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Kids who do “travel” sports all kill selves in their 20s now
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Date: April 1st, 2026 9:34 AM Author: alcoholic tattoo plan accordingly gibberish and dupa
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Date: April 1st, 2026 9:40 AM Author: Contagious Love Of Her Life “Elite” youth sports is a deranged culture. It’s terrible for kids mental health and families overall.
Last year I moved my older kids to a club with a strong team but a culture that understands that kids have lives outside of soccer. The message I try to send them is that soccer is a fun activity and that’s it. I don’t want them to feel any pressure to perform well on the field out of obligation to someone else or that their value as a person is in any way tied to their athletic achievements. |
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Date: April 1st, 2026 10:11 AM Author: Onyx dashing azn indian lodge My son does travel soccer and he enjoys it, but some of the parents act like their kid is going to the world cup.
Example of this-our travel club breaks down into three levels- ECNL, Challenge, Classic. Within Challenge and classic, there are red and blue teams, with blue being the better of the two. My son isn't a world beater, but is ok, so he was ok being placed on classic. Within the classic, he missed the day they evaluated for blue vs. red, so he was placed on red. Little disappointed, but it's 12 year old soccer, so we told him to suck it up life isn't always fair. Coach realizes he should've been on blue, so he ends up playing in both red and blue games, which means that we've gone to a lot of soccer games since January.
The parents of some of the kids on blue are absolutely insane. For some reason, they like my kid because he's decent, but if any other red kid plays in a blue game, they get irate. Once, for a tournament, the club mixed red and blue together and had like half and half for two teams in a tournament and both teams lost a game and some of these parents refuse to have their kid even play on a mixed team any so little timmy doesn't have to play with kids who aren't good. Even if a blue player makes a mistake, they get pissed and throw their hands up like wtf is this kid doing.
Blue and red players are in same "pool" so we're all on a single group chat to coordinate games. Parents of blue and red are arguing about why the club seems to focus on blue team and not red etc. One time, a substitute coach had to coach a game and that coach sat on his phone the entire time during the game. Parents complained like you would not believe and one kid's parents didn't let him play in the next game to "punish" the club for the substitute coach's behavior. Like dude, who gives a shit. |
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Date: April 1st, 2026 10:22 AM Author: Contagious Love Of Her Life Spoiler alert: you have your kid playing at a toxic club. You have the right values but I wholeheartedly agree with your assessment of the lunacy of the parents. I left the “academy” scam. Current club also has 3 levels at every age and in both genders. But they don’t have an elite league badge like ECNL, GA or MLS Next. My kids are on their top teams which sound like a similar level as the team your son is on. I’d just much rather they be on the top teams at a club rather than the 2nd or 3rd team with delusional striver parents and a club that sees you just as revenue. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49785643) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 5:36 AM Author: Irate piazza sweet tailpipe this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788415) |
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Date: April 1st, 2026 10:27 AM Author: thirsty charcoal ladyboy library These people are just losers. They probably just want some way to brag to their "friends" and are using their kids for this purpose. Very sick world. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49785658) |
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Date: April 1st, 2026 5:29 PM Author: Contagious Love Of Her Life 100%. it's not even living vicariously through the kids. it's broadcasting your child's athletic feats as an indicator of how great a parent you are.
