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Wife quitting her job to be SAHM

I think this is going to be a good thing, but interested in ...
electric magenta school giraffe
  02/10/26
State the terms of your prenup before I engage you further
Drunken Idiotic Office
  02/10/26
Prenup status is non existant
electric magenta school giraffe
  02/10/26
Pepper angus my man!
Drunken Idiotic Office
  02/10/26
Nature of the assignment
electric magenta school giraffe
  02/10/26
...
Plum vigorous nursing home sound barrier
  02/10/26
how many kids do you have
free-loading sexy ticket booth blood rage
  02/10/26
2, elementary and early middle school
electric magenta school giraffe
  02/10/26
lol, she ain’t never going back to work
house-broken chapel gaming laptop
  02/10/26
cr cr
electric magenta school giraffe
  02/10/26
what's her #?
soul-stirring mildly autistic mad-dog skullcap national security agency
  02/10/26
Rude, but 1!
electric magenta school giraffe
  02/10/26
He meant phone number, sicko
house-broken chapel gaming laptop
  02/10/26
what could go wrong?
contagious site
  02/10/26
Mainly worries that she will spend all new free time thinkin...
electric magenta school giraffe
  02/10/26
...
Plum vigorous nursing home sound barrier
  02/10/26
odds are your household chores actually go up after this
hot box office striped hyena
  02/10/26
she will get bored and want to open a "bead store"...
Boyish startling halford
  02/10/26
*anal bead store
lascivious personal credit line newt
  02/10/26
...
Drunken Idiotic Office
  02/10/26
Zero chance
electric magenta school giraffe
  02/10/26
she's taking on a ton of emotional labor bro, help her out
narrow-minded bateful state trump supporter
  02/10/26
Cr. They lose momentum and get in the habit of doing nothing...
medicated bespoke international law enforcement agency base
  02/10/26
Meh there are definitely periods like this for my SAHM wife ...
Stimulating Preventive Strike
  02/11/26
Cr. More time in the house means more messes for op to clean...
kink-friendly roommate
  02/10/26
how involved were you in this "decision"?
narrow-minded bateful state trump supporter
  02/10/26
My comp increase this year was 2x her salary (and I already ...
electric magenta school giraffe
  02/10/26
How much is she making now?
Cordovan thriller set hunting ground
  02/10/26
Part time job making around 45k
electric magenta school giraffe
  02/10/26
Lol don't u realize that housechores/nanny costs more than 4...
Duck-like Thirsty Address Cuck
  02/10/26
Congrats friend. You made it.
dull point antidepressant drug
  02/10/26
seems a little late for that if the youngest is in elementar...
Drab stag film persian
  02/10/26
We will see what unfolds. I do think it will be a QoL impro...
electric magenta school giraffe
  02/10/26
Wait is this tree man?
Concupiscible self-centered temple
  02/10/26
bad call the point isn't for her to make money, the point...
Wonderful library
  02/10/26
Or she can plan your vacations. I.e. you tell her April 1-15...
Duck-like Thirsty Address Cuck
  02/10/26
here's the counterintuitive thing: it gets *easier* to do mo...
Wonderful library
  02/10/26
...
Chrome ceo coldplay fan
  02/10/26
...
medicated bespoke international law enforcement agency base
  02/10/26
Guy speaking from experience
house-broken chapel gaming laptop
  02/11/26
this is retarded. having a SAHW makes them more dependent on...
soul-stirring mildly autistic mad-dog skullcap national security agency
  02/10/26
that dependency is exactly the argument she'll use in divorc...
Wonderful library
  02/10/26
Are you married?
useless corner
  02/10/26
(((Consuela))) married a Guatamalan with the body shape of a...
Slate hall community account
  02/10/26
which he complains about all the time. clearly the best ...
soul-stirring mildly autistic mad-dog skullcap national security agency
  02/10/26
Yes
Wonderful library
  02/10/26
You have kids? I don't know all the Consuela lore and will a...
useless corner
  02/10/26
id rather than do the socially and personally optimal thing ...
soul-stirring mildly autistic mad-dog skullcap national security agency
  02/10/26
Good luck!
Wonderful library
  02/10/26
here comes the opinion of a genetic dead end black piller, g...
Slate hall community account
  02/10/26
divorce just isn’t a big concern. Unthinkable
electric magenta school giraffe
  02/10/26
You may be the only poster who doesn’t come from a bro...
Wonderful library
  02/10/26
I am not married but plan to have a sahw. Basically it means...
Duck-like Thirsty Address Cuck
  02/10/26
but you will marry a mongolian
Slate hall community account
  02/10/26
Explain how you write off taxes or have a Roth ira for a sah...
Fiercely-loyal Unholy Legend Associate
  02/10/26
Aren't you like 45 by now
Boyish startling halford
  02/10/26
he's 52, not flame
Slate hall community account
  02/10/26
lol you’re never having sex again
Wonderful library
  02/10/26
Can answer questions. What do you want to know? She seems ha...
Hairraiser bipolar school cafeteria
  02/10/26
LOL the last thing I want to do is devote more time to my ca...
electric magenta school giraffe
  02/10/26
That's the thing, isn't it? It is important to have clear...
Hairraiser bipolar school cafeteria
  02/10/26
In like a decade when she’s banging the tennis trainer...
house-broken chapel gaming laptop
  02/10/26
Cmon man
electric magenta school giraffe
  02/10/26
It's good if she's conscientious and motivated. She should g...
Fiercely-loyal Unholy Legend Associate
  02/10/26
Yea, she is already super involved with school volunteer stu...
electric magenta school giraffe
  02/10/26
lol SAHM for two kids? It’s only worth it as an invest...
violent quadroon brunch
  02/10/26
...
Wonderful library
  02/10/26
I don’t see this as an “investment” (which...
electric magenta school giraffe
  02/10/26
she should keep a part time job for lols, but if she hates i...
contagious site
  02/10/26
She likes to ride me with sometimes and mess around, but nev...
electric magenta school giraffe
  02/10/26
Props to her for jumping on the SAHM mom train after the kid...
pearl scourge upon the earth casino
  02/10/26
To be fair, of kids are / will be big into sports a lot of t...
dull point antidepressant drug
  02/10/26
Why is she staying at home when both kids are in school all ...
Dead crotch
  02/10/26


