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I am surprised misogynist XO is so anti divorce

is it because of family courts and custody/alimony or XO is ...
walnut floppy shrine
  10/18/17
sometimes divorce is harder on the man than on the woman.
Tripping ivory mad cow disease
  10/19/17
Marriage is 180.
Well-lubricated Contagious Genital Piercing Area
  10/18/17
did you change schtick recently? you sound different
walnut floppy shrine
  10/18/17
Everything is 180 now.
Well-lubricated Contagious Genital Piercing Area
  10/18/17
what about eating puppies
walnut floppy shrine
  10/18/17
Sounds 180 to me. They're just a pile of cells like you ...
Well-lubricated Contagious Genital Piercing Area
  10/18/17
damn son. what about being a korean app slut being fucked...
walnut floppy shrine
  10/18/17
New York University is 180.
Well-lubricated Contagious Genital Piercing Area
  10/18/17
i'm done here. gl.
walnut floppy shrine
  10/18/17
180 subthread.
razzmatazz coral alpha
  10/18/17
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  10/19/17
think of the kids!
Angry stead preventive strike
  10/18/17
children of divorce don't feel they suddenly have 2 homes. ...
walnut floppy shrine
  10/18/17
yeah thats what i meant. i wasnt being ironic. hehe.
Angry stead preventive strike
  10/18/17
what's your schtick
walnut floppy shrine
  10/18/17
being honest and racist. and stupid, but meaning well. i...
Angry stead preventive strike
  10/18/17
truth can be hurtful to people.
walnut floppy shrine
  10/18/17
stfu
Exhilarant beta generalized bond center
  10/18/17
yeah. seems to be the case. its hurtful when others point it...
Angry stead preventive strike
  10/18/17
The truth is 180.
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  10/18/17
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  10/26/17
I'm not anti divorce. What's the point of forcing someone to...
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  10/18/17
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  10/19/17
Was typing drunk on phone
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  10/19/17
yeah, once you have kids, you can't divorce until they are 1...
Comical unholy property scourge upon the earth
  10/18/17
i'd gladly take beatings to stay married.
walnut floppy shrine
  10/18/17
heroic woman right here
Dashing cerise school
  10/18/17
Would depend on the beating I guess
Curious Pit
  10/19/17
Perhaps I just don't have enough bad relationship experience...
walnut floppy shrine
  10/19/17
I was being facetious. If some guy is like punching you in ...
Curious Pit
  10/19/17
The 18 thing is sort of flame. I get the notion that you wa...
yellow excitant temple
  10/19/17
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  10/26/17
There are many on Xo who would just like to tear down other ...
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  10/18/17
Xoxo is not mysogynist. By any objective standard, we love w...
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  10/18/17
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obsidian ladyboy
  10/19/17
But every woman any xo poaster doesn't like for any reason, ...
Curious Pit
  10/19/17
(shrew)
Well-lubricated Contagious Genital Piercing Area
  10/19/17
oh I agree, by my definition I must be a shrew
Curious Pit
  10/19/17
Shrews are 180.
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I love this place but it's pretty hard on women. Men give...
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  10/19/17
This board practically exists for the sake of GC depression-...
obsidian ladyboy
  10/19/17
Men are bashed constantly on this website.
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  10/19/17
But not just for being a man.
Curious Pit
  10/19/17
men are constantly bashed for not matching up to a masculine...
wonderful hairless roast beef tanning salon
  10/19/17
because men get fukked in divorce
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  10/19/17
Only because usually its the wife who has been the primary c...
Curious Pit
  10/19/17
it goes deeper than that https://www.the-american-interest....
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  10/19/17
lol
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oh what a sacrifice! retiring at 33? ooh very tough.
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  10/19/17
"sacrificed their career" Now that women genera...
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  10/19/17
hardest job in the world!
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No that's something like being a child uranium miner in some...
Curious Pit
  10/19/17
child uranium miners in third world countries are 180.
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because marriage is naturally a patriarchal institution.
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  10/19/17
No shit: look at what successful men tend to do, they marry....
Vermilion Stag Film
  10/19/17
That's because they create a Venn diagram issue for themselv...
Thriller erotic useless brakes
  10/19/17
CR also successful women skew childless because they actuall...
walnut floppy shrine
  10/19/17
agreed, their "career" is their baby, which is sad...
Thriller erotic useless brakes
  10/19/17
The most successful women, yes, because they have all that e...
Curious Pit
  10/19/17
Yea most successful women have children. Most women have chi...
walnut floppy shrine
  10/19/17
The prevalence is lower among the most highly successful wom...
Curious Pit
  10/19/17
Who's the most successful chick out there? Sandberg? Nooyi? ...
walnut floppy shrine
  10/19/17
I was thinking specifically of female lawyers - like superio...
Curious Pit
  10/19/17
what a horrid concept of "successful"
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  10/19/17
>> However, not surprisingly, Kin found that the excep...
Thriller erotic useless brakes
  10/19/17
My guess: deep down, most men identify themselves somewhere ...
Vermilion Stag Film
  10/19/17
Eh, idk. A lot of women who get married and have kids really...
Thriller erotic useless brakes