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Date: April 1st, 2026 11:30 PM Author: Onyx dashing azn indian lodge Yeah it’s sort of sad. Most of those who are this invested are retired military where the dad is retired and the wife works at some menial job. They more wealthy ones seem more grounded, but it’s probably bc they realize grades matter more than sports long term (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788234) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 5:32 AM Author: Narrow-minded native hairy legs nyuug is right about american wypipo. We deserve to die and I hope we burn in hell (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788414) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 8:41 AM Author: Onyx dashing azn indian lodge the craziest ones are all black. They've formed their own black group who sit together, etc. My wife and I are increasingly the only bridge between the white folk and black folk because we're the main ones that talk to them now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788549) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 2:51 PM Author: thirsty charcoal ladyboy library Ey cuh, you get an invite to the cookout? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49789433) |
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Date: April 1st, 2026 9:43 AM Author: passionate shaky mental disorder site there are so few routes left to maek it, what else do you want them to do? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49785530) |
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Date: April 1st, 2026 9:51 AM Author: carmine degenerate corner Sports, gambling on sports, and slutting it up on Onlyfans are the only career paths for kids these days (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49785548) |
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Date: April 1st, 2026 9:52 AM Author: passionate shaky mental disorder site dont forget becoming a streamer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49785552) |
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Date: April 1st, 2026 10:23 AM Author: carmine degenerate corner A damn fine career (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49785650) |
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Date: April 1st, 2026 5:31 PM Author: Pearly fluffy toilet seat dang (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49787020) |
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Date: April 1st, 2026 11:57 PM Author: maize bespoke plaza In all seriousness, if you have too much money for financial aid, your only hope of getting a scholarship for college is to be good at sports. Or if you are dead set on the Ivy tier of schools, it is far easier to be admitted if you are an athlete. So, there are strong incentives for parents to take it extremely seriously. Especially for boys, when there are so few scholarships available for any sport other than football. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788285) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 12:11 AM Author: vibrant point gaping I don't get the level of.delusion and idiocy where people think putting 10k per year into a sport for a 3% chance your kid is good enough and not.injured enough to get a scholarship is anything but delusions of grandeur.
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 6:57 AM Author: Contagious Love Of Her Life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788450) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2026 12:47 PM Author: maize bespoke plaza If you have a daughter that is good at a sport that has plenty of scholarships available, it's not an insane idea. I knew a dude who had four daughters, and all four of them got D1 scholarships in soccer. The amount he spent on travel sports growing up is far less than he would have spent on tuition. And the best one got a full ride at Stanford (where she was an All-American).
But yeah, for 95% of parents, the likelihood that you'll save enough on tuition to justify the money you spend on sports is very low. For boys, it's almost always a waste of money for anything other than football. |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 4:13 AM Author: maroon exciting marketing idea Do merit scholarships not exist anymore? I had SPS GPA but a baller SAT score and copped a full ride at a decent college. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788407) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2026 12:50 PM Author: maize bespoke plaza At prestigious schools, it is 100% need-based these days. Even at good flagship state schools, if merit-based aid exists at all, you need Ivy-caliber credentials to get it. If you want a full ride or close to it, you most likely will need to attend a TTT. (Although I think a full ride at a TTT is a better option than six figures in debt at an Ivy in most cases.) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49791186) |
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Date: April 4th, 2026 12:23 AM Author: Curious famous landscape painting range This. unless it's something like the Moorehead at scholarship at UNC or UMich honors college, impossible to get merit at any decent flagship state school (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49792793) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 1:59 PM Author: maize bespoke plaza And like I said, if you can cop the Morehead at UNC, you can probably cop HYP as well. It's insanely competitive. If you want a full merit scholarship, you probably better go to ECU. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49797943) |
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Date: April 1st, 2026 5:35 PM Author: Autistic bossy electric furnace huh, there's a direct correlation between all of these suicides and children who were fucked by shitlib covid policies, too (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49787027) |
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Date: April 1st, 2026 5:37 PM Author: Sepia rehab laser beams less goyim who cares (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49787032) |
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Date: April 1st, 2026 5:38 PM Author: Sapphire athletic conference senate Dude was probably vaxxed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49787036) |
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Date: April 1st, 2026 11:31 PM Author: boyish topaz keepsake machete Their dads fuck them. That's why (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788237) |
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Date: April 1st, 2026 11:49 PM Author: aqua beta stage dopamine Is it true the parents of travel sports kids are all having affairs with each other? That’s what the streets are saying (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788271) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 12:26 AM Author: vibrant point gaping Its crazy how competitive this stuff is now. My kid is 7 and does other sports during the year, but I put him in rec league soccer.in the spring.
