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All of my mid 30s siblings: childless and unmarried
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:15 PM Author: amber step-uncle's house puppy
4 of us in total, all of us childless and unmarried. Age ranges from 32 to 39. Only one is in a serious relationship, two have never really had a serious relationship.
I'm one of the single ones. My parents are still around, but I can tell it seriously bums them out to not have any grandkids. I think part of it is their fault, but part of it is due to external factors that really don't make kids an appealing choice.
I have several close friends with kids and mostly all of them say some variation of "don't do it" or "wait as long as you can" or "hold on to your freedom" etc. Not one of them has seemed very happy about being a parent.
This is what happens when the social expectation of rearing children goes away. There's really not a "point" to it anymore. There were several meaningful justifications to have kids for all of our history (religious regions, providing labor for the farm, you're a weirdo if you don't do it...the list goes on) but most of those are gone now.
Children seem like a huge personal risk and tremendous stressor that I just don't need. There are so many ways kids could make your life hell and you have to do a lot of things correctly for that not to be the case.
I guess my point is this: what would you say to someone like me, whose 3 siblings have no kids, whose parents desperately want grandkids, and who is seeking a compelling reason to have kids? Advice? |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 6:52 AM Author: talented domesticated halford nursing home We live in sick society where things that were taken from granted or accepted without a thought in our parents generation are no longer realistic. Back then marriage was a "thing you do" and there weren't many barriers to it. It is almost impossible to have a normal relationship anymore. Just think of folks in their 50s-70s who are now single--they are completely unable to meet anyone of the opposite sex anymore.
My advice for you is to look in the mirror and ask yourself if you have accomplished all you could want on your own. If so, then you should look to meet a halfway decent woman. It took me until 39, but I have now won at life. |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 12:26 PM Author: brass excitant kitchen pozpig oh noes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49134622) |
Date: July 4th, 2022 9:17 PM Author: seedy buff set Tell them to sign an estate contract (these are generally enforceable) that kids who give them grandkids get a double share of any inheritance. It's fair, since the main impediment is that it's too hard to grind out an existence now and additional responsibilities don't make sense. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795429) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:18 PM Author: Self-centered violet lodge alpha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795435) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 6:54 AM Author: thriller onyx ticket booth love of her life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797092) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:17 PM Author: Fishy Laughsome Cumskin Get a time machine and go back to when you were 21 and still had some sexual market value, and find a man then. You f***** up, you ruined your only purpose in life. And you ruin your parents' lives. You're a failure.
Actually, if you're not white, good job |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:18 PM Author: Self-centered violet lodge alpha I know a good buddy in this same situation. His parents spend hundreds on my kids for Christmas as like a fuck you to the childless. My buddy also said since it's dead end basically he's leaving everything to my kids. Well, he initially said me and I was like lol ill die before you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795434) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 11:02 PM Author: Boyish chocolate party of the first part (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795858) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:23 PM Author: khaki space genital piercing OP sounds like a moron. Having kids is the ENTIRE point of your life. Not just the “main” point, or “one way to find meaning.” It’s the only way, the only way that counts. People without kids are failures and are a drain on the species. At a minimum they need to be supporting their immediate siblings in raising their kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795452) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:26 PM Author: Walnut location Tbf there are far too many “drains on the species” who do have tons of kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795471) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:26 PM Author: Aromatic talking orchestra pit preventive strike No no, it's a "huge personal risk" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795476) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 11:44 PM Author: khaki space genital piercing LJL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44796087) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 9:14 AM Author: exciting internal respiration field lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797315) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:00 PM Author: cyan pocket flask (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135121) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:33 PM Author: Passionate Laser Beams Incel agreed but aversion is not entirely the wrong response - it shouldn't be a priority until nuptials. matrimony and a life of love and sacrifice to one's wife is the vocation, and god fearing children result. a conversation re "children for the sake of children" is destructive if OP is a bachelor. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795521) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 12:32 AM Author: Boyish chocolate party of the first part (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44796315) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:42 PM Author: Maize insanely creepy plaza (literally a retarded person) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795554) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:53 PM Author: Exhilarant indigo theater (guy who recognizes that life is an emotional ponzi scheme and thinks that's a good thing) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795589) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 11:45 PM Author: khaki space genital piercing Demographic funnel, we are all related many times over. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44796097) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 12:53 AM Author: garnet fat ankles dilemma No the telos of life is to love God, serve him and enjoy him forever. Having children is often but not always part of the deal. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44796417) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 2:55 PM Author: High-end startling parlour (Homosexual) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135104) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 6:47 AM Author: Bronze irradiated double fault > OP sounds like a moron. Having kids is the ENTIRE point of your life. Not just the “main” point, or “one way to find meaning.” It’s the only way, the only way that counts.
