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At what point did you lose your 'passion' for work and realized it was flame?

For me it had to be when I realized how many companies are v...
outnumbered exhilarant site
  08/22/17
Second year of biglaw
indecent public bath newt
  08/22/17
misspelled "day"
grizzly hyperventilating legend telephone
  08/22/17
Lol the second I started working an office job I died inside
magenta frisky set immigrant
  08/22/17
hai me
chest-beating soggy volcanic crater
  08/22/17
but SALES
outnumbered exhilarant site
  08/22/17
17
Supple Principal's Office
  08/22/17
LJL @ people that have a passion for their bullshit as self ...
chest-beating soggy volcanic crater
  08/22/17
So...you DON'T have a passion for discussing color codes for...
Lilac Center
  08/22/17
Try telling workaholics about how this is flame and it makes...
outnumbered exhilarant site
  08/22/17
Lol at this litfag. You mad you couldn't cop in-house lil br...
sable range
  08/22/17
First job in HS
dark menage
  08/22/17
...
razzmatazz half-breed
  08/22/17
objection. assumes facts not in evidence
glittery saffron french chef school cafeteria
  08/22/17
...
Ultramarine jet-lagged cruise ship
  08/22/17
The root of the word "passion" is suffering, so I ...
boyish locale laser beams
  08/22/17
law firms are kind of unique in the modern white collar worl...
vibrant queen of the night
  08/22/17
Agreed. I think most people in law firms are pretty blunt a...
Dashing travel guidebook church
  08/22/17
part of that is because they are all aspie to be fair. But ...
Appetizing space
  08/22/17
They also have a vested interest in burning out most of thei...
grizzly hyperventilating legend telephone
  08/22/17
The attitude is very much, you're a professional, we expect ...
vibrant queen of the night
  08/22/17
...
outnumbered exhilarant site
  08/22/17
The sooner you accept this, the sooner your life can begin
abusive brunch
  08/22/17
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2017-08-21/people-st...
Appetizing space
  08/22/17
this checks out. though for me having a kid was the moment ...
Concupiscible shrine
  08/22/17
Realizing work is flame has been very liberating for me. I ...
grizzly hyperventilating legend telephone
  08/22/17
About 3 weeks into BIGLAW. Been that way ever since. 20 c...
motley brethren theatre
  08/22/17
Haven't lost it
thirsty resort
  08/22/17
2nd divorce
Bat-shit-crazy cyan institution
  08/22/17
all one needs to survive is a passion for distraction in som...
yellow office party of the first part
  08/22/17
3 months in. It's usually some old geezer who's been there s...
indigo curious fortuitous meteor dog poop
  08/22/17
The sooner you realize that there is no such thing as "...
harsh multi-billionaire
  08/22/17
...
outnumbered exhilarant site
  08/22/17
Before I ever started work
Swashbuckling shitlib private investor
  08/22/17
Ah, starting out ahead.
outnumbered exhilarant site
  08/22/17


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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:41 PM
Author: outnumbered exhilarant site

For me it had to be when I realized how many companies are very similar to each other culturally and nothing you experienced in the workplace was essentially unique.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045495)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:42 PM
Author: indecent public bath newt

Second year of biglaw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045497)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:09 PM
Author: grizzly hyperventilating legend telephone

misspelled "day"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045733)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:42 PM
Author: magenta frisky set immigrant

Lol the second I started working an office job I died inside

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045504)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:44 PM
Author: chest-beating soggy volcanic crater

hai me



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045531)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:51 PM
Author: outnumbered exhilarant site

but SALES

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045597)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:45 PM
Author: Supple Principal's Office

17

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045534)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:46 PM
Author: chest-beating soggy volcanic crater

LJL @ people that have a passion for their bullshit as self important office jobs

chefs, athletes, folks in the arts, coaches and even some teachers i get. being senior vp of ibm biz development or tax dept is laughable though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045543)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:48 PM
Author: Lilac Center

So...you DON'T have a passion for discussing color codes for budgets in some spreadsheet?????

