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Do you have a good relationship with your parents

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.,.,.;;,;.,;:,:,,:,.,:,::,..;.,:,.:;.:.,;.:.,:.::,
  03/15/26
Dad left when I was a toddler, Dont see/speak to him at all ...
nuclear blackpill
  03/15/26
sorry friend. what happened with yer mum?
.,.,.;;,;.,;:,:,,:,.,:,::,..;.,:,.:;.:.,;.:.,:.::,
  03/15/26
Nothing, thats the sad part Had a normal childhood, we just...
nuclear blackpill
  03/15/26
rofl
AZNgirl changing name to Hormuz so Handsome opens
  03/15/26
tommy what exactly is your relationship with your parents? a...
Waingro
  03/15/26
i dont even know if they are alive and i dont care. i wish t...
AZNgirl changing name to Hormuz so Handsome opens
  03/15/26
how is this even possible. didnt you have some umc upbringin...
Waingro
  03/15/26
yes but my parents were indian shit, i shld have realized so...
AZNgirl changing name to Hormuz so Handsome opens
  03/15/26
what specifically did they do to piss you off so much.
Waingro
  03/15/26
they made him indian
nuclear blackpill
  03/15/26
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AZNgirl changing name to Hormuz so Handsome opens
  03/15/26
just constant negativity and shit, complete assholes. just i...
AZNgirl changing name to Hormuz so Handsome opens
  03/15/26
i have a great relationship with your mom
peeface
  03/15/26
i had a brief relationship with your dad at the bathhouse
UhOh
  03/15/26
he did tell me about meeting a lawyer with a micropenis rece...
peeface
  03/15/26
Nope
bloomington
  03/15/26
sorry brother. care to expound?
.,.,.;;,;.,;:,:,,:,.,:,::,..;.,:,.:;.:.,;.:.,:.::,
  03/15/26
Dad is a raging narcissist. Should have gone no-contact ...
bloomington
  03/15/26
Lol
Quality adjusted life year
  03/15/26
:/ expound brother
.,.,.;;,;.,;:,:,,:,.,:,::,..;.,:,.:;.:.,;.:.,:.::,
  03/15/26
what does this actually mean for an adult I could just no...
cowgod
  03/15/26
cr this is insane
nuclear blackpill
  03/15/26
eye of the beholder i guess. but i was going for "not a...
.,.,.;;,;.,;:,:,,:,.,:,::,..;.,:,.:;.:.,;.:.,:.::,
  03/15/26
Why would you ever contact them
Quality adjusted life year
  03/15/26
because they'll literally be dead and I don't want to soil m...
cowgod
  03/15/26
Seems kinda retarded
Quality adjusted life year
  03/15/26
you don't know me
cowgod
  03/15/26
I know you can make it on your own without pathetically call...
Quality adjusted life year
  03/15/26
azns do it and they've had the same imperial succession for ...
cowgod
  03/15/26
I dont get this Youre calling them so that they cant &quo...
nuclear blackpill
  03/15/26
yes I am honoring them per the bible it doesn't take effort....
cowgod
  03/15/26
No (dad), cordial but not close (mom) — but tons of cu...
Paralegal Mohammad
  03/15/26
why no for dad was he like 'this kid is a Joke i dgaf'
cowgod
  03/15/26
I used to internalize it but have received enough clarity wi...
Paralegal Mohammad
  03/15/26
did you go to Therapy haha
cowgod
  03/15/26
Not formally. I kinda self-treated though. Does that make it...
Paralegal Mohammad
  03/15/26
you sound Liberal af either way
cowgod
  03/15/26
his dad died in the 9/11 attacks (he was one of the hijacker...
AZNgirl changing name to Hormuz so Handsome opens
  03/15/26
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nuclear blackpill
  03/15/26
you mean you provide for mom?
.,.,.;;,;.,;:,:,,:,.,:,::,..;.,:,.:;.:.,;.:.,:.::,
  03/15/26
They are still married. I Venmo him a certain amount every m...
Paralegal Mohammad
  03/15/26
they live literally next door and we're constantly wavering ...
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  03/15/26