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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:28 PM
Author: electric magenta school giraffe

I think this is going to be a good thing, but interested in others experiences

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660831)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:32 PM
Author: Drunken Idiotic Office

State the terms of your prenup before I engage you further

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660842)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:57 PM
Author: electric magenta school giraffe

Prenup status is non existant

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660946)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:02 PM
Author: Drunken Idiotic Office

Pepper angus my man!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660980)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:05 PM
Author: electric magenta school giraffe

Nature of the assignment

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660997)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:07 PM
Author: Plum vigorous nursing home sound barrier



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:32 PM
Author: free-loading sexy ticket booth blood rage

how many kids do you have

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660845)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:57 PM
Author: electric magenta school giraffe

2, elementary and early middle school

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660950)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:06 PM
Author: house-broken chapel gaming laptop

lol, she ain’t never going back to work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661008)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:08 PM
Author: electric magenta school giraffe

cr cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661018)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:36 PM
Author: soul-stirring mildly autistic mad-dog skullcap national security agency

what's her #?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660854)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:57 PM
Author: electric magenta school giraffe

Rude, but 1!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660952)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:07 PM
Author: house-broken chapel gaming laptop

He meant phone number, sicko

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661009)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:37 PM
Author: contagious site

what could go wrong?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660858)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:58 PM
Author: electric magenta school giraffe

Mainly worries that she will spend all new free time thinking of new ways to spend money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660957)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:35 PM
Author: Plum vigorous nursing home sound barrier



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661104)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:47 PM
Author: hot box office striped hyena

odds are your household chores actually go up after this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660904)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:48 PM
Author: Boyish startling halford

she will get bored and want to open a "bead store" or something

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660909)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:50 PM
Author: lascivious personal credit line newt

*anal bead store

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660915)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:02 PM
Author: Drunken Idiotic Office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660986)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:59 PM
Author: electric magenta school giraffe

Zero chance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660965)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:01 PM
Author: narrow-minded bateful state trump supporter

she's taking on a ton of emotional labor bro, help her out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660972)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 7:04 PM
Author: medicated bespoke international law enforcement agency base

Cr. They lose momentum and get in the habit of doing nothing vs. a multitasking synchronized sprint to coordinate dishwasher, clothes washer, and dryer cycles with kids’ bath time in the lulls like they had to when they only had a couple of hours to do 4 hours’ worth of work on a weeknight evening. You will come home to a disaster almost daily. *You* will be doing dishes at 11:30pm. *You* will be folding clothes on the weekend because the fucking baskets full have been sitting there since last week. And god forbid you ever make a suggestion that perhaps she could handle some of this shit and wtf do you actually do all day. And she will be less happy than when she was working because of years of conditioning that American female fulfillment can only come from email jobs. You may not notice any of this right away, but after the honeymoon, it is almost certain.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661904)



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Date: February 11th, 2026 10:07 AM
Author: Stimulating Preventive Strike

