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1. She is coming out for a big trip in two weeks. We’r...
Lake razzmatazz stag film
  03/24/26
this is so gay lol
aquamarine useless church building
  03/24/26
yea but for op it's exciting, trust me.
crawly lavender knife
  03/25/26
Have u broke it to ur kids yet that daddy is leaving not jus...
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  03/24/26
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cordovan range macaca
  03/24/26
Surely they'll be happy dada is living his best life
Diverse National Security Agency
  03/24/26
He is SO brave!
mentally impaired rigor
  03/24/26
Sorry lil Jimmy, Daddy's nut is more important than your sup...
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  03/24/26
He's not even getting his nut he's exchanging a bunch of goo...
cordovan range macaca
  03/24/26
It may not work out with the new one. We are in love but I r...
Lake razzmatazz stag film
  03/25/26
that has nothing to do with you, bud. she's actively home...
cracking snowy abode
  03/26/26
Actively home-wrecking is tc description. She will begin to ...
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  03/26/26
"I understand Dad! I'd ruin my own life too for that mu...
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brutal.
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  03/25/26
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amethyst hilarious theatre
  04/11/26
wasnt this kid his first one? it's unfathomably selfish b...
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  03/24/26
Is this what you really think or just jumping on the bandwag...
Lake razzmatazz stag film
  03/25/26
yes it is what i think. i scolded you at the beginning but d...
Carmine Exhilarant Antidepressant Drug
  03/25/26
I recognize that there’s a material chance it won&rsqu...
Lake razzmatazz stag film
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this is literally what every dude thinks who goes down your ...
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  03/25/26
If your point is that I’m not a snowflake and that cir...
Lake razzmatazz stag film
  03/26/26
that is not my point. i said that you have an obligation to ...
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  03/26/26
you said you're pretty high up at a white collar job and so ...
Carmine Exhilarant Antidepressant Drug
  03/24/26
Maybe. I am thinking of switching jobs, having conversations...
Lake razzmatazz stag film
  03/25/26
well it seems like it's something you thought through rather...
Carmine Exhilarant Antidepressant Drug
  03/25/26
keep that flame burning bright and hot nigga you're doing Gr...
Internet-worthy Trailer Park
  03/24/26
how tight are her holds?
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  03/24/26
cq. the main place i went wrong was i picked a girl with a m...
crawly lavender knife
  03/25/26
gary has a tight hold tho. maybe the cavern cunt was divine ...
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  03/25/26
oh god oh
crawly lavender knife
  03/25/26
This is surprisingly important. Throwing a hotdog down a hal...
mischievous chartreuse famous landscape painting
  03/30/26
in retrospect, it's entirely possible that i'd still be with...
crawly lavender knife
  03/30/26
you just have a little weiner, my dude
aquamarine useless church building
  03/30/26
you really love poasting about that, don't you?
crawly lavender knife
  03/30/26
lol at 2 and 6. "I actively avoid her at work except fo...
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  03/24/26
Careers are going fine for now. Our marriages would have end...
Lake razzmatazz stag film
  03/25/26
whatever gets you through your shift, op
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  03/26/26
His poasting shift
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Date: March 24th, 2026 2:44 AM
Author: Lake razzmatazz stag film

1. She is coming out for a big trip in two weeks. We’re vacationing for a week and then have a work thing the week after.

2. It is getting very difficult to pretend around her at work. Have to basically actively ignore her in work settings for fear it will be obvious.

3. I am torn in two at home. I can’t pretend with the wife anymore. Even a simple lunch feels like too much. I’ve avoided kisses several times. I have to tell her it’s over soon. It’s going to be pretty brutal but better than living in this weird in between zone.

4. I don’t think whether it works out with subordinate really makes a difference about the wife. The marriage feels over regardless. Even if no subordinate I’ve moved on mentally and would want to date new people vs trying to make it work.

5. It’s funny at work having multiple people act like they’re going to give me the scoop of what’s going on with the subordinate and having to pretend like they know better.