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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:21 AM
Author: .,.,.;;,;.,;:,:,,:,.,:,::,..;.,:,.:;.:.,;.:.,:.::,




(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745159)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:29 AM
Author: nuclear blackpill

Dad left when I was a toddler, Dont see/speak to him at all

Mom I send money too but we dont talk much and dont have a meaningful relationship

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745168)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:43 AM
Author: .,.,.;;,;.,;:,:,,:,.,:,::,..;.,:,.:;.:.,;.:.,:.::,


sorry friend. what happened with yer mum?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745196)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:54 PM
Author: nuclear blackpill

Nothing, thats the sad part

Had a normal childhood, we just don't talk or really see each other

Im the only son and I have two sisters who pretty much take up all her time, theyre banshees and constantly cause her aggro with their irl problems and theyre decayign/falling apart in their mid 30s, one has no job and is a tax + other has a shitty job, both unmarried. Mom also is caring for my ailing grandma in her 90s atm overseas so that doesnt help

I just try to support her financially and reduce stress but I am sort of alienated since Ive mainly been surrounded by women mostly my whole life and kinda dont wana deal with the insanity of it

I never call her, I have nothing to talk about/report, its fucked idk. She always says she wants me to call her but its like wtf would I say even. My mom is still young (50s)

Just dont really know how to have a relationship with my mom without just shitting out some kids and then making it about my new family?

Some guys call their mom on facetime and shit and laugh like hyenas and idk how they manage it, I just dotn have that level with her, everything is just so high stakes all the time , hard to explain, we never have normal convos about day to day stuff,.

Its either KIDS or MARRIAGE? or MONEY or ITS THE END OF THE WORLD RIGHT NOW WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO ABOUT IT.

Idk

No dad doesnt help me navigating all this shit either, going NC just seems easier, fucked up



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745363)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:42 AM
Author: AZNgirl changing name to Hormuz so Handsome opens

rofl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745190)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:43 AM
Author: Waingro

tommy what exactly is your relationship with your parents? are they alive?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745194)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 1:51 PM
Author: AZNgirl changing name to Hormuz so Handsome opens

i dont even know if they are alive and i dont care. i wish they had died 40 years ago

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745508)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 1:56 PM
Author: Waingro

how is this even possible. didnt you have some umc upbringing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745528)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:14 PM
Author: AZNgirl changing name to Hormuz so Handsome opens

yes but my parents were indian shit, i shld have realized sooner how furked up indians are. looking back jfc what shitty ppl, lack any empathy at all

i know one is det, hoaping the other is too, furk them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745596)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:35 PM
Author: Waingro

what specifically did they do to piss you off so much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745679)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:36 PM
Author: nuclear blackpill

they made him indian

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745681)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 3:07 PM
Author: AZNgirl changing name to Hormuz so Handsome opens



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745777)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 3:08 PM
Author: AZNgirl changing name to Hormuz so Handsome opens

just constant negativity and shit, complete assholes. just imagine the most arrogant whiny manipulative pajeet with no ability to care abt anyone or anything

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745779)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:50 AM
Author: peeface

i have a great relationship with your mom



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745209)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:54 AM
Author: UhOh

i had a brief relationship with your dad at the bathhouse

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745217)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:57 AM
Author: peeface

he did tell me about meeting a lawyer with a micropenis recently



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745222)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:29 PM
Author: bloomington (🦬)

Nope

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745288)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:33 PM
Author: .,.,.;;,;.,;:,:,,:,.,:,::,..;.,:,.:;.:.,;.:.,:.::,


sorry brother. care to expound?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745296)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:42 PM
Author: bloomington (🦬)

Dad is a raging narcissist.

