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Academy soccer coach just begged me to put my daughter on his team.
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Date: April 9th, 2025 6:21 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum We did tryouts for next year over the last couple weeks and decided on a different club. As a courtesy I let him know because he's a nice guy.
He called and offered to waive all fees if she played for his club. Still said no. |
Date: April 9th, 2025 6:22 PM Author: Greedy Trump Supporter Main People (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48832690) |
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Date: April 9th, 2025 6:34 PM Author: Bronze curious double fault stock car Meaningless info without the region + competive level of the club (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48832720) |
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Date: April 9th, 2025 6:39 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum NJ. EDP is all I will say or else risk outing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48832745) |
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Date: April 9th, 2025 6:35 PM Author: bespoke clown range smart. he sounds like a pedo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48832726) |
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Date: April 9th, 2025 6:58 PM Author: infuriating henna stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48832792) |
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Date: April 9th, 2025 6:54 PM Author: flatulent trip trust fund get her into golf. soccer is good exercise but otherwise a waste of time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48832783) |
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Date: April 9th, 2025 6:58 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum i don't have that kind of money. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48832788) |
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Date: April 9th, 2025 7:09 PM Author: flatulent trip trust fund It’s not as expensive as you think. The soccer shit if anything costs more (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48832824) |
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Date: April 9th, 2025 8:11 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum Golf lessons, clubs, fees etc. I imagine are a lot.
All in soccer is prob $4k per kid per year. |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 12:46 PM Author: flatulent trip trust fund I assume you already belong to a CC so it's just a matter of buying clubs and shit and eventually having to travel for AJGA type stuff. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48834762) |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 3:27 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48835154) |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 12:15 PM Author: Bronze curious double fault stock car soccer offers social bonding and it’s a real sport unlike golf (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48834665) |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 12:20 PM Author: flatulent trip trust fund Golf is more of a sport in terms of ability, practice, and athleticism required. soccer is more like the girl scouts but with more exercise. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48834676) |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 1:00 PM Author: Bronze curious double fault stock car Sure thing, John Daly was a peak athletic specimen in his hay day. Golf is for the real athletes!
In contrast to Cristian Ronaldo who has no athletic prowess. |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 3:30 PM Author: opaque piazza hunting ground Girls soccer is about glitter and trying to avoid trannies in the shower Men’s soccer is a legit sport. |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 4:10 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum Boys soccer has become insanely competitive. So many kids play and are exposed to high level training from an early age.
It’s probably the most popular girls sport but still fewer girls play than boys. The difference between low level and top level girls is massive. More so than the boys IME. Low level, it’s just a fun social activity. High level it’s super competitive and just as sophisticated as the boys even if they aren’t as athletic. |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 3:57 PM Author: flatulent trip trust fund you're being sarcastic but yes, John Daly was/is an absolute freak in terms of pure athletic ability (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48835229) |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 4:45 PM Author: Bronze curious double fault stock car Don’t conflate hand-eye coordination with general athletic ability (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48835346) |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 5:20 PM Author: flatulent trip trust fund don't conflate being able to run in circles for hours with general athletic ability
daly is like top 0.01% in terms of physical strength/flexibility ratio |
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Date: April 11th, 2025 8:17 AM Author: Burgundy vigorous institution To be that fat and abusive to one’s body and still play at a high level = athletic specimen.
Like a poor man’s fat shaq.
