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Wife gets depressed when looking at FB friends taking trips

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she’s more depressed that you don’t lavish her with gifts of...
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How often do you travel?
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Don’t you have any places in the world you want to see
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That's what gets me too. But some of them really do believe ...
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LMAO at marriedmos holding "summits" so their wive...
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true. she does understand the importance of saving but just ...
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*the Internet.
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:52 PM
Author: diverse hell preventive strike

our HHI is ~$300k and we save $7-8k/month in savings/investment/retirement funds. she sees her "friends" on FB poast pics of their lavish trips and she gets depressed. she says these friends don't really have great jobs or come from rich families, so why can they take these trips and we can't (we do take about one trip a year)? I tell her it's because we are going to come out at the end in a better position because of our savings. I'm not sure if this is cr advice to give and maybe we should just spend like her "friends" do, at least they are enjoying life more

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509661)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:55 PM
Author: razzle indecent mental disorder national

Remind her that several of them are literally having poop thrown on their chest by Saudi princes so they can take these trips

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509700)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:56 PM
Author: bearded bespoke dragon puppy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509704)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:57 PM
Author: sticky range gaming laptop



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509712)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:29 PM
Author: Territorial location



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:40 PM
Author: Big-titted organic girlfriend

"thrown"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510527)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:47 PM
Author: fragrant black crackhouse masturbator

scat play is diverse, ok

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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:40 PM
Author: disrespectful stimulating property



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510536)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:45 PM
Author: flirting rehab double fault



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510563)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:57 PM
Author: sticky range gaming laptop



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509713)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:57 PM
Author: spectacular hall persian

ugh women and social media

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509716)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:29 PM
Author: Concupiscible Yellow Casino



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:58 PM
Author: Motley bipolar parlor travel guidebook

my facebook is just constant 24/7 binge travel. it doesnt even look fun, but tbf im a straight man. once/year is more than enough.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509722)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:59 PM
Author: erotic reading party doctorate

FB working exactly as designed

Only real way to combat this is to keep fucking her all the time, even when you dont want to, and get her pregnant. Then, after babby, keep fucking her all the time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509729)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:17 PM
Author: boyish cuckold

"we are going to come out at the end in a better position"

what do you imagine is your end

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510387)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:19 PM
Author: diverse hell preventive strike

idk, I'm just saying we'll have more money than her "friends" when we're older and in a better position to retire comfortably relative to them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510399)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:50 PM
Author: Slippery Startled Parlour Nibblets

Jokes on you you're "retirement" is gonna get raped and pilaged to pay for the proles

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510601)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:22 PM
Author: Disgusting chartreuse new version locale

she’s more depressed that you don’t lavish her with gifts of travel than that her friends are going places

she wishes you wanted to do those things with her, despite savings goals

she’s thinks other couples are happier than you two are

as another poaster noted: facebook doing just as intended — equating strategically shared snippets of life with reality

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510414)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:26 PM
Author: Bisexual Mother Lodge

How often do you travel?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510426)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:28 PM
Author: Disgusting chartreuse new version locale

0 these days

post meeting husband and pre-babby, one big trip and 3-4 long weekends to random cities in US each year

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510447)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:30 PM
Author: Bisexual Mother Lodge

Lol yuuuge PROLE tell

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510458)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:31 PM
Author: Disgusting chartreuse new version locale

I’m a happy prole

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510463)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:40 PM
Author: Big-titted organic girlfriend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510534)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:44 PM
Author: Bisexual Mother Lodge

Don’t you have any places in the world you want to see

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510557)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:46 PM
Author: Disgusting chartreuse new version locale

sure, plenty - I am not chill enough to travel to those places with a baby/toddler, though

excited to take lots of trips with the kid when he’s older

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510572)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:24 PM
Author: Lascivious fantasy-prone halford

lol.

women are so fucking retarded. how can it be that they know how to play the facebook game, but can't recognize when others are playing the same game?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510419)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:32 PM
Author: primrose impressive indirect expression

That's what gets me too. But some of them really do believe that they're exaggerating and that everyone else is doing it naturally.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510470)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:51 PM
Author: galvanic cyan temple

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510611)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:39 PM
Author: twisted hyperactive library keepsake machete

I've discussed this before on the bort. Your message is correct but make sure u present it persuasively. I work up spreadsheets on savings n investments, how much we'll have in x years, how much the 20k we'd blow on Somme safari would be worth in x years, and we hold regular summits to recommit to our shared savings goals.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510524)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:41 PM
Author: disrespectful stimulating property



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510540)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:42 PM
Author: Cobalt stead kitty cat

LMAO at marriedmos holding "summits" so their wives don't bankrupt them with their whims

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510548)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:48 PM
Author: twisted hyperactive library keepsake machete

A rational discussion to set and refocus goals is good for everyone involved, including me. I could go cop an m5 tonight, no sweat. I'd love to. Having a shared plan that we are both responsible for helps me avoid agonizing over retarded shit like that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510582)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:42 PM
Author: internet-worthy medicated antidepressant drug internal respiration

(guy with a rational wife)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510549)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:48 PM
Author: twisted hyperactive library keepsake machete

It's good for both of us, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510587)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:54 PM
Author: diverse hell preventive strike

true. she does understand the importance of saving but just hates how we worked so hard to get where we are today just to live the same type of lifestyle as her "friends" who haven't.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510633)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:59 PM
Author: twisted hyperactive library keepsake machete

Throw her a bone bro. Send her for a spa day or something. She can take some pics and it won't break the bank. Then get back to stacking cheddar.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510665)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:48 PM
Author: splenetic buck-toothed tanning salon multi-billionaire

you can go on trips and have fun without spending that much money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510592)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 4:03 PM
Author: Disgusting chartreuse new version locale



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510697)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:50 PM
Author: primrose impressive indirect expression

Couldn't you add another trip? You're banking quite a bit each month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510604)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:51 PM
Author: galvanic cyan temple

The key is to stay off social media.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510608)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:56 PM
Author: Lemon At-the-ready Pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510650)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:57 PM
Author: Big shrine trump supporter

this. it's designed to make you miserable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510653)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 4:06 PM
Author: Godawful french chef

*the Internet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510728)



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Date: October 24th, 2017 12:15 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle trailer park boltzmann

This.

Wife is seeing everyone's highlight reel. Their life is (generally) no more exciting then hers.

My ex used to do this all the time, despite us going on many Vegas weekends, trips to Napa/Maui, etc. Nothing was ever enough for her to "compete" with her friends. She would get pissed when I didn't want to "compete" with them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34514655)



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Date: October 24th, 2017 12:09 AM
Author: saffron senate

yep, you will be able to bank all that money while grinding and not having fun when youre young, and hope that one of you dont beceome sick and die or unable to travle when you are 60-65 years old like that guy from UP :)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34514613)