There are two more serious leagues above him, and even still, all these kids have way better soccer skills then him.
He can play because he's probably 95% in speed and effort, but if my younger son was doing it he'd probably have to sit on the bench most of.the game - as a 7 year old - playing rec soccer....
Its kind of wild because I feel like when I grew up even fat and autistic kids could play until like 8th grade and now there are no non serious games starting at age 8. |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 7:02 AM Author: Contagious Love Of Her Life It is truly insane. Every year tryouts go the next year start in February/march and it’s a musical chairs of rosters. There are no consistent teams anymore. The days of playing with the same group building friendships and memories etc are gone. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788454) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 8:09 PM Author: pale concupiscible business firm wow this sounds just like every other aspect of america (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49790172) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 8:24 AM Author: Onyx dashing azn indian lodge It’s crazy how much better travel kids are than casuals. You almost have to do travel if you want your kid to make a school team now (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788526) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 9:47 AM Author: citrine federal striped hyena public bath For a sport like baseball, if a kids goes the little league route exclusively he's eg only going to see 10-15 actual practice pitches a week for batting practice. Once the season starts some teams don't practice at all. A kid could be amazingly gifted, but you'd never know because he'll never get enough reps to be proficient at hitting the ball. Zero chance this kid makes the highschool team. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788671) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 10:19 AM Author: Contagious Love Of Her Life cr. my son does exclusively rec baseball. there are like 3 practices and then it's just games where each kid gets a couple ABs and is involved in a handful of defensive plays.
Even travel ball, it seems like it's 2 practices per week and then tournaments every weekend. Wouldn't that time be better spent with more training and reps? |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 10:39 AM Author: citrine federal striped hyena public bath The lack of reps is what led us to a travel ball team. I had no idea what I was getting into (I didn't like baseball as a kid). I just wanted more reps for the little league season. First week was Wtf did I walk into...
For select we only do batting once a week and it's mostly live at bats. I have two kids playing ball, so when one is at practice I'll bring the off-day kid and get 2-3 buckets of balls off of the machine at the facility. That helps dramatically. I should also add that in a place like the pnw an indoor facility is essential, and justifies some of the costs. I see lots of highschool kids there even late on a Friday night. That type of culture is what I'm really going for. I'm not trying to get my kid to MLB. I want him to learn how to handle stress and see that hard work does pay off. |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 9:51 AM Author: Cracking stage national security agency if your kid is playing high school & college soccer, they are never going pro. The pipeline to professional athlete for soccer doesn't take the traditional route that football, basketball, and baseball do (e.g. high school --> college --> pro or minor league) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788681) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 10:16 AM Author: Contagious Love Of Her Life Cr. Even for MLS, kids are signed at 15 years old. It's becoming more and more rare for American kids to play professionally coming out of college. In the most recent MLS draft, only 6 total American players were drafted to MLS teams.
That said, for most, playing D1 is the pipe dream and not necessarily being a pro. Even that is becoming increasingly challenging because the rosters are packed with players who went through top European youth academies but didn't make the pro squad. There are now tons of top level academy players who forego playing for their high schools just to end up playing D3 soccer. It's insanely competitive now.
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 10:17 AM Author: Sapphire athletic conference senate So why can't America put together a competitive international mens team? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788731) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 10:22 AM Author: Contagious Love Of Her Life because you need special players and a cohesive soccer culture. Pulisic is borderline special and the rest of our team are basically serviceable players on top club teams. Our country doesn't have a soccer culture. We have completely ignorant parents whose kids only know soccer from playing in a structured environment for coaches/trainers who don't give a shit about them.
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 10:24 AM Author: Sapphire athletic conference senate I guess to your point or whoever's point above, it's better to just be out in the field every day after school playing with your buds and getting reps in than traveling around? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788746) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 2:17 PM Author: Onyx dashing azn indian lodge Even that doesn’t Make sense. Even if only 15% of us is into soccer, that’s more ppl than the entire country of Argentina. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49789339) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 2:22 PM Author: Contagious Love Of Her Life ok and 10% of the MLB is dominican despite the country having a population of 11 million.
sports doesnt work that way.