Meh there are definitely periods like this for my SAHM wife and periods where she does everything, and for sure she acknowledges that having more time means more phone means shittier brain and less motivated and more depression prone overall, but 1) that’s also periodically true of many/most wives with email jobs unless your wife is really a super striver at work (in which case it’s dumb to have her SAHM), but my wife was down this path pre-SAHM, 2) the same critique obviously also applies to me and my lazy non-striver antics at my job, and 3) SAHM wife still does a great job managing kids and making sure they are doing all the bullshit kids have to do now to be functional and develop normally in 2026. For me 3) is a reasonable trade to accept doing some dishes and cooking some times, and I basically never fold laundry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49662828)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 11:21 PM
Author: kink-friendly roommate

Cr. More time in the house means more messes for op to clean up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49662466)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 12:50 PM
Author: narrow-minded bateful state trump supporter

how involved were you in this "decision"?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660914)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:01 PM
Author: electric magenta school giraffe

My comp increase this year was 2x her salary (and I already made 90% of HHI) before. I told her if her if she didn’t enjoy her job, what’s the point? You don’t need to work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660970)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:00 PM
Author: Cordovan thriller set hunting ground

How much is she making now?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660969)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:01 PM
Author: electric magenta school giraffe

Part time job making around 45k

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49660975)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:20 PM
Author: Duck-like Thirsty Address Cuck

Lol don't u realize that housechores/nanny costs more than 45k. And you actually get better tax writeoff I'd she can make jobs for your llc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661390)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:37 PM
Author: dull point antidepressant drug

Congrats friend. You made it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661107)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 1:38 PM
Author: Drab stag film persian

seems a little late for that if the youngest is in elementary school lmao. say no.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661109)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:15 PM
Author: electric magenta school giraffe

We will see what unfolds. I do think it will be a QoL improvement for both of us (her more so obviously!)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661364)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:17 PM
Author: Concupiscible self-centered temple

Wait is this tree man?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661373)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:17 PM
Author: Wonderful library

bad call

the point isn't for her to make money, the point is so she doesn't lose total perspective over hard it is to make money, and to keep her busy so that retarded hamster wheel in her mind doesn't go amok

now she will have brunch with friends every day, compare husbands, spend your money, think of new ways to spend your money, fuck darnell then take you to the cleaners

rip

you should have kept her pushing up the rock like sisyphus

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661372)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:22 PM
Author: Duck-like Thirsty Address Cuck

Or she can plan your vacations. I.e. you tell her April 1-15 is vacation and she figures out how to spend it in antalya or Greece or Tel Aviv. Instead of pretending like her job makes her too busy to take care of that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661397)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:26 PM
Author: Wonderful library

here's the counterintuitive thing: it gets *easier* to do more stuff the more you do. it gets *harder* to do more stuff the less you do. when your whole day is open, doing the littlest thing becomes hell after awhile

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661415)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:44 PM
Author: Chrome ceo coldplay fan



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661477)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 7:05 PM
Author: medicated bespoke international law enforcement agency base



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661906)



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Date: February 11th, 2026 11:05 AM
Author: house-broken chapel gaming laptop

Guy speaking from experience

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49662982)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:27 PM
Author: soul-stirring mildly autistic mad-dog skullcap national security agency

this is retarded. having a SAHW makes them more dependent on you.

anyone that forces their wife to send emails for kikes when they don't need the money is part of the problem. renormalizing traditional single income families is 180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661417)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:27 PM
Author: Wonderful library

that dependency is exactly the argument she'll use in divorce court (for you the second time), enjoy!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661419)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:33 PM
Author: useless corner

Are you married?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661437)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:35 PM
Author: Slate hall community account

(((Consuela))) married a Guatamalan with the body shape of a microwave box

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661446)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:37 PM
Author: soul-stirring mildly autistic mad-dog skullcap national security agency

which he complains about all the time.

clearly the best resource for advice on a maintaining a happy marriage!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661456)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:38 PM
Author: Wonderful library

Yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661457)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 5:26 PM
Author: useless corner

You have kids? I don't know all the Consuela lore and will always think of you as Cock of Michael Obama btw.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661724)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:33 PM
Author: soul-stirring mildly autistic mad-dog skullcap national security agency

id rather than do the socially and personally optimal thing than fret about getting divorceraped when even in that worse case scenario i still would be fine. also prenups, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661438)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:39 PM
Author: Wonderful library

Good luck!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661460)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:31 PM
Author: Slate hall community account

here comes the opinion of a genetic dead end black piller, guys!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661432)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:39 PM
Author: electric magenta school giraffe

divorce just isn’t a big concern. Unthinkable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661461)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:46 PM
Author: Wonderful library