  10/19/17
The women you refer to are the kind of women who you would b...
Vermilion Stag Film
  10/19/17
The great majority of women want to have children and unders...
Curious Pit
  10/19/17
The great majority of women want to have children, but many ...
Vermilion Stag Film
  10/19/17
By many do you mostly mean the one in your life.
walnut floppy shrine
  10/19/17
Sadly, I include family members, friends, and yes my Wife in...
Vermilion Stag Film
  10/19/17
Read All Joy and No Fun and get back to us. And yes, Gen X ...
yellow excitant temple
  10/19/17
this is probably a big reason why birthrates are so low
Thriller erotic useless brakes
  10/19/17
You'd have to be pretty oblivious to how the world works if ...
Curious Pit
  10/19/17
Oh, I could not agree with you more.
Vermilion Stag Film
  10/19/17
I understand you are going through a tough issue with your s...
Thriller erotic useless brakes
  10/19/17
Fair
Vermilion Stag Film
  10/19/17
Honestly, my Wife's lack if interest in being the primary ca...
Vermilion Stag Film
  10/19/17
yeah, i am very sorry for that :(
Thriller erotic useless brakes
  10/19/17
Hey man, I've got an amazing daughter and another on the way...
Vermilion Stag Film
  10/19/17
I'm not sure why you willingly decided to have another child...
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  10/19/17
Reasonable to question the decision to have another kid. Th...
Vermilion Stag Film
  10/19/17
I think your marriage is one of the instances where I can se...
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  10/19/17
You pretty much get it. It's not a good situation, but it w...
Vermilion Stag Film
  10/19/17
Yeah because throwing a newborn in the mix always brings peo...
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  10/19/17
Yup. But here's to hoping.
Vermilion Stag Film
  10/19/17
Interested in what the signs were when you were dating. Coul...
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  10/19/17
Sure. Had a much different persona in public than when deal...
Vermilion Stag Film
  10/20/17
If that's the case then you have fair cause for complaint.
Curious Pit
  10/19/17
I don't identify with that coke snitch.
vengeful boistinker
  10/19/17
Xo “men” are a bunch of rong time misogynists until given a ...
frozen ticket booth
  10/19/17
Bc getting divorced bc of some existential bullshit "I'...
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  10/19/17
I am still surprised at the hugely negative reaction to the ...
walnut floppy shrine
  10/19/17
If he had no kids it would be totally different. But with...
Curious Pit
  10/19/17
What if it were fratty (well known and constantly complained...
walnut floppy shrine
  10/19/17
I would still be strongly against it. The only time I thi...
Curious Pit
  10/19/17
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  10/19/17
RoundUp's negative reaction is only partly due to his actual...
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  10/19/17
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  10/19/17
Divorce is ttt Its dysfunctional, destroys families, and...
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turquoise stubborn resort knife
  10/19/17
There is a time and a place for divorce. “I fell out of ...
azure hissy fit brethren
  10/19/17
Credited Divorce should be reserved for cases of severe a...
burgundy church
  10/19/17
This was the law until recently.
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  10/19/17
This change in law is probably the biggest contributor to th...
turquoise stubborn resort knife
  10/20/17
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  10/19/17
you're kind of stupid so it makes sense you wouldn't underst...
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  10/19/17
Protip: xoxo tends to be male oriented, and divorce tends to...
Vermilion Stag Film
  10/19/17
Divorce is really horrible for kids. I echo the thoughts ...
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  10/19/17
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burgundy church
  10/19/17
Even without kids it tends to be a horrible idea, but with k...
turquoise stubborn resort knife
  10/19/17
I think you overestimate an unhappy couple's ability to rema...
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  10/19/17
of course they should divorce if it's really toxic, but you ...
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  10/19/17
I'm not sure what you mean by "create their own problem...
outnumbered masturbator internal respiration
  10/19/17
Divorce is 180.
Well-lubricated Contagious Genital Piercing Area
  10/19/17
xo isn't a hivemind. There are some militant anti-marriage p...
wonderful hairless roast beef tanning salon
  10/19/17
To be fair, XOers are against men divorcing too. Divorce be...
turquoise stubborn resort knife
  10/19/17
Not exactly a shocker. Xo is very conservative especially ab...
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turquoise stubborn resort knife
  10/19/17
the flip side of this is that xo is anti-marriage
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  10/19/17
Not contradictory. Marriage should be taken seriously. Eit...
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  10/19/17
The true definition of manhood is rectitude.
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  10/19/17
(xoxo freemason)
Appetizing Dingle Berry University
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  10/26/17
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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:13 PM
Author: walnut floppy shrine

is it because of family courts and custody/alimony or XO is anti-divorce regardless of that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475767)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:26 PM
Author: Tripping ivory mad cow disease

sometimes divorce is harder on the man than on the woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34479144)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:14 PM
Author: Well-lubricated Contagious Genital Piercing Area

