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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:32 AM Author: Idiotic Plaza I don't think I want kids so that's not really an issue
I am not very picky about age. I'd prob date up to 45 at this point. Divorces are ok as long as they don't have kids.
I am not very picky about looks, except as we all know I vastly prefer tall men. But in reality I'd probably date a dude as short as 5'10. I am not picky about body type either. Just don't be fat or a string bean. I'm also not into freakishly muscular, body builder type men.
Be honest: starting today, so you think it's too late to find a man to marry or spend my life with (since I don't want kids, the ring itself isn't as important as having a committed life partner)
I don't care about race, although I tend not to be attracted to Asian or Indian men. I am probably most attracted to black and white men, but open to all groups theoretically.
I want a man with a dominant/aggressive "Chad" personality, but he doesn't have to be a Chad (hot, rich, popular, etc.)he should be good in bed but only needs an average size penis. I'm not a size queens. He should be VERY dominant and enjoy controlling me in bed.
I don't need a rich guy. I just want someone with a college degree. A librarian or teacher making $50k a year for example would be fine.
I like manly men - guys who are good with cars, fixing shit around the house, electronics, that kinda thing. He should like sports - be really into at least one of baseball, basketball, football or hockey.
I'd like a guy who's social. He should have a lot of friends, be willing to befriend my friends and enjoy going out to restaurants, bars, lounges, clubs, shows, sporting events, etc. I love travel and he should be willing to accompany me a couple of times a year.
So what do y'all think? Realistic? Am I asking too much? Please real, thoughtful responses only, not just mean shit saying I'm an ugly shrew who will die alone. Thanks! :)
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:37 AM Author: cerebral coffee pot TTIWWOP (current, that is) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684380) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:38 PM Author: aromatic dull hall gunner // I don't think I want kids so that's not really an issue
Great, why marry if no one wants kids? Sounds lame.
// I am not very picky about age. I'd prob date up to 45 at this point. Divorces are ok as long as they don't have kids.
Sure but might want to bump it up to 60.
// I am not very picky about looks, except as we all know I vastly prefer tall men. But in reality I'd probably date a dude as short as 5'10. I am not picky about body type either. Just don't be fat or a string bean. I'm also not into freakishly muscular, body builder type men.
Lower to 5'8" and over 55 and I think you've got yourself a good market.
// Be honest: starting today, so you think it's too late to find a man to marry or spend my life with (since I don't want kids, the ring itself isn't as important as having a committed life partner)
As long as the person is VERY undesirable, it might work.
// I don't care about race, although I tend not to be attracted to Asian or Indian men. I am probably most attracted to black and white men, but open to all groups theoretically.
Well, bad news. Whites/Blacks are the top market choices here. You'll likely get some sort of mexican.
// I want a man with a dominant/aggressive "Chad" personality, but he doesn't have to be a Chad (hot, rich, popular, etc.)he should be good in bed but only needs an average size penis. I'm not a size queens. He should be VERY dominant and enjoy controlling me in bed.
Exactly, a short mexican with lots of attitude and machismo. PERFECT.
// I don't need a rich guy. I just want someone with a college degree. A librarian or teacher making $50k a year for example would be fine.
NO. You don't get white collar guys. Get a HVAC mexican, they make more anyway.
// I like manly men - guys who are good with cars, fixing shit around the house, electronics, that kinda thing. He should like sports - be really into at least one of baseball, basketball, football or hockey.
See above.
// I'd like a guy who's social. He should have a lot of friends, be willing to befriend my friends and enjoy going out to restaurants, bars, lounges, clubs, shows, sporting events, etc. I love travel and he should be willing to accompany me a couple of times a year.
See above.
// So what do y'all think? Realistic? Am I asking too much? Please real, thoughtful responses only, not just mean shit saying I'm an ugly shrew who will die alone. Thanks! :)
A 52/55+ Mexican male who is at the end of a good blue collar career is PERFECT. And when he dies young he'll leave you a little nest egg.
