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345 days of sobriety.. move out of Sober Living House?
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:15 PM Author: Diverse angry senate I signed a lease for Dec 31st in an apartment for me and my fiancee. I plan to move in some time in January, when I will have a full year of sobriety.
Then I talked to the house manager. He thinks I'm moving way too fast with this getting married thing (i've known the girl for 3.5 months) and it might complicate things to put me in a higher risk for relapse. |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:44 PM Author: Appetizing Chartreuse National fleshlight, you'd acquired a blank slate: a new account, a new moniker. and yet your distinct stench of horrible poasting has soiled that blank slate inside a single week. sad! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120369) |
Date: December 12th, 2016 12:17 PM Author: Thriller slate state If not flame he's right. That's insane to marry someone you've known for 3.5 months. You are moving too fast. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119540) |
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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:49 AM Author: Hilarious jet home weed whacker what's an acceptable period? 6 months? 1 year? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36830800) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:18 PM Author: Curious university how do you already have another fiancee (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119545) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:00 PM Author: bateful faggot firefighter (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119953) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:14 PM Author: Floppy bistre area half-breed BAC (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120670) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:14 PM Author: Stimulating rambunctious box office (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120675) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:18 PM Author: exhilarant cowardly wagecucks abode AAmo here - wait so you've been sober 1 year and plan on getting married to a girl you've known for 3.5 months? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119548) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:19 PM Author: Diverse angry senate yeah... and i've done all 12 steps (i know last 3 steps are lifelong steps and I'm still going to 2-3 meetings a week) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119559) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:24 PM Author: exhilarant cowardly wagecucks abode JFC - the only way this could be worse is if the girl is also early on in sobriety
Seriously though if you've been using a long time you're brain is still recovering - in several years you'll look back at yourself with only 1 year sober like you look at your 16 year old self |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:37 PM Author: lascivious library rigpig For the love of God THIS (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119729) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:50 PM Author: Diverse angry senate so as much as i feel i had improved this past year, i will improve more later? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119869) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:57 PM Author: exhilarant cowardly wagecucks abode Yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120510) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:58 PM Author: Appetizing Chartreuse National (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120514) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:19 PM Author: soggy organic girlfriend how would u react if the relationship starts failing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119558) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:23 PM Author: indigo old irish cottage clown you're totally nuts. bring the tracker back online (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119587) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM Author: Coral Depressive Stage wtf no (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119619) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:03 PM Author: Contagious Generalized Bond Market uhh no WMTP (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119981) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM Author: Aromatic bright dopamine corner 3.5 months seems fast whether you're in recovery or not. In any event, guard your sobriety first. Sounds like you have worked Steps. I'm more of a CBT/SMART guy, but whatever works. Keep doing that. Nothing can make you do or feel anything; you make that choice. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119615) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM Author: Stimulating rambunctious box office Don't get married (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119617) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:29 PM Author: carmine therapy digit ratio LJL @ addictionmos (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119644) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:55 PM Author: Godawful meetinghouse really tough guy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120469) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:31 PM Author: exhilarant cowardly wagecucks abode Also - please God don't tell us this is a girl you met in sobriety who is newly sober as well..... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119672) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:34 PM Author: Bonkers Outnumbered Main People Someone copy paste the full story on your fiancee please. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119700) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:37 PM Author: Diverse angry senate i haven't posted about her
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:59 PM Author: Bonkers Outnumbered Main People You gotta give it to us now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119948) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:04 PM Author: bossy wonderful theater faggotry did u meet in recovery bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119992) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:07 PM Author: Diverse angry senate nope.
she's a normie.. never touched drugs doesn't even drink. has two masters degrees. both parents are doctors. |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:25 PM Author: transparent stock car dilemma Why not just DATE for another 9 months and then get engaged? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120180) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:35 PM Author: pea-brained orchestra pit hold up bro describe why you want to get married, girl, etc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119711) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:35 PM Author: Shaky Green Partner You haven't even lived with her?
Jfc you're still in the honeymoon phase of your relationship. You're fucking crazy man |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:07 PM Author: Hateful gas station i knew a couple who got engaged after knowing each other for only 3 months. they were married 9 months after they started dating. their marriage lasted less than a year and the guy got financially fucked having to pay for an attorney, interim support, etc. his physical appearance went all to hell due to the stress, gained weight, started smoking again, etc.
so don't say you weren't warned. |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:09 PM Author: Charismatic abnormal nursing home jfc dont get married after 3.5 months wtf are you doing dude (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120048) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:12 PM Author: 180 useless brakes I dont know about marrying her so quickly, but you should definitely have a kid, move cities, and do a career change at the same time you try to live on your own sober. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120067) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:24 PM Author: Diverse angry senate i thought moving in with a chick helps me transition out of SLE. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120173) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:33 PM Author: 180 useless brakes Man, even the best woman will bring you aggravation that living alone will not have.
You might make the case that she will hold you accountable and help talk you out of relapsing, but I still think the cons outweigh the pros.
And youre not proposing just living with her but marrying her.
Flame and all, but still -- at year one, you should trust your sponsor more than your stinking thinking. You need to re-learn all the practical living shit and you propose doing that while also learning how to be married. |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:38 PM Author: Diverse angry senate good advice. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120304) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:39 PM Author: Diverse angry senate was ur username designed to break the tracker's string parser? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120311) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:51 PM Author: Appetizing Chartreuse National titcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120434) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:07 PM Author: infuriating fear-inspiring step-uncle's house degenerate "stinking thing" "normie" "earthling" why should he trust some random person who has no professional training in substance abuse, psychology, or anything else? This is the craziness of AA. also their retarded sayings. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120616) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:50 PM Author: Appetizing Chartreuse National it's my impression that it's pretty widely accepted that people in recovery should avoid initiating romantic relationships for the first 12 months of sobriety.
it's pretty self-evident as to why. so why in the hell do you think it's a good idea to MARRY someone you met after only 8 months in recovery? |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:01 PM Author: exhilarant cowardly wagecucks abode It is - people still do it but it ends badly more often than not. Even after a year sober your brain is still like an infant and recovering from years and years of drug abuse. You don't realize it until you look back - but much like he thought he was batshit crazy at 3 months sober - in several years he'll look back at right now and think he was batshit crazy at 1 year sober.... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120558) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:02 PM Author: Appetizing Chartreuse National yeah, this is what i thought. i'd like to know why rangus thinks he's exempt from what's tantamount to the 13th step. there's a reason it is, and should be, strongly discouraged. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120578) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:55 PM Author: Godawful meetinghouse really tough guy Lmao...3.5 months
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:56 PM Author: ocher boyish business firm love of her life *drives by thread blaring "Rude" by magic! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120485) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:15 PM Author: Floppy bistre area half-breed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120683) |
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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:48 AM Author: Charismatic abnormal nursing home (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36830797) |
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Date: December 12th, 2016 11:18 PM Author: lime whorehouse juggernaut What the fuck is wrong with you
Also weren't you in rehab for video games? Do you call not playing video games being "sober"? |
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Date: January 27th, 2018 11:16 PM Author: Impertinent Federal Stage Haunted Graveyard So how did this turn out? Lol. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#35257377) |
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Date: December 13th, 2017 6:29 PM Author: Hairless idea he suggested Don’t listen to these faggots. If you love her, go for it. You think your ancestors spent more than three months courting their mates ? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#34911977) |
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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:35 AM Author: excitant point (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36830768) |
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Date: September 18th, 2018 10:06 AM Author: excitant point (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36831683) |
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Date: September 21st, 2018 1:38 AM Author: excitant point (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36854991) |