Marriage is 180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475780)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:15 PM
Author: walnut floppy shrine

did you change schtick recently? you sound different

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475785)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:16 PM
Author: Well-lubricated Contagious Genital Piercing Area

Everything is 180 now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475798)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:17 PM
Author: walnut floppy shrine

what about eating puppies

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475808)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:18 PM
Author: Well-lubricated Contagious Genital Piercing Area

Sounds 180 to me.

They're just a pile of cells like you or me! Eat up!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475817)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:18 PM
Author: walnut floppy shrine

damn son.

what about being a korean app slut being fucked by nyuug.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475826)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:19 PM
Author: Well-lubricated Contagious Genital Piercing Area

New York University is 180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475838)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:20 PM
Author: walnut floppy shrine

i'm done here. gl.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475842)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:17 PM
Author: razzmatazz coral alpha

180 subthread.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475813)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:21 PM
Author: adventurous sepia filthpig institution



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475846)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:21 PM
Author: Well-lubricated Contagious Genital Piercing Area



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475850)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:35 AM
Author: passionate idiotic sanctuary



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34477981)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:15 PM
Author: Angry stead preventive strike

think of the kids!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475787)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:16 PM
Author: walnut floppy shrine

children of divorce don't feel they suddenly have 2 homes.

they feel they are homeless.

unless relationship was terrible, divorce is selfish and for the mom and or dad, not for the children.

your future GFs, BFs will innately want to kill and/or fuck your children.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475795)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:17 PM
Author: Angry stead preventive strike

yeah thats what i meant. i wasnt being ironic. hehe.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475803)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:17 PM
Author: walnut floppy shrine

what's your schtick

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475806)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:18 PM
Author: Angry stead preventive strike

being honest and racist. and stupid, but meaning well.

i just want justice and truth. and beauty. and i bemoan all the terror of life sometimes.

thats pretty much my shtick.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475820)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:19 PM
Author: walnut floppy shrine

truth can be hurtful to people.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475834)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:21 PM
Author: Exhilarant beta generalized bond center

stfu

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475851)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:21 PM
Author: Angry stead preventive strike

yeah. seems to be the case. its hurtful when others point it at me, too. they say truth shall set you free, but truth can cut like a knife when the cobwebs of the mind have calcified as protection against it and it feels like literal pain.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475852)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:22 PM
Author: Well-lubricated Contagious Genital Piercing Area

The truth is 180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475861)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:23 PM
Author: razzmatazz coral alpha



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:08 AM
Author: Histrionic Snowy Toaster



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476637)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:14 AM
Author: fuchsia gunner range



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476671)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 8:31 AM
Author: Sooty Spectacular Lodge Pervert



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34477764)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 1:02 PM
Author: pale aggressive karate station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34479428)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 1:04 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brunch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34479444)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:38 AM
Author: multi-colored white keepsake machete depressive



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34532050)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:17 PM
Author: Fragrant twinkling old irish cottage

I'm not anti divorce. What's the point of forcing someone to be with you who doesn't want to be with you? Ah but que the protests of "but muh Western Civilization!" Now ask yourself what's the point of Western Civilization if it's just a bunch of people living in desperation. It's all just flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475809)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 2:08 AM
Author: costumed stage son of senegal



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Date: October 19th, 2017 8:40 AM
Author: Fragrant twinkling old irish cottage

Was typing drunk on phone

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34477791)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:46 PM
Author: shimmering box office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34479318)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:19 PM
Author: Comical unholy property scourge upon the earth

yeah, once you have kids, you can't divorce until they are 18. if you do, you are a degenerate nigger.

you can beat your wife, but you can't leave her. if you have kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34475827)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:41 PM
Author: walnut floppy shrine

i'd gladly take beatings to stay married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476021)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:42 PM
Author: Dashing cerise school

heroic woman right here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476033)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:12 AM
Author: Curious Pit

Would depend on the beating I guess

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476657)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: walnut floppy shrine

Perhaps I just don't have enough bad relationship experience but I cannot fathom what kind of ape shit would throw away a marriage with kids unless they feared for their life. That's what it would take for me basically.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476807)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:32 AM
Author: Curious Pit

