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Women just want their feelings validated

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no...
Vibrant Base Coffee Pot
  01/20/17
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Garnet chest-beating theater
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I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes ...
yapping senate volcanic crater
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histrionic corner fanboi
  01/20/17
you could also try to understand and address their position ...
Stirring international law enforcement agency
  01/20/17
If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
Vibrant Base Coffee Pot
  01/20/17
sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
Stirring international law enforcement agency
  01/20/17
Eat shit and die
Garnet chest-beating theater
  01/20/17
I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
Stirring international law enforcement agency
  01/20/17
Ur breath stank
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Stirring international law enforcement agency
  01/20/17
your feet were too small
Stirring international law enforcement agency
  01/20/17
I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
yapping senate volcanic crater
  01/20/17
the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
Stirring international law enforcement agency
  01/20/17
wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
yapping senate volcanic crater
  01/20/17
LOL
Vibrant Base Coffee Pot
  01/20/17
lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
dashing house-broken area digit ratio
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Vibrant Base Coffee Pot
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I understand
Comical cumskin
  01/20/17
No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
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Ruby theatre boistinker
  01/21/17
Stop trying to solve everything!
Impertinent Metal House Cuckoldry
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yapping senate volcanic crater
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Mind-boggling station
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Mods
carmine tripping friendly grandma main people
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Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
Vibrant Base Coffee Pot
  01/20/17
darnell is such a good listener too!
Stirring international law enforcement agency
  01/20/17
Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
Vibrant Base Coffee Pot
  01/20/17
wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
Stirring international law enforcement agency
  01/20/17
I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
Vibrant Base Coffee Pot
  01/20/17
It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
yapping senate volcanic crater
  01/20/17
https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc
Vibrant Base Coffee Pot
  01/20/17
HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
provocative native
  01/20/17
bad post
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yapping senate volcanic crater
  01/20/17
good poast
Sickened arousing chad university
  01/21/17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
dashing house-broken area digit ratio
  01/20/17
Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
Cracking zippy trailer park
  01/20/17
Very cr friend
Vibrant Base Coffee Pot
  01/20/17
I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
Cracking zippy trailer park
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Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving t...
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yapping senate volcanic crater
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Dull party of the first part church building
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this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if ...
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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Vibrant Base Coffee Pot

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Garnet chest-beating theater



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417822)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: yapping senate volcanic crater

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Obsidian Irradiated Church Hunting Ground



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417831)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: histrionic corner fanboi



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417832)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Stirring international law enforcement agency

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: Vibrant Base Coffee Pot

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Stirring international law enforcement agency

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: Garnet chest-beating theater

Eat shit and die

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417889)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Stirring international law enforcement agency

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: Garnet chest-beating theater

Ur breath stank

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417953)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: Stirring international law enforcement agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418005)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: Stirring international law enforcement agency

your feet were too small

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418018)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: yapping senate volcanic crater

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Stirring international law enforcement agency

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: yapping senate volcanic crater

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Vibrant Base Coffee Pot

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417877)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: dashing house-broken area digit ratio

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: Vibrant Base Coffee Pot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419992)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Comical cumskin

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: fear-inspiring excitant famous landscape painting

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: Ruby theatre boistinker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422497)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Impertinent Metal House Cuckoldry

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Vibrant Base Coffee Pot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417880)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: yapping senate volcanic crater



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417882)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Mind-boggling station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417917)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: carmine tripping friendly grandma main people

Mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419411)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Vibrant Base Coffee Pot

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Stirring international law enforcement agency

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Vibrant Base Coffee Pot

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Stirring international law enforcement agency

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Vibrant Base Coffee Pot

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: yapping senate volcanic crater

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Vibrant Base Coffee Pot

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: provocative native

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: Vibrant Base Coffee Pot

bad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419270)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: yapping senate volcanic crater



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419280)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: Sickened arousing chad university

good poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422387)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: dashing house-broken area digit ratio

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419468)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: Cracking zippy trailer park

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: Vibrant Base Coffee Pot

Very cr friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419500)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: Cracking zippy trailer park

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: dashing house-broken area digit ratio

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: yapping senate volcanic crater



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422455)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: Dull party of the first part church building



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419917)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: Pink appetizing principal's office personal credit line

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: dashing house-broken area digit ratio



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422480)



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: Saffron fat ankles



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32434516)



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: Garnet chest-beating theater



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#33468287)