What sort of girl with "strong conservative values" a) does this and b) reveals or to some guy she just met? Also why would she be weeping and breaking down and shit? This is a story about how the OP thinks a woman would react in a situation like this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34298419)

that is a hard combo to find man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34290674)

Being "forced" to MFF to square things up would be kind of hot actually.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34297425)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34290800)

Sounds like the type of high-T chick that would channel all her sexual energy into her husband. And she’s obviously into anal etc. should make for a happy marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34290860)

TITCR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34291336)

pretty low bar you got there. well done flame cooking here, subtly bringing it right to the shark jump point with the DP. playing along, i'd say that there's a big difference between whether you can let it slide just from a past is past standpoing (defensible) vs. ignoring that it is a harbinger of things to come (wilfully ignorant)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34290799)

I mentioned dp bc I've been posting here since PR days and I know that will be the first question lol

As far as it being a sign of who she truly is and I'm risking a repeat I really really doubt it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34290829)

how old was she at the time this happened, and how long have you been going out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34290840)

2 months but we hang out a ton, things are otherwise great

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34290859)

Really not flame, I don't post much but didn't know where to turn since you dudes are mostly on same page when it comes to this

The fact she told me despite knowing how horribly destructive it would be makes me weirdly trust her even more. But I still don't know if I can stomach this forever. Told her I need time to think

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34290929)

I'm still 95% dumping

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34290971)

then you'll each have one on the other.

or you could parlay this into a mff threesome with her. she might go for it if you tell her it's your fantasy, and if it kills the relationship well you were 95% gonna kill it anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34291046)

1) Cup size?

2) Shaved?

3) Swallow? (either with them or with you)

Please update and re-submit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34290723)

She basically disclosed it saying she wants to be 100% honest about everything and doesn't want me to put myself in a situation where I'm unknowingly dating a girl who has qualities I don't know about. She was crying and said she knows I would lose respect for her and may break it off

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34290776)

where did they nut?

does she want another?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34290786)

Said they both had condoms on so she didn't blow them

Basically they tried dp, didn't work, and both fucked her

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34290809)

I actually asked after this came up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34290865)

she also has extremely high T for a girl and will cheat on you down the road.

also, she has no common sense because a girl with common sense would NEVER disclose this to someone she wanted to be serious about. "being 100% honest" = putting the burden of her actions on you based on some Disney fantasy of "full disclosure".

ATD.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34290975)

high T is actually better because usually that kind of girl will keep fucking you. the chick looking for approval is having sex for reasons other than sex, so you could find yourself in a dead bedroom situation, or, imo, that kind of girl is actually more likely to cheat than the high T one.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34291008)

you're done here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34291175)

"Please," she pleaded, eyes bright with uncried tears. "You don't understand. It was just--I wanted it at the time. I, I can't--I can't lie. I did."

"I--look. If we're going to move past this, if we even can, just. Just please tell me everything," said OP. "Even if it hurts," he added.

OP's girlfriend dabbed just beneath her eyes with a Kleenex, the way her mother had taught her. "Okay," she inhaled. "Okay."

"I was 21, and I had just read 'Fifty Shades of Grey.' It's--corny, I know. That isn't what dominance and submission is like at all. I just want, I don't know, something quieter, you know? Like I love cooking for you, cleaning for you. For me, that's my submission. It's, like, less--"

"Stop deflecting."

"Okay. Okay. Well so anyway I had been reading about dominance and submission online, and I got, I don't know. I was just really turned on by the idea of being used, you know? Like a piece of meat. Like I was just my body. Like some kind of fucktoy. And I felt like, I just--I don't know, my sexuality was kind of developed before we ever met you know? Like it's one of the reasons you like me, right?"

"Right. Go on."

"Well, so, I don't know, I knew this guy from class, Andrew, who always threw off a 'vibe'. I don't know. He would ..." she trailed off, her eyes turning upward to the ceiling as though lost in memory. A curl on the corner of her lips began to form, but immediately straightened as OP's girlfriend remembered herself. She cast her eyes back down to her hands, fidgeting in her lap, Indian-style. She wrung them, as a child might confessing to stealing candy.

OP stared at her, his expression resolutely neutral so as not to betray his hurt. This moment was his chance to discover the whole damnable thing, and he needed to know.

She continued. "He would, like, he would tell me to do things, not ask, you know? Like he would ignore whatever the professor said about upcoming assignments and play on his phone, and as class was dismissed, he would say to me, 'Shay, tell me what's assigned.' He didn't ask, 'Hey, Shay, what was assigned?' I don't know. I just. It was like a jolt every time he would do that. A, like, well whatever, a jolt."

OP gulped and hoped it wasn't audible.

"One day he said that we should hang out after class, and it was on Thursday afternoon so I think he knew I didn't have anywhere to be the next day. So I did. And we hadn't ever hung out before, but he put his hand on the small of my back when we walked, and he kind of 'led' me, I don't know. It isn't anything but--well you know! Like you know when you pull on my hand when we're holding hands? I like that, and having his hand on the small of my back was like being led around, but even moreso." She smiled. "You know?"