6. People will find out soon that she is getting a divorce. I’m a bit worried that that combined with the fact that she’s moving closer to me combined with the fact that I’m going to be separated soon combined with the fact that we always show up and leave events at same time will have everyone putting 2 and 2 together.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49764378)



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Date: March 24th, 2026 7:23 AM
Author: aquamarine useless church building

this is so gay lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49764439)



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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:19 PM
Author: crawly lavender knife

yea but for op it's exciting, trust me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49768262)



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Date: March 24th, 2026 7:31 AM
Author: avocado parlour coldplay fan

Have u broke it to ur kids yet that daddy is leaving not just for a whore, but a middle aged one at that

Keep it coming brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49764448)



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Date: March 24th, 2026 7:40 AM
Author: cordovan range macaca



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49764454)



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Date: March 24th, 2026 7:58 AM
Author: Diverse National Security Agency

Surely they'll be happy dada is living his best life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49764471)



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Date: March 24th, 2026 10:06 AM
Author: mentally impaired rigor

He is SO brave!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49764740)



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Date: March 24th, 2026 10:54 AM
Author: 180 voyeur ticket booth

Sorry lil Jimmy, Daddy's nut is more important than your supportive and intact home life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49764875)



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Date: March 24th, 2026 11:17 AM
Author: cordovan range macaca

He's not even getting his nut he's exchanging a bunch of good morning texts and they've had sex like twice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49764942)



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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:20 PM
Author: Lake razzmatazz stag film

It may not work out with the new one. We are in love but I recognize it hasn’t been stress tested by reality. That said, it isn’t advanced. She wants to have a kid with me and move in with me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49768264)



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Date: March 26th, 2026 2:50 AM
Author: cracking snowy abode

that has nothing to do with you, bud.

she's actively home-wrecking and doesn't care, so if she's talking kids with you despite having no idea if having a family with you is sustainable, she doesn't care one iota about whether you'll be in the picture long-term.

so if she doesn't truly care about where it ultimately goes with you but is sincere about wanting you to fuck a kid into her, that means she just wants you on the hook financially. if she is on the wrong side of 35 or so, and actually interested in this situation, no doubt she's getting desperate and looking at all options with a zero sum mentality. hard to fault her calculation. you're clearly a mark because she knows you'll submit to a relationship in the short term and you'll be pussy-whipped or afraid to make another move, at least for a few years. but at that point you're paying for life and meanwhile she's whining to everyone on earth that she threw career away to give you a second shot at domestic bliss.

you're beyond damaged goods at that point and even your closest family members (if you have any, seems unlikely based on how little you have to say about that aspect) will privately shit on your weak character and foolishness for the rest of your life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49769804)



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Date: March 26th, 2026 10:10 AM
Author: 180 voyeur ticket booth

Actively home-wrecking is tc description. She will begin to lose interest within 6 months of the final, irrevocable destruction of his family.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49770181)



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Date: March 24th, 2026 11:23 AM
Author: spectacular ocher fat ankles toilet seat

"I understand Dad! I'd ruin my own life too for that muffin top"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49764963)



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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:20 PM
Author: Orchid Deep Chad

brutal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49768265)



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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:43 PM
Author: bull headed base dysfunction

lmfao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49768328)



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Date: March 26th, 2026 10:09 AM
Author: 180 voyeur ticket booth



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49770176)



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Date: April 11th, 2026 9:49 AM
Author: amethyst hilarious theatre



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49810242)



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Date: March 24th, 2026 11:01 AM
Author: Carmine Exhilarant Antidepressant Drug

wasnt this kid his first one?

it's unfathomably selfish but a pretty common thing for dudes to have a crisis and "fall out of love" because their wife goes through changes during pregnancy. often they realize how childish they are and mend things before there's significant permanent damage. hopefully this happens with OP.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49764892)



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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:18 PM
Author: Lake razzmatazz stag film

Is this what you really think or just jumping on the bandwagon? My wife and I had like 12 months of constant stress and fights followed by months that have now settled into co parenting. We’re basically separated already but living together. And even that feels weird. We text once a day about kid stuff. The marriage feels over whether the affair continues or not.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49768260)



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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:24 PM
Author: Carmine Exhilarant Antidepressant Drug

yes it is what i think. i scolded you at the beginning but didn't join in the chorus of people browbeating you because there's no point in repeating the obvious.

what's changed from when you first started is deluding yourself that it's already over and there's nothing you can do now. that's just cope.

also you're probably about my age and ive seen this story play out countless times, as i suspect you have too. im sure you've also deluded yourself that you're different because of the super special love and feelings you have for subordinate. this is what everyone thinks.

very rarely does this work out. if this isn't flame, i genuinely hope you see the light before you do significant irreparable damage to your family.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49768271)



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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:26 PM
Author: Lake razzmatazz stag film

I recognize that there’s a material chance it won’t work out with the subordinate. But I don’t think my marriage is repairable. I don’t love her anymore. I would just want to date other women if it ended with the subordinate. I wouldn’t go ok now I’m going back to the cold marriage with someone who resents the fuck out of me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49768275)