YOU'RE WELCOME.
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:47 PM Author: jet-lagged temple Mexican guys don't date blacks. Mexican's are literally KKK level racist. Not sure why Blacks vote Dem to import them into USA en masse.
That said, she can find some other kind of Hispanic that's less racist -- EG an heavily african Dominican. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 5:18 PM Author: ebony cumskin 33 is too old for a chick.
33 is cutting it close for a guy.
I'm not reading that longass OP. |
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Date: March 2nd, 2018 2:25 AM Author: Federal Theater Stage Potus (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#35518770) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:34 AM Author: swollen french menage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34683882) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:36 AM Author: Idiotic Plaza ? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34683893) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:34 AM Author: Idiotic Plaza First what? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34683883) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:37 AM Author: mahogany balding hunting ground place of business http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/first (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34683900) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:39 AM Author: harsh purple point (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34683922) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:34 AM Author: umber hateful stage international law enforcement agency "I told her, 'Actually, it's a major year. It's my Jesus Year,'" Ms. Sundel recalls, stressing the importance of a concept she didn't fully understand.
At that moment, she decided to quit her job, sell her possessions on Craigslist and spend the next year in Europe. Eight days later, she was on an airplane with no clue what to do next.
So, what exactly is a Jesus Year? The term cropped up periodically on early blogs and Myspace pages, but only now appears to be gaining traction among those trying to make the increasingly difficult transition from adolescence to adulthood.
This is the definition found in the Urban Dictionary: "Time to get moving and get things done (maybe)." And one of the first mainstream uses appears in a 1996 Chicago Sun-Times article about Tennessee-born singer-songwriter R.B. Morris, who refers cryptically to having done a "Jesus Year" but offers no details.
Brooklyn-based artist Wayne Adams is more forthcoming. "Thirty-three is largely considered the age Jesus Christ was when His life and ministry were abruptly ended in His crucifixion," he explains on the blog Curator, adding that, as he approached his own Jesus Year, "in the back of my mind, it seemed like there was a sort of historical/biblical precedent for being at the height of one's career, or at least doing something incredibly important at that age."
But the impulse is more spiritual than overtly Christian. To paraphrase comedian Bill Hicks, who died two months short of the start of his own Jesus Year, we live in a culture that commemorates the death and resurrection of its messiah by telling children a giant bunny rabbit leaves chocolate eggs while they sleep. This is a generation of people obsessed with vampires and zombies who grew up in a world that prints more copies of the Ikea catalogue than the Bible. Is it any surprise that their search for meaning is being played out on social media?
A recent study by British social-networking site Friends United asserts that the year is the happiest time of our lives. "By this age, innocence has been lost, but our sense of reality is mixed with a strong sense of hope, a 'can do' spirit, and a healthy belief in our own talents and abilities," says psychologist Donna Dawson, best known as Company magazine's first Agony Aunt.
This interpretation doesn't, however, take into account the frustrations faced by today's thirtysomethings. "The basic milestones that young people of previous generations could expect to complete by the age of 30 – graduating school, leaving home, becoming financial independent and forming their own families – aren't necessarily occurring in that standard fashion," says Barbara Mitchell, who teaches sociology at Simon Fraser University in Vancouver.
"It's unprecedented from a historical perspective. On the one hand, they have all these opportunities and options. On the other hand, I can imagine they'd start to feel somewhat anxious about trying to transition into complete adulthood in an economy that doesn't allow them to do that."
According to Prof. Mitchell, the Jesus Year phenomenon demonstrates how so-called emerging adults are trying to connect their own experience to something transcendental and more profound than mundane daily life. "They are trying to anchor themselves in something bigger than themselves."
So, the Jesus Year has become a meme for dealing with, not a mid-life crisis but rather a stalled-life crisis.
"That's what really stood out to me – that there is a name for this early 30s malaise thing that I see in all of my friends," Ms. Sundel says. "By 35, especially for women, you have to be married with babies; otherwise you kind of missed your time."
