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Have any forever-single (no judgment) men on xo ever considered surrogacy?

I am seriously considering this option. I know xo will be ve...
charcoal 180 church building
  07/18/25
What are you talking about
bearded provocative casino
  07/18/25
hiring some lady to carry your baby but then raising the bab...
charcoal 180 church building
  07/18/25
This is the dumbest thing I've ever heard
bearded provocative casino
  07/18/25
care to elaborate?
charcoal 180 church building
  07/18/25
No
bearded provocative casino
  07/18/25
good day to you then
charcoal 180 church building
  07/18/25
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sticky son of senegal site
  07/19/25
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mewling scourge upon the earth
  07/19/25
i support it in theory although i think most people who are ...
scarlet disgusting laser beams
  07/18/25
i'm with you friend
charcoal 180 church building
  07/18/25
I know a girl like this who is like 41. She just got artific...
obsidian base
  07/18/25
ok definitely non-responsive to my question. but what do you...
charcoal 180 church building
  07/18/25
I respect her choice. I know her well and she went out with ...
obsidian base
  07/18/25
sorry man you do seem chill
charcoal 180 church building
  07/18/25
i know a bunch of people who have done this and never seemed...
Claret Locus
  07/18/25
I wouldn't really expect any trouble with the women. they kn...
charcoal 180 church building
  07/18/25
are you a straight single dude? you are going to have issues...
Claret Locus
  07/18/25
i'm a divorced single man with shared custody of a child. I ...
charcoal 180 church building
  07/18/25
wait, you already have a kid?
Sapphire circlehead
  07/19/25
yes. i want more and i'm not having luck finding a suitable ...
charcoal 180 church building
  07/21/25
Nah, I don't want to pass on my genes.
Curious whorehouse black woman
  07/18/25
even just dealing with the surrogate sounds like a massive p...
amber shitlib
  07/19/25
it's a crazy, years long process based on the few meetings i...
charcoal 180 church building
  07/21/25
i’m sure we’ve all considered it but is it even ...
Sapphire circlehead
  07/19/25
ass babies are real babies, bigot
charcoal 180 church building
  07/21/25
do you have to have s*x to do this seems like there shoul...
Indecent vigorous athletic conference knife
  07/21/25


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Date: July 18th, 2025 2:37 PM
Author: charcoal 180 church building

I am seriously considering this option. I know xo will be vehemently opposed, so I want to hear that perspective

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Date: July 18th, 2025 2:40 PM
Author: bearded provocative casino

What are you talking about

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Date: July 18th, 2025 2:45 PM
Author: charcoal 180 church building

hiring some lady to carry your baby but then raising the baby on your own

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Date: July 18th, 2025 2:46 PM
Author: bearded provocative casino

This is the dumbest thing I've ever heard

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Date: July 18th, 2025 2:46 PM
Author: charcoal 180 church building

care to elaborate?

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Date: July 18th, 2025 2:47 PM
Author: bearded provocative casino

No

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Date: July 18th, 2025 2:48 PM
Author: charcoal 180 church building

good day to you then

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Date: July 19th, 2025 11:25 AM
Author: sticky son of senegal site



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Date: July 19th, 2025 11:16 AM
Author: mewling scourge upon the earth



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Date: July 18th, 2025 2:42 PM
Author: scarlet disgusting laser beams

i support it in theory although i think most people who are forever-single are that way because of things that mean they shouldn't procreate.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5751855&forum_id=2...id.#49112157)



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Date: July 18th, 2025 2:48 PM
Author: charcoal 180 church building

i'm with you friend

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Date: July 18th, 2025 2:43 PM
Author: obsidian base

I know a girl like this who is like 41. She just got artificially inseminated and is moving with her parents to have the kid herself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5751855&forum_id=2...id.#49112160)



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Date: July 18th, 2025 2:46 PM
Author: charcoal 180 church building

ok definitely non-responsive to my question. but what do you think of her choice? not asking you about whether you consider surrogacy a realistic option for yourselve because, based on your poasting about loving carousing, drinking, acting like a kid, etc., I assume that you have no desire to ever settle down or have children

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Date: July 18th, 2025 3:05 PM
Author: obsidian base

I respect her choice. I know her well and she went out with a bunch of douchbags (but she was a little kooky herself too). Not the kind of girl who never gets married honestly but here she is. But I respect her taking the wheel and just doing it.

