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345 days of sobriety.. move out of Sober Living House?

I signed a lease for Dec 31st in an apartment for me and my ...
Embarrassed to the bone peach hell pistol
  12/12/16
DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!! DO NOT FU...
Mauve thriller box office kitty cat
  12/12/16
fleshlight, you'd acquired a blank slate: a new account, a n...
Silver Very Tactful Resort
  12/12/16
If not flame he's right. That's insane to marry someone you'...
cream concupiscible nursing home philosopher-king
  12/12/16
what's an acceptable period? 6 months? 1 year?
Pale principal's office skinny woman
  09/18/18
how do you already have another fiancee
galvanic narrow-minded hall
  12/12/16
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boyish ivory ladyboy lettuce
  12/12/16
BAC
odious tan useless brakes
  12/12/16
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Passionate mad cow disease sanctuary
  12/12/16
AAmo here - wait so you've been sober 1 year and plan on get...
Stubborn know-it-all university
  12/12/16
yeah... and i've done all 12 steps (i know last 3 steps are ...
Embarrassed to the bone peach hell pistol
  12/12/16
JFC - the only way this could be worse is if the girl is als...
Stubborn know-it-all university
  12/12/16
For the love of God THIS
Rusted Magical Ticket Booth Hairy Legs
  12/12/16
so as much as i feel i had improved this past year, i will i...
Embarrassed to the bone peach hell pistol
  12/12/16
Yes
Stubborn know-it-all university
  12/12/16
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Silver Very Tactful Resort
  12/12/16
how would u react if the relationship starts failing
angry temple boiling water
  12/12/16
you're totally nuts. bring the tracker back online
Violent Crystalline Tank Menage
  12/12/16
wtf no
razzle vengeful piazza masturbator
  12/12/16
uhh no WMTP
Scarlet misunderstood dragon ceo
  12/12/16
3.5 months seems fast whether you're in recovery or not. In ...
doobsian startling french chef
  12/12/16
Don't get married
Passionate mad cow disease sanctuary
  12/12/16
LJL @ addictionmos
razzmatazz twinkling international law enforcement agency
  12/12/16
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Hyperventilating Private Investor
  12/12/16
Also - please God don't tell us this is a girl you met in so...
Stubborn know-it-all university
  12/12/16
Someone copy paste the full story on your fiancee please.
stimulating hospital
  12/12/16
i haven't posted about her
Embarrassed to the bone peach hell pistol
  12/12/16
You gotta give it to us now.
stimulating hospital
  12/12/16
did u meet in recovery bro
Aphrodisiac tanning salon organic girlfriend
  12/12/16
nope. she's a normie.. never touched drugs doesn't even ...
Embarrassed to the bone peach hell pistol
  12/12/16
Why not just DATE for another 9 months and then get engaged?
Mauve thriller box office kitty cat
  12/12/16
hold up bro describe why you want to get married, girl, etc.
bossy fuchsia azn brunch
  12/12/16
You haven't even lived with her? Jfc you're still in the...
alcoholic base
  12/12/16
i knew a couple who got engaged after knowing each other for...
Honey-headed Nubile Public Bath Mexican
  12/12/16
jfc dont get married after 3.5 months wtf are you doing dude
Gay Hyperactive Pit Puppy
  12/12/16
I dont know about marrying her so quickly, but you should de...
curious bespoke rigor jew
  12/12/16
i thought moving in with a chick helps me transition out of ...
Embarrassed to the bone peach hell pistol
  12/12/16
Man, even the best woman will bring you aggravation that liv...
curious bespoke rigor jew
  12/12/16
good advice.
Embarrassed to the bone peach hell pistol
  12/12/16
was ur username designed to break the tracker's string parse...
Embarrassed to the bone peach hell pistol
  12/12/16
titcr
Silver Very Tactful Resort
  12/12/16
"stinking thing" "normie" "earthlin...
Bronze site goyim
  12/12/16
it's my impression that it's pretty widely accepted that peo...
Silver Very Tactful Resort
  12/12/16
It is - people still do it but it ends badly more often than...
Stubborn know-it-all university
  12/12/16
yeah, this is what i thought. i'd like to know why rangus th...
Silver Very Tactful Resort
  12/12/16
Lmao...3.5 months Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Hyperventilating Private Investor
  12/12/16
*drives by thread blaring "Rude" by magic!
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odious tan useless brakes
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Gay Hyperactive Pit Puppy
  09/18/18
What the fuck is wrong with you Also weren't you in rehab...
At-the-ready stag film
  12/12/16
pretty sure it was for meth
internet-worthy theater stage elastic band
  12/13/17
What did you use brother?
pearl heady digit ratio
  12/12/16
Lol at me a year ago. Getting amazing blowjobs and making i...
electric yellow boltzmann house
  12/13/17
So how did this turn out? Lol.
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  01/27/18
Don’t listen to these faggots. If you love her, go for it. Y...
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:15 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone peach hell pistol