lol at jogging fast on grass being a women’s sport…
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Date: April 11th, 2025 8:20 AM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum hand eye coordination is absolutely a facet of athleticism. Look at baseball, hockey, basketball. Athleticism isn't just running and jumping. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48837083) |
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Date: April 11th, 2025 1:29 PM Author: Bronze curious double fault stock car So he has 1/10 athletic abilities but 9/10 he’s awful. Oh golf what a sport. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48838143) |
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Date: April 15th, 2025 9:06 AM Author: flatulent trip trust fund ppl like Daly play real sports. they don't try to be the best at exercising. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48848707) |
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Date: April 17th, 2025 6:21 PM Author: ivory deranged lodge Getting drunk on the reg, fucking good times on the reg, yachts on the reg, sex on the reg - all the shit that most guys fantasize about. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48858354) |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 12:15 PM Author: Bronze curious double fault stock car (earl woods hoping to pound out your daughter) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48834661) |
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Date: April 15th, 2025 7:25 PM Author: Narrow-minded rough-skinned state Soccer is best for college scholarships (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48850674) |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 11:30 AM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48834520) |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 12:16 PM Author: spruce electric associate why did you choose the other team (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48834668) |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 3:35 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum - higher level training sessions and players - higher flight - good conversation with the coach - flexible training schedule that accommodates other activities - positive club culture
At this age, I still don't know whether my daughter wants to commit solely to soccer. She has the potential to be a very high level player, but it will ultimately be up to her if she wants to go down that path which will require that she sacrifice other interests. This club will allow her to develop over the next year or 2 without giving up her other interests. |
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Date: April 11th, 2025 6:20 AM Author: spruce electric associate That's sweet bro. Thank you for responding (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48836956) |
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Date: April 11th, 2025 2:43 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48838477) |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 12:21 PM Author: navy appetizing place of business she is going to be cleaning his asshole with her tongue (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48834678) |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 12:59 PM Author: ivory deranged lodge where do you think all of this is headed? will she play in college? if she isn't D1 level, are you thinking about how to use soccer to get her into a better school? no, you're not because you're a stupid fat nerd? got it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48834811) |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 1:01 PM Author: Bronze curious double fault stock car This is shit tiger mom thinking. She should play soccer if she enjoys it at whatever competitive level that works best for her while. Not for some downstream college benefit. That’s a major life benefit in of itself. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48834818) |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 1:12 PM Author: ivory deranged lodge yes i know that, Wang. I am the premier participate in athletics for the memories and lifetime life benefits (e.g., leadership, time management, discipline) on this shitbort. but bloodac...er, mountain cat (dumb as fuck name) poas nonstop about his dottir so I am engaging him on a different level. he can help his dottir succeed without ruining the soccer experience for her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48834828) |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 3:45 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48835190) |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 3:44 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum I have no plan beyond her enjoying the game and being challenged so that she'll develop. I prioritize her individual development and having a positive experience far more than being on the highest ranked team possible.
I believe she has the potential and physical gifts to be a D1 player, but ultimately, getting to that level requires an internal drive and dedication that will become apparent around age 13. I think parents who obsess about their kid playing in college don't realize that the kid has to really want it. It's also a huge commitment to play a sport in college. Luckily, she's smart and talented in other areas, so I don't think she'll have to rely on being good at soccer to get into college. |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 4:50 PM Author: ivory deranged lodge a healthy perspective. congrats on being a good father.
to play devil's advocate, if you prioritize her individual development, doesn't that mean you're trying to push her as far along in the sport as possible? if she's just in it for the love of the game, wouldn't being on a team of girls she enjoys bonding with be the priority?
It's a fair point about obsessing over the kid getting into a college team. Good to know your daughter takes after her mother and isn't a retarded dullard like you |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 11:21 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum I want her to play for a club that cares more about each player’s individual technical improvement than winning games. I want a coach that will encourage players to be confident on the ball, dribble and take on defenders even if that means mistakes will happen and goals will be conceded. Kids don’t develop if they’re told to pass every time they get the ball. That’s all I meant.
There’s no town team with all her friends. Tbh, none of her friends play soccer at her level. But if that were an option and she said that’s what she wanted to do, that’s the team I’d put her on regardless of the level.
My wife and I agree that our daughter is a much higher quality person than either of us. |
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Date: April 11th, 2025 1:26 PM Author: Bronze curious double fault stock car “ Kids don’t develop if they’re told to pass every time they get the ball. That’s all I meant.”
The “pass first” mentality is why American soccer isn’t as advanced as it would otherwise be. Good stuff. |
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Date: April 11th, 2025 2:46 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum cr. and it won't change because most of the parents are so uneducated. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48838491) |
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Date: April 11th, 2025 2:49 PM Author: ivory deranged lodge yeah but who cares about maximizing individual development unless you're trying to get your kind into showcases, ODP (or whatever it's called now), NCAA, etc.? winning trophies with an elite team is much more fun that drilling stepovers and cut off angles on defense (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48838502) |
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Date: April 11th, 2025 4:42 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum Specific to soccer, passing and team tactics can be learned at any age. Individual technical skills cannot. You don't have to have aspirations of playing D1 to want to be good at something that you can enjoy into adulthood. Why would I pay thousands of dollars for my kid to be on a team where they are taught to just kick the ball to the biggest kid? Maybe that results in wins for young children which then helps promote the club to other unsuspecting parents, but it doesn't create a better long-term experience for my kid even if they get fewer U9 trophies.
