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Girl let me read her Hinge, Tinder messages and texts. My god.
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:37 PM Author: Razzmatazz Crusty Base I think the social media dating revolution has created an army of beta-male bots. I understand that many of these messages were just feelers thrown out there to 400 girls at once but still some hard stuff to read.
"What makes [Girl] tick?"
"Hey, [Girl], how is your week going?"
"A beautiful girl like you must get 100 messages a day so what does it take to get through?"
Then god help her if she messages back and then stops.
"Hey what are you up to this weekend?" ..."Hey - free this week?" ..."I think we would have a great time, what days are good for you?"
She had messages from like 20-30 different dudes across platforms/text so I can see how it is hard to differentiate but all of these messages just came across as pathetic.
She's a cute girl but these messages made her seem like Helen of Troy, cannot be a winning strategy. |
Date: August 25th, 2015 3:38 PM Author: adulterous brunch pocket flask this is so true. I have bumble and experience the same thing from girls. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622584) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:40 PM Author: charismatic associate some of those aren't too bad what are bros supposed to do (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622593) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:44 PM Author: bearded coiffed partner house the industrial revolution and its consequences.
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:46 PM Author: Razzmatazz Crusty Base That's a good question. I have never done any of the apps and am a single dude that works a lot so I am considering doing it.
I have cold messaged a few fbook chicks though with good results. Usually commenting on one or two of their pics is a good opener. I would think something witty has to be better than the shit I was seeing on her phone. |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:52 PM Author: Iridescent infuriating pozpig yeah, this is the problem I run into. When they have zero information about themselves other than their age and a couple pics of them, wtf are you supposed to say other than the baseline generic shit (job, city, how they are doing today, etc, basically, the basic shit you need to know to start getting to know someone).
I know some guys spit some weirdo random hipster shit that seems to work sometimes, but I could never pull that off. |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:56 PM Author: dashing hilarious kitchen sometimes i think this is exactly the problem - when you're tailoring your messages to them, trying to see what they're giving you that you can respond to or bounce off of, it makes you seem empty. try just writing what's on your mind, as though you already know them (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622716) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:58 PM Author: Iridescent infuriating pozpig yeah but I don't know them, and I don't know anything about them. I say this as someone who can easily come up with some random shit - it would just come off as weird if they don't know me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622727) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:59 PM Author: Aquamarine Racy Shitlib Old Irish Cottage aren't ipods crazy? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622734) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:37 PM Author: razzle lavender pisswyrm hospital was waiting for it. ty. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28623005) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:02 PM Author: dashing hilarious kitchen so don't think about how it would come off. if they don't like it, fuck em. that's the attitude people want to see you have, and what's more, it's legit, because there is literally nothing at stake in their evaluation of you. this risk-aversion is killing you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622755) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:04 PM Author: Razzmatazz Crusty Base "Love your pics - where did you find such a baller selfie stick?" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622776) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:30 PM Author: Iridescent infuriating pozpig lol, I just tried a variation of this on a girl I really wanted to respond on bumble, and she responded. "ha ha" but it is a start (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622971) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:39 PM Author: Razzmatazz Crusty Base "What's your number? Or do you prefer carrier pigeons? I typically fax." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28623014) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:44 PM Author: Iridescent infuriating pozpig she just suggested a place we should meet, and wanted to know if I could do it this week. Thanks brah (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28623044) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:51 PM Author: Razzmatazz Crusty Base *high fives* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28623078) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 9:48 PM Author: navy passionate area lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28625041) |
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Date: August 26th, 2015 3:22 AM Author: flushed heaven *puts gun in mouth* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28626950) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:17 PM Author: Anal opaque stage alpha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622891) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:52 PM Author: Aquamarine Racy Shitlib Old Irish Cottage "you're gorgeous. I'd like to rip (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622685) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:11 PM Author: erotic exciting police squad state Be assertive.
"Let's go to XYZ restaurant tomorrow. Then we'll go do ABC."