I was being facetious. If some guy is like punching you in the face then obviously you can't stick around and just take that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34477968)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:59 AM
Author: yellow excitant temple

The 18 thing is sort of flame. I get the notion that you wait until they're out of the house, but I have a couple close work friends who are going through divorces and their youngests are now at college and it's still brutal and the kids are still losing their shit. I'm aware of other examples where the adult kids are relieved, but I'm also aware of examples where the kids recognize their parents were a horrible match and they're glad their parents separated when they were young so they don't remember the tension and fights (IME usually scenarios that don't involve step moms and step dads). Your adult kids will be histrionic if you basically did a good job hiding from them how unhappy your marriage was, so all that work to put their needs first ends up being for nothing in their eyes.

This is just XO being stupidly doctrinaire about a complex issue, like usual. You fuck your kids up by staying if your relationship with your wife is toxic enough. And even if you stay in good shape and pull chicks, enjoy all the new-found freedom, and you have enough money to enjoy life it's still shitty to have the person who was the center of your life grow to hate you. And it's completely devastating if your adult kids take her side and cut you off (which is what happened to one of my work friends).

The bottom line is that if you get married and have kids you need to work very hard to make the marriage good and keep it that way because all the alternatives from that point forward are way fucking worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478127)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 5:53 AM
Author: Appetizing Dingle Berry University



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Date: October 18th, 2017 10:44 PM
Author: know-it-all odious public bath hunting ground

There are many on Xo who would just like to tear down other posters but who also hate women, so they war within themselves when a poster is getting divorced as to whether to tear down the poster for getting divorced or to shit all over the woman

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476046)



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Date: October 18th, 2017 11:24 PM
Author: Vigorous bistre business firm

Xoxo is not mysogynist. By any objective standard, we love women here. We obsess over fempoasters to the point of celebrity. We love rate her threads. Our love of women knows no bounds.

We do hate masculine, ruined megashrews who have given up their femininity for trivial gc bullshit. It is not women we hate. These Shrews have nothing in common with women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476357)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:10 AM
Author: obsidian ladyboy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476648)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:13 AM
Author: Curious Pit

But every woman any xo poaster doesn't like for any reason, no matter how trivial or transient, is immediately labelled a shrew.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476662)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: Well-lubricated Contagious Genital Piercing Area

(shrew)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476763)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: Curious Pit

oh I agree, by my definition I must be a shrew

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476781)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:35 AM
Author: Well-lubricated Contagious Genital Piercing Area

Shrews are 180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476817)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 2:10 AM
Author: razzmatazz coral alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34477214)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:32 AM
Author: Curious Pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34477971)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:15 PM
Author: pale aggressive karate station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34479072)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:18 AM
Author: balding dopamine

I love this place but it's pretty hard on women.

Men give up lots of things for trivial GC bullshit, too. Do we equally criticize those men?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476696)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:20 AM
Author: obsidian ladyboy

This board practically exists for the sake of GC depression-threading.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476724)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:51 AM
Author: wonderful hairless roast beef tanning salon

Men are bashed constantly on this website.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478065)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:53 AM
Author: Curious Pit

But not just for being a man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478076)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 10:07 AM
Author: wonderful hairless roast beef tanning salon

men are constantly bashed for not matching up to a masculine ideal in the same way that women are bashed for not matching up to a feminine ideal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478187)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:15 AM
Author: concupiscible blue national sweet tailpipe

because men get fukked in divorce

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476680)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:18 AM
Author: Curious Pit

Only because usually its the wife who has been the primary caregiver and sacrificed her career for the family.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476697)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:23 AM
Author: concupiscible blue national sweet tailpipe

it goes deeper than that

https://www.the-american-interest.com/2013/06/06/are-divorce-courts-unfair-to-men/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476744)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:25 AM
Author: Hot purple location

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476754)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: slap-happy double fault boiling water

oh what a sacrifice! retiring at 33? ooh very tough.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476760)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 2:11 AM
Author: costumed stage son of senegal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34477216)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 8:35 AM
Author: Sooty Spectacular Lodge Pervert

"sacrificed their career"

Now that women generally see having a career as beneficial beyond it being a necessity in order to gain and maintain material wellbeing, can us men finagle that not working and being a house husband constitutes sacrificing for the benefit of wife and family?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34477779)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 10:01 AM
Author: low-t chartreuse stain forum

hardest job in the world!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478141)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 10:03 AM
Author: Curious Pit

No that's something like being a child uranium miner in some third world country.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478159)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 1:03 PM
Author: pale aggressive karate station

child uranium miners in third world countries are 180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34479432)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 11:41 AM
Author: diverse athletic conference



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478862)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: lascivious heaven mexican

because marriage is naturally a patriarchal institution.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476761)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:21 AM
Author: Vermilion Stag Film

No shit: look at what successful men tend to do, they marry. Pro athletes, rock stars - they marry. Look at what successful women do - they don't marry, they divorce, or they stay single.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34477929)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:29 AM
Author: Thriller erotic useless brakes

That's because they create a Venn diagram issue for themselves.