She interpreted the Jesus Year as an opportunity for reinvention, a kind of bonus year off from the pressures of adulthood, and embarked upon a year of self-improvement and magical thinking. She travelled. She gathered her rosebuds. She took lots of photos and posted them on social media. For her, the Jesus Year is a bricolage of all the popular "years of" quests that came before – eating in Italy, praying in India, cooking all of Julia Childs's recipes, reading every volume of the Oxford English Dictionary.
Mr. Adams, on the other hand, became a vegetarian. "If Jesus was at the core, it seemed to make killing and eating His creation a bit more significant.
"I don't know if all of this made me any more like Jesus, but I do think it has helped make me a little more conscientious in general."
The feeling didn't last. He began his 34th year by eating meat for the first time in 365 days, a lamb chop. "And," he concludes with more than a touch of irony, "it was good."
A search for meaning
Ignoring the robust scholarly debate over how old Jesus was when he was crucified – or the fact that 33 was hardly young in 33 AD – the most profound reality of this age today is that it's the last gasp before you leave the valuable under-35 demographic. You are becoming less valuable to the marketing machine that had praised you since your teens. All the things you bought don't love you back. The rub, of course, is where do you turn instead?
"I just spent so many years talking to other people about their lives, I was kind of ignoring my life," Ms. Sundel says. "I had absolutely no more heart left in what I was doing. I was really having a crisis of creativity, which sounds very pretentious. I used to be a creative person. I used to be a complete person. How did I get on this hamster wheel of work? How did all of my identity go into that?"
The quest for deeper meaning comes as no surprise to Mardi Tindal, the 40th moderator of the United Church of Canada. She suspects the Jesus Year speaks to a longing everyone has to be more than themselves.
"Those in their 30s now, as Douglas Coupland said, are the first generation to be raised without religion," she explains. "If they turn to Jesus, it wouldn't surprise me. He was a model for living a life of transcendence."
Happiness is very much on Ms. Tindal's mind at the moment. She recently returned from New York, having been invited by the prime minister of Bhutan to participate in a high-level United Nations conference. The goal? To find a place for a "gross national happiness" metric in a global economic system hell bent on gross domestic product.
"We're not talking about a superficial kind of happiness," she says. "We're talking about a deep sense of well-being."
That Ms. Sundel happens to be Jewish is a sign of the Jesus Year's widespread appeal. "Want to know what's weird?" she confides. "I was brought up more religious than your average Jew. Like my parents are the kind of people that will tell me that they're going to disown me if I don't marry a Jew. But they immediately got it – as did all their friends. In a weird way, their Jewish friends in their 60s in Florida are some of my biggest supporters. They saw it for the quest aspects and the discoveries."
She pauses. She has the over-conscious sensibility of one who has become a believer – in something – despite her natural instincts. "I thought maybe I would be taking more heat from religious Christians, but in fact they're like, 'I never thought about 33 as being such a special year.'"
Reinvention, it seems, is an incredibly powerful image. Even the strangers who showed up to buy her stuff off Craigslist expressed a surprisingly deep admiration for what she was doing.
When her grandfather died midway through her Jesus Year, she was alone in Paris, devastated. A guy from Canada she knew only as Joe contacted her, one searcher to another. "He said he wanted to be a kind of like an angel to me, to tell me that what I was doing was meaningful and that it had effected him," she recalls. "Honestly, that moment alone was worth the whole year for me."
A visit to Joe's blog, NoFixedAddress, reveals the epiphanies of a young backpacker out on a gap year. "I've learned that the world is full of people quick to tell you the things you can't do, the things you shouldn't do and the things that won't work," he writes. "The instant you ignore them, you will meet the people who will tell you all the things you can do, all the things that are possible, and how to fix the things that aren't working."
What would Jobs do?
It's not insignificant that on the last day of her Jesus Year, Ms. Sundel ended her blog post by quoting Silicon Valley icon Steve Jobs, who consistently interrupted his business ventures to embark upon spiritual quests: "You have to trust in something – your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever."