From a character perspective, I want my kids to have confidence and be comfortable in a leadership role. I don't want to see them sit on the bench or have a limited on-field role and be happy to celebrate their teammates' accomplishments. |
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Date: April 11th, 2025 4:55 PM Author: Bronze curious double fault stock car Wrong. You want the young kids to collectively improve as soccer players by learning individual skills. Not mindlessly trying to “win” games for ten year olds which is pathetic. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48838945) |
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Date: April 11th, 2025 4:57 PM Author: ivory deranged lodge listen up, Wang. the only way to settle this is a game of crossbar and 1v1. winner has to stfu forever about the topic of youth soccer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48838949) |
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Date: April 15th, 2025 9:04 AM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum cr. Let's sacrifice development so that the club can generate more instagram posts of little kids with medals around their necks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48848703) |
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Date: April 17th, 2025 1:53 PM Author: ivory deranged lodge do you think you could nutmeg me? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48857424) |
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Date: April 17th, 2025 6:21 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum No (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48858343) |
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Date: April 17th, 2025 6:22 PM Author: ivory deranged lodge you probably could man believe in yourself (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48858361) |
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Date: April 17th, 2025 7:59 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum Prob not. I wasn’t really a crafty finesse kind of player. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48858807) |
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Date: April 10th, 2025 3:29 PM Author: opaque piazza hunting ground If it were 1985 or so I’d say he was taking polaroids or videos of her ass to sell. But he can get that anywhere now so congrats (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48835159) |
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Date: April 11th, 2025 6:51 AM Author: Racy pearly depressive friendly grandma Loving this schtick, keep it coming (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48836980) |
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Date: April 11th, 2025 8:23 AM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum we've got games this weekend. Coach at current club is retaliating because he realized she's not coming back next season. He's been limiting her playing time (in favor of objectively worse players) and forcing her to play exclusively outside back. It's been frustrating and exemplifies some of the nastier unregulated elements of competitive youth soccer. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48837085) |
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Date: April 11th, 2025 1:50 PM Author: Startled stirring macaca you should demand satisfaction (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48838209) |
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Date: April 11th, 2025 9:55 PM Author: coral chad rigor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48839485) |
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Date: April 15th, 2025 9:08 AM Author: flatulent trip trust fund soccer actually has like positions that ppl compete over? It always just seemed like a bunch of twinks running in circles playing keep away while the clock goes up instead of down (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48848708) |
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Date: April 15th, 2025 9:20 AM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum yeah that's pretty much the gist of it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48848731) |
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Date: April 11th, 2025 5:46 PM Author: coral chad rigor just jerked it to this thread
it's wrong i know
ty, OP |
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Date: April 15th, 2025 9:35 AM Author: spruce electric associate I think you guys are huge fags for thinking some idiot tween girl soccer club in NJ is supposed to be some set up for college scholarship/professional level play. jfc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48848768) |
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Date: April 15th, 2025 12:36 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum Below U15, no one should make decisions based on their kid playing D1.
After that there are clubs your kid should only play at if they want to play in college (e.g. PDA, Matchfit, STA). They play in national leagues from which college coaches recruit almost exclusively. They train almost every day and travel an insane amount for tournaments and showcases. It's a waste of time for kids who don't love playing soccer more than anything and requires commitment and sacrifice. |
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Date: April 15th, 2025 1:06 PM Author: spruce electric associate Thank you for responding (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48849450) |
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Date: April 15th, 2025 1:07 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum thank you for the compliment of huge fag. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48849453) |
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Date: April 15th, 2025 1:13 PM Author: coral chad rigor 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48849476) |
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Date: April 15th, 2025 1:16 PM Author: spruce electric associate you dont sound like a huge fag in these iirc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48849483) |
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Date: April 15th, 2025 7:21 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum That’s the nicest thing you’ve said to me in 5 years. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48850660) |
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Date: April 15th, 2025 7:24 PM Author: Smoky Temple Why does this shit thread keep getting bumped (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48850669) |
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Date: April 15th, 2025 7:26 PM Author: Narrow-minded rough-skinned state XO is a dads club now (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48850678) |
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Date: April 15th, 2025 7:28 PM Author: Frozen yellow brunch No offense to OP, but I lose A LOT of respect for men who take their daughters' sports seriously. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48850694) |
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Date: April 15th, 2025 10:40 PM Author: lavender out-of-control giraffe forum none taken! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5708313&forum_id=2...id.#48851434) |