As they become more successful they often look for a mate who is equally or more successful, in addition to other characteristics they might desire, and that drastically reduces the amount of available men, which starts to make it exceedingly hard for them to find a man who wants them back out of that small pool.

This is compounded by the fact that successful men often don't care much about having a wife who has a successful career, in large part because those men are already successful and the marginal value of more career success in a household is low. I.e., women and men look for different things in a mate.

I mean, if I'm a biglaw partner pulling down $2M per year, am I really gonna look for a workaholic shrew making $500k, $1M or $2M per year, or would I rather have someone hot, who takes care of all the other shit that I don't have the time to address, and who can raise a loving family with me?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34477958)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:32 AM
Author: walnut floppy shrine

CR also successful women skew childless because they actually stay in the work force, Childlessness enables success IMO, not successful women choose to be husbandless and childless.

Women with children tend to focus less on work, or bow out entirely.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34477970)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:35 AM
Author: Thriller erotic useless brakes

agreed, their "career" is their baby, which is sad.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34477982)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:37 AM
Author: Curious Pit

The most successful women, yes, because they have all that extra time to devote to work instead of babbies.

But you can still be reasonably successful with children, particularly if you've achieved some success before having them and can come to some amenable work arrangement.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34477992)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:39 AM
Author: walnut floppy shrine

Yea most successful women have children. Most women have children.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478002)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:43 AM
Author: Curious Pit

The prevalence is lower among the most highly successful women I know.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478019)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:45 AM
Author: walnut floppy shrine

Who's the most successful chick out there? Sandberg? Nooyi? Whitman? Meyer? They're all moms. For politicians Gillibrand Warren Clinton Pelosi all moms. Maybe it's just less common in law firms.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478033)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:48 AM
Author: Curious Pit

I was thinking specifically of female lawyers - like superior court judges, the most successful BIGLAW partners, etc. A lot of them don't have kids.

I imagine its the same in other professional fields at the very apex, e.g for female surgeons.

EDIT: googled:

"However, not surprisingly, Kin found that the exceptional demands of surgery affected women’s careers and family trajectories differently than men’s. Twenty-five percent of female surgeons are single, compared to only 6 percent of male surgeons. Similarly, Kin discovered that 60 percent of female surgeons have children versus 92 percent of male surgeons."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478045)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:52 AM
Author: wonderful hairless roast beef tanning salon

what a horrid concept of "successful"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478072)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:54 AM
Author: Thriller erotic useless brakes

>> However, not surprisingly, Kin found that the exceptional demands of surgery affected women’s careers and family trajectories differently than men’s. <<

Is this right? Or is a lot of the effect that female surgeons also look for/marry successful partners and not house husbands who will pick up slack at home?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478082)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:36 AM
Author: Vermilion Stag Film

My guess: deep down, most men identify themselves somewhere between Tony Soprano/ Tim Allen/ Homer Simpson. Most women identify themselves somewhere between Carrie / Belle/ Kim Kardashian. Men, just being themselves, will selfishly take care of their family; women, just being themselves, will selfishly take care of themselves.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34477984)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:37 AM
Author: Thriller erotic useless brakes

Eh, idk. A lot of women who get married and have kids really do love their kids and families and strive to take care of them. It's the reason why getting married and especially having kids tends to make women more politically conservative.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34477990)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:39 AM
Author: Vermilion Stag Film

The women you refer to are the kind of women who you would be lucky to find. If you consider that they do this in spite of what they would rather being doing, it makes them all the more 180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478001)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:41 AM
Author: Curious Pit

The great majority of women want to have children and understand that its going to involve considerable sacrifice on their part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478011)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:43 AM
Author: Vermilion Stag Film

The great majority of women want to have children, but many of them don't understand that its going to involve considerable sacrifice on their part.

