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345 days of sobriety.. move out of Sober Living House?

I signed a lease for Dec 31st in an apartment for me and my ...
Curious zombie-like place of business ratface
  12/12/16
DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!! DO NOT FU...
stimulating glassy laser beams people who are hurt
  12/12/16
fleshlight, you'd acquired a blank slate: a new account, a n...
Claret indirect expression
  12/12/16
If not flame he's right. That's insane to marry someone you'...
Diverse Zippy Windowlicker Lay
  12/12/16
what's an acceptable period? 6 months? 1 year?
blathering nighttime hell
  09/18/18
how do you already have another fiancee
stirring olive senate
  12/12/16
...
Sable pocket flask
  12/12/16
BAC
primrose razzmatazz dopamine rehab
  12/12/16
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pink frisky boistinker athletic conference
  12/12/16
AAmo here - wait so you've been sober 1 year and plan on get...
exhilarant dingle berry national
  12/12/16
yeah... and i've done all 12 steps (i know last 3 steps are ...
Curious zombie-like place of business ratface
  12/12/16
JFC - the only way this could be worse is if the girl is als...
exhilarant dingle berry national
  12/12/16
For the love of God THIS
Cocky costumed indian lodge mad-dog skullcap
  12/12/16
so as much as i feel i had improved this past year, i will i...
Curious zombie-like place of business ratface
  12/12/16
Yes
exhilarant dingle berry national
  12/12/16
...
Claret indirect expression
  12/12/16
how would u react if the relationship starts failing
Iridescent Soul-stirring Nursing Home
  12/12/16
you're totally nuts. bring the tracker back online
chestnut coiffed affirmative action corner
  12/12/16
wtf no
Bateful Toilet Seat Address
  12/12/16
uhh no WMTP
elite base
  12/12/16
3.5 months seems fast whether you're in recovery or not. In ...
razzle-dazzle fiercely-loyal pervert
  12/12/16
Don't get married
pink frisky boistinker athletic conference
  12/12/16
LJL @ addictionmos
carmine pontificating keepsake machete
  12/12/16
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Coral histrionic hospital
  12/12/16
Also - please God don't tell us this is a girl you met in so...
exhilarant dingle berry national
  12/12/16
Someone copy paste the full story on your fiancee please.
scarlet rough-skinned double fault gaping
  12/12/16
i haven't posted about her
Curious zombie-like place of business ratface
  12/12/16
You gotta give it to us now.
scarlet rough-skinned double fault gaping
  12/12/16
did u meet in recovery bro
umber razzle stain spot
  12/12/16
nope. she's a normie.. never touched drugs doesn't even ...
Curious zombie-like place of business ratface
  12/12/16
Why not just DATE for another 9 months and then get engaged?
stimulating glassy laser beams people who are hurt
  12/12/16
hold up bro describe why you want to get married, girl, etc.
marvelous electric furnace
  12/12/16
You haven't even lived with her? Jfc you're still in the...
Blue box office organic girlfriend
  12/12/16
i knew a couple who got engaged after knowing each other for...
alcoholic main people patrolman
  12/12/16
jfc dont get married after 3.5 months wtf are you doing dude
slimy hairy legs masturbator
  12/12/16
I dont know about marrying her so quickly, but you should de...
brass scourge upon the earth
  12/12/16
i thought moving in with a chick helps me transition out of ...
Curious zombie-like place of business ratface
  12/12/16
Man, even the best woman will bring you aggravation that liv...
brass scourge upon the earth
  12/12/16
good advice.
Curious zombie-like place of business ratface
  12/12/16
was ur username designed to break the tracker's string parse...
Curious zombie-like place of business ratface
  12/12/16
titcr
Claret indirect expression
  12/12/16
"stinking thing" "normie" "earthlin...
useless kitchen partner
  12/12/16
it's my impression that it's pretty widely accepted that peo...
Claret indirect expression
  12/12/16
It is - people still do it but it ends badly more often than...
exhilarant dingle berry national
  12/12/16
yeah, this is what i thought. i'd like to know why rangus th...
Claret indirect expression
  12/12/16
Lmao...3.5 months Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Coral histrionic hospital
  12/12/16
*drives by thread blaring "Rude" by magic!
Territorial genital piercing office
  12/12/16
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primrose razzmatazz dopamine rehab
  12/12/16
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slimy hairy legs masturbator
  09/18/18
What the fuck is wrong with you Also weren't you in rehab...
Boyish at-the-ready cuckold
  12/12/16
pretty sure it was for meth
charismatic den ladyboy
  12/13/17
What did you use brother?
Harsh Corn Cake Mother
  12/12/16
Lol at me a year ago. Getting amazing blowjobs and making i...
dull heady dilemma
  12/13/17
So how did this turn out? Lol.
Alcoholic violet becky stead
  01/27/18
Don’t listen to these faggots. If you love her, go for it. Y...
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  12/13/17
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:15 PM
Author: Curious zombie-like place of business ratface