Why? |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 6:54 AM Author: thriller onyx ticket booth love of her life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797093) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 6:55 AM Author: talented domesticated halford nursing home I bet you are a total winner IRL. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797099) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 11:29 PM Author: khaki space genital piercing Bet you are! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44801873) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 1:20 PM Author: brass excitant kitchen pozpig do you actually believe this or just taking a piss? if you believe it, I feel sorry for you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49134809) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 1:28 PM Author: Costumed crackhouse keepsake machete Why? It's true. If OP's parents had known their kids wouldn't reproduce, they would've bashed their children's brains out as infants and killed themselves. There is no point in living, and indeed you shouldn't live at all, unless your genetic line will propagate forever (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49134827) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 1:32 PM Author: vibrant sadistic brunch cuckold that's retarded and jewish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49134839) |
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Date: July 28th, 2025 8:49 PM Author: soggy menage foreskin my genetith line!
who fucking cares about your "line" man, that's autistic nonsense--your kids are your flesh and blood, that's why they matter, not because of 30 generations from now. and in any case within 100 years, and possibly even by the time we're dead, humanity will be on the path to its inevitable fate as a bunch of Crispr Chad Von Neumann cyborgs. so if that's your reason for existing maybe you're actually the one who should blow his brain out |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:00 PM Author: cyan pocket flask (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135123) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:24 PM Author: Concupiscible low-t mood school God forbid you encourage a 16yo to get married and have kids thereby tying them down early on as happened for the majority of history. That would be considered 'grooming' by shitcon libs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795462) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 6:56 AM Author: talented domesticated halford nursing home (Pumo who thinks modern society is compatible with the past 2000 years of history) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797100) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:25 PM Author: Passionate Laser Beams Incel it's a wholly unattractive undertaking when most "marriageable" women are broken husks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795466) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:25 PM Author: arrogant scarlet mad-dog skullcap (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795467) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 11:00 PM Author: Boyish chocolate party of the first part (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795848) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:26 PM Author: cracking bawdyhouse Well you phrased your question as to give you advice, not your parents.
If it was about your parents, I would advise them to severely decrease inheritance to childless children.
Advice to you? You’re a lemming riding the crest of the Jewish west’s decadence and greed. All your points are from a narrow minded, whiny, entitled, spoiled guy with no perspective.
You are a genetic dead end and a failure regardless of any accomplishments you have if you don’t have kids
That being said plenty of rich men have kids for the first time in their 40s |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:27 PM Author: Concupiscible low-t mood school It's not the 'jewish west'; it's the liberal West.