Fixed it for you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478017)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:43 AM
Author: walnut floppy shrine

By many do you mostly mean the one in your life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478021)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:48 AM
Author: Vermilion Stag Film

Sadly, I include family members, friends, and yes my Wife in this category.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478048)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 10:09 AM
Author: yellow excitant temple

Read All Joy and No Fun and get back to us. And yes, Gen X and Millennials (and Boomers for that matter) are way more selfish and therefore worse and more bitchmade about accepting the trade offs of becoming a parent. So they go out of their way to make up excuses as to why it's SO. MUCH. HARDER. for them than it was for earlier generations. Somehow the billion modern technologies and conveniences that this generation enjoys do not figure prominently in their analysis.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478201)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 10:10 AM
Author: Thriller erotic useless brakes

this is probably a big reason why birthrates are so low

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478208)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:44 AM
Author: Curious Pit

You'd have to be pretty oblivious to how the world works if you think you're just going to effortlessly pop out a couple of kids and they are somehow going to raise themselves while you go back to a SATC lifestyle.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478028)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:48 AM
Author: Vermilion Stag Film

Oh, I could not agree with you more.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478044)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:48 AM
Author: Thriller erotic useless brakes

I understand you are going through a tough issue with your spouse, but a lot of women who have kids really do work hard for those kids.

And I say that as someone who thinks women can be really selfish and narcissistic.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478050)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:49 AM
Author: Vermilion Stag Film

Fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478053)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 10:02 AM
Author: Vermilion Stag Film

Honestly, my Wife's lack if interest in being the primary caretaker of our child has been the worst part of my marriage, and I'm saying that as a man who hasn't had sex in over 6 months. It drives me nuts that she won't change diapers, take my child to school in the morning, read to her, get up when she's having a nightmare, bath her (ever) - besides for the fact that it's brutal on me to run a law firm and then have to run home and be both Mon & Dad, it's got to be terrible for my child to not have a loving, attentive mother. It kills me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478157)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 10:05 AM
Author: Thriller erotic useless brakes

yeah, i am very sorry for that :(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478173)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 10:07 AM
Author: Vermilion Stag Film

Hey man, I've got an amazing daughter and another on the way. My blessings outweigh my troubles.

That being said, I have no idea how my marriage is going to survive having two kids. No idea.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478185)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 11:47 AM
Author: outnumbered masturbator internal respiration

I'm not sure why you willingly decided to have another child with somebody who is a terrible mother. That is unfair to your currrent daughter and unborn child. It screws up children terribly to have a fucked up parent, particularly when it's the mom. It's actually better to have a completely absent/dead parent than a fucked up one.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478903)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 11:53 AM
Author: Vermilion Stag Film

Reasonable to question the decision to have another kid. The only thing I can tell you is that I didn't want to have another kid until we went to marriage counseling and I did my best to stick to it. However, she wanted that child on her schedule - it was easy for her, we have so little sex that I jumped at the opportunity to get laid, and she got pregnant on try #1.

We never went to marriage counseling. By the way, I fucking hate counseling, but I was serious about going - now, what's the point of trying to push her to go when she doesn't want to.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478937)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:11 PM
Author: outnumbered masturbator internal respiration

I think your marriage is one of the instances where I can see divorce actually benefitting the kids. Given that your wife is prone to screaming and outbursts, it creates a very unstable situation in your household. Given that one of the main jobs as a parent is to teach children how to manage their emotions and help them gain the coping skills to deal with things that life inevitably will throw their way, your children's direct role model is somebody who doesn't know how to do that. I'm sure you know all this and I'm sorry you feel stuck. I don't think xoxo should be so black and white about divorce and my own parents are an example of a couple who should've divorced long before I was in my 20s. It would've made my childhood a lot better to not live in a state of screaming and doors slamming.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34479049)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:29 PM
Author: Vermilion Stag Film

You pretty much get it. It's not a good situation, but it was foreseeable that our marriage would be this way had I just paid attention to the signs when I was dating. I'm going to continue to do the best I can under the circumstances.

This last weekend was awful, just screaming and yelling at any perceived slight. She broke into an anger/panic three separate times over the weekend that ended in tears. The first was because I took my mother fishing for two hours, like I said I was going to do and she agreed was a good idea (the house was messy and it was stressing her out). The second was because I took longer to mow the lawn that what I said it would by about 30 minutes (I never do what I say I'll do), and the last time it was because I was cleaning a different room than what she wanted (I never do what I say). Bear in mind, I'm cleaning, maintaining the house, watching our kid while she spends the majority of the day watching TV and sleeping.

So, I took all this in stride - there's no arguing with someone who is totally out of control of their emotions. It's funny, we never make up, there's no forgiveness or mutual understanding of the problem, she just loses steam, is not longer mad, and then we go on with our lives like it never happened. It almost doesn't matter that she's mad -the smallest things send her into anger/panic, and she snaps out of it fairly quickly (no more than an hour or two), so I just don't engage at all and simply get our daughter and go on a walk when she is super out of control.

To be a good guy, i set up a nice pregnancy massage for Tuesday for her, and told her I did it because she seemed really stressed. That seemed to help a little, she was in a better mood today.