I slightly disagree with your assessment of me FWIW

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5751855&forum_id=2...id.#49112201)



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Date: July 18th, 2025 3:18 PM
Author: charcoal 180 church building

sorry man you do seem chill

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5751855&forum_id=2...id.#49112228)



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Date: July 18th, 2025 3:00 PM
Author: Claret Locus

i know a bunch of people who have done this and never seemed to have had any of the issues you might suspect with the surrogates. The troubles tended to be with the agencies and not the women themselves

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5751855&forum_id=2...id.#49112189)



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Date: July 18th, 2025 3:20 PM
Author: charcoal 180 church building

I wouldn't really expect any trouble with the women. they know what they're getting into and sign some pretty specific legal agreements. although, I wonder if it's possible to select a ... high quality . . . mate using this process

what have you heard about the agencies?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5751855&forum_id=2...id.#49112231)



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Date: July 18th, 2025 3:33 PM
Author: Claret Locus

are you a straight single dude? you are going to have issues imo. are you just an old spinster?

There is a finite amount of women doing this for a living so they're almost certainly going to be prioritizing infertile couples or gay dudes for social clout.

from what i know the agencies mainly procure the women and god knows what they say or do for this. it has to be a hard af sale to a relatively normal person. i bleieve a lot of these women are military wives whose guys are away for a year, which could be fine or sketchy.

I think once they get the women and your money they just kind of bail on you. I have heard this more than once. i would recommend researching the different agencies seriously.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5751855&forum_id=2...id.#49112266)



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Date: July 18th, 2025 3:49 PM
Author: charcoal 180 church building

i'm a divorced single man with shared custody of a child. I would be working with a surrogacy coach assigned to me as part of the fertility benefits my employer offers. it seems legit. the thing i would be worried about though is the quality of the women. i suppose it's fine if they are relatively intelligent and they've been screened for family history, genetic defects, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5751855&forum_id=2...id.#49112327)



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Date: July 19th, 2025 11:28 AM
Author: Sapphire circlehead

wait, you already have a kid?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5751855&forum_id=2...id.#49114184)



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Date: July 21st, 2025 9:16 PM
Author: charcoal 180 church building

yes. i want more and i'm not having luck finding a suitable partner. i don't mind doing it this way, although the more I think of it, it will be kind of unfair to the child. the kid will never know it's mom

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5751855&forum_id=2...id.#49120140)



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Date: July 18th, 2025 3:06 PM
Author: Curious whorehouse black woman

Nah, I don't want to pass on my genes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5751855&forum_id=2...id.#49112202)



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Date: July 19th, 2025 11:32 AM
Author: amber shitlib

even just dealing with the surrogate sounds like a massive pita

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5751855&forum_id=2...id.#49114188)



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Date: July 21st, 2025 9:17 PM
Author: charcoal 180 church building

it's a crazy, years long process based on the few meetings i've had since I made this thread. i'll probably do it about and live poast it for the lulz

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5751855&forum_id=2...id.#49120145)



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Date: July 19th, 2025 3:24 PM
Author: Sapphire circlehead

i’m sure we’ve all considered it but is it even scientifically possible?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5751855&forum_id=2...id.#49114582)



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Date: July 21st, 2025 9:17 PM
Author: charcoal 180 church building

ass babies are real babies, bigot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5751855&forum_id=2...id.#49120151)



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Date: July 21st, 2025 9:20 PM
Author: Indecent vigorous athletic conference knife

do you have to have s*x to do this

seems like there should be a Hallmark movie about a rich chad who inexplicably hires a woman to be his surrogate and then they end up falling in love and living happily ever after together with the kid

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5751855&forum_id=2...id.#49120159)