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Women just want their feelings validated

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no...
beady-eyed circlehead
  01/20/17
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insecure dull rehab
  01/20/17
I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes ...
Magenta arousing weed whacker
  01/20/17
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Out-of-control trip bawdyhouse
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seedy kitty hall
  01/20/17
you could also try to understand and address their position ...
supple kitchen karate
  01/20/17
If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
beady-eyed circlehead
  01/20/17
sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
supple kitchen karate
  01/20/17
Eat shit and die
insecure dull rehab
  01/20/17
I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
supple kitchen karate
  01/20/17
Ur breath stank
insecure dull rehab
  01/20/17
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supple kitchen karate
  01/20/17
your feet were too small
supple kitchen karate
  01/20/17
I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
Magenta arousing weed whacker
  01/20/17
the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
supple kitchen karate
  01/20/17
wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
Magenta arousing weed whacker
  01/20/17
LOL
beady-eyed circlehead
  01/20/17
lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
galvanic chapel hunting ground
  01/20/17
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beady-eyed circlehead
  01/20/17
I understand
Aromatic factory reset button yarmulke
  01/20/17
No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
tan dilemma half-breed
  01/20/17
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vermilion wonderful really tough guy
  01/21/17
Stop trying to solve everything!
Idiotic low-t fanboi boiling water
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beady-eyed circlehead
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Magenta arousing weed whacker
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Poppy Crawly Puppy
  01/20/17
Mods
Provocative mexican selfie
  01/20/17
Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
beady-eyed circlehead
  01/20/17
darnell is such a good listener too!
supple kitchen karate
  01/20/17
Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
beady-eyed circlehead
  01/20/17
wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
supple kitchen karate
  01/20/17
I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
beady-eyed circlehead
  01/20/17
It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
Magenta arousing weed whacker
  01/20/17
https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc
beady-eyed circlehead
  01/20/17
HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
jet fragrant theater
  01/20/17
bad post
beady-eyed circlehead
  01/20/17
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Magenta arousing weed whacker
  01/20/17
good poast
Canary excitant tanning salon jewess
  01/21/17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
galvanic chapel hunting ground
  01/20/17
Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
Soul-stirring bat shit crazy philosopher-king ticket booth
  01/20/17
Very cr friend
beady-eyed circlehead
  01/20/17
I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
Soul-stirring bat shit crazy philosopher-king ticket booth
  01/20/17
Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving t...
galvanic chapel hunting ground
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Magenta arousing weed whacker
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Buff jew sound barrier
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this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if ...
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galvanic chapel hunting ground
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insecure dull rehab
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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: beady-eyed circlehead

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: insecure dull rehab



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417822)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Magenta arousing weed whacker

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Out-of-control trip bawdyhouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417831)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: seedy kitty hall



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417832)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: supple kitchen karate

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: beady-eyed circlehead

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: supple kitchen karate

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: insecure dull rehab

Eat shit and die

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417889)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: supple kitchen karate

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: insecure dull rehab

Ur breath stank

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417953)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: supple kitchen karate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418005)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: supple kitchen karate

your feet were too small

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418018)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: Magenta arousing weed whacker

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: supple kitchen karate

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Magenta arousing weed whacker

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: beady-eyed circlehead

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417877)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: galvanic chapel hunting ground

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: beady-eyed circlehead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419992)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Aromatic factory reset button yarmulke

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: tan dilemma half-breed

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: vermilion wonderful really tough guy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422497)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Idiotic low-t fanboi boiling water

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: beady-eyed circlehead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417880)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Magenta arousing weed whacker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417882)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Poppy Crawly Puppy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417917)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: Provocative mexican selfie

Mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419411)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: beady-eyed circlehead

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: supple kitchen karate

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: beady-eyed circlehead

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: supple kitchen karate

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: beady-eyed circlehead

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Magenta arousing weed whacker

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: beady-eyed circlehead

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: jet fragrant theater

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: beady-eyed circlehead

bad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419270)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: Magenta arousing weed whacker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419280)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: Canary excitant tanning salon jewess

good poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422387)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: galvanic chapel hunting ground

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419468)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: Soul-stirring bat shit crazy philosopher-king ticket booth

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: beady-eyed circlehead

Very cr friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419500)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: Soul-stirring bat shit crazy philosopher-king ticket booth

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: galvanic chapel hunting ground

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: Magenta arousing weed whacker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422455)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: Buff jew sound barrier



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419917)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: Bull headed curious forum stock car

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: galvanic chapel hunting ground



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422480)



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: Geriatric Fortuitous Meteor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32434516)



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: insecure dull rehab



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#33468287)