I signed a lease for Dec 31st in an apartment for me and my fiancee. I plan to move in some time in January, when I will have a full year of sobriety.

Then I talked to the house manager. He thinks I'm moving way too fast with this getting married thing (i've known the girl for 3.5 months) and it might complicate things to put me in a higher risk for relapse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119515)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:27 PM
Author: stimulating glassy laser beams people who are hurt

DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!

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DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119629)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:44 PM
Author: Claret indirect expression

fleshlight, you'd acquired a blank slate: a new account, a new moniker. and yet your distinct stench of horrible poasting has soiled that blank slate inside a single week. sad!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120369)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:17 PM
Author: Diverse Zippy Windowlicker Lay

If not flame he's right. That's insane to marry someone you've known for 3.5 months. You are moving too fast.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119540)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:49 AM
Author: blathering nighttime hell

what's an acceptable period? 6 months? 1 year?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36830800)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:18 PM
Author: stirring olive senate

how do you already have another fiancee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119545)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:00 PM
Author: Sable pocket flask



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119953)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:14 PM
Author: primrose razzmatazz dopamine rehab

BAC

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120670)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:14 PM
Author: pink frisky boistinker athletic conference



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120675)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:18 PM
Author: exhilarant dingle berry national

AAmo here - wait so you've been sober 1 year and plan on getting married to a girl you've known for 3.5 months?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119548)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:19 PM
Author: Curious zombie-like place of business ratface

yeah... and i've done all 12 steps (i know last 3 steps are lifelong steps and I'm still going to 2-3 meetings a week)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119559)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:24 PM
Author: exhilarant dingle berry national

JFC - the only way this could be worse is if the girl is also early on in sobriety

Seriously though if you've been using a long time you're brain is still recovering - in several years you'll look back at yourself with only 1 year sober like you look at your 16 year old self

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119592)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:37 PM
Author: Cocky costumed indian lodge mad-dog skullcap

For the love of God THIS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119729)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:50 PM
Author: Curious zombie-like place of business ratface

so as much as i feel i had improved this past year, i will improve more later?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119869)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:57 PM
Author: exhilarant dingle berry national

Yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120510)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:58 PM
Author: Claret indirect expression



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120514)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:19 PM
Author: Iridescent Soul-stirring Nursing Home

how would u react if the relationship starts failing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119558)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:23 PM
Author: chestnut coiffed affirmative action corner

you're totally nuts. bring the tracker back online

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119587)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM
Author: Bateful Toilet Seat Address

wtf no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119619)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:03 PM
Author: elite base

uhh no WMTP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119981)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM
Author: razzle-dazzle fiercely-loyal pervert

3.5 months seems fast whether you're in recovery or not. In any event, guard your sobriety first. Sounds like you have worked Steps. I'm more of a CBT/SMART guy, but whatever works. Keep doing that. Nothing can make you do or feel anything; you make that choice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119615)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM
Author: pink frisky boistinker athletic conference

Don't get married

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119617)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:29 PM
Author: carmine pontificating keepsake machete

LJL @ addictionmos

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119644)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:55 PM
Author: Coral histrionic hospital



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120469)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:31 PM
Author: exhilarant dingle berry national

Also - please God don't tell us this is a girl you met in sobriety who is newly sober as well.....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119672)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:34 PM
Author: scarlet rough-skinned double fault gaping

Someone copy paste the full story on your fiancee please.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119700)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:37 PM
Author: Curious zombie-like place of business ratface

i haven't posted about her



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119727)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:59 PM
Author: scarlet rough-skinned double fault gaping

You gotta give it to us now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119948)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:04 PM
Author: umber razzle stain spot

did u meet in recovery bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119992)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:07 PM
Author: Curious zombie-like place of business ratface

nope.

she's a normie.. never touched drugs doesn't even drink. has two masters degrees. both parents are doctors.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120025)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:25 PM
Author: stimulating glassy laser beams people who are hurt

Why not just DATE for another 9 months and then get engaged?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120180)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:35 PM
Author: marvelous electric furnace

hold up bro describe why you want to get married, girl, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119711)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:35 PM
Author: Blue box office organic girlfriend

You haven't even lived with her?

