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Women just want their feelings validated

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no...
misanthropic brunch
  01/20/17
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lime bipolar base
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I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes ...
flesh pea-brained dysfunction
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aqua drunken round eye chapel
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Vermilion resort cuckoldry
  01/20/17
you could also try to understand and address their position ...
Iridescent Vibrant Brethren
  01/20/17
If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
misanthropic brunch
  01/20/17
sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
Iridescent Vibrant Brethren
  01/20/17
Eat shit and die
lime bipolar base
  01/20/17
I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
Iridescent Vibrant Brethren
  01/20/17
Ur breath stank
lime bipolar base
  01/20/17
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Iridescent Vibrant Brethren
  01/20/17
your feet were too small
Iridescent Vibrant Brethren
  01/20/17
I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
flesh pea-brained dysfunction
  01/20/17
the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
Iridescent Vibrant Brethren
  01/20/17
wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
flesh pea-brained dysfunction
  01/20/17
LOL
misanthropic brunch
  01/20/17
lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
talented menage boiling water
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misanthropic brunch
  01/20/17
I understand
Diverse Godawful Useless Brakes Legal Warrant
  01/20/17
No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
Cerebral half-breed really tough guy
  01/20/17
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Nubile faggotry
  01/21/17
Stop trying to solve everything!
Pale theatre
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misanthropic brunch
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flesh pea-brained dysfunction
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Lake incel
  01/20/17
Mods
Zombie-like olive trump supporter national
  01/20/17
Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
misanthropic brunch
  01/20/17
darnell is such a good listener too!
Iridescent Vibrant Brethren
  01/20/17
Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
misanthropic brunch
  01/20/17
wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
Iridescent Vibrant Brethren
  01/20/17
I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
misanthropic brunch
  01/20/17
It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
flesh pea-brained dysfunction
  01/20/17
https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc
misanthropic brunch
  01/20/17
HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
appetizing new version psychic
  01/20/17
bad post
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flesh pea-brained dysfunction
  01/20/17
good poast
Exciting space pozpig
  01/21/17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
talented menage boiling water
  01/20/17
Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
Tripping saffron house scourge upon the earth
  01/20/17
Very cr friend
misanthropic brunch
  01/20/17
I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
Tripping saffron house scourge upon the earth
  01/20/17
Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving t...
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Trip shrine windowlicker
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this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if ...
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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: misanthropic brunch

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: lime bipolar base



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417822)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: flesh pea-brained dysfunction

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: aqua drunken round eye chapel



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417831)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Vermilion resort cuckoldry



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417832)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Iridescent Vibrant Brethren

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: misanthropic brunch

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Iridescent Vibrant Brethren

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: lime bipolar base

Eat shit and die

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417889)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Iridescent Vibrant Brethren

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: lime bipolar base

Ur breath stank

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417953)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: Iridescent Vibrant Brethren



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418005)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: Iridescent Vibrant Brethren

your feet were too small

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418018)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: flesh pea-brained dysfunction

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Iridescent Vibrant Brethren

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: flesh pea-brained dysfunction

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: misanthropic brunch

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417877)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: talented menage boiling water

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: misanthropic brunch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419992)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Diverse Godawful Useless Brakes Legal Warrant

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: Cerebral half-breed really tough guy

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: Nubile faggotry



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422497)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Pale theatre

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: misanthropic brunch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417880)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: flesh pea-brained dysfunction



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417882)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Lake incel



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417917)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: Zombie-like olive trump supporter national

Mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419411)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: misanthropic brunch

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Iridescent Vibrant Brethren

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: misanthropic brunch

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Iridescent Vibrant Brethren

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: misanthropic brunch

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: flesh pea-brained dysfunction

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: misanthropic brunch

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: appetizing new version psychic

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: misanthropic brunch

bad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419270)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: flesh pea-brained dysfunction



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419280)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: Exciting space pozpig

good poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422387)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: talented menage boiling water

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419468)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: Tripping saffron house scourge upon the earth

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: misanthropic brunch

Very cr friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419500)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: Tripping saffron house scourge upon the earth

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: talented menage boiling water

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: flesh pea-brained dysfunction



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422455)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: Trip shrine windowlicker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419917)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: Amber mood

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: talented menage boiling water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422480)



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: Black arousing karate mexican



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32434516)



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: lime bipolar base



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#33468287)