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Women just want their feelings validated

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no...
Excitant rambunctious brunch
  01/20/17
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dun sinister lay
  01/20/17
I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes ...
Wonderful ivory therapy
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Chest-beating patrolman
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hyperventilating electric furnace friendly grandma
  01/20/17
you could also try to understand and address their position ...
Harsh Theatre Nowag
  01/20/17
If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
Excitant rambunctious brunch
  01/20/17
sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
Harsh Theatre Nowag
  01/20/17
Eat shit and die
dun sinister lay
  01/20/17
I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
Harsh Theatre Nowag
  01/20/17
Ur breath stank
dun sinister lay
  01/20/17
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Harsh Theatre Nowag
  01/20/17
your feet were too small
Harsh Theatre Nowag
  01/20/17
I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
Wonderful ivory therapy
  01/20/17
the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
Harsh Theatre Nowag
  01/20/17
wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
Wonderful ivory therapy
  01/20/17
LOL
Excitant rambunctious brunch
  01/20/17
lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
Deranged weed whacker liquid oxygen
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Excitant rambunctious brunch
  01/20/17
I understand
hairraiser hall organic girlfriend
  01/20/17
No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
judgmental box office ceo
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disgusting cruel-hearted international law enforcement agency background story
  01/21/17
Stop trying to solve everything!
Fishy Blood Rage
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Excitant rambunctious brunch
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Wonderful ivory therapy
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Awkward address
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Mods
mint sickened shitlib azn
  01/20/17
Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
Excitant rambunctious brunch
  01/20/17
darnell is such a good listener too!
Harsh Theatre Nowag
  01/20/17
Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
Excitant rambunctious brunch
  01/20/17
wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
Harsh Theatre Nowag
  01/20/17
I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
Excitant rambunctious brunch
  01/20/17
It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
Wonderful ivory therapy
  01/20/17
https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc
Excitant rambunctious brunch
  01/20/17
HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
silver church masturbator
  01/20/17
bad post
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Wonderful ivory therapy
  01/20/17
good poast
abusive field
  01/21/17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
Deranged weed whacker liquid oxygen
  01/20/17
Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
jade spot police squad
  01/20/17
Very cr friend
Excitant rambunctious brunch
  01/20/17
I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
jade spot police squad
  01/20/17
Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving t...
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slate tattoo french chef
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this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if ...
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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Excitant rambunctious brunch

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: dun sinister lay



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417822)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Wonderful ivory therapy

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Chest-beating patrolman



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417831)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: hyperventilating electric furnace friendly grandma



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Harsh Theatre Nowag

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: Excitant rambunctious brunch

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Harsh Theatre Nowag

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: dun sinister lay

Eat shit and die

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417889)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Harsh Theatre Nowag

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: dun sinister lay

Ur breath stank

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417953)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: Harsh Theatre Nowag



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418005)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: Harsh Theatre Nowag

your feet were too small

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418018)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: Wonderful ivory therapy

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Harsh Theatre Nowag

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Wonderful ivory therapy

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Excitant rambunctious brunch

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417877)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: Deranged weed whacker liquid oxygen

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: Excitant rambunctious brunch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419992)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: hairraiser hall organic girlfriend

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: judgmental box office ceo

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: disgusting cruel-hearted international law enforcement agency background story



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422497)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Fishy Blood Rage

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Excitant rambunctious brunch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417880)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Wonderful ivory therapy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417882)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Awkward address



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417917)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: mint sickened shitlib azn

Mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419411)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Excitant rambunctious brunch

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Harsh Theatre Nowag

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Excitant rambunctious brunch

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Harsh Theatre Nowag

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Excitant rambunctious brunch

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Wonderful ivory therapy

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Excitant rambunctious brunch

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: silver church masturbator

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: Excitant rambunctious brunch

bad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419270)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: Wonderful ivory therapy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419280)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: abusive field

good poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422387)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: Deranged weed whacker liquid oxygen

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419468)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: jade spot police squad

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: Excitant rambunctious brunch

Very cr friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419500)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: jade spot police squad

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: Deranged weed whacker liquid oxygen

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: Wonderful ivory therapy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422455)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: slate tattoo french chef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419917)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: carnelian angry dilemma milk

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: Deranged weed whacker liquid oxygen



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422480)



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: Buck-toothed locus lettuce



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32434516)



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: dun sinister lay



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