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 9:54 AM Author: fishy diverse school cafeteria shitlib (Dad who took out life insurance policies on his kids) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788690) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 1:22 AM Author: citrine federal striped hyena public bath I doubt any of my kids will be that good. They're safe. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788357) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 7:42 AM Author: hairraiser doctorate It’s all so tiresome. Kind of crazy that you can be that depressed at 25 to be honest. You have so much life ahead of you! There’s no way the dude could have walked a mile in my shoes. Good riddance. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788490) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 7:48 AM Author: Sapphire athletic conference senate I doubt you could even walk a mile in your shoes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788495) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 8:37 AM Author: hairraiser doctorate I walked home yesterday and it was like 3.5 miles. Some of those neighborhoods are sketchy too. It go progressively nicer as I meandered my way back home. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788544) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 9:30 AM Author: Talented cobalt stead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788632) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 10:19 AM Author: Splenetic kitchen quadroon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788733) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 2:54 PM Author: Violent Garnet Nowag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49789440) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 6:14 PM Author: saffron tanning salon filthpig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49789970) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 11:25 AM Author: Autistic bossy electric furnace to be fair, the so much life that remains sucks compared to the life you've had to that point (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788835) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 7:45 AM Author: Walnut razzmatazz associate hall dupa does this with girls lmao. oh wow great pace brenda (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788493) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 8:07 AM Author: Contagious Love Of Her Life No one is named Brenda anymore. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788507) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 8:50 AM Author: Ungodly internet-worthy sanctuary coldplay fan the link has nothing to do with travel sports and does not support any claim against travel sports (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788560) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 9:17 AM Author: fishy diverse school cafeteria shitlib What link are you looking at my man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788607) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 8:07 PM Author: Ungodly internet-worthy sanctuary coldplay fan the OP x link, my man. i see a college athlete who was maybe depressed, or got hit in the head too many times and had CTE. i don't see how travel sports at a pre-college level had any bearing on this. feel free to explain how i'm wrong (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49790167) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 9:40 AM Author: self-centered field halford for basketball travel aau is a money racket and 100% unnecessary, at least up to 8th grade. i can't speak past that / college recruiting, but for sure when your kid is in middle school you don't have to stay at a motel 6 in florida to do some stupid 'national' event.
my kid got his invite to visit lalu based off their staff being at a game to watch a kid on the other team. it was school ball, not even local aau. |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 9:55 AM Author: glittery underhanded faggotry Baseball is the most unnecessary. Before a certain age. Common misconception is that you can be small and still succeed. Yeah there are 1 or 2 freaks like Altuve. Look at Altuve with his shirt off. He’s compact and has freak genetics. Your 5’9 son is not going to be Altuve.
Baseball some kid who grows to 5’9 at age 13 (me) is going to dominate. Then when he stops growing (me) and is 5’9 in college and the guy who grew to be 6’7 is throwing 94 with movement and looks like he’s half way to the plate when the ball leaves his hand and you can barely think long enough to square the ball up you’re fucked.
Makes it laughable having your 8 year old play in some elite travel league.
That shit is fine once you get on the big field at 13 or 14 but lmaooo at age 8. Kids who want to succeed at baseball should be outside all day hitting into the net with their dads, eating, trying to get as big and strong as possible.
Parents are retarded. “My 8 year old plays in an elite travel team and we spend all day for him to get 4 at bats and 3 swings! He’s great!” |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 9:58 AM Author: citrine federal striped hyena public bath Our team doesn't even really bother evaluating kids for colleges until they're 15. Lol at some 9u dad asking about scouts (and I've heard this).
