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Life Advice for Youngs: go to the funerals you don't want to attend

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. A...
navy nursing home
  12/25/21
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red adventurous house
  12/26/21
very valuable post
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180 advice. It really is good for your mind too, instant pe...
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Is it a good way to score pussy?
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  12/25/21
Make sure to bring business cards, brother.
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Appetizing Cocky Electric Furnace
  12/25/21
I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.
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  12/25/21
same
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Juan Eighty
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Important OP
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  12/25/21
Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.
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  12/25/21
(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)
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chest-beating pink site
  12/25/21
Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.
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  12/25/21
Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get...
odious milk
  12/25/21
OP is correct. ty OP, and Merry Christmas
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My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grand...
magical shaky stain
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Startled Free-loading Voyeur
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live fast die young
Crimson mental disorder stead
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theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. i...
Umber box office
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Geriatric hospital tattoo
  12/26/21
very good advice here. i have been making an effort to atten...
red adventurous house
  12/26/21
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Yellow bipolar deer antler
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navy nursing home
  01/15/22
this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best ...
Geriatric hospital tattoo
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Yellow bipolar deer antler
  07/15/22
(junior soprano)
light ungodly stag film
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navy nursing home
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I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was becaus...
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Racy brethren locus
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Absolutely credited.
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Mike Yanagita
  11/25/25
should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:05 AM
Author: navy nursing home

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. As you get older, there will be so many occasions where someone who you aren't close to passes away: a former co-worker who you have lost touch with, the younger brother of a friend from high school who you barely remember, or the dad of a college roommate you haven't seen since graduation. Go to all of these visitations if you can. It's good for the family and it's good for you. I have seen decades-old grudges dissolved in 30 seconds by this gesture. People are at their weakest when a loved one dies and the gratitude they feel when people take the time to pay their respects will last for the rest of their lives. My mom and dad are both gone and I can recall every single person who took the time to show up and pay their respects. It's powerful.

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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:22 PM
Author: red adventurous house



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:11 AM
Author: bateful snowy generalized bond

very valuable post

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:13 AM
Author: glittery cuck station

180 advice. It really is good for your mind too, instant perspective.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: navy nursing home



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:57 AM
Author: arrogant weed whacker

I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad’s funeral and the one-off stories they shared with me about how they knew him. One old lady had a flat tire in the bank parking lot and he changed it for her. Small town America. She would see him at the store or pharmacy for years and thank him.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:29 AM
Author: rough-skinned drab locale half-breed

Is it a good way to score pussy?

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:36 AM
Author: Vermilion useless location

Make sure to bring business cards, brother.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:33 AM
Author: obsidian demanding area crotch



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:36 AM
Author: Curious new version



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: claret diverse center goyim



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: vivacious salmon round eye sneaky criminal



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:41 AM
Author: Idiotic Theatre



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:42 AM
Author: Scarlet razzmatazz prole space



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:49 AM
Author: Appetizing Cocky Electric Furnace



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:32 AM
Author: obsidian demanding area crotch

I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:35 AM
Author: startling titillating ape dingle berry

same

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:40 PM
Author: aphrodisiac twinkling hominid



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:23 PM
Author: Startled Free-loading Voyeur



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: Juan Eighty



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: Marvelous impertinent doctorate regret

Important OP

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:55 AM
Author: arrogant weed whacker

Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: beady-eyed nofapping death wish

(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: chest-beating pink site



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:33 PM
Author: Silver seedy tanning salon rigpig

Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2...id.#43673709)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:36 PM
Author: odious milk

Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get a discount/tax write off on your travel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2...id.#43673721)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:10 PM
Author: Arousing pea-brained international law enforcement agency

OP is correct.

ty OP, and Merry Christmas

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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:32 PM
Author: magical shaky stain

My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grandfather died at 94. Church was barren.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2...id.#43674038)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:24 PM
Author: Startled Free-loading Voyeur



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:52 AM
Author: Crimson mental disorder stead

live fast

die young

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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:34 PM
Author: Umber box office

theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. its basically boomer level selfishness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2...id.#43674045)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:19 PM
Author: Geriatric hospital tattoo



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:21 PM
Author: red adventurous house

very good advice here. i have been making an effort to attend more funerals of acquaintances after a personal experience made me realize how much it can mean to those close to the deceased.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2...id.#43680638)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 6:32 PM
Author: Yellow bipolar deer antler



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Date: January 15th, 2022 4:44 PM
Author: navy nursing home



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:51 PM
Author: Geriatric hospital tattoo

this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best experience was nervously attending the funeral of dude's dad who I had beef with after high school and hadn't spoken to in forever (the kid not the dad). Anyways, the gratitude you could see on that guy's face when I showed up was something I'll remember for the rest of my life.

Thanks to the immortal Yanagita for making this thread. This is something a younger person simply cannot understand on their own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2...id.#44856920)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: Yellow bipolar deer antler



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:54 PM
Author: light ungodly stag film

(junior soprano)

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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:44 AM
Author: navy nursing home



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:47 AM
Author: boyish clear hissy fit

I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was because he predeceased my birth so it wasn’t possible, but the other 2 I was in law school states away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2...id.#45965887)



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:57 PM
Author: Slippery balding turdskin



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:59 PM
Author: Racy brethren locus



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Date: March 14th, 2023 7:24 PM
Author: plum theater stage

Absolutely credited.

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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:36 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: whimsy the cat

should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2...id.#49460900)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: ruinous phenotype



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