a conversation (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832919) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:35 PM Author: Vengeful Bearded Field Tough to tell the impact since the divorce happened when you were so young. It's possible you would have ended up even gayer if your parents stayed together. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832905) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:36 PM Author: Violent overrated site hunting ground Yeah, the 0-7 years are so important for personality and core belief formation. Core beliefs are basically set in stone for the rest of your life and very few people develop the self-awareness to alter them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832917) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:39 PM Author: Odious address knife Sounds like a skill issue (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832926) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:40 PM Author: Buck-toothed rough-skinned step-uncle's house If I raised a pumo, that stress would probably ruin my marriage too. Look in the mirror. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832931) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:41 PM Author: Deep hall hissy fit sorry man divorce w young kids is SPS unless there's something serious like real abuse or addiction etc |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 12:08 AM Author: sticky gaped ratface casino Yes friend..got fucked over in life and having to read 📚 this sucks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47833523) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:41 PM Author: impressive contagious wrinkle My parents divorced when I was six and I don’t think it had any effect on me. That said, I absolutely hate it now when I hear about other people getting divorced. I used to have a family law attorney across the hall from me and I hated overhearing her conversations about her cases. It was heartbreaking. It’s worse when young kids are involved but still really bad even when it’s just a childless couple. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832934) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:42 PM Author: vermilion athletic conference lucky. My parents just fought and pretended like they didnt. that's usually how kids get schizophrenia (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832938) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:45 PM Author: laughsome bistre mexican foreskin the only problem with divorce is it puts the woman in control of the family which is horrible for 99.9% of families. fix the laws and no one will give a fuck about "divorce" anymore. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832953) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:42 PM Author: laughsome bistre mexican foreskin it permanently fucked up my ability to tell the difference between homonyms and homophones (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832937) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:42 PM Author: curious whorehouse tattoo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832940) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:43 PM Author: motley stead organic girlfriend It’s incredibly bad. Maybe it’s just kind of bad. “one parent fucking off” seems better, then the kid doesn’t need to shuttle back and forth like their life revolves around some arrangement that a Judge mandated, and they can still have at least one parent they still like instead of realizing both parents are Bad and Selfish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832945) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:44 PM Author: curious whorehouse tattoo The worst part for me was that I lived in perpetual conflict even after they got divorced. Each side hated the other, and I was constantly playing politics on both sides trying to make them happy. Had some weird arrangement that was like every Wednesday and every other weekend at my dad's house plus two weeks in the summer.
It was horrible shit. My mom was depressed my entire childhood. I remember being 12 or 13 trying to console my mom in an empty parking lot at 9pm after her boyfriend dumped her. |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:48 PM Author: motley stead organic girlfriend I can’t remember if my parents got divorced or not. I think they did. Nobody fought, they were just like “go to your dad’s house while he isn’t even there every fortnight.” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832966) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:49 PM Author: talented location filthpig Are your parents still alive now? Still hate each other? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832973) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:50 PM Author: curious whorehouse tattoo Yeah they are, and yes they do. It's toned down to be less anger and more depression over everything that happened. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832976) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:52 PM Author: talented location filthpig Did someone cheat? Why do they still hate each other all these years later? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832985) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:54 PM Author: curious whorehouse tattoo My dad had an ongoing affair for years from the time I was born until I was probably 5 when they got divorced
My dad was not nearly as affected as my mom obviously |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 9:17 PM Author: Vibrant Institution DId he marry his sidechick after the divorce? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47833077) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 10:03 PM Author: curious whorehouse tattoo No, she came out as a lesbian shortly after and he married a different one (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47833209) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 9:59 PM Author: Obsidian dragon chad, cumming in ur moms mouth as u wait in the backseat, saying "This is my rock bottom" as he gets out of your car.
ur mom, turning back to u: "I think that's the last time we'll see him" with tears in her eyes |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:47 PM Author: curious whorehouse tattoo Ok (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832965) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:49 PM Author: Aquamarine locus Only for men. Women are out the next day getting deep dicked. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832972) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:52 PM Author: talented location filthpig I’ve fucked a few divorced women. They almost always have some personality or physical defect that makes you understand why they’re divorced. One chick was a sweetheart but had three kids she was juggling and I had no interest in being a stepdad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47832981) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 4:17 PM Author: charismatic lime set death wish Can confirm. My ex went out and rode the BBC carousel. Even shacked up with a BBC for a while.
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Date: July 12th, 2024 4:47 PM Author: Aquamarine locus She ever report back to you on the size of the BBC? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47835246) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 9:14 PM Author: Turquoise insanely creepy immigrant how can you disentangle the effects of divorce from the effects of your subsequent molestation? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47833063) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 10:00 PM Author: Trip Violent Bawdyhouse My dad was too ugly to ever leave my mom even though I suspect she basically never let him fuck her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47833191) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 12:25 AM Author: excitant haunted graveyard gas station This is Reddit tier thinking. If your parents didn't divorce it would mean that 1 of them died, or they stayed together and there was constant tension and hostility, cheating or domestic abuse in your household for your entire childhood.
Or if they were happy and stayed together then they wouldn't be your parents, or even have you.
90% of the time a functional couple with child divorces it's because the child was annoying as shit or ruined everything financially |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 7:45 PM Author: irradiated coral forum ladyboy Can confirm that some couples absolutely SHOULD get divorced.
In my wife's case, Mom is mentally ill and abusive, Father is completely codependent despite being verbally and physically abused throughout marriage. Children were largely sacrificed for Mom's needs.
While it made my wife very strong, self sufficient and driven. It also instilled very strong codependent tendencies and tons of trauma from years of abuse and a "healthy" parent who was unable to end the relationship for the health and safety of kids.
These patterns are now repeating in our own relationship leading us to separate/divorce.
I came from a family of alcholism with an enabling parent and not as bad but similar dynamic. I also have strong codependency as a result.
Wife and I love each other tremendously but our relationship is also incredible unhealthy and while we are currently separated I think the likely outcome is divorce as it's too easy for two codependents to backslide into unhealthy dynamics.
In our case, for sure her side, if her dad had divorced early on both kids would have turned out significantly more well adjusted and emotionally healthy then the environment they grew up in. |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 10:41 PM Author: histrionic seedy scourge upon the earth I am a child of divorce. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2...id#47836087) |