While I can keep my cool during these frequent outbursts, the insane schedule I'm keeping together with dealing with this madness whenever I'm not working is driving me mad. The only thing that helps is booze, and I'm drinking waaaay more than I should - on a daily basis, Wife goes to sleep at 730 every night, daughter is usually down for the count by 830-900, that leaves me 2 or so hours a night for myself, and I find myself just inhaling booze for those few hours.

I'm hoping things will change for the better after the new baby?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34479169)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:47 PM
Author: outnumbered masturbator internal respiration

Yeah because throwing a newborn in the mix always brings people close together as opposed to creating more stress...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34479329)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:54 PM
Author: Vermilion Stag Film

Yup. But here's to hoping.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34479384)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 1:37 PM
Author: Cowardly laser beams parlor

Interested in what the signs were when you were dating. Could provide a service to you xoers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34479688)



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Date: October 20th, 2017 11:56 AM
Author: Vermilion Stag Film

Sure. Had a much different persona in public than when dealing with her parents. In fact, she is fairly abusive towards her parents, and in time she dropped her act and treats our daughter and me exactly in that manner.

She loved her dog but never took responsibility for caring for it. Her parents would walk the dog and pick up after it.

She stated that she hated doing housework, although when we were dating and engaged she still did housework. Towards the end of the engagement and into the marriage, she was resentful if she had to do even routine housework. She expected to be picked up after and cared for, and I found out towards the end of our engagement that her parents regularly came to her house unannounced to clean her house, mow her lawn, etc.

The biggest sign was that, despite being very hot, there were zero men in her life. There was not one guy who was calling, no one emailing, no one. I asked friends about this, and most of them said about the same thing: guys couldn't put up with her bullshit.

One thing that sticks in my mind was, one night after we had gotten engaged, we were out with a big group, and I was talking to a girl who was a friend/ acquaintance of hers, and the girl says to me something along the lines of: do you know what you're doing, this girl is seriously crazy, you need to know she's out there. Everyone says things like that, but the way she said it stuck with me.

Those are the signs I remember that I regret now ignoring.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34486823)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 10:07 AM
Author: Curious Pit

If that's the case then you have fair cause for complaint.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478189)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:52 PM
Author: vengeful boistinker

I don't identify with that coke snitch.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34479363)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:31 AM
Author: frozen ticket booth

Xo “men” are a bunch of rong time misogynists until given a situation that strikes too close to home. Go figure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476799)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:34 AM
Author: wild love of her life weed whacker

Bc getting divorced bc of some existential bullshit "I'm not happy" or "I'm not in love!" Is total flame ... you aren't going to find a better relationship or happiness anywhere else. We just get bored. It's not worth it to ruin a family chasing something that doesn't exist.

This only applies if you have kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476812)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:35 AM
Author: walnut floppy shrine

I am still surprised at the hugely negative reaction to the leave wife for mistress dude. I bet a well known poaster who frequently airs complaints about his wife on zozo would get a better reaction.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476819)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:36 AM
Author: Curious Pit

If he had no kids it would be totally different.

But with two kids under 5 the world changes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476823)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:37 AM
Author: walnut floppy shrine

What if it were fratty (well known and constantly complained about wife being 200lbs)?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476829)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:40 AM
Author: Curious Pit

I would still be strongly against it.

The only time I think its justifiable is where the parents publicly hate each other so much that they are already making the kids lives a living hell.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476847)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 2:14 AM
Author: costumed stage son of senegal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34477227)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:40 AM
Author: obsidian ladyboy

RoundUp's negative reaction is only partly due to his actual proposal. His actual statements ("I don't see this as an issue of good or evil") make the skin crawl as well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476845)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:42 AM
Author: Dashing cerise school



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34476852)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 8:33 AM
Author: burgundy church

Divorce is ttt

Its dysfunctional, destroys families, and has contributed to the moral rot/decay of america

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Date: October 19th, 2017 10:00 AM
Author: turquoise stubborn resort knife



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Date: October 19th, 2017 8:47 AM
Author: azure hissy fit brethren

There is a time and a place for divorce.

“I fell out of love with my spouse and started having sex with someone else” is not a legit basis when you have kids. That just means you’re selfish and give up easily when the going gets tough.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34477813)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:18 AM
Author: burgundy church

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Divorce should be reserved for cases of severe abuse etc

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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:19 AM
Author: Vermilion Stag Film

This was the law until recently.

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Date: October 20th, 2017 12:05 PM
Author: turquoise stubborn resort knife

This change in law is probably the biggest contributor to the decline in morality in our society.

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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:19 AM
Author: Fighting Embarrassed To The Bone Volcanic Crater Address

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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:10 AM
Author: Ruby native pisswyrm

you're kind of stupid so it makes sense you wouldn't understand stuff

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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:16 AM
Author: Vermilion Stag Film

Protip: xoxo tends to be male oriented, and divorce tends to favor women greatly. Also, real talk, most men want to be married and have a wife, most women don't know what they want (outside of a vague notion of "more").

