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Is it normal to not give a shit about ex girlfriends?

Exciting ebony library double fault
  10/23/17
I don't think it's a yes or no. Case by case.
Yellow wild space yarmulke
  10/23/17
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Sticky Kitchen
  10/23/17
i feel the same way you do. but it took me time to do so.
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  10/23/17
Healthy in a tradchad raise a family in wheat fields way? No...
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  10/23/17
Can you elaborate on the first point more?
Exciting ebony library double fault
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Sure. I wouldn't say that forgetting / ceasing entirely to g...
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Not every breakup. Most recent breakup I felt 180 after and ...
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  10/23/17
I mentally erase the person entirely once the decision has b...
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This is probably the healthiest moderation of the tragic and...
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Would give a ridiculous amount of money to be able to do thi...
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Women all have this ability unless they get CHAD-DADDIED
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It's a double edged sword. Huge chunks of my life are missin...
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  10/25/17
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Sticky Kitchen
  10/23/17
Same here. Would rather gouge my eyes out than get back with...
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  10/23/17
sometimes you have to completely turn your feelings off to m...
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  10/23/17
I think about my exes as spank bank material and nothing els...
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  10/23/17
The women who you date are fat and ugly so yes. Most men wou...
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  10/23/17
How long is this going to go on for?
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Seems rational and normal. To me, they are like dead peop...
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Ex wife - have some regret about how it turned out and hope ...
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  10/23/17
I dated one girl for over four years and was engaged to anot...
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  10/23/17
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 11:30 AM
Author: Exciting ebony library double fault
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Lots of people here and in general seem to talk about it like they still sort of miss their gfs or they're bummed they broke up.

I view all of my previous relationships as mistakes and any happy moments were just me being naiive or a different person at that point in time. I don't care about any of them and the only thing I miss is being able to have sex with the same person consistently, but that's it. Ultimately I'm more glad that I'm not dating anyone instead of continuing to date anyone I previously dated. The only thing I worry about is finding people I like since it very rarely happens and even when it does usually I lose interest after getting to know the person better.

Is this mentally healthy?

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Date: October 23rd, 2017 11:31 AM
Author: Yellow wild space yarmulke

I don't think it's a yes or no. Case by case.

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Date: October 23rd, 2017 11:31 AM
Author: mahogany dog poop site



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 4:37 PM
Author: Sticky Kitchen



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 11:31 AM
Author: irradiated twinkling spot

i feel the same way you do. but it took me time to do so.

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Date: October 23rd, 2017 11:48 AM
Author: fantasy-prone office gaming laptop

Healthy in a tradchad raise a family in wheat fields way? No. Healthy in a keep my sanity in a postmodern hellscape way? Indubitably.

Normal? No, most guys still get DOPAMINEGAPED by every stupid breakup with every below average slimepit they conjure forth through disproportionately herculean efforts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772311&forum_id=2#34508873)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 11:50 AM
Author: Exciting ebony library double fault

Can you elaborate on the first point more?

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Date: October 23rd, 2017 12:36 PM
Author: fantasy-prone office gaming laptop

Sure. I wouldn't say that forgetting / ceasing entirely to give a shit about former 'lovers' is a natural response to a breakup, but I would say that inability to do so is maladaptive in today's environment.

This relates to my second point in that said response has a staggeringly disproportionate impact on men, who are of course the only sex capable of true sentiment. It's no wonder that Chad theory and related postmodern memes or lifestyles select for handsome brooding psychopaths - any other type of man is destined to be broken irreparable by a woman who was probably not worth the relationship in the first place.

I will add a caveat - occasionally, between the right types of people, true traditional love is possible even today. But whereas in the old days this was aspired to by everybody, and was the stuff of most epic sagas or god myths, nowadays it is rarely sought after and even more rarely found. But if it can be caught and kindled there is enormous potential. As a even more unrelated tangent, this love can be any of the classic greek or judaic types - romantic, brotherly, p/maternal, etc.

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Date: October 23rd, 2017 11:50 AM
Author: Yellow wild space yarmulke

Not every breakup. Most recent breakup I felt 180 after and haven't regretted it for a second.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772311&forum_id=2#34508886)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 11:50 AM
Author: Free-loading lascivious meetinghouse boltzmann

I mentally erase the person entirely once the decision has been made they must go.

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Date: October 23rd, 2017 11:50 AM
Author: Exciting ebony library double fault



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:10 PM
Author: fantasy-prone office gaming laptop

This is probably the healthiest moderation of the tragic and pragmatic approaches, actually.

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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:11 PM
Author: gay rough-skinned potus location



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:15 PM
Author: hairraiser ticket booth hominid

Would give a ridiculous amount of money to be able to do this at will

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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:49 PM
Author: fantasy-prone office gaming laptop

Women all have this ability unless they get CHAD-DADDIED

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Date: October 25th, 2017 1:42 PM
Author: Free-loading lascivious meetinghouse boltzmann

It's a double edged sword. Huge chunks of my life are missing from my memory even though I've got excellent episodic recall.

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Date: October 25th, 2017 1:53 PM
Author: Vibrant high-end area really tough guy

and with this, i came to the realization that i am a twins alt

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Date: October 23rd, 2017 4:38 PM
Author: Sticky Kitchen



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 11:51 AM
Author: carnelian multi-colored theater stage cuckoldry

Same here. Would rather gouge my eyes out than get back with an ex gf.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772311&forum_id=2#34508892)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 11:54 AM
Author: Flickering university useless brakes

sometimes you have to completely turn your feelings off to move on

definitely the better way to go immediately after the blast

after a while, your heart may open up again (if she didn't cheat or stealth fire you or some shit) a little bit and wonder about her and care a little

if it doesn't, that's okay - probably even for the better

when it ends, just let it end -- trying to keep a person you are done with integrated into your life is pretty exhausting and the rewards of it are next to zero

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772311&forum_id=2#34508903)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 12:00 PM
Author: poppy orchestra pit

I think about my exes as spank bank material and nothing else. Including the ones that were sweet, wifeable girls.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772311&forum_id=2#34508928)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 12:01 PM
Author: citrine resort mad-dog skullcap

The women who you date are fat and ugly so yes. Most men wouldn't care about them at all.

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Date: October 23rd, 2017 12:08 PM
Author: Exciting ebony library double fault

How long is this going to go on for?

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Date: October 23rd, 2017 12:05 PM
Author: soggy slimy idiot stage

Seems rational and normal.

To me, they are like dead people. I might have a nice thought about a past moment with them or whatever, but it's fleeting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772311&forum_id=2#34508954)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:11 PM
Author: plum bbw toilet seat

What's zher name?

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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:35 PM
Author: Beady-eyed locale ratface

Ex wife - have some regret about how it turned out and hope she does well

2x ex girlfriends - thinking about them makes my skin crawl

various short term flings - several I really wish I could fuck again. Don't really care about any of them at all but wish them all well

current GF - would miss her a lot if we broke up, even if I initiated it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772311&forum_id=2#34509516)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 5:25 PM
Author: iridescent sickened center

I dated one girl for over four years and was engaged to another girl I was with for over four years and almost never think about them. It was like those relationships never happened.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772311&forum_id=2#34511403)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 5:28 PM
Author: White Indian Lodge

I'm still not over my first GF, and I didn't even actually like her, that was kinda the central problem of the relationship, there was only physical chemsistry on my end but lied to get some

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772311&forum_id=2#34511433)



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Date: October 25th, 2017 1:37 PM
Author: fantasy-prone office gaming laptop



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