Should have gone no-contact 20 years ago. Not saying permanent estrangement would necessarily have been the ticket. Rather, some periods of NC - with the obvious implication that it could become permanent - would have done both of us a lot of good.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745319)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:38 PM
Author: Quality adjusted life year

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745310)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 1:57 PM
Author: .,.,.;;,;.,;:,:,,:,.,:,::,..;.,:,.:;.:.,;.:.,:.::,


:/ expound brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745532)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 1:59 PM
Author: cowgod

what does this actually mean for an adult

I could just not call them for years and they'd never call me imo and also idc

If I call them or text them they pick up

so basically it's like any relationship where the person "wants you to know" that they dgaf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745538)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:02 PM
Author: nuclear blackpill

cr this is insane

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745552)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:04 PM
Author: .,.,.;;,;.,;:,:,,:,.,:,::,..;.,:,.:;.:.,;.:.,:.::,


eye of the beholder i guess. but i was going for "not a decidedly antagonistic relationship."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745564)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:08 PM
Author: Quality adjusted life year

Why would you ever contact them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745571)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:11 PM
Author: cowgod

because they'll literally be dead and I don't want to soil myself by making their extreme selfishness codified and ratified by forgetting and not remembering that cowgod ever existed just bc they would rather sit in a chair and stare at a wall than deal with my Loser shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745582)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:13 PM
Author: Quality adjusted life year

Seems kinda retarded

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745593)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:34 PM
Author: cowgod

you don't know me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745673)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:50 PM
Author: Quality adjusted life year

I know you can make it on your own without pathetically calling patents that don't like you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745721)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:55 PM
Author: cowgod

azns do it and they've had the same imperial succession for 2700 years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745736)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 4:20 PM
Author: nuclear blackpill

I dont get this

Youre calling them so that they cant "get away" with forgetting about you ? or youre "saving" them from being total assholes by giving them the opportunity to not be assholes by calling them?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745964)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 4:21 PM
Author: cowgod

yes I am honoring them per the bible it doesn't take effort. then when i leave they're like "if only he knew how much he sucked" and idc. sephardim follow old testament. i also believe in eye for an eye but none of the jesus shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745968)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:00 PM
Author: Paralegal Mohammad (Death, death to the IDF!)

No (dad), cordial but not close (mom) — but tons of cultural baggage to be there, provide, etc. Can’t go full estrangement like whitey

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745544)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:02 PM
Author: cowgod

why no for dad was he like 'this kid is a Joke i dgaf'

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745553)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:10 PM
Author: Paralegal Mohammad (Death, death to the IDF!)

I used to internalize it but have received enough clarity with age to know that he was and is completely incapable and unprepared for being a father.

Having a shit dad is disorienting and often leaves you feeling rudderless, but imho it has made me more self-dependent and resolute than most. But I really did a lot of work on myself to get here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745577)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:11 PM
Author: cowgod

did you go to Therapy haha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745588)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:13 PM
Author: Paralegal Mohammad (Death, death to the IDF!)

Not formally. I kinda self-treated though. Does that make it less valid, idc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745591)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:34 PM
Author: cowgod

you sound Liberal af either way

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745671)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:15 PM
Author: AZNgirl changing name to Hormuz so Handsome opens

his dad died in the 9/11 attacks (he was one of the hijackers)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745598)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:03 PM
Author: nuclear blackpill



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745557)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:06 PM
Author: .,.,.;;,;.,;:,:,,:,.,:,::,..;.,:,.:;.:.,;.:.,:.::,


you mean you provide for mom?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745570)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:11 PM
Author: Paralegal Mohammad (Death, death to the IDF!)

They are still married. I Venmo him a certain amount every month. Have bought him cars, etc. I do it thinking it will benefit my mom as well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745586)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:54 PM
Author: ...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;..,


they live literally next door and we're constantly wavering between fighting or getting along great. l'chaim!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2...id#49745733)