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There’s no upside to being honest with them in an exit interview, right?

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I&...
Concupiscible opaque french chef
  06/28/25
What would God want you to do?
Very tactful contagious background story
  06/28/25
Just leave, who gives a shit
Medicated genital piercing meetinghouse
  06/28/25
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bull headed gaming laptop
  06/28/25
No one gives two fucks what you think.
lemon passionate office
  06/28/25
the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all,...
Elite ape
  06/28/25
💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're goin...
Henna newt
  06/28/25
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Godawful church mother
  06/28/25
correct, do not do one, just ignore
frum church building skinny woman
  06/28/25
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Motley business firm electric furnace
  06/28/25
Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched y...
Fragrant ticket booth
  06/28/25
and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever
bull headed gaming laptop
  06/28/25
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vigorous university
  06/28/25
You sound very gay and jewish Also stop doing adderall
erotic yarmulke locale
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Unhinged Kitchen People Who Are Hurt
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jet-lagged odious school cafeteria mad cow disease
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nubile tan house
  06/28/25
Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer wi...
Very tactful contagious background story
  06/28/25
Have you learned nothing in life Honesty will only ever h...
drunken fantasy-prone filthpig
  06/28/25
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Godawful church mother
  06/28/25
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nubile tan house
  06/28/25
Just read ur actual op Lmfao r u a woman Holy shit ur a ...
drunken fantasy-prone filthpig
  06/28/25
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Aromatic forum
  06/28/25
You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you...
Frozen pit
  06/28/25
jewish family man you’re the bad guy if you hate t...
erotic yarmulke locale
  06/28/25
nobody cares
Godawful church mother
  06/28/25
Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough pr...
Vivacious Hospital Pisswyrm
  06/28/25
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Motley business firm electric furnace
  06/28/25
lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his &...
racy national
  06/28/25
A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime
Vivacious Hospital Pisswyrm
  06/28/25
Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the w...
Indecent Territorial Stock Car Idea He Suggested
  06/28/25
You sound like a real POS “considering” whether ...
jet-lagged odious school cafeteria mad cow disease
  06/28/25
he’s jewish
erotic yarmulke locale
  06/28/25
What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood jus...
Motley business firm electric furnace
  06/28/25
a jew
erotic yarmulke locale
  06/28/25
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Godawful church mother
  06/29/25
Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the ...
abusive laser beams masturbator
  06/28/25


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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:58 AM
Author: Concupiscible opaque french chef

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I’m not going to seek out an exit interview but I strongly suspect the HR person is going to want to document my feedback because I’m being poached by a competitor and several execs in the business will find out this week and will talk to me about it, and she will want to try to find out what I told them. I have an opportunity in all this to trash our group’s lead VP, and he’s likely already on shaky enough ground that it could at a minimum help to block any future progress up the ladder, and could possibly result in a demotion for him. Arguably this is what’s best for the team I’m leaving ie the guy is not evil or sadistic like a boomer but he’s like an archetypal Gen X beta who is drowning and losing the game of thrones at his new level that he only got to like a year ago. It’s a pretty standard issue Peter principle scenario where he’s retreating to tactical stuff because he’s overwhelmed by his failures and invisibility in terms of strategic stuff. But thinking about it especially from a pure self interest perspective it seems much smarter to say nothing about any of this and not get into any of the many pointed critiques I have of him along these lines with many on-point examples of his limitations. Curious if XO agrees.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055924)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:16 AM
Author: Very tactful contagious background story

What would God want you to do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055956)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:02 AM
Author: Medicated genital piercing meetinghouse

Just leave, who gives a shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055930)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:59 PM
Author: bull headed gaming laptop



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: lemon passionate office

No one gives two fucks what you think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055935)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:09 AM
Author: Elite ape

the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all, and that's what i'd recommend in this scenario. the main purpose of the exit interview is to identify and mitigate any potential legal risk from your departure.

whatever negative feedback you give for the VP will almost certainly be swept under the rug as it does not sound significant enough to warrant investigation/intervention. also, you could potentially burn a bridge.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055944)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: Henna newt

💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're going to sue them or if they can sue you

Nothing else you say matters

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055959)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: Godawful church mother



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:10 AM
Author: frum church building skinny woman

correct, do not do one, just ignore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056036)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:34 AM
Author: Motley business firm electric furnace



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:44 AM
Author: Fragrant ticket booth

Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched your special spot and tried to coerce you into sex), it's going nowhere



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056107)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:00 PM
Author: bull headed gaming laptop

and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056419)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:36 PM
Author: vigorous university



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:11 AM
Author: erotic yarmulke locale

You sound very gay and jewish

Also stop doing adderall

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055949)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:08 AM
Author: Unhinged Kitchen People Who Are Hurt



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:35 PM
Author: jet-lagged odious school cafeteria mad cow disease



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: nubile tan house



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: Very tactful contagious background story

Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer with your boss in a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055955)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: drunken fantasy-prone filthpig

Have you learned nothing in life

Honesty will only ever hurt you in life especially in a "work" environment

Modernity demands you never tell the truth in a satanic humiliation ritual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055962)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: Godawful church mother



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: nubile tan house



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: drunken fantasy-prone filthpig

Just read ur actual op

Lmfao r u a woman

Holy shit ur a faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055964)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:27 AM
Author: Aromatic forum



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:21 AM
Author: Frozen pit

You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you a zoomer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055972)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:53 AM
Author: erotic yarmulke locale

jewish family man

you’re the bad guy if you hate these “people” btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056115)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:27 AM
Author: Godawful church mother

nobody cares

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055983)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:35 AM
Author: Vivacious Hospital Pisswyrm

Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49055997)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:35 AM
Author: Motley business firm electric furnace



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056090)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:46 AM
Author: racy national

lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his "recommendations"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056010)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: Vivacious Hospital Pisswyrm

A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056023)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:13 PM
Author: Indecent Territorial Stock Car Idea He Suggested

Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the way to get at someone. You just look like a butthurt asshole pulling something like that. Either voice it when you’re there or stfu on the way out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056151)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: jet-lagged odious school cafeteria mad cow disease

You sound like a real POS “considering” whether to torpedo some poor schlub who - per your story - never did anything remotely comparably bad to you.

You are also completely clueless about how businesses/HR depts function and it’s going to be hilarious when that bites you in the ass soon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056166)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:30 PM
Author: erotic yarmulke locale

he’s jewish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056175)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 1:51 PM
Author: Motley business firm electric furnace

What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood just to “help” some company he’s leaving. Really shitty man

Was legit in this situation 3 months ago and took the interview bc I may go back there. My boss had no idea what he was doing but was chill and I had a lot of free time as a result. Obviously didn’t throw him under the bus as I was leaving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056328)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:30 PM
Author: erotic yarmulke locale

a jew

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056479)



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Date: June 29th, 2025 7:16 AM
Author: Godawful church mother



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:50 PM
Author: abusive laser beams masturbator

Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the CEO/COO/CFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2...id.#49056402)