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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:43 PM
Author: Carmine Exhilarant Antidepressant Drug

this is literally what every dude thinks who goes down your path. just an odd case that its happening while she's pregnant and thus not acting like her normal self?

i have no idea what your marriage is like, obviously. but i do know you haven't given any reason you're "not in love" or what she's done or not done. the only thing you've said is that she's out hunting for you! thats pretty rare for a postpartum wife! the type of thing you'll think of later i bet.

even if she was a total cunt and the marriage is over, you owe it you your kid to try to keep it together. go fuck subordinates on the side.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49768329)



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Date: March 26th, 2026 2:34 AM
Author: Lake razzmatazz stag film

If your point is that I’m not a snowflake and that circumstances in life affect me like millions of others, then I agree. Pregnancy and post children is obviously a common time for irreparable marital rifts to appear.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49769801)



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Date: March 26th, 2026 10:23 AM
Author: Carmine Exhilarant Antidepressant Drug

that is not my point. i said that you have an obligation to give it a go for your kids sake, not that you have to live jn an intolerable situation forever.

you just havent given any reason why your marriage is a lost cause. the only thing youve said is that your wife was out looking for you, which indicates it's not. maybe it is and you just haven't told us why, but from what you have said it seems like you're just being incredibly selfish and immoral.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49770209)



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Date: March 24th, 2026 10:09 AM
Author: Carmine Exhilarant Antidepressant Drug

you said you're pretty high up at a white collar job and so is she. so your coworkers probably arent stupid and already suspect something is up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49764748)



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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:16 PM
Author: Lake razzmatazz stag film

Maybe. I am thinking of switching jobs, having conversations with an exec recruiter. Not going to be overnight but I would like to solve that issue.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49768255)



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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:19 PM
Author: Carmine Exhilarant Antidepressant Drug

well it seems like it's something you thought through rather than manically changing every major aspect of your life because you're having a midlife crisis and are terrified it's about to be defined by wife and kids because of decisions you made haha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49768263)



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Date: March 24th, 2026 11:19 AM
Author: Internet-worthy Trailer Park

keep that flame burning bright and hot nigga you're doing Great

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49764947)



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Date: March 24th, 2026 1:32 PM
Author: mischievous chartreuse famous landscape painting

how tight are her holds?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49765315)



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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:41 PM
Author: crawly lavender knife

cq. the main place i went wrong was i picked a girl with a massive pussyhold.

her asshole was solid, but i only buttfucked it 5-6 times over the course of a year and a half.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49768322)



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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:46 PM
Author: Carmine Exhilarant Antidepressant Drug

gary has a tight hold tho. maybe the cavern cunt was divine intervention.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49768333)



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Date: March 25th, 2026 3:31 PM
Author: crawly lavender knife

oh god oh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49768441)



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Date: March 30th, 2026 7:07 AM
Author: mischievous chartreuse famous landscape painting

This is surprisingly important. Throwing a hotdog down a hallway is no fun for anyone

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49780095)



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Date: March 30th, 2026 7:14 AM
Author: crawly lavender knife

in retrospect, it's entirely possible that i'd still be with that chick if her pussy wasn't a mess. i really was in love with her, but i was faced with a situation where i was never going to feel a pussy again; i truly am not exaggerating - there wasn't "very little" sensation, there was literally none at all. that is untenable.

i still think i'd have gotten my head right, but i have to give it a 15% on keeping things the way they were and staying with manhole puss.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49780100)



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Date: March 30th, 2026 9:11 AM
Author: aquamarine useless church building

you just have a little weiner, my dude

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49780194)



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Date: March 30th, 2026 2:56 PM
Author: crawly lavender knife

you really love poasting about that, don't you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49781101)



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Date: March 24th, 2026 1:38 PM
Author: Misanthropic saffron lay queen of the night

lol at 2 and 6. "I actively avoid her at work except for the fact that we come in together and leave together."

again: 2 ruined marriages, 2 ruined careers, and at least 2 ruined children for some naughty text messages

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49765339)



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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:23 PM
Author: Lake razzmatazz stag film

Careers are going fine for now. Our marriages would have ended regardless. Admittedly, this probably expedited things.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49768269)



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Date: March 26th, 2026 10:14 AM
Author: cruel-hearted carnelian genital piercing pocket flask

whatever gets you through your shift, op

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49770186)



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Date: April 11th, 2026 9:50 AM
Author: amethyst hilarious theatre

His poasting shift

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2Reputation#49810243)