Ms. Sundel's epiphanies, sprinkled throughout the 33 – yes, 33 – pages on her Tumblr blog, are not unlike what you'd hear on a Sunday morning in any reasonable place of worship. "The ideas, I think, are in line with Jesus's teaching: to help each other, and try to see the good in other people. To have meaningful connections to other people, and not just superficial ones."
The now 34-year-old is back in the United States and is pitching her Jesus Year project as a book, a sign that today's path to enlightenment has not only been paved by Jesus, but also by Eat, Pray, Love's Elizabeth Gilbert.
"I'm not surprised," Prof. Mitchell remarks. "It's a trademark of today's technologically savvy, social networking young adult. They have to be creative and innovative in terms of thinking about the possibilities of earning a living." |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:34 AM Author: pink bateful boltzmann church in little rock youd have to settle for one who already has kids
in MFH uhh I don't understand the question. millions of balding single dorks like your ex |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:35 AM Author: Idiotic Plaza Do you think I'm too old to find a husband (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34683888) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:37 AM Author: pink bateful boltzmann church no
probably worry about the drug addiction first though |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:42 AM Author: garnet base quadroon Frustration in dating will lead to relapse.
LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:30 PM Author: jet-lagged temple (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684856) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:36 AM Author: Chestnut indian lodge hahahahahahhaha
this is shtick right
actually it's even funnier if you're serious |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:39 AM Author: Idiotic Plaza I'm seeious' (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34683917) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:47 PM Author: duck-like gold filthpig How high are you right now? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34686382) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:38 AM Author: slimy parlour I’m out of your area but I’ve seen your pictures and would seriously date you, alas I’m at the very bottom of your criteria: 37, earning 50kish as a professor, 5’11–so maybe that’s about all you could expect. I usually date 24-32 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34683905) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:39 AM Author: garnet base quadroon Do you serious make 50k???
I made 70k straight out of college |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:27 AM Author: slimy parlour Yep... I’m an artist for a living (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684270) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:31 PM Author: jet-lagged temple If teach some classes as an adjunct, that DOES NOT make you a professor. Are you ACTUAL on the faculty as an Assistant, Associate or Full Professor?. If no, you cannot call yourself a professor.
It's like calling a Physicians Assistant a Physician. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 1:16 PM Author: slimy parlour My rank is visiting professor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34685162) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 5:19 PM Author: jet-lagged temple I'll allow it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34687040) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:56 AM Author: Idiotic Plaza You sound perfect for me, as long as you have a good personality and are willing to date older. ;-) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684088) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:36 AM Author: slimy parlour About that personality... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684356) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:32 PM Author: jet-lagged temple (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684879) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:37 AM Author: slimy parlour Haha no shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684381) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:38 AM Author: garnet base quadroon In most countries: yes. In America: no. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:39 AM Author: harsh purple point You can find a husband pretty easily but it's going to be the type of dude who is fine with the idea of an aging, fat heroin addict with monkeyface being his wife/mother of his children (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34683915) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:46 AM Author: Onyx library patrolman Oh and he has to be among the 35% or so with a college degree-- no six figure HVAC bros for me! BUT he has to be good with, you know, manly stuff and good with manual labor but not as a job-- during the day he should teach or be a librarian or something, when he's not jaunting around the globe or hanging out with his expansive social network. Oh and I have no maternal instincts so he can't want or already have kids lol. But he has to be into BDSM because I'm into submissive shit. I sure hope he hasn't met anybody already by traveling the world and constantly being the center of social activities!
Anyway, am I being TOO PICKY? |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:50 AM Author: Idiotic Plaza You're seriously ragging on me for wanting a man with a college degree when I said I'd accept a salary that people are describing as "poverty?"
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:59 AM Author: Slate circlehead old irish cottage Serious question: why do you specifically need a man with a college degree? What does that college degree give you in the relationship? Its not going to do anything for you and more than half of men dont have one (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684583) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:34 PM Author: jet-lagged temple THIS.
