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Women just want their feelings validated

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no...
Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant
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Obsidian Area French Chef
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I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes ...
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At-the-ready incel shrine
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you could also try to understand and address their position ...
transparent station
  01/20/17
If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant
  01/20/17
sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
transparent station
  01/20/17
Eat shit and die
Obsidian Area French Chef
  01/20/17
I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
transparent station
  01/20/17
Ur breath stank
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transparent station
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your feet were too small
transparent station
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I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
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  01/20/17
the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
transparent station
  01/20/17
wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
kink-friendly provocative macaca
  01/20/17
LOL
Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant
  01/20/17
lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
dull odious hall
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Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant
  01/20/17
I understand
diverse mustard library crotch
  01/20/17
No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
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offensive ungodly set
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Stop trying to solve everything!
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Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant
  01/20/17
darnell is such a good listener too!
transparent station
  01/20/17
Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant
  01/20/17
wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
transparent station
  01/20/17
I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant
  01/20/17
It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
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  01/20/17
https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc
Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant
  01/20/17
HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
citrine very tactful range windowlicker
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bad post
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good poast
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dull odious hall
  01/20/17
Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
awkward stage
  01/20/17
Very cr friend
Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant
  01/20/17
I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
awkward stage
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Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving t...
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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Obsidian Area French Chef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417822)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: kink-friendly provocative macaca

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: sooty splenetic office



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: At-the-ready incel shrine



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: transparent station

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: transparent station

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: Obsidian Area French Chef

Eat shit and die

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417889)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: transparent station

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: Obsidian Area French Chef

Ur breath stank

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417953)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: transparent station



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: transparent station

your feet were too small

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418018)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: kink-friendly provocative macaca

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: transparent station

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: kink-friendly provocative macaca

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417877)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: dull odious hall

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419992)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: diverse mustard library crotch

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: bistre dead home hominid

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: offensive ungodly set



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Disturbing Galvanic Gaming Laptop

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417880)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: kink-friendly provocative macaca



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417882)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Racy impressive love of her life



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: bat shit crazy cracking tattoo center

Mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419411)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: transparent station

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: transparent station

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: kink-friendly provocative macaca

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: citrine very tactful range windowlicker

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant

bad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419270)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: kink-friendly provocative macaca



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419280)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: boyish lodge toaster

good poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422387)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: dull odious hall

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419468)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: awkward stage

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle property legal warrant

Very cr friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419500)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: awkward stage

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: dull odious hall

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: kink-friendly provocative macaca



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422455)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: Laughsome chapel



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: Charcoal aphrodisiac parlour

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: dull odious hall



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422480)



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: abusive temple turdskin



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: Obsidian Area French Chef



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