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Women just want their feelings validated

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no...
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glassy range
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you could also try to understand and address their position ...
violet disturbing senate
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If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
Puce Really Tough Guy
  01/20/17
sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
violet disturbing senate
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Eat shit and die
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I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
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your feet were too small
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I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
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the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
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wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
ebony wild electric furnace degenerate
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LOL
Puce Really Tough Guy
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lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
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I understand
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No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
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Stop trying to solve everything!
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Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
Puce Really Tough Guy
  01/20/17
darnell is such a good listener too!
violet disturbing senate
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Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
Puce Really Tough Guy
  01/20/17
wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
violet disturbing senate
  01/20/17
I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
Puce Really Tough Guy
  01/20/17
It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
ebony wild electric furnace degenerate
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https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc
Puce Really Tough Guy
  01/20/17
HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
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Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
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Very cr friend
Puce Really Tough Guy
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I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Puce Really Tough Guy

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Passionate bbw



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: ebony wild electric furnace degenerate

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Cracking Navy Trailer Park Trust Fund



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: glassy range



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: violet disturbing senate

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: Puce Really Tough Guy

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: violet disturbing senate

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: Passionate bbw

Eat shit and die

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: violet disturbing senate

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: Passionate bbw

Ur breath stank

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: violet disturbing senate



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: violet disturbing senate

your feet were too small

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: ebony wild electric furnace degenerate

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: violet disturbing senate

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: ebony wild electric furnace degenerate

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Puce Really Tough Guy

LOL

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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: cerebral outnumbered stag film boltzmann

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: Puce Really Tough Guy



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: charismatic stage fanboi

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: orchid party of the first part

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: translucent den national security agency



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Vermilion library friendly grandma

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Puce Really Tough Guy



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: ebony wild electric furnace degenerate



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: honey-headed arousing cruise ship private investor



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: Crawly ocher hissy fit kitty

Mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419411)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Puce Really Tough Guy

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: violet disturbing senate

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Puce Really Tough Guy

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: violet disturbing senate

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Puce Really Tough Guy

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: ebony wild electric furnace degenerate

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Puce Really Tough Guy

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Sable tattoo

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: Puce Really Tough Guy

bad post

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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: ebony wild electric furnace degenerate



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: angry chartreuse son of senegal

good poast

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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: cerebral outnumbered stag film boltzmann

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: bat shit crazy generalized bond church building

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: Puce Really Tough Guy

Very cr friend

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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: bat shit crazy generalized bond church building

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: cerebral outnumbered stag film boltzmann

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: ebony wild electric furnace degenerate



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: bateful tanning salon



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: Idiotic transparent resort

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: cerebral outnumbered stag film boltzmann



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: misunderstood odious skinny woman



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: Passionate bbw



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