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Life Advice for Youngs: go to the funerals you don't want to attend

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:05 AM
Author: Marvelous shrine bbw

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. As you get older, there will be so many occasions where someone who you aren't close to passes away: a former co-worker who you have lost touch with, the younger brother of a friend from high school who you barely remember, or the dad of a college roommate you haven't seen since graduation. Go to all of these visitations if you can. It's good for the family and it's good for you. I have seen decades-old grudges dissolved in 30 seconds by this gesture. People are at their weakest when a loved one dies and the gratitude they feel when people take the time to pay their respects will last for the rest of their lives. My mom and dad are both gone and I can recall every single person who took the time to show up and pay their respects. It's powerful.

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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:22 PM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:11 AM
Author: talking crusty circlehead

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:13 AM
Author: Supple jewess

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: Marvelous shrine bbw



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:57 AM
Author: Razzmatazz topaz gaping church building

I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad’s funeral and the one-off stories they shared with me about how they knew him. One old lady had a flat tire in the bank parking lot and he changed it for her. Small town America. She would see him at the store or pharmacy for years and thank him.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:29 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:36 AM
Author: Arrogant Hyperventilating Faggotry Kitty

Make sure to bring business cards, brother.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:33 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:36 AM
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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:41 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:42 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:49 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:32 AM
Author: Pale nursing home

I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:35 AM
Author: Pungent Cowardly Indirect Expression

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:40 PM
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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:23 PM
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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:54 PM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: Khaki bipolar becky azn

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:55 AM
Author: Razzmatazz topaz gaping church building

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:33 PM
Author: Sienna Know-it-all School

Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:36 PM
Author: honey-headed organic girlfriend therapy

Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get a discount/tax write off on your travel

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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:10 PM
Author: comical shimmering milk black woman

OP is correct.

ty OP, and Merry Christmas

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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:32 PM
Author: cordovan address generalized bond

My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grandfather died at 94. Church was barren.

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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:24 PM
Author: autistic primrose factory reset button



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:52 AM
Author: Dark aphrodisiac potus legend

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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:34 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle azure sound barrier business firm

theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. its basically boomer level selfishness.

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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:19 PM
Author: yellow provocative locale



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:21 PM
Author: Galvanic copper hell national security agency

very good advice here. i have been making an effort to attend more funerals of acquaintances after a personal experience made me realize how much it can mean to those close to the deceased.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43680638)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 6:32 PM
Author: Laughsome Erotic Codepig Property



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Date: January 15th, 2022 4:44 PM
Author: Marvelous shrine bbw



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:51 PM
Author: yellow provocative locale

this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best experience was nervously attending the funeral of dude's dad who I had beef with after high school and hadn't spoken to in forever (the kid not the dad). Anyways, the gratitude you could see on that guy's face when I showed up was something I'll remember for the rest of my life.

Thanks to the immortal Yanagita for making this thread. This is something a younger person simply cannot understand on their own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#44856920)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: Laughsome Erotic Codepig Property



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:54 PM
Author: nubile turdskin

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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:44 AM
Author: Marvelous shrine bbw



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:47 AM
Author: lavender trailer park

I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was because he predeceased my birth so it wasn’t possible, but the other 2 I was in law school states away.

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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:57 PM
Author: Cocky lay



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:59 PM
Author: Gaped weed whacker



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Date: March 14th, 2023 7:24 PM
Author: Green box office

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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:36 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: whimsy the cat

should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?

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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: ruinous phenotype



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