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Women just want their feelings validated

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no...
180 school cafeteria
  01/20/17
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internet-worthy mewling candlestick maker
  01/20/17
I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes ...
Fragrant gold lay
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Outnumbered international law enforcement agency bawdyhouse
  01/20/17
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Contagious really tough guy range
  01/20/17
you could also try to understand and address their position ...
aromatic crackhouse
  01/20/17
If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
180 school cafeteria
  01/20/17
sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
aromatic crackhouse
  01/20/17
Eat shit and die
internet-worthy mewling candlestick maker
  01/20/17
I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
aromatic crackhouse
  01/20/17
Ur breath stank
internet-worthy mewling candlestick maker
  01/20/17
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aromatic crackhouse
  01/20/17
your feet were too small
aromatic crackhouse
  01/20/17
I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
Fragrant gold lay
  01/20/17
the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
aromatic crackhouse
  01/20/17
wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
Fragrant gold lay
  01/20/17
LOL
180 school cafeteria
  01/20/17
lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
shimmering jew
  01/20/17
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180 school cafeteria
  01/20/17
I understand
Diverse Ruddy Coffee Pot
  01/20/17
No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
sepia shaky corner main people
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emerald racy juggernaut national security agency
  01/21/17
Stop trying to solve everything!
Orange Base Legal Warrant
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180 school cafeteria
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Fragrant gold lay
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Soul-stirring Cruise Ship Karate
  01/20/17
Mods
Twisted charismatic blood rage stage
  01/20/17
Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
180 school cafeteria
  01/20/17
darnell is such a good listener too!
aromatic crackhouse
  01/20/17
Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
180 school cafeteria
  01/20/17
wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
aromatic crackhouse
  01/20/17
I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
180 school cafeteria
  01/20/17
It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
Fragrant gold lay
  01/20/17
https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc
180 school cafeteria
  01/20/17
HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
Electric walnut clown
  01/20/17
bad post
180 school cafeteria
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Fragrant gold lay
  01/20/17
good poast
Slap-happy scourge upon the earth
  01/21/17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
shimmering jew
  01/20/17
Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
Tantric trailer park
  01/20/17
Very cr friend
180 school cafeteria
  01/20/17
I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
Tantric trailer park
  01/20/17
Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving t...
shimmering jew
  01/20/17
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Fragrant gold lay
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glittery rough-skinned theater stage travel guidebook
  01/20/17
this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if ...
embarrassed to the bone spectacular resort mother
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shimmering jew
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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: 180 school cafeteria

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: internet-worthy mewling candlestick maker



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Fragrant gold lay

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Outnumbered international law enforcement agency bawdyhouse



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Contagious really tough guy range



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: aromatic crackhouse

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: 180 school cafeteria

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: aromatic crackhouse

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: internet-worthy mewling candlestick maker

Eat shit and die

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417889)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: aromatic crackhouse

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: internet-worthy mewling candlestick maker

Ur breath stank

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417953)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: aromatic crackhouse



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: aromatic crackhouse

your feet were too small

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418018)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: Fragrant gold lay

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: aromatic crackhouse

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Fragrant gold lay

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: 180 school cafeteria

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417877)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: shimmering jew

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: 180 school cafeteria



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Diverse Ruddy Coffee Pot

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: sepia shaky corner main people

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: emerald racy juggernaut national security agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422497)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Orange Base Legal Warrant

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: 180 school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417880)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Fragrant gold lay



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417882)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Soul-stirring Cruise Ship Karate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417917)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: Twisted charismatic blood rage stage

Mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419411)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: 180 school cafeteria

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: aromatic crackhouse

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: 180 school cafeteria

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: aromatic crackhouse

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: 180 school cafeteria

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Fragrant gold lay

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: 180 school cafeteria

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Electric walnut clown

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: 180 school cafeteria

bad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419270)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: Fragrant gold lay



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419280)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: Slap-happy scourge upon the earth

good poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422387)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: shimmering jew

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419468)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: Tantric trailer park

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: 180 school cafeteria

Very cr friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419500)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: Tantric trailer park

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: shimmering jew

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: Fragrant gold lay



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422455)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: glittery rough-skinned theater stage travel guidebook



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419917)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: embarrassed to the bone spectacular resort mother

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: shimmering jew



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422480)



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: Stirring Chapel Selfie



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: internet-worthy mewling candlestick maker



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