Judea Province had the lowest marriage age in Rome, 12-13yo jewish females were married off and forced to settle down early. |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:29 PM Author: cracking bawdyhouse To be clear, it’s Jewish ownership of the world central banks and they’ve been on a 400 year quest (sped up greatly over the past 100 years) to own everything and bring back feudalism , everyone else living in dirt poverty
Only a tiny minority of mostly Jewish families will benefit from this scheme ultimately, but about 80-90% of Jews are unthinking willing foot soldiers for this plan
Decreasing standards of living and raising costs is all part of this agenda. They really, really don’t want white people to have kids. It’s a multi faceted approach involving blacks living in white areas, fentnayl, TV and film shitting on whites left and right, AA preference in all facets of life, a million other things
To the extent the “liberal west” is susceptible to this Jewish plot, I blame Christianity (also a Jewish plot) for scrambling goy minds and prepping them for it — “turn the other cheek” and wait for justice in the afterlife |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:30 PM Author: Self-centered violet lodge alpha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795508) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:39 PM Author: mauve glittery church crotch (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795547) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:47 PM Author: sepia principal's office rigpig Semitic malware tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795569) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 5:01 PM Author: Deranged adventurous business firm (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135406) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 10:18 PM Author: Fishy Laughsome Cumskin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795653) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 10:38 PM Author: Razzle-dazzle Messiness Locus *2000 year quest but otherwise cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795720) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:33 PM Author: Walnut location Do you have kids? Just curious. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795519) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:35 PM Author: cracking bawdyhouse I’m not going to answer that question but you should be able to infer the answer from my response (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795526) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:38 PM Author: autistic property You dont want to make a written admission so it wont be used against you or something? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795544) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 1:25 PM Author: brass excitant kitchen pozpig lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49134822) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:53 PM Author: smoky persian doctorate Some cr at the beginning but it’s kind of an immature outlook otherwise and could use some perspective. If you’re an atheist it makes sense though, so if you are one carry on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795588) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:54 PM Author: cracking bawdyhouse I’m a deist and believe god created the laws of the universe and then peaced out, he’s entirely non-interventionist and we’re on our own (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795593) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:55 PM Author: smoky persian doctorate You should find a church. I also suggest reading the Bible and praying. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795597) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:57 PM Author: cracking bawdyhouse What part of me pushing “Christianity is Semitic malware originally designed by radical Jew Saul of Tarsus (who never even met Jesus) to destroy Rome, and it’s primary effect since the destruction of rome has been to decrease Christian resistance to Jewish plots by promising justice in the afterlife and encouraging meekness” has been hard to understand? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795602) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 10:01 PM Author: smoky persian doctorate Oh this is consuela? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795608) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 10:03 PM Author: cracking bawdyhouse I would consider it a very positive development if more posters were pushing this perspective
http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&mc=35&forum_id=2#44795504
Howling into the wind… |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:28 PM Author: zombie-like appetizing potus indian lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795486) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:28 PM Author: autistic property 2 out of 4 kids have never been in a serious relationship? lol, doesnt sound like a choice theyre making on their own, despite how youre framing it
Why do you think part of it is your parents' fault?
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:30 PM Author: lemon faggotry "I have several close friends with kids and mostly all of them say some variation of "don't do it" or "wait as long as you can" or "hold on to your freedom" etc. Not one of them has seemed very happy about being a parent."
LJL at "holding on to your freedom". Parenting is 180. |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 10:36 PM Author: translucent private investor university Parenting sucks but it is 1800000. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795712) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:32 PM Author: grizzly floppy national Are you a stupid piece of shit? Surely by now you've figured out how to put someone into a 18000 life, maybe even beyond what you've accomplished. Even if your kid is born a complete shithead and below average you can set him up to be way above. You'll literally print little kings. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795516) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:37 PM Author: Razzmatazz Gay Stag Film Water Buffalo As a parent of two under 5, everyday feels like a gift. The endless love they give, the responsibility of molding them into good people, watching them learn and grow. It’s bittersweet in many ways, but I can’t imagine the futility of life without them. I genuinely feel bad for your parents but at the same time it seems like they fucked up somewhere since none of you really launched.
Literally nothing else is as meaningful. |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:50 PM Author: Self-centered violet lodge alpha I remember we had to fill out insurance forms for house detailing any thing of value. Nothing came to mind other than kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795578) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 11:01 PM Author: Boyish chocolate party of the first part (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795855) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 5:44 PM Author: citrine heady theatre wrinkle cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44800184) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 9:49 PM Author: sienna french chef "I have several close friends with kids and mostly all of them say some variation of "don't do it" or "wait as long as you can" or "hold on to your freedom" etc. Not one of them has seemed very happy about being a parent."