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045565)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:50 PM
Author: outnumbered exhilarant site

Try telling workaholics about how this is flame and it makes for an interesting argument

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045585)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:09 PM
Author: sable range

Lol at this litfag. You mad you couldn't cop in-house lil brej?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045729)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:47 PM
Author: dark menage

First job in HS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045557)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 3:55 PM
Author: razzmatazz half-breed



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34046767)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:51 PM
Author: glittery saffron french chef school cafeteria

objection. assumes facts not in evidence

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045599)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:51 PM
Author: Ultramarine jet-lagged cruise ship



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045604)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:53 PM
Author: boyish locale laser beams

The root of the word "passion" is suffering, so I feel that many of us have a great deal of passion in our work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045617)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:02 PM
Author: vibrant queen of the night

law firms are kind of unique in the modern white collar world, in that they don't cram a lot of Rah-Rah Go Team! crap down your throat. This chick I know works for a company with a stuffed animal mascot that "travels" from department to department every month. When it's you're month your department all takes a picture with the stuffed animal and - not flame - writes a paragraph about what XYZCorp means to you. (The animal's name is XYZie of course).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045674)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:05 PM
Author: Dashing travel guidebook church

Agreed. I think most people in law firms are pretty blunt about how much the job sucks and they are just doing it for the money. Even rainmaker partners.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045694)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:09 PM
Author: Appetizing space

part of that is because they are all aspie to be fair. But yes it was nice that no one pretended that it was anyone's dream job

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045727)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:12 PM
Author: grizzly hyperventilating legend telephone

They also have a vested interest in burning out most of their new employees in 3-5 years and then harvesting a fresh crop, so it's not exactly coming from a place of honesty and good will.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045757)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: vibrant queen of the night

The attitude is very much, you're a professional, we expect you to act like professionals and deal with it. Lawyers are self-driven workaholics so it works.

If you tried that in 98% of office situations it would be chaos.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045889)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 3:54 PM
Author: outnumbered exhilarant site



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34046763)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:06 PM
Author: abusive brunch

The sooner you accept this, the sooner your life can begin

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045703)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:07 PM
Author: Appetizing space

https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2017-08-21/people-start-hating-their-jobs-at-age-35

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045711)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:57 PM
Author: Concupiscible shrine

this checks out. though for me having a kid was the moment the switch really flipped. little dude seems so much more important than the relatively insignificant shit i deal with day in and day out. if i could not work and just hang with him all the time i would do it a f'n heartbeat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34047262)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:16 PM
Author: grizzly hyperventilating legend telephone

Realizing work is flame has been very liberating for me. I used to wonder why I could get away with slacking sometimes and not others, and think my supervisors were, with few exceptions, supersmart workaholics. Now that I understand that they're all as mediocre and depressed as me and have basically developed different strategies to fake it with their peers and supervisors, it allows me to be a lot less anxious minute to minute and day to day at work. It's also hilarious to realize that this is how normal people think of work, and only aspie lawyers think they're "rigorous scholars" who earn every penny they make with the force of their intellects.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045795)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:17 PM
Author: motley brethren theatre

About 3 weeks into BIGLAW. Been that way ever since.

20 consecutive years of education in preparation for a "real" career, and 3 weeks into it I realized it was all flame and completely unhealthy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045810)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: thirsty resort

Haven't lost it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045826)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy cyan institution

2nd divorce

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045877)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 3:55 PM
Author: yellow office party of the first part

all one needs to survive is a passion for distraction in some form, really

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34046771)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:00 PM
Author: indigo curious fortuitous meteor dog poop

3 months in. It's usually some old geezer who's been there several years who complains to you about how shitty the organization is under the guise of showing you the ropes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34046822)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:24 PM
Author: harsh multi-billionaire

The sooner you realize that there is no such thing as "passion" for 99% of jobs out there, the better. The lower your expectations are on deriving meaning from your job, the better. To make good money but also have time to spend outside work with friends and family is the "passion."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34047015)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:53 PM
Author: outnumbered exhilarant site



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34047233)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: Swashbuckling shitlib private investor

Before I ever started work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34047271)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 6:47 PM
Author: outnumbered exhilarant site

Ah, starting out ahead.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34048024)