At this point, the average IQ of people without college degrees is almost the same as people with college degrees because do many dumbs go to college.
TONS of 120+ IQ non-college White bros out there making good money. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:48 PM Author: Slate circlehead old irish cottage Yep
Requiring a college degree eliminates over half of men without providing any real benefit. At this point a college degree guarantees nothing except that you graduated from college. Better imo to think of specific traits youre looking for (intelligence, reliability, career dedication/work ethic) and to select based on that
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:42 PM Author: flushed insanely creepy personal credit line school LMAO
In my breakup thread you guys ROASTED me because I said I would be happier with a person that was more of a reader and intellectually engaged. Now you're telling Blue Smoke she's being dense by wanting a guy with a college education?
I understand that edgy+cool XO wants to devalue education as much as possible since it has turned into a fraudlie$ industry but this shit is ridiculous. She's smart and she went to Yale. She's not untethered from reality because she wants to be with a guy that went to college. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:49 PM Author: Slate circlehead old irish cottage Im just saying she shouldnt rule men out just bc they dont have a degree, especially since she likes masculine men. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34685914) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:51 PM Author: flushed insanely creepy personal credit line school LOL, them sissy college boys! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34685928) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:08 PM Author: Onyx library patrolman I am just saying that, by itself, it knocks out two thirds of the dating market. And I say that as someone who benefits from women preferring men with college/professional degrees (amazingly, women are still impressed by law degrees even though they absolutely should not be).
It's particularly absurd because you want a man who is good at, you know, manly man stuff (cars & fixing stuff around the house). But if he's so good at it that he makes a comfortable living as a mechanic or HVAC bro and never went to college because you don't need college for those jobs, it's an autoding? You can be as picky as you like, but you're counting out a large section of the population. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:08 PM Author: Slate circlehead old irish cottage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684672) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:37 AM Author: Idiotic Plaza First of all, I started the thread to see whether I was being too picky. I value all feedback.
is 5'10 tall?
How often do Asians and Indians date black women anyway
I didn't say he had to be great in bed just dominant. Aren't most men dominant?
What's wrong with being bl ack?
I haven't done heroin in ages |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:18 PM Author: Topaz fragrant kitchen telephone 2 weeks is only "ages" if you're a dragonfly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684763) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:36 PM Author: jet-lagged temple 5'10" is tall for the guys over 30 who are not married.
White and black guys each average about 5'10". BUT, the tallmos get married off earlier and/or are already in relationships.
Average height of SINGLE guys over 30, is probably 5'8".
So if you need 5'10" + you are eliminating about 65% of guys.
So just with the college and the height requirement, you're left with about 10% of single guys meeting your criteria. (0.35 * 0.3) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:39 AM Author: rose area How's sobriety treating you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34683921) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:42 AM Author: garnet base quadroon She’s just in-between welfare checks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34683944) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:56 AM Author: Idiotic Plaza Boring but ok. I am working on my body to take my mind off of it. Thanks for asking. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684548) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:21 PM Author: harsh purple point Wait I thought you weren't fat why would you need to "work on" your body? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684784) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:41 AM Author: learning disabled bbw institution Totally not picky, just *lists a dozen requirements*
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:43 AM Author: beady-eyed death wish so hilarious. ALL WOMEN are like this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34683961) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:44 AM Author: garnet base quadroon Because it’s better to be single than with someone they don’t like (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34683970) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:46 AM Author: learning disabled bbw institution Or, they aren't superficial whores and got a man a long time ago when their market value was higher. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34683990) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:38 PM Author: jet-lagged temple Good point actually. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684905) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:45 AM Author: learning disabled bbw institution You mean all women that are asking questions like these in their 30s? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34683976) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:50 AM Author: Onyx library patrolman Fucking CR.
Men start with insane expectations and no sexual market value and are forced to confront some hard facts early, while their junior high classmates are fucking high school kids and then their high school classmates are fucking students from the local college and then their college classmates are fucking guys in their thirties. Men learn to keep an open mind early, then things get progressively easier as their sexual market value climbs and they become the one with the status&money chasing the younger girls.