I feel the exact opposite. Absolutely wish I had done it sooner. There is a certain class of "thing-doers" who feel that way. They like "adventures" and "sophisticated social calendars" and parenthood definitely puts the kibosh on a lot of that. |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 10:17 PM Author: lemon faggotry (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795650) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 11:01 PM Author: Boyish chocolate party of the first part (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795849) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 12:31 AM Author: House-broken temple Cr. We started having kids at 28 and my main regret is we didn’t have more/have them sooner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44796310) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 6:58 AM Author: talented domesticated halford nursing home LOL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797103) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 1:33 PM Author: brass excitant kitchen pozpig lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49134844) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 10:30 PM Author: marvelous home You don’t owe anyone anything imo. No one chooses to be here. When your parents had you that was a decision that they made, and they were automatically biased in favor of existence because they themselves already exist. For some reason they assumed their offspring would be as “normal” as they are. Oh well. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795687) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 9:02 AM Author: mauve glittery church crotch Adequate post. Although I would say you are biased in favor of not having sex bc you don’t have sex imho. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797288) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 10:53 PM Author: Emerald electric idea he suggested rehab Brutal for the parents to have four kids and not one grandkid. How the heck did that happen? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795793) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 10:58 PM Author: autistic property parents fault! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795832) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 11:00 PM Author: Emerald electric idea he suggested rehab Not necessarily their fault, but something weird is going on here. Get the feeling OP isn't telling us the whole story. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795845) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 11:03 PM Author: autistic property Obv unlikable and unable to maintain relationships, then blame parents and say kids are fraud (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795863) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 11:04 PM Author: Supple Lavender Lettuce another poster above already said it, they divided their intergenerational wealth too thinly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795870) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 10:56 PM Author: salmon razzle knife corner The focus on kids is missing the point. These people aren’t able to be in serious relationships. Of course having kids won’t seem meaningful. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44795817) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 11:30 PM Author: godawful swollen son of senegal My close friends with kids all say its the best thing to ever happen to them (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44796020) |
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Date: July 4th, 2022 11:50 PM Author: Copper Resort I can't imagine someone saying something like OP's friends did. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44796117) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 12:34 AM Author: Aphrodisiac Pit Ethnicity? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44796323) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 12:36 AM Author: autistic property This wont be answered (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44796328) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 12:37 AM Author: Aphrodisiac Pit I suspect this is key. The story of 4 siblings all striking out means they're Indian or Samoan or something. They need to hang out with their fellow ethnics to try to meet people they have something in common with or they're fucked. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44796337) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 12:40 AM Author: lemon faggotry (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44796360) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 12:44 AM Author: autistic property Of course it's key but OP wont address it. Also, the ethnicity of the "close friends" he's referencing. Instead, he frames the narrative around kids being stressors generally. There's most likely a larger conversation to be had but OP is conveying it thru a limited prism (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44796374) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 12:53 AM Author: Razzmatazz Gay Stag Film Water Buffalo I would bet Japanese or other 2nd+ generation Asian. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44796419) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 12:55 AM Author: autistic property why japanese of all azn races? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44796429) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 1:06 AM Author: spectacular shrine They are extremely anti marriage and anti natalist. Japanese Americans are even more weirdly decadent/lib-like than those in the motherland. J Americans are a tiny and shrinking minority too and barely 1000 Js are naturalized as US citizens every year. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44796470) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 1:17 AM Author: Razzmatazz Gay Stag Film Water Buffalo Many Japanese have been here since before WW2. I’ve known many, they are fully Americanized and don’t have strong family dynamics (and Japanese culture is generally understated and antisocial to begin with) and on top of that they’re Asian so it’s harder for them to date, particularly if male. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44796522) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 7:13 AM Author: Cerise Contagious Whorehouse Lol at a Japanese family having 4 kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797125) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 9:18 AM Author: Aphrodisiac Pit Yeah, that was my first thought there. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797326) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 12:20 PM Author: Diverse sickened mother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49134598) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 12:21 PM Author: vibrant sadistic brunch cuckold (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49134603) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 12:20 PM Author: Diverse sickened mother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49134599) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 6:43 AM Author: Ruby awkward house cuck Many friends with kids will say, "don't do it, it's not worth it!", out of pity for you. They are nice people and want to make you feel better about your life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797082) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 6:59 AM Author: talented domesticated halford nursing home No it's because they hate every minute of their lives. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797105) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 6:54 AM Author: talented domesticated halford nursing home BTW I have several friends who totally blew their 20s and 30s away by being married and would make fun of me for being single, and now they are all in serious life crises, suicidal, or addicted to drugs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797094) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 9:13 AM Author: Crawly parlor brethren What are the crises, cunt? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797310) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 5:44 PM Author: Copper Resort lol wat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44800185) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 6:54 AM Author: thriller onyx ticket booth love of her life OP: Where do you think your parents went wrong? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797095) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 7:03 AM Author: talented domesticated halford nursing home Undoubtedly were selfish Boomers who did not foster relationships with their 4 children (who they had for purpose of social status). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797111) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 9:05 AM Author: Histrionic Maniacal Voyeur I'm your age and have a wife and kids. Of course it's stressful and requires you to trade of some of your freedom but it's unquestionably the best part of my life and I'd be much worse off without them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797294) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 9:09 AM Author: Infuriating Range Gunner i'm normally a glass half full guy, but there is a huge red flag: everyone around you not your family hates being family men.