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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:33 AM
Author: Thriller erotic useless brakes

Divorce is really horrible for kids.

I echo the thoughts of most other poasters on this issue. It's one thing if a couple has no kids (even though I think the idea of vows are important), but once a married couple has kids, their job is to work together for the good of the family, and yes that includes dealing with their petty bullshit.

Obviously in cases of abuse or whatever I agree that divorce is the better option.

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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:39 AM
Author: burgundy church



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:14 PM
Author: turquoise stubborn resort knife

Even without kids it tends to be a horrible idea, but with kids/pets you're also hurting others.

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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:24 PM
Author: outnumbered masturbator internal respiration

I think you overestimate an unhappy couple's ability to remain civil and united in their goal to provide a stable environment for children. That requires a lot of maturity and self discipline, which often one or both spouses don't have, because if they did, they prob wouldn't be having such marital problems in the first place.

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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:25 PM
Author: Thriller erotic useless brakes

of course they should divorce if it's really toxic, but you also underestimate how many people create their own fucking problems.

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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:43 PM
Author: outnumbered masturbator internal respiration

I'm not sure what you mean by "create their own problems" but what I'm getting at is that most people lack the maturity/discipline to be good partners in the first place due to their own personality flaws. They don't know how to communicate, they have a wandering eye, they are selfish, they are spendthrifts, etc etc. that causes problems in marriages obviously.

It's a bit unrealistic to say that it's better to stay together for the kids when the people who are stuck in unhappy marriages tend to have at least one partner who is incapable of creating a stable environment for the kids. And it doesn't need to be obvious like abuse. It could be never coming home from work because you just don't want to be around your spouse or kids, it could be your mom locking herself in her room crying for hours because she is overwhelmed, etc. those things traumatized children just as much. I just think a truly unhappy (versus an indifferent one where you basically have a roommate) marriage where the people truly have conflict means a toxic environment by default and it's wishful thinking to think the couple can suck it up and be civil.

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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:34 AM
Author: Well-lubricated Contagious Genital Piercing Area

Divorce is 180.

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Date: October 19th, 2017 9:54 AM
Author: wonderful hairless roast beef tanning salon

xo isn't a hivemind. There are some militant anti-marriage posters and some pro-family posters. Whenever people say something like "but xo is being inconsistent!" it's like, no shit, there are dozens of us.

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Date: October 19th, 2017 10:01 AM
Author: turquoise stubborn resort knife

To be fair, XOers are against men divorcing too. Divorce because of selfish bullshit is a horrible idea.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478148)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 10:13 AM
Author: Cocky new version senate

Not exactly a shocker. Xo is very conservative especially about traditional family values.

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Date: October 19th, 2017 10:15 AM
Author: wonderful hairless roast beef tanning salon

cr. btw best site to find NSA trannies in SF?

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Date: October 19th, 2017 11:33 AM
Author: turquoise stubborn resort knife



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Date: October 19th, 2017 11:35 AM
Author: Big Maroon Associate Cuckold

the flip side of this is that xo is anti-marriage

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Date: October 19th, 2017 11:53 AM
Author: turquoise stubborn resort knife

Not contradictory. Marriage should be taken seriously. Either commit to it and stick to it or don't get married. Most relationships these days are shallow and temporary and shouldn't result in marriage. Also, the legal system actively discourages marriage, so you shouldn't do it unless you are 100% sure it is the smart thing to do.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34478939)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 11:57 AM
Author: azure hissy fit brethren



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Date: October 19th, 2017 11:58 AM
Author: Cocky new version senate



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:09 PM
Author: Thriller erotic useless brakes



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:50 PM
Author: burgundy church

CRRRRRRRRR

dont get married unless youre 100% sure you and partner are both suited for it, but once youre married, you should be committed to making it work

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Date: October 19th, 2017 1:01 PM
Author: carmine boyish principal's office juggernaut



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Date: October 19th, 2017 12:58 PM
Author: carmine boyish principal's office juggernaut

The true definition of manhood is rectitude.

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Date: October 26th, 2017 5:58 AM
Author: Appetizing Dingle Berry University

(xoxo freemason)

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Date: October 26th, 2017 5:55 AM
Author: Well-lubricated Contagious Genital Piercing Area

Lock women in cages! Make them eat out of dog foot bowls! Jerk off on em!

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Date: October 26th, 2017 9:07 AM
Author: magical national security agency

Weird how a bunch of virgin, aspie, monastic cheapwads drowning in student debt could be against something that would take away 50% of their assets and result in them paying a few grand a month to a woman so she can do nothing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768260&forum_id=2#34532196)