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There’s no upside to being honest with them in an exit interview, right?

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I&...
Heady Liquid Oxygen
  06/28/25
What would God want you to do?
obsidian range dysfunction
  06/28/25
Just leave, who gives a shit
flesh concupiscible resort macaca
  06/28/25
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cerebral reading party spot
  06/28/25
No one gives two fucks what you think.
insane home clown
  06/28/25
the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all,...
racy church cumskin
  06/28/25
💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're goin...
lemon travel guidebook state
  06/28/25
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Fragrant Cordovan Mediation Ticket Booth
  06/28/25
correct, do not do one, just ignore
Aromatic preventive strike
  06/28/25
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black vivacious new version stock car
  06/28/25
Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched y...
Wild Brethren Pervert
  06/28/25
and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever
cerebral reading party spot
  06/28/25
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Trip fishy dingle berry
  06/28/25
You sound very gay and jewish Also stop doing adderall
Rusted legend french chef
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sticky bronze pocket flask
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avocado bossy double fault
  06/28/25
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Big Hateful Forum Mother
  06/28/25
Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer wi...
obsidian range dysfunction
  06/28/25
Have you learned nothing in life Honesty will only ever h...
hairraiser windowlicker
  06/28/25
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Fragrant Cordovan Mediation Ticket Booth
  06/28/25
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Big Hateful Forum Mother
  06/28/25
Just read ur actual op Lmfao r u a woman Holy shit ur a ...
hairraiser windowlicker
  06/28/25
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outnumbered mind-boggling menage
  06/28/25
You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you...
Arousing house mad-dog skullcap
  06/28/25
jewish family man you’re the bad guy if you hate t...
Rusted legend french chef
  06/28/25
nobody cares
Fragrant Cordovan Mediation Ticket Booth
  06/28/25
Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough pr...
180 nibblets juggernaut
  06/28/25
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black vivacious new version stock car
  06/28/25
lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his &...
Frozen multi-colored dopamine
  06/28/25
A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime
180 nibblets juggernaut
  06/28/25
Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the w...
Know-it-all location dragon
  06/28/25
You sound like a real POS “considering” whether ...
avocado bossy double fault
  06/28/25
he’s jewish
Rusted legend french chef
  06/28/25
What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood jus...
black vivacious new version stock car
  06/28/25
a jew
Rusted legend french chef
  06/28/25
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Fragrant Cordovan Mediation Ticket Booth
  06/29/25
Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the ...
violent office half-breed
  06/28/25


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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:58 AM
Author: Heady Liquid Oxygen

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I’m not going to seek out an exit interview but I strongly suspect the HR person is going to want to document my feedback because I’m being poached by a competitor and several execs in the business will find out this week and will talk to me about it, and she will want to try to find out what I told them. I have an opportunity in all this to trash our group’s lead VP, and he’s likely already on shaky enough ground that it could at a minimum help to block any future progress up the ladder, and could possibly result in a demotion for him. Arguably this is what’s best for the team I’m leaving ie the guy is not evil or sadistic like a boomer but he’s like an archetypal Gen X beta who is drowning and losing the game of thrones at his new level that he only got to like a year ago. It’s a pretty standard issue Peter principle scenario where he’s retreating to tactical stuff because he’s overwhelmed by his failures and invisibility in terms of strategic stuff. But thinking about it especially from a pure self interest perspective it seems much smarter to say nothing about any of this and not get into any of the many pointed critiques I have of him along these lines with many on-point examples of his limitations. Curious if XO agrees.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055924)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:16 AM
Author: obsidian range dysfunction

What would God want you to do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055956)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:02 AM
Author: flesh concupiscible resort macaca

Just leave, who gives a shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055930)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:59 PM
Author: cerebral reading party spot



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: insane home clown

No one gives two fucks what you think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055935)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:09 AM
Author: racy church cumskin

the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all, and that's what i'd recommend in this scenario. the main purpose of the exit interview is to identify and mitigate any potential legal risk from your departure.

whatever negative feedback you give for the VP will almost certainly be swept under the rug as it does not sound significant enough to warrant investigation/intervention. also, you could potentially burn a bridge.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055944)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: lemon travel guidebook state

💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're going to sue them or if they can sue you

Nothing else you say matters

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055959)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: Fragrant Cordovan Mediation Ticket Booth



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:10 AM
Author: Aromatic preventive strike

correct, do not do one, just ignore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056036)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:34 AM
Author: black vivacious new version stock car



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:44 AM
Author: Wild Brethren Pervert

Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched your special spot and tried to coerce you into sex), it's going nowhere



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056107)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:00 PM
Author: cerebral reading party spot

and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056419)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:36 PM
Author: Trip fishy dingle berry



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:11 AM
Author: Rusted legend french chef

You sound very gay and jewish

Also stop doing adderall

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055949)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:08 AM
Author: sticky bronze pocket flask



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:35 PM
Author: avocado bossy double fault



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: Big Hateful Forum Mother



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49057099)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: obsidian range dysfunction

Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer with your boss in a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055955)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: hairraiser windowlicker

Have you learned nothing in life

Honesty will only ever hurt you in life especially in a "work" environment

Modernity demands you never tell the truth in a satanic humiliation ritual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055962)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: Fragrant Cordovan Mediation Ticket Booth



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055978)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: Big Hateful Forum Mother



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49057100)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: hairraiser windowlicker

Just read ur actual op

Lmfao r u a woman

Holy shit ur a faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055964)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:27 AM
Author: outnumbered mind-boggling menage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056066)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:21 AM
Author: Arousing house mad-dog skullcap

You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you a zoomer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055972)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:53 AM
Author: Rusted legend french chef

jewish family man

you’re the bad guy if you hate these “people” btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056115)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:27 AM
Author: Fragrant Cordovan Mediation Ticket Booth

nobody cares

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055983)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:35 AM
Author: 180 nibblets juggernaut

Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055997)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:35 AM
Author: black vivacious new version stock car



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:46 AM
Author: Frozen multi-colored dopamine

lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his "recommendations"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056010)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: 180 nibblets juggernaut

A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056023)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:13 PM
Author: Know-it-all location dragon

Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the way to get at someone. You just look like a butthurt asshole pulling something like that. Either voice it when you’re there or stfu on the way out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056151)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: avocado bossy double fault

You sound like a real POS “considering” whether to torpedo some poor schlub who - per your story - never did anything remotely comparably bad to you.

You are also completely clueless about how businesses/HR depts function and it’s going to be hilarious when that bites you in the ass soon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056166)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:30 PM
Author: Rusted legend french chef

he’s jewish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056175)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 1:51 PM
Author: black vivacious new version stock car

What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood just to “help” some company he’s leaving. Really shitty man

Was legit in this situation 3 months ago and took the interview bc I may go back there. My boss had no idea what he was doing but was chill and I had a lot of free time as a result. Obviously didn’t throw him under the bus as I was leaving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056328)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:30 PM
Author: Rusted legend french chef

a jew

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056479)



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Date: June 29th, 2025 7:16 AM
Author: Fragrant Cordovan Mediation Ticket Booth



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49057567)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:50 PM
Author: violent office half-breed

Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the CEO/COO/CFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056402)