there is something in your personality that attracts losers. you need a year to work on your confidence, self-worth, etc. because only a fucking loser says that.
you're gonna be fine since you've already identified that something is off (you're already half way there), but get your mind right. when you're feeling good about yourself, you will want to have kids.
that's what i would say to you. |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 2:38 PM Author: flesh antidepressant drug hall (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44799110) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 5:43 PM Author: Copper Resort (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44800180) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 12:22 PM Author: Multi-colored bisexual trailer park sound barrier (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49134605) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 12:24 PM Author: soggy menage foreskin by this logic 95% of xo posters would've never had kids instead of 50% (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49134613) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 4:43 PM Author: cyan pocket flask (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135374) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 9:16 AM Author: Olive center lol @ surrounding yourself w the type of degenerates that regret having kids. Join a church group, stat. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797317) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 9:16 AM Author: Disgusting Flatulent Senate Sounds like the system is working. The only red flag I see is that you poasted this thread so it bothers you and maybe you’ll try to have kids one day and your shitty genes may survive. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797320) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 9:16 AM Author: dashing useless brakes office Just do it. they practically raise themselves. it's nowhere near as 'stressful' as people claim. look at all the lazy proles who manage it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797321) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 10:09 AM Author: Ungodly chrome reading party its not dealing with kids thats the problem its dealing with modern women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797491) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 1:54 PM Author: Bull headed sapphire piazza goyim This point is severely underrated. I love and enjoy my kids intensely, sometimes want to kill wife. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44798857) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 2:40 PM Author: Ungodly chrome reading party ive increasingly come to side with my sisters' in laws over my sisters even though theyre my sisters. its constant nonsense with them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44799124) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 10:31 AM Author: bright indirect expression I see this a lot. My cousin is 39 and was always the second smartest in our family. For some reason she just never grew up and still spends all her time drinking and acting 25. It’s already too late for her and it’s pretty sad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797597) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 10:50 AM Author: cracking bawdyhouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44797726) |
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Date: July 5th, 2022 11:49 AM Author: Doobsian international law enforcement agency chapel Lol at the OP, must be ugly (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#44798099) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 12:21 PM Author: Diverse sickened mother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49134601) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 1:30 PM Author: shaky bbw fortuitous meteor furk ur boomer parents, they raised ppl to be like this and were find with it
and its also social security and welfare state, bitches esp dont need kids for shit the state will take care of them (using tax money from the 10% of men who arent losers)
not much u can do abt it, when i see a couple with just one kid it seems like a pain in the ass and the irony is its worse cause they only have one if they had 9 like most ppl did for most of history then the older ones wld take care of the younger, and u also wld have siblings with kids so everyone takes care of each other but when its just 2 parents and the bich is told by jews to work and be a "man" basically then bullshit results |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 1:35 PM Author: brass excitant kitchen pozpig lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49134848) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 1:38 PM Author: soul-stirring jew death wish Responding in earnest to a 3 year old post but whatever.
No one cares if you have children or not. If you don’t want kids, don’t do it. I’m a parent and not going to try to convince you.