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 10:00 AM Author: glittery underhanded faggotry And I don’t disagree at all. 13/14/15 I just mean they have to be in the high school big field mix before even thinking about “elite” travel teams. It’s good to expose kids to the fact that talent goes beyond your school district boundaries for perspective but lmao at doing that at 8. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788702) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 10:31 AM Author: citrine federal striped hyena public bath Most baseball travel teams start at around 9-10 with a limited schedule. But even at that age it's still not uncommon to see kids playing in the dirt. And travel teams come on various forms and sizes. You're seeing more little league districts putting together all star teams and registering them for tournaments. I think that's a good mix. Little leagues that accommodate travel ball schedules are also more common.
But then you get select teams with indoor basketball courts and weight room staff. The team I posted below has everything. They charge $7k a year and the kid has to sign a contract stating that not only will they NOT play little league but no other sports period. For 11 year olds??? That extreme specialization at such an early age is nuts. Of course that's no comparison to competitive dance which solves the conflict problem by leaving the girls zero free time.
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 9:58 AM Author: Cracking stage national security agency cr. Batting is the most important thing for these kids little league teams. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788698) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 10:21 AM Author: citrine federal striped hyena public bath Dad who's kids is playing for an Arizona school said if your kid can hit a team will always find a place for him. That said, it's incredibly frustrating to see basic fielding errors ruin games for kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788739) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 9:58 AM Author: aromatic confused jew puppy Now you can just get AI Mustard App analysis of your throwing and hitting mechanics and leg lengthening surgery and you don't need these fatass "coaches" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788699) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 10:02 AM Author: glittery underhanded faggotry 100%. Instagram has made me a better hitter now at 40 not flame than I was at 20. I rarely had video of myself hitting as a kid. Now you can use your phone to analyze. “Swing down on the ball!” Now you see it’s more of a flick of the wrist and allow your body to do the talking. It’s insane.
Teacherman has great shit on Instagram. |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 10:32 AM Author: citrine federal striped hyena public bath I was going to say teacherman! Of course team coaches still call him controversial. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788759) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 10:37 AM Author: glittery underhanded faggotry My theory is they just want all kids to be the same bc it makes their lives easier. No one good truly swings down on the ball. I was one of those guys who never struck out and always hit in high average. I had a year in college where I was like “I’m going to the fuckin bigs.” And scouts looked at me like “hey man you were third in the conference in batting average but all of those seeing eye singles doubles in the gap are getting caught by players of caliber. Keep swinging down on the ball bro!”
That’s the reality. Scouts want guys with pop. Sometimes “stats” don’t tell the whole story. Chicks dig the long ball. |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 10:44 AM Author: citrine federal striped hyena public bath Bat knob for all good hitters, no matter the stance starting out, always points at the catchers foot when they load. That little tidbit is huge. The flick is something coaches hate too.
I know a dad who's kid was an amazing pitcher. They took a team to the little league world series and his kid was their best pitcher. He got a full ride but not a whiff from scouts. They were far more interested in their 3rd pitcher that had a flamethrower arm but also a ton of walks. When I found out his kid was now selling real estate that put things in perspective. |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 2:43 PM Author: glittery underhanded faggotry This. 180000. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49789416) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 2:21 PM Author: Narrow-minded native hairy legs I had a year in college where I was like “I’m going to the fuckin bigs.” tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49789357) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 2:44 PM Author: Contagious Love Of Her Life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49789423) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 2:49 PM Author: glittery underhanded faggotry The delusional mind of a cocky singles and doubles hitter who is quickly shut the fuck up when a real outfielder does a 40 yard full sprint to catch his line drive with one hand non-chalant tp. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49789430) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 4:03 PM Author: galvanic mexican Funny story: my small rural Midwest HS team dominated the small rural Midwest HS scene, and we had a few real arrogant young studs and would sit around debating the merits of playing at ASU vs Cal State Fullerton vs LSU etc. Local tournaments with a couple big league scouts in attendance. So our coach gets us into one of those spring break tournaments in Florida and we are all fired up. Ended up playing teams from elite academies and 6,000-kid high schools from across the south and got absolutely assraped into oblivion literally every game ljl. (One classmate played at a decent D1 school, a couple others D3 and junior college.) I always think of that when parents think their kids are hot shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49789563) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 6:13 PM Author: glittery underhanded faggotry 180. These are 180 experiences you need in Hs. Not necessarily at 8 years old but high school is the sweet spot for this. I can’t imagine what this is like now in the instagram world but back then you would think you’re hot shit. One summer in college wooden bat league this dude from another team played JUCO in the south and went yard 4 times against us in a double header, two of them were against our pitcher from a low level DI who was a stud growing up.
