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Women just want their feelings validated

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no...
Ruby boiling water
  01/20/17
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at-the-ready amethyst alpha
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I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes ...
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you could also try to understand and address their position ...
insecure messiness tanning salon
  01/20/17
If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
Ruby boiling water
  01/20/17
sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
insecure messiness tanning salon
  01/20/17
Eat shit and die
at-the-ready amethyst alpha
  01/20/17
I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
insecure messiness tanning salon
  01/20/17
Ur breath stank
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insecure messiness tanning salon
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your feet were too small
insecure messiness tanning salon
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I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
purple lodge
  01/20/17
the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
insecure messiness tanning salon
  01/20/17
wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
purple lodge
  01/20/17
LOL
Ruby boiling water
  01/20/17
lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
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Ruby boiling water
  01/20/17
I understand
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  01/20/17
No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
Stimulating principal's office
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Beady-eyed Trailer Park Cuckoldry
  01/21/17
Stop trying to solve everything!
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Mods
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Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
Ruby boiling water
  01/20/17
darnell is such a good listener too!
insecure messiness tanning salon
  01/20/17
Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
Ruby boiling water
  01/20/17
wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
insecure messiness tanning salon
  01/20/17
I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
Ruby boiling water
  01/20/17
It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
purple lodge
  01/20/17
https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc
Ruby boiling water
  01/20/17
HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
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bad post
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purple lodge
  01/20/17
good poast
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  01/21/17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
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  01/20/17
Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
territorial arrogant dilemma
  01/20/17
Very cr friend
Ruby boiling water
  01/20/17
I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
territorial arrogant dilemma
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Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving t...
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this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if ...
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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Ruby boiling water

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: at-the-ready amethyst alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417822)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: purple lodge

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: big-titted aquamarine gas station



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: laughsome transparent new version



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: insecure messiness tanning salon

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: Ruby boiling water

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: insecure messiness tanning salon

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: at-the-ready amethyst alpha

Eat shit and die

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417889)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: insecure messiness tanning salon

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: at-the-ready amethyst alpha

Ur breath stank

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417953)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: insecure messiness tanning salon



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: insecure messiness tanning salon

your feet were too small

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418018)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: purple lodge

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: insecure messiness tanning salon

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: purple lodge

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Ruby boiling water

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417877)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: Translucent free-loading turdskin roast beef

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: Ruby boiling water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419992)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: boyish fat ankles

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: Stimulating principal's office

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: Beady-eyed Trailer Park Cuckoldry



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422497)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: plum nubile kitty persian

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Ruby boiling water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417880)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: purple lodge



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417882)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: razzle soggy faggot firefighter church



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417917)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: multi-colored green temple ratface

Mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419411)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Ruby boiling water

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: insecure messiness tanning salon

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Ruby boiling water

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: insecure messiness tanning salon

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Ruby boiling water

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: purple lodge

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Ruby boiling water

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: mischievous sex offender center

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: Ruby boiling water

bad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419270)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: purple lodge



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419280)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: arousing brunch gaming laptop

good poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422387)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: Translucent free-loading turdskin roast beef

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419468)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: territorial arrogant dilemma

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: Ruby boiling water

Very cr friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419500)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: territorial arrogant dilemma

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: Translucent free-loading turdskin roast beef

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: purple lodge



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422455)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: fluffy round eye



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: Excitant Dull Orchestra Pit Crotch

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: Translucent free-loading turdskin roast beef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422480)



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: rusted cracking fortuitous meteor theatre



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: at-the-ready amethyst alpha



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