Do I think most childless millennials are going to wait too long and deeply regret they didn’t have kids in their 20s/30s? Absolutely yes. |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 2:14 PM Author: cheese-eating legend "No one cares if you have children or not. If you don’t want kids, don’t do it. I’m a parent and not going to try to convince you"
Found the Jew. Don't have kids Good Goy |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 2:16 PM Author: vibrant sadistic brunch cuckold the sentiment makes sense but jews kind of just reproduce out of spite/selfishness and the end result is just a bunch of needy failed abortions waddling around and whining about their existence not being validated (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49134987) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 2:36 PM Author: cheese-eating legend (godless modernist who supports abortion) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135028) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 2:39 PM Author: vibrant sadistic brunch cuckold no but I'm sure you're an annoying weird kike too (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135039) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 2:44 PM Author: cheese-eating legend project much (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135064) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 2:46 PM Author: vibrant sadistic brunch cuckold "uhhh n-n-no...y-you"
wow really hard to argue with these kikes |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 2:48 PM Author: cheese-eating legend whatcha doin' Rabbi (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135077) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 2:49 PM Author: vibrant sadistic brunch cuckold you're a dumb kike (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135087) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 2:36 PM Author: soul-stirring jew death wish Did you read the last sentence? I personally think people will regret not having children and openly say that when asked this question. But it’s a personal thing and I don’t think you’re going to convince a dedicated anti-natalist type. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135030) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 2:44 PM Author: cheese-eating legend "But it’s a personal thing and I don’t think you’re going to convince a dedicated anti-natalist type"
I guess if they're being retarded lets modify our thinking to fit their frame |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 2:21 PM Author: Confused brilliant idiot Build a better country (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49134993) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 2:44 PM Author: Diverse sickened mother OP is Gujurati (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135063) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:00 PM Author: Ungodly chrome reading party men cant biologically have kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135126) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:12 PM Author: Territorial deer antler gas station One of my sisters is a married DINK shrew/foid who realized she AAACKSHUALLLY wanted kids after all at age 39 and big surprise it didn’t work out.
Other than that all my siblings and my wife’s siblings are foreveralone incels basically.
The lack of gratitude we get from grandparents for carrying the bloodline on is disgusting imho. |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:21 PM Author: soggy menage foreskin "The lack of gratitude we get from grandparents for carrying the bloodline on is disgusting imho."
MY lack of gratitude! fucking faggots |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:35 PM Author: Territorial deer antler gas station You suck my cock boy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135214) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:22 PM Author: Diverse sickened mother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135180) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:17 PM Author: Wonderful cocky regret (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135173) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:31 PM Author: Deranged adventurous business firm The happiest parents I know fall into two camps
Got basically arranged marriage tracked in religious community very early before dick carousel warped the chicks brain before the chemicals of pregnancy can And they have entire community and family helping out
And other is couples that paired up super late 30s after traveling sucking fucking partying and making very good money in something usually questionable then shit out healthy kids even though old mom and they just bring the kids along their pretty sick life with money and resources and travel and take kids to the sport they excel at and just chill in wealthy suburb of tier 1-2 metro for a few months then vacation to epic place with the fam
I don’t think I’ve seen anything worthwhile outside of those |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:35 PM Author: Diverse sickened mother Ricky link me up to a post you made about staying away from Gematria in a subthread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135211) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:51 PM Author: Deranged adventurous business firm What was the original thread about (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135262) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 4:03 PM Author: Diverse sickened mother Not too sure, something regarding women being children, guys replyiong about how in Talmud class they get taught to be the man of the house and accept this sad fact about women and deal with them in kind, subthread when on from there
rly sorry to keep doing this my memory is dogshit, I try to bookmark interesting shit but I always end up remembering the one thread I cant get back to |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:36 PM Author: vibrant sadistic brunch cuckold "And other is couples that paired up super late 30s after traveling sucking fucking partying and making very good money in something usually questionable then shit out healthy kids even though old mom and they just bring the kids along their pretty sick life with money and resources and travel and take kids to the sport they excel at and just chill in wealthy suburb of tier 1-2 metro for a few months then vacation to epic place with the fam"
this just creates airheaded homosexual fractional jews nobody cares about except other airheaded homosexual fractional jews who can point to them and say "see! this makes it all worth it!" in reference to their neurotic, homosexual lifestyles and nobody believes them |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:41 PM Author: Deranged adventurous business firm I mean yeah these couples are almost exclusively secular kikes who pair up with other degenerate kikes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135235) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:44 PM Author: vibrant sadistic brunch cuckold they're also just very needy, weird, and mentally ill