Jfc you're still in the honeymoon phase of your relationship. You're fucking crazy man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119717)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:07 PM
Author: alcoholic main people patrolman

i knew a couple who got engaged after knowing each other for only 3 months. they were married 9 months after they started dating. their marriage lasted less than a year and the guy got financially fucked having to pay for an attorney, interim support, etc. his physical appearance went all to hell due to the stress, gained weight, started smoking again, etc.

so don't say you weren't warned.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120034)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:09 PM
Author: slimy hairy legs masturbator

jfc dont get married after 3.5 months wtf are you doing dude

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120048)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:12 PM
Author: brass scourge upon the earth

I dont know about marrying her so quickly, but you should definitely have a kid, move cities, and do a career change at the same time you try to live on your own sober.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120067)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:24 PM
Author: Curious zombie-like place of business ratface

i thought moving in with a chick helps me transition out of SLE.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120173)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:33 PM
Author: brass scourge upon the earth

Man, even the best woman will bring you aggravation that living alone will not have.

You might make the case that she will hold you accountable and help talk you out of relapsing, but I still think the cons outweigh the pros.

And youre not proposing just living with her but marrying her.

Flame and all, but still -- at year one, you should trust your sponsor more than your stinking thinking. You need to re-learn all the practical living shit and you propose doing that while also learning how to be married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120240)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:38 PM
Author: Curious zombie-like place of business ratface

good advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120304)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:39 PM
Author: Curious zombie-like place of business ratface

was ur username designed to break the tracker's string parser?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120311)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:51 PM
Author: Claret indirect expression

titcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120434)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:07 PM
Author: useless kitchen partner

"stinking thing" "normie" "earthling" why should he trust some random person who has no professional training in substance abuse, psychology, or anything else? This is the craziness of AA. also their retarded sayings.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120616)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:50 PM
Author: Claret indirect expression

it's my impression that it's pretty widely accepted that people in recovery should avoid initiating romantic relationships for the first 12 months of sobriety.

it's pretty self-evident as to why. so why in the hell do you think it's a good idea to MARRY someone you met after only 8 months in recovery?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120426)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:01 PM
Author: exhilarant dingle berry national

It is - people still do it but it ends badly more often than not. Even after a year sober your brain is still like an infant and recovering from years and years of drug abuse. You don't realize it until you look back - but much like he thought he was batshit crazy at 3 months sober - in several years he'll look back at right now and think he was batshit crazy at 1 year sober....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120558)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:02 PM
Author: Claret indirect expression

yeah, this is what i thought. i'd like to know why rangus thinks he's exempt from what's tantamount to the 13th step. there's a reason it is, and should be, strongly discouraged.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120578)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:55 PM
Author: Coral histrionic hospital

Lmao...3.5 months

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120464)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:56 PM
Author: Territorial genital piercing office

*drives by thread blaring "Rude" by magic!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120485)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:15 PM
Author: primrose razzmatazz dopamine rehab



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120683)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:48 AM
Author: slimy hairy legs masturbator



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Date: December 12th, 2016 11:18 PM
Author: Boyish at-the-ready cuckold

What the fuck is wrong with you

Also weren't you in rehab for video games? Do you call not playing video games being "sober"?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32125833)



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Date: December 13th, 2017 6:26 PM
Author: charismatic den ladyboy

pretty sure it was for meth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#34911944)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 11:19 PM
Author: Harsh Corn Cake Mother

What did you use brother?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32125851)



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Date: December 13th, 2017 6:24 PM
Author: dull heady dilemma

Lol at me a year ago.

Getting amazing blowjobs and making idiot decisions

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#34911927)



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Date: January 27th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: Alcoholic violet becky stead

So how did this turn out? Lol.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#35257377)



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Date: December 13th, 2017 6:29 PM
Author: Vibrant mauve state pistol

Don’t listen to these faggots. If you love her, go for it. You think your ancestors spent more than three months courting their mates ?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#34911977)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:35 AM
Author: trip startled theater stage



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Date: September 18th, 2018 10:06 AM
Author: trip startled theater stage



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Date: September 21st, 2018 1:38 AM
Author: trip startled theater stage



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