"I know," OP replied monotonically. "Go on."

"Well he took me back to his place, and his roommate was there, and he said that his name was Chad, which, is funny! Right? I mean I know that you talk to your lawyer friends--"

"--Just go on," OP interjected sharply.

"So Chad didn't get up from the couch to shake my hand or say hi or anything like that, which I thought was weird. He just sat there with his arms on the back of the couch, spread. And I felt really uncomfortable and kind of threatened, but... I mean I was also, like, you know. Are you sure this is okay?"

"It's okay," the OP said, feigning comfort. "We have to get through this. Just go on."

His girlfriend regarded him, distressed, her voice quavering. "Lee, I really don't--"

"Just go on."

She sighed, lowering her voice a register, resigned. "Okay. Andrew pushed me forward by my lower back, and I was wet. And he stopped pushing me right in front of Chad, and then Andrew pressed down on my shoulders. And I asked him what he was doing, and he just said ... 'Down.' So I got on my knees. And then Andrew sat on the loveseat across the room. And Chad said, 'Now ... suck.' And I was so confused, and scared, and I really wanted to just run out of the room. I ... look I can't do this," OP's girlfriend said, mascara already running down her cheeks.

"If you wanted to leave so badly, why didn't you?"

"Lee I was nervous! I don't know! I could have! I should have. I--I know. I should have. You're right. I just ... part of me. Nevermind."

"Say it."

"Lee, please--"

"Say it."

"Part of me didn't want to, okay?"

The air was suddenly putrid, and heavy, and close. A smell like sulfur filled OP's nostrils.

"Just finish up. If I don't know, we can't move on," OP lied to himself, and incidentally to her. OP's girlfriend gritted her teeth.

"Whatever, fine. So I wanted to. He told me to suck and that's what I did. I crept over to him, and I undid his belt, and I rubbed my face against his cock, and it was warm, and I licked it up and down. And I sucked. And Chad didn't say anything, but he grabbed my hair by the root and he controlled my head and how fast I was going. And then Andrew came over ..." OP's girlfriend's breath caught in her throat, her chest began to visibly rise and fall, and her tempo quickened.

"Andrew came over and told me to get on all fours, so I did, and he undid my jeans and pulled them down to my knees. And my ass was out, and my pussy was out, and he rubbed my clit and told me that this is the only thing I was ever made to do, and he could tell because I was, you know, running down my thigh. And I came more-or-less immediately, and he kept rubbing, and it was so sensitive, and it hurt, but he kept going and it felt good to hurt like that."

OP had always read that this was the point in the story that people were supposed to get turned on. He had kept waiting to get hard. But the lump was not in his pants; it was in his throat.

"And, whatever. I don't know. He fucked me from behind and he came inside of me and Chad came inside of my mouth. And then Andrew told me to get dressed and leave, and that he would text me if he wanted me again, and so I did. It wasn't more than 20 minutes, the whole thing. It wasn't anything and I felt disgusting afterward. And I'm sorry," OP's girlfriend began to cry. "I'm sorry. Lee, I--"

"Do you masturbate to it?" OP interrupted.

"Lee, what! No, I don't--"

"Do, you, masturbate, to, it?" OP interrupted again.

"I don't see what--"

"DO YOU RUB YOUR FUCKING CLIT TO IT!" OP screamed.

"YES! I THINK ABOUT BEING FUCKED BY ANDREW AND I THINK ABOUT SUCKING CHAD'S COCK! AND I RUB MY CLIT ABOUT IT AND THINK ABOUT BEING THEIR LITTLE WHORE, OKAY! IT'S WHAT I FUCKING WANTED AT THE TIME!" OP's girlfriend screamed back, collapsing her body onto the bed and hiding her face immediately after.

OP watched her cry for a couple of minutes, his face burning, his ears ringing like a gun had been fired in the room. His limbs felt heavy, and awkward. He searched for a place to put his hands that made any sense at all.

Eventually OP stood up from the bed, and walked over to the bedroom door, glancing back at his girlfriend, who was still hiding her face and softly crying.

"I just need a minute. I love you, sweetheart. I just need a second."

"Okay," she weakly replied.

OP sighed and walked over to his laptop, opening it and bringing up his Chrome browser and clicking on the first-listed favorite site.

"GF is a super traditional girl," he began to type.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34291227)

Small quibble though: you used that exact "eyes bright with uncried tears" line in "in your girlfriend and I'm mad", and unless that's an easily accessible cliche (e.g. A well known song lyric) that kind of repetition is NOT OKAY

Edit: "I'm* your girlfriend," etc., but what a typo!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34291437)

me and aaron sorkin dancing on the grave of good writing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S78RzZr3IwI

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34291468)

Holy shit! How'd you know?!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34292528)

Before I made the thread my mind was 95% made up justt wanted confirmation

Thanks bros

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34291287)

xo woman: makes post about herself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#34333504)

the fact that so many xoxoers have a view on this is hilarious

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3743190&forum_id=2#36471828)