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Women just want their feelings validated

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no...
Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess
  01/20/17
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Dull juggernaut selfie
  01/20/17
I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes ...
effete useless brakes
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Salmon Fighting Pit
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wine skinny woman
  01/20/17
you could also try to understand and address their position ...
self-centered twinkling uncleanness principal's office
  01/20/17
If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess
  01/20/17
sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
self-centered twinkling uncleanness principal's office
  01/20/17
Eat shit and die
Dull juggernaut selfie
  01/20/17
I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
self-centered twinkling uncleanness principal's office
  01/20/17
Ur breath stank
Dull juggernaut selfie
  01/20/17
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self-centered twinkling uncleanness principal's office
  01/20/17
your feet were too small
self-centered twinkling uncleanness principal's office
  01/20/17
I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
effete useless brakes
  01/20/17
the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
self-centered twinkling uncleanness principal's office
  01/20/17
wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
effete useless brakes
  01/20/17
LOL
Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess
  01/20/17
lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
Shivering Emerald School Cafeteria
  01/20/17
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Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess
  01/20/17
I understand
bateful pearl ratface
  01/20/17
No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
sickened contagious therapy
  01/20/17
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supple resort generalized bond
  01/21/17
Stop trying to solve everything!
Demanding mint mediation shrine
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Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess
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effete useless brakes
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Autistic Grizzly Dragon
  01/20/17
Mods
Glittery free-loading office
  01/20/17
Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess
  01/20/17
darnell is such a good listener too!
self-centered twinkling uncleanness principal's office
  01/20/17
Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess
  01/20/17
wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
self-centered twinkling uncleanness principal's office
  01/20/17
I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess
  01/20/17
It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
effete useless brakes
  01/20/17
https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc
Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess
  01/20/17
HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
Cordovan hilarious area weed whacker
  01/20/17
bad post
Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess
  01/20/17
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effete useless brakes
  01/20/17
good poast
blue pistol
  01/21/17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
Shivering Emerald School Cafeteria
  01/20/17
Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
Dark institution
  01/20/17
Very cr friend
Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess
  01/20/17
I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
Dark institution
  01/20/17
Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving t...
Shivering Emerald School Cafeteria
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effete useless brakes
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Spectacular Nowag
  01/20/17
this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if ...
Crawly newt philosopher-king
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Shivering Emerald School Cafeteria
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180 cruise ship
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Dull juggernaut selfie
  06/04/17


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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Dull juggernaut selfie



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417822)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: effete useless brakes

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Salmon Fighting Pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417831)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: wine skinny woman



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417832)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: self-centered twinkling uncleanness principal's office

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: self-centered twinkling uncleanness principal's office

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: Dull juggernaut selfie

Eat shit and die

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417889)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: self-centered twinkling uncleanness principal's office

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: Dull juggernaut selfie

Ur breath stank

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417953)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: self-centered twinkling uncleanness principal's office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418005)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: self-centered twinkling uncleanness principal's office

your feet were too small

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418018)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: effete useless brakes

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: self-centered twinkling uncleanness principal's office

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: effete useless brakes

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417877)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: Shivering Emerald School Cafeteria

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419992)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: bateful pearl ratface

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: sickened contagious therapy

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: supple resort generalized bond



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422497)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Demanding mint mediation shrine

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417880)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: effete useless brakes



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417882)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Autistic Grizzly Dragon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417917)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: Glittery free-loading office

Mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419411)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: self-centered twinkling uncleanness principal's office

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: self-centered twinkling uncleanness principal's office

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: effete useless brakes

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Cordovan hilarious area weed whacker

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess

bad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419270)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: effete useless brakes



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419280)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: blue pistol

good poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422387)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: Shivering Emerald School Cafeteria

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419468)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: Dark institution

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: Razzmatazz outnumbered jewess

Very cr friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419500)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: Dark institution

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: Shivering Emerald School Cafeteria

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: effete useless brakes



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422455)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: Spectacular Nowag



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419917)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: Crawly newt philosopher-king

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: Shivering Emerald School Cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422480)



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: 180 cruise ship



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32434516)



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: Dull juggernaut selfie



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#33468287)