I signed a lease for Dec 31st in an apartment for me and my fiancee. I plan to move in some time in January, when I will have a full year of sobriety.

Then I talked to the house manager. He thinks I'm moving way too fast with this getting married thing (i've known the girl for 3.5 months) and it might complicate things to put me in a higher risk for relapse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119515)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:27 PM
Author: Mauve thriller box office kitty cat

DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!

DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!

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DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!

DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!

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DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!

DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!

DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!

DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119629)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:44 PM
Author: Silver Very Tactful Resort

fleshlight, you'd acquired a blank slate: a new account, a new moniker. and yet your distinct stench of horrible poasting has soiled that blank slate inside a single week. sad!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120369)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:17 PM
Author: cream concupiscible nursing home philosopher-king

If not flame he's right. That's insane to marry someone you've known for 3.5 months. You are moving too fast.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119540)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:49 AM
Author: Pale principal's office skinny woman

what's an acceptable period? 6 months? 1 year?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36830800)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:18 PM
Author: galvanic narrow-minded hall

how do you already have another fiancee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119545)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:00 PM
Author: boyish ivory ladyboy lettuce



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119953)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:14 PM
Author: odious tan useless brakes

BAC

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120670)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:14 PM
Author: Passionate mad cow disease sanctuary



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120675)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:18 PM
Author: Stubborn know-it-all university

AAmo here - wait so you've been sober 1 year and plan on getting married to a girl you've known for 3.5 months?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119548)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:19 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone peach hell pistol

yeah... and i've done all 12 steps (i know last 3 steps are lifelong steps and I'm still going to 2-3 meetings a week)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119559)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:24 PM
Author: Stubborn know-it-all university

JFC - the only way this could be worse is if the girl is also early on in sobriety

Seriously though if you've been using a long time you're brain is still recovering - in several years you'll look back at yourself with only 1 year sober like you look at your 16 year old self

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119592)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:37 PM
Author: Rusted Magical Ticket Booth Hairy Legs

For the love of God THIS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119729)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:50 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone peach hell pistol

so as much as i feel i had improved this past year, i will improve more later?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119869)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:57 PM
Author: Stubborn know-it-all university

Yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120510)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:58 PM
Author: Silver Very Tactful Resort



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120514)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:19 PM
Author: angry temple boiling water

how would u react if the relationship starts failing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119558)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:23 PM
Author: Violent Crystalline Tank Menage

you're totally nuts. bring the tracker back online

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119587)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM
Author: razzle vengeful piazza masturbator

wtf no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119619)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:03 PM
Author: Scarlet misunderstood dragon ceo

uhh no WMTP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119981)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM
Author: doobsian startling french chef

3.5 months seems fast whether you're in recovery or not. In any event, guard your sobriety first. Sounds like you have worked Steps. I'm more of a CBT/SMART guy, but whatever works. Keep doing that. Nothing can make you do or feel anything; you make that choice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119615)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM
Author: Passionate mad cow disease sanctuary

Don't get married

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119617)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:29 PM
Author: razzmatazz twinkling international law enforcement agency

LJL @ addictionmos

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119644)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:55 PM
Author: Hyperventilating Private Investor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120469)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:31 PM
Author: Stubborn know-it-all university

Also - please God don't tell us this is a girl you met in sobriety who is newly sober as well.....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119672)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:34 PM
Author: stimulating hospital

Someone copy paste the full story on your fiancee please.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119700)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:37 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone peach hell pistol

i haven't posted about her



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119727)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:59 PM
Author: stimulating hospital

You gotta give it to us now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119948)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:04 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac tanning salon organic girlfriend

did u meet in recovery bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119992)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:07 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone peach hell pistol

nope.

she's a normie.. never touched drugs doesn't even drink. has two masters degrees. both parents are doctors.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120025)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:25 PM
Author: Mauve thriller box office kitty cat

Why not just DATE for another 9 months and then get engaged?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120180)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:35 PM
Author: bossy fuchsia azn brunch

hold up bro describe why you want to get married, girl, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119711)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:35 PM
Author: alcoholic base

You haven't even lived with her?