like out of any group of people that need validation as a sort of oxygen and are unlikely to get it these are at the top, which is why they troon out and whatnot |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:37 PM Author: cheese-eating legend the latter couples usually end up being weird swingers and their kids tend to end up as trannies etc. maybe they're happy but i wouldn't count it as a win (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135223) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:38 PM Author: Ungodly chrome reading party late 30s is sooooo much fucking and sucking for your wife lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135228) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:43 PM Author: cheese-eating legend its almost flame. at late 30s basically at the tail end of her libido, infertility/energy going down is a stone throw away (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135240) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:46 PM Author: Ungodly chrome reading party its not even that. i get why doods do it. they suck it up to have kids. but at that point youre dealing with such a miserable broken piece of shit women (and a millennial one at that) that you *and* your kids are fucked. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135249) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:50 PM Author: Deranged adventurous business firm These guys basically have the bitch working on the family biz too which is kinda 180 and she probably learned a ton from the 20+ yrs of cock intake (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135260) |
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Date: July 28th, 2025 8:43 PM Author: Wonderful cocky regret so it never works for an early 40s dude and a younger wife, to have children, and live happily ever after? asking for a friend haha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49138802) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:49 PM Author: marvelous home serious question to people who bemoan their "childlessness": what is it that you see in life/existence that makes you want to create more life? or is it just an ego fulfillment thing? I have never been able to relate to this sentiment. This whole human sideshow attraction/science experiment is the worst thing that ever happened, if you ask me.
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:54 PM Author: soggy menage foreskin You're like 42 and certainly well over 30 iirc so you should realize by now that our heads are just fucked. Most people aren't sitting around actively thinking about "wanting to create more life" or whatever they just get bored and make some babies. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135269) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:56 PM Author: marvelous home yeah but xo'ers aren't "most people".
you are trying to run flame on me by saying our heads are fucked when we both know that "most people" are retarded and even the dumbest poaster is smarter than the average bear and has thought about these things. |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:54 PM Author: pontificating charismatic masturbator pervert Right, we should just return the Earth to nature and stop furthering climate change (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135270) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:57 PM Author: cheese-eating legend its called the meaning of a healthy life. views like yours are anti-human and ultimately, a suicidal deathwish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135273) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 3:59 PM Author: marvelous home I fully admit to being anti-life, anti-human, whatever you want to call it. probably because non-sequiturs like "it's called the meaning of a healthy life" are not so convincing to me but hey what do I know. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135278) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 4:00 PM Author: High-end startling parlour Yeah but it doesn't really matter. If everyone was dead then there would be no one to care. Every arguement for humanity is just a sunk cost fallacy afaict (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135281) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 4:04 PM Author: cheese-eating legend so your life doesn't matter? if true then anything ought to go right? if you dont care about this then your ethical world view is likely relativist and contradictory
there's some philosophy 101, Dunning-Kruger talk going on right now with you and OYT |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 4:07 PM Author: High-end startling parlour It matters to me and to others right now, but in the absence of us it doesn't. Why make other things for whom their own life would matter? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135307) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 4:08 PM Author: marvelous home I majored in Philosophy champ. You don't want to mess with me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135312) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 6:35 PM Author: cheese-eating legend Whoa, cr
So based on your extensive training, whats the basis of your moral outlook that condones childlessness. Relativism? |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 8:03 PM Author: marvelous home The question seems so bizarre and nonsensical to me. I don’t “condone” anything, and my ethical outlook to the extent I even have one is basically a negative utilitarianism. I don’t believe that morals have objective reality. Moral anti realism is an accepted philosophical posture in all institutions of higher learning and does not make me some mustachio-twirling villain. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135822) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 8:49 PM Author: Twinkling mildly autistic macaca really tough guy What's the basis of YOUR moral outlook? "Do whatever Yahweh says"? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135959) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 7:22 PM Author: pontificating charismatic masturbator pervert White lives matter (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135711) |
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Date: July 27th, 2025 8:19 PM Author: Emerald electric idea he suggested rehab OP, not to let you off the hook but your parents clearly screwed up here. How tf did they manage to raise FOUR failure to launch kids who can't reproduce? In my extended family we have a few of those but holy shit, all of you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5146589&forum_id=2...id.#49135878) |