That JUCO guy I looked him up a few years later to see what happened to him. He ended up going to some top DIII and hit like .250 and never did anything.
Puts it into perspective how good guys are when you open it up to the whole country. Now imagine the talent of someone like Bonds lmao. |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 11:27 AM Author: Autistic bossy electric furnace being on teams is fun, memorable, and meaningful in how kids turn out (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49788836) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 2:43 PM Author: glittery underhanded faggotry Wrong at 8. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49789421) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2026 11:32 AM Author: Autistic bossy electric furnace not really 8 year olds can have fun, too |
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Date: April 3rd, 2026 11:50 AM Author: glittery underhanded faggotry That’s my point friend-“fun.” They can have “fun” at the beach too. When determining whether travel ball is worth it or not, in the finite time you have developing, at age 8 you will get much more out of taking 100 swings in the backyard with your dad than you will being from westchester spending two nights in a hotel with your travel team in Buffalo at the Elite Youth Tournament getting 8 plate appearances three of which you walk.
At age 15-16 thats different. |
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Date: April 3rd, 2026 1:06 PM Author: Autistic bossy electric furnace let the parents decide. yes, many parents go overboard. so what? parents get to fuck up. i played little league as a young kid. it was great. |
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Date: April 3rd, 2026 4:28 PM Author: glittery underhanded faggotry Little league is not travel ball. Little league is essentially default. Travel ball is travel ball (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49791597) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2026 5:12 PM Author: Autistic bossy electric furnace we traveled a little, but i agree it's a lot different now nbd more memories sleeping over and traveling with friends |
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Date: April 5th, 2026 2:48 AM Author: glittery underhanded faggotry We are on the same page. Yeah you travel in all stars those are great memories but the regular season for little league is just your town. That you had to play for baseball clique and bragging rights. Of course playing in a little league regional game is gonna be memorable but it’s not considered travel ball.
Travel ball is driving 100 miles to play in some tournament against similarly shit teams who you could have just played in the next county.
Travel ball gets good when you’re fully developed and now need to see that the world is bigger than your small town. You don’t need to do that at 8 where the biggest kid is going to be hitting bombs but will stop growing at age 13 and end up getting cut from JV. |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 2:21 PM Author: Self-absorbed Mind-boggling Church you sure youre not thinking about basketball dood (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49789355) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 2:51 PM Author: Duck-like Buck-toothed Heaven There aren't really travel teams for football. 7 on 7 but its just gay touch football and not that serious (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49789434) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 2:56 PM Author: thirsty charcoal ladyboy library The more I hear about "youth sports" and travel leagues and all the PE investment in these leagues, the more I want to move to a 40 acre ranch and homeschool my children.