Jfc you're still in the honeymoon phase of your relationship. You're fucking crazy man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119717)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:07 PM
Author: Honey-headed Nubile Public Bath Mexican

i knew a couple who got engaged after knowing each other for only 3 months. they were married 9 months after they started dating. their marriage lasted less than a year and the guy got financially fucked having to pay for an attorney, interim support, etc. his physical appearance went all to hell due to the stress, gained weight, started smoking again, etc.

so don't say you weren't warned.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120034)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:09 PM
Author: Gay Hyperactive Pit Puppy

jfc dont get married after 3.5 months wtf are you doing dude

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120048)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:12 PM
Author: curious bespoke rigor jew

I dont know about marrying her so quickly, but you should definitely have a kid, move cities, and do a career change at the same time you try to live on your own sober.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120067)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:24 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone peach hell pistol

i thought moving in with a chick helps me transition out of SLE.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120173)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:33 PM
Author: curious bespoke rigor jew

Man, even the best woman will bring you aggravation that living alone will not have.

You might make the case that she will hold you accountable and help talk you out of relapsing, but I still think the cons outweigh the pros.

And youre not proposing just living with her but marrying her.

Flame and all, but still -- at year one, you should trust your sponsor more than your stinking thinking. You need to re-learn all the practical living shit and you propose doing that while also learning how to be married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120240)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:38 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone peach hell pistol

good advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120304)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:39 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone peach hell pistol

was ur username designed to break the tracker's string parser?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120311)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:51 PM
Author: Silver Very Tactful Resort

titcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120434)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:07 PM
Author: Bronze site goyim

"stinking thing" "normie" "earthling" why should he trust some random person who has no professional training in substance abuse, psychology, or anything else? This is the craziness of AA. also their retarded sayings.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120616)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:50 PM
Author: Silver Very Tactful Resort

it's my impression that it's pretty widely accepted that people in recovery should avoid initiating romantic relationships for the first 12 months of sobriety.

it's pretty self-evident as to why. so why in the hell do you think it's a good idea to MARRY someone you met after only 8 months in recovery?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120426)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:01 PM
Author: Stubborn know-it-all university

It is - people still do it but it ends badly more often than not. Even after a year sober your brain is still like an infant and recovering from years and years of drug abuse. You don't realize it until you look back - but much like he thought he was batshit crazy at 3 months sober - in several years he'll look back at right now and think he was batshit crazy at 1 year sober....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120558)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:02 PM
Author: Silver Very Tactful Resort

yeah, this is what i thought. i'd like to know why rangus thinks he's exempt from what's tantamount to the 13th step. there's a reason it is, and should be, strongly discouraged.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120578)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:55 PM
Author: Hyperventilating Private Investor

Lmao...3.5 months

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120464)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:56 PM
Author: adventurous wrinkle

*drives by thread blaring "Rude" by magic!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120485)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:15 PM
Author: odious tan useless brakes



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120683)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:48 AM
Author: Gay Hyperactive Pit Puppy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36830797)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 11:18 PM
Author: At-the-ready stag film

What the fuck is wrong with you

Also weren't you in rehab for video games? Do you call not playing video games being "sober"?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32125833)



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Date: December 13th, 2017 6:26 PM
Author: internet-worthy theater stage elastic band

pretty sure it was for meth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#34911944)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 11:19 PM
Author: pearl heady digit ratio

What did you use brother?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32125851)



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Date: December 13th, 2017 6:24 PM
Author: electric yellow boltzmann house

Lol at me a year ago.

Getting amazing blowjobs and making idiot decisions

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#34911927)



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Date: January 27th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: mildly autistic business firm

So how did this turn out? Lol.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#35257377)



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Date: December 13th, 2017 6:29 PM
Author: Wonderful Preventive Strike

Don’t listen to these faggots. If you love her, go for it. You think your ancestors spent more than three months courting their mates ?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#34911977)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:35 AM
Author: swashbuckling center candlestick maker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36830768)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 10:06 AM
Author: swashbuckling center candlestick maker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36831683)



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Date: September 21st, 2018 1:38 AM
Author: swashbuckling center candlestick maker



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