You may be the only poster who doesn’t come from a broken home

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661483)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:17 PM
Author: Duck-like Thirsty Address Cuck

I am not married but plan to have a sahw. Basically it means I can get head before work and after work(I work from home in my office). And if you think about it chores that a woman can do like raising kids costs 100k+ and you can write off all the taxes, make her a roth ira, solo 401k, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661375)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:32 PM
Author: Slate hall community account

but you will marry a mongolian

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661435)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:43 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal Unholy Legend Associate

Explain how you write off taxes or have a Roth ira for a sahm?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661474)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:44 PM
Author: Boyish startling halford

Aren't you like 45 by now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661476)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:55 PM
Author: Slate hall community account

he's 52, not flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661507)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:45 PM
Author: Wonderful library

lol you’re never having sex again

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661480)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:30 PM
Author: Hairraiser bipolar school cafeteria

Can answer questions. What do you want to know? She seems happy and has been a great wife and mother but it's not for everyone. Based on your other posts it appears you're already HNW and that's the main reason she's stopping work. No denying having a SAHW allows you to dedicate more time to your career, which typically means more travel. Which is why quite a few men above a certain career threshold have SAHWs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661424)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:34 PM
Author: electric magenta school giraffe

LOL the last thing I want to do is devote more time to my career, but probably need to. I’m also about to inherit a huge book from a retiring partner and income could easily double over the next few years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661444)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:43 PM
Author: Hairraiser bipolar school cafeteria

That's the thing, isn't it?

It is important to have clear expectations and communication around the expectations. For us it was a natural evolution that was kickstarted by having our first baby at the same time I was offered an expat gig. From that moment she never went back to work and it undeniably made it easier for me to be aggressive about work. Not too many years later it became clear if she returned to the workforce her income would barely reach 25% of what I was bringing home (and even worse now) the economics just wasn't there.

Some women will miss work. Some women feel the need to be generating wealth and assets of their own. In our case I do treat her well. Very well. Everything is comingled. Properties in both names.

Do suggest she find something to do outside the house and projects. In my wife's case it's exercise and fitness. Unfortunately her projects includes the rest of the family so our meals are the meals of health and fitness people rather than the search for umami. But I don't mind. It keeps her busy.

Also don't nitpick her spending. As long as she isn't unreasonably extravagant. We have cleaners and outsource stuff. I'm not having her scrubbing toilets just because she isn't working.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49661473)



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Date: February 10th, 2026 4:24 PM
Author: house-broken chapel gaming laptop

In like a decade when she’s banging the tennis trainer you’ll need to come back to this thread and remember how you got there.

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Date: February 10th, 2026 4:31 PM
Author: electric magenta school giraffe

Cmon man

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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:42 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal Unholy Legend Associate

It's good if she's conscientious and motivated. She should get involved in school stuff, pta, volunteer for kids extracurriculars etc. This can be a huge boost to the kids social lives since all those involved sahms form a clique and organize play dates and other social events for their kids, but she needs to be social and proactive.

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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:43 PM
Author: electric magenta school giraffe

Yea, she is already super involved with school volunteer stuff so I can see more of that

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Date: February 10th, 2026 3:57 PM
Author: violent quadroon brunch

lol SAHM for two kids? It’s only worth it as an investment if you have 4 or more

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Date: February 10th, 2026 4:14 PM
Author: Wonderful library



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Date: February 10th, 2026 4:30 PM
Author: electric magenta school giraffe

I don’t see this as an “investment” (which would be a terrible one) but as a luxury

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Date: February 10th, 2026 6:02 PM
Author: contagious site

she should keep a part time job for lols, but if she hates it, then stay at home looks pretty good. does she golf at all?

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Date: February 10th, 2026 6:15 PM
Author: electric magenta school giraffe

She likes to ride me with sometimes and mess around, but never tried to seriously play. My oldest daughter is a golf nut so I think she would enjoy picking it up

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Date: February 10th, 2026 8:45 PM
Author: pearl scourge upon the earth casino

Props to her for jumping on the SAHM mom train after the kids leave the house lol.

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Date: February 10th, 2026 9:25 PM
Author: dull point antidepressant drug

To be fair, of kids are / will be big into sports a lot of the heavy lifting is just now starting.

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Date: February 10th, 2026 11:37 PM
Author: Dead crotch

Why is she staying at home when both kids are in school all day? It would have made sense if the kids were both between 0-4 years old. Now she’s just cooking and cleaning which won’t keep her busy enough.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5833270&forum_id=2Reputation#49662485)