"Hey kid, you like baseball? Do you want to turn it into a job at age 10?" Think about the mindset behind this. Totally and utterly insane. |
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Date: April 2nd, 2026 4:07 PM Author: Contagious Love Of Her Life cr. treating kids like they are professional athletes when they are 8 years old is insane. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49789578) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2026 4:33 PM Author: Onyx dashing azn indian lodge These parents are all duped into the collage scholarship for sports idea as well. If your kid is decent enough to even get a college scholarship offer, it will more than likely be a partial scholarship from a TTT division II school who only has sports teams to increase enrollment. Some of these schools literally have 50 players on the basketball team getting $10k in scholarships off a posted price of $45k. Thing is, the school only ever expects to get paid half of that anyways. Parents get to brag that little Tommy is getting a scholarship, but he’s still taking out the same student loan debt that any other kid who applied to go there has anyways. It’s all fraud (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49791603) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2026 9:00 PM Author: maize bespoke plaza It's like I said above: If the parents have money, their only realistic hope for getting a scholarship at a non-TTT is for their kid to get an athletic scholarship. And sometimes it works out. I knew a wealthy family who spent a total of $0 on college tuition for their four daughters because they all get soccer scholarships (with three of the four at PAC-12 schools). But that's a top 0.1% outcome. For the vast majority of parents, if they get a scholarship at all, they will end up overpaying at some D2 TTT and would have been better off paying sticker at their flagship state school. If it's a boy, you're almost certainly lighting money on fire if he plays any sport other than football. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49792332) |
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Date: April 4th, 2026 12:22 AM Author: Curious famous landscape painting range this. neighbor was bragging that his kid got a "scholarship" to some LAC for hockey (guy has been traveling with the kids for the 8 years, easily $200k+ invested).
his wife confessed to my wife that the "scholarship" was simply the DIII hockey coach tagging the kids for his team and they were going to get at most $5-10k/annum in "needs based" aid. what a joke |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 2:05 PM Author: maize bespoke plaza Even then, if the kid is kind of dumb and manages to score admission to a NESCAC school where they wouldn't have otherwise been competitive, maybe you can justify the cost. But even then it only makes sense if money is no object and you want your kid to go to the best possible school. Spending $200k to attend a shitty D3 TTT never makes sense. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49797967) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 2:10 PM Author: thirsty charcoal ladyboy library This reminds me of people that spend $10k more on a car because it's a hybrid and will "save them tons on gas." But it'll take them 10 years to get right side up on their investment. Totally retarded. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49797978) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 4:23 PM Author: Contagious Love Of Her Life hockey might be the most insane. there is basically no chance of playing in the NHL. There are presently only like 195 americans in the NHL. Even to play D1, the vast majority of recruits play junior hockey out of high school before going to college. And the cost to play high level youth hockey is insane. Between equipment, team fees, and extra training these people are spending $30k per year.
i had a really odd conversation with a friend whose kid is a very good U12 hockey player. His approach seemed to be that we should treat these kids like they are all training to become professionals. I walked him through some of the numbers and was like there are 12 top level teams in our state for your kid's age. Each team has 18 kids. Do you really think there are 200+ elite pro level hockey players every year from just our state?
There are only a total of like 1,500 D1 scholarships for hockey and that's across 4 years and only 60% are Americans because they heavily recruit foreigners. So like total each year only like 200 or so graduating high school seniors will end up with a college hockey scholarship.
So in all likelihood each year probably 10% of the "top youth hockey league" will end up with a scholarship and maybe 1 total will ever play in the NHL.
He refused to accept this and insisted all of these kids will play D1 hockey and a large percentage will play professionally.
I think people really underestimate what it takes to be a professional athlete. If a kid isn't absolutely dominating the other best kids at his age, it is extremely unlikely that he will play D1 or be a pro.
The takeaway is that youth sports parents should focus much less on their kid's performance and more on the positive lessons they can learn from participating. |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 4:25 PM Author: thirsty charcoal ladyboy library "His approach seemed to be that we should treat these kids like they are all training to become professionals."
Truly insane. |
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Date: April 7th, 2026 10:54 PM Author: Onyx dashing azn indian lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49802637) |
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Date: April 7th, 2026 11:03 PM Author: Cerebral up-to-no-good box office coffee pot This was my childhood and I am still Ruined (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49802652) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 12:45 PM Author: maize bespoke plaza There are 65 D1 men's hockey teams in the U.S. The scholarship limit is 25 (it used to be 18 until this season). That means that there is a theoretical maximum of 1,625 D1 hockey scholarships. In practice, the number is almost certainly much less than that. Most schools probably do not award anywhere close to 25 scholarships. If you award a men's scholarship, you have to also award a women's scholarship due to Title IX. In many cases, you have to award multiple women's scholarships because most colleges have more women than men. Plus you can't be competitive in football and men's basketball if you don't use all of your scholarships, and those are the two sports that actually make money. So, at most schools, all men's sports other than football and men's basketball get only a handful of scholarships. I would be very surprised if there are more than 800-900 D1 men's hockey scholarships in the country. It's probably even less than that.