She's already imagining it without even deciding whether yes or no, and so she decides yes. Don't even waste time with "hey" because that makes it read like everything else. Just say where and when. Make sure it doesn't sound shitty. |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:15 PM Author: Razzmatazz Crusty Base I think this is probably the correct approach and how I conduct business IRL. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622871) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:17 PM Author: Aquamarine Racy Shitlib Old Irish Cottage They get skittish if you're too aggressive about meeting. Probably not the case for Chad but that's a rare case (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622894) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:44 PM Author: bearded coiffed partner house not rare for your future wife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28623046) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:47 PM Author: Concupiscible indirect expression travel guidebook (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28623057) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:48 PM Author: garnet business firm immigrant Why do women require men to sing and dance for them? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622652) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:50 PM Author: adulterous brunch pocket flask how do gays go about it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622664) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:54 PM Author: garnet business firm immigrant "face pic?" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622695) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:55 PM Author: adulterous brunch pocket flask lol. is that really all you two say to eachother? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622707) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:58 PM Author: garnet business firm immigrant that was just a fun example. I actually meet a guy based on a deal-sealing face pic and we dated for 4 months so you never know. Some guys literally will just say "top?" Or w/e and don't even care what he looks like. Other guys insist on getting drinks first (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622725) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:01 PM Author: adulterous brunch pocket flask my god. aren't you afraid for your safety? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622750) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:05 PM Author: garnet business firm immigrant Lol I don't do this much anymore. I'm afraid of being kidnapped by some halfordian psychopath (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622780) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:06 PM Author: adulterous brunch pocket flask I meant aids. but I guess that too (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622783) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 10:34 PM Author: garnet business firm immigrant lol at having unprotected sex, especially with strangers. Are you daft? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28625407) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:56 PM Author: Iridescent infuriating pozpig I'm assuming this is after you've viewed multiple cock pics, right? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622714) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:59 PM Author: garnet business firm immigrant Probably not. At least for me a nasty face is a deal breaker, if that's bad I don't even need to see the COCK (plenty of pretty boys with cocks to look at) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622732) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:51 PM Author: Razzmatazz Crusty Base A surprisingly high number of them actually dont, there just isn't much of a choice on those apps - you have to do something to get their attention. Even my buddies that are very good looking still had to play the text game on there to get anywhere. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622676) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:56 PM Author: garnet business firm immigrant I'm so bad a texting, I'd be fucked if I were straight. I wish I were as comfortable texting as I were poasting. It seems dumb to jus NOWAG hot guys who are bad a texting (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622708) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 3:59 PM Author: Swollen Slate Fat Ankles It's called the dancing monkey stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622735) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:00 PM Author: garnet business firm immigrant Are they children? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622740) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:09 PM Author: dashing hilarious kitchen yes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622816) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:37 PM Author: scarlet house-broken point boiling water Where's that JJC "dancing monkey" post (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28623002) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:53 PM Author: Shimmering university therapy Thanks for the encouragement guys. I called in sick for work and feel a lot better. I think the trap I fell into last night is what Tyler calls the "dancing-monkey" stage, where you just want to entertain the girls. I was trying too hard to make them laugh. This is an issue I've been struggling with big time. How do you develop attraction without falling into that "dancing monkey" frame?
JJC "Prodigy"
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Date: August 25th, 2015 8:06 PM Author: scarlet house-broken point boiling water ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28624269) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:17 PM Author: motley filthy kitty cat they have a lot of suitors so they want someone that stands out from the rest. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28622897) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 10:00 PM Author: Tan Ungodly Lodge Stain Convert to Mormonism and they'll do that for you instead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28625113) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:16 PM Author: motley filthy kitty cat now that I've been on bumble for a bit, I can see why girls don't respond to those lame "hey " "hey whats up" type messages. They get too many messages to respond to so you need to differentiate yourself.
This worked really well for me when I used tinder:
"hey (name), where should we go on our first date?"
You have to cut through the clutter. Be direct and a little bold. |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 4:52 PM Author: Bright judgmental nibblets liquid oxygen Would you say you're unHinged? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28623082) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 10:01 PM Author: Sticky glassy degenerate giraffe Just do organic dating scene with friends of friends and randoms you meet out in the world. Social media interactions always suck, even when you think you have some clever opening line. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28625121) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 10:33 PM Author: arousing pale range foreskin just do buy ur own land with money you earned honestly with hard work and sweat and grow ur own crops and live in tune with nature and be jesus (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28625396) |
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Date: August 25th, 2015 10:38 PM Author: duck-like antidepressant drug awesome. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28625436) |
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Date: August 26th, 2015 3:30 AM Author: Outnumbered dilemma I looked through a Chad's phone once and it was literally hundreds of messages from dozens of different girls. Completely insane. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2972656&forum_id=2#28626965) |