"But you two hate each other."

After thinking about for a few minutes she goes, "Do you know how good the sex will be if you guys ever . . . ".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3179845&forum_id=2#30162586)

She was down immediately, had probably known I was attracted to her (though I'd told no one). When we fucked she was the lamest partner I've ever had. I quickly lost interest in her.

In truth, the nearer to her that I got, the more disfigured her character appeared. But I hadn't been able to admit this about her before, while fixating on her ass. She soon turned out to be as repeatedly insouciant about my feelings as Azn HR girl seems to be about yours. I had half-known this about her all along, that she harbored a mean streak, but figured "Since I'm her supervisor, she'll defer meekly to me under any circumstance."

I only throw this out there to give you a counter perspective on the notion that the sex will magically be incredible if you and she ever fuck. Unless Azn HR girl apologized sincerely and profusely for cancelling, you had better compartmentalize now or never because, I believe, she knows that you've caught feelings. . .and like I said before, you may be more intelligent than her in more areas of cognitive performance, but she seems to inhabit the next higher weight class above yours in terms of emotional intelligence, but possibly worse, may be being manipulative out of some irrational dislike of you.

Now you seem to wish to show her she can't mess with you; but she already did and, sadly it appears, with an artistry that is hard to deny her. No disrespect, but this woman sounds crazy, which is a recipe for inexcusable amounts of wasted time and energy on your part, if you do not get a handle on why it is that you feel you must possess her in particular.

Good luck, My Friend

Find yourself a modest woman who will honor her man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3179845&forum_id=2#30162881)

By the way, the black female coworker may have instinctively taken sides for all women when she guided you to thinking of how incredible the sex will be, surely she knew a woman's power in this sort of situation lay precisely down there, but you're good enough to enjoy similar, counterbalancing counsel from a man, and your power resides in your vast superiority over her at earning money. Keep it real if your'e tired of her playing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3179845&forum_id=2#30164383)

2. She's the office manager, not a paralegal. She was promoted from a lowlife HR scrub. She knows exactly how much I make and I don't think the delta between our salaries is anything for me to brag about.

3. The black paralegal has more loyalty to me than to her. We're tight. Paralegal and cunt are not.

4. I enjoy, appreciate and respect your advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3179845&forum_id=2#30165303)