To me, the only way youth hockey makes sense is if the parents have a shit ton of money and they want to increase his chances of landing at a NESCAC school or something. They don't award athletic scholarships, but it's far easier to be admitted as a recruited athlete, and you don't have to be that good to play at the NESCAC level. But then you spend a fortune on hockey (or your other sport of choice) and then spent a fortune on private school tuition at a school that most laypeople have never heard of. The economics only make sense if you are so loaded that you are willing to spend 7 figures so your kid can get a degree from Colby. |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 3:10 PM Author: self-centered field halford a lot of the adults are stuck in the past. the talent density for nearly every sport is insane. what would have been a lower tier d1 recruit 30yrs ago is now is a d3/naia type.
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Date: April 8th, 2026 3:56 PM Author: Contagious Love Of Her Life cr. it's for sure true of soccer. For the top club teams, 20 years ago, all of those kids would play D1. Now, a couple do and the rest are playing D3 even though all of them are much better than all of the players from back then. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49804593) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 4:01 PM Author: glittery underhanded faggotry Meh baseballs about the same but everyone played baseball 30 years ago. Football is still the biggest and fastest.
I think the secondary sports like soccer, hockey and lacrosse you’re correct. RSF played on some overseas national team lmao. |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 4:03 PM Author: Cracking stage national security agency 20+ years ago, the best college soccer players played D2 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49804608) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 4:55 PM Author: Contagious Love Of Her Life ? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49804737) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 9:05 PM Author: maize bespoke plaza For men's soccer, yes. Women's soccer is one sport where it might actually make sense to invest if your kid has some talent. Women's soccer is probably the single biggest beneficiary of Title IX. It's one of the cheapest sports, so if you need to balance men and women's scholarships while spending as little money as possible, a soccer team is one of the best ways to do it. Now nearly every school in the country has a women's soccer team, and most of them have a full set of scholarships.
To be clear, it still probably only makes sense if your kid is exceptionally talented or if money is no object and you want to give her an admissions boost to an Ivy/NESCAC school. But you're not just lighting money on fire like you are with most men's sports.
And yeah, if you're a boy, soccer is a waste of time for college scholarships unless you are Christian Pulisic. Aside from the fact that it has become more competitive, there are less scholarships available as schools cut men's scholarships due to Title IX. |
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Date: April 9th, 2026 1:32 PM Author: Contagious Love Of Her Life cr. less competition on the girls side and the same # of scholarships and D3 rosters spots.
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Date: April 10th, 2026 2:46 PM Author: maize bespoke plaza Actually, there are far more scholarships on the girls' side for all sports other than basketball. Football and men's basketball consume all the scholarships for men. To comply with Title IX, colleges give out tons of scholarships in various bullshit sports for women but practically no men's scholarships to sports other than football and basketball. The fact that there are fewer girl playing sports helps, too, but not nearly as much as the far greater supply of scholarships. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49808946) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 6:16 PM Author: Walnut razzmatazz associate hall I think the hockey trap is the barrier to entry. So many kids weed themselves out of this sport in the first place and no one picks it up. We've all seen stories of the best point guard in history just dominating at volleyball or whatever. No one transitions into hockey so I think the parents set themselves up for this failure thinking that if the kids stick with it they'll be a huge success even if we aren't talking nhl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49805001) |
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Date: April 10th, 2026 11:08 AM Author: Contagious Love Of Her Life cr. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5852294&forum_id=2Reputation#49808468) |