Women, on the other hand, start with insane sexual market value and quickly calibrate their expansions to sky-high levels. Then they crater at 30 and whittle down their "list" to "just ten demands!" and feel like they're being so open-minded. Meanwhile the guys their age are fucking women in their mid-20's. LJL. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:53 AM Author: Big range knife definitely a lot of truth to this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684069) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:56 AM Author: garnet base quadroon Yea..
Not all men survive their involuntary celibate age though.. they become defeatists and stopped trying to improve themselves and settle into a low paying jobs and become alcoholics.
Men like me had limited but encouraging success with women early on, became obsessed with chasing pussy, worked everyday to improve myself, become well established in their 30s, will get all the loot. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:39 PM Author: jet-lagged temple LJL, no. Chad gets all the loot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684913) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:43 PM Author: Onyx library patrolman Chad gets a ROFR but the rest of us can get an option on the overflow pussy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684943) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:44 PM Author: jet-lagged temple (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684947) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:01 AM Author: learning disabled bbw institution Nailed it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684118) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:50 PM Author: duck-like gold filthpig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34686417) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:54 AM Author: Mustard geriatric resort (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684076) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:01 AM Author: Big range knife "B-b-but I'm really not that picky!!", screamed Blue Smoke, as her Venn Diagram created an overlap imperceptible to the naked eye. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684116) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:43 AM Author: Ruby irradiated spot jew (height supremacist) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34683957) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:43 AM Author: learning disabled bbw institution She is even willing to date men of average height! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34683966) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:46 AM Author: orange brethren candlestick maker "He should be VERY dominant and enjoy controlling me in bed."
Absolutely disgusting! Can you please share some real life examples of this so I know how to identify this behavior in the future? |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:48 AM Author: smoky party of the first part lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684014) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:49 AM Author: smoky party of the first part Why would any man ever marry without kids/family?
Seriously most retarded thing ever.
Lay off the DOPE, ya dope. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:50 AM Author: garnet base quadroon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684034) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:14 AM Author: Vengeful center (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684185) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:39 PM Author: jet-lagged temple (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684924) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:50 AM Author: garnet base quadroon Why would men marry if not for producing kids???
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:51 AM Author: smoky party of the first part (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684046) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:51 AM Author: Black stage messiness [insert Steez's screed about 30 year olds & soulmates] (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684039) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:51 AM Author: garnet base quadroon This is what colleges like Yale does to modern women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684045) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:52 AM Author: Heady Travel Guidebook Yeah prob too old (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684051) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:56 AM Author: Onyx library patrolman While this has already been covered just throwing some numbers out there: 5'10" is the average height for American men, so you've cut off 50% of the dating market right there.
About 1/3 of the country 25+ has a bachelor's degree.
Stats on how many men want kids vary, but safe to say that a majority (75%+?) are strongly committed to the idea and, what's more, they want the mother of their children to be younger than you are now, let alone how old you would be by the time you formed relationship, got married, etc. (And, by the way, for the men who DON'T want kids, they are frequently dating younger women who are not yet seriously thinking about a family.)
Obviously there's overlap between these groups, but an above average height, college educated man who doesn't want kids being interested in a women your age is a fucking unicorn and that's before getting into your other hard to quantify shit. You might not be too old to find a husband, but you are too old to find the husband you describe. Perhaps you should have married your organic relationship ten years ago. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:56 AM Author: drab hominid internal respiration basically, then, even if you're a black woman heroin addict in your 30s, you still think you're going to get carried away by a tall, rich, handsome man (not indian or asian, of course) and live a life of luxury on his dime.
jfc women.
i'm a somehow still moderately attractive late 30s man with a full head of non-gray hair, big shoulders, but a bad alcoholic, and i'm reasonable about my limits. the fairy tale should probably end at 30. or at least at heroin. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:02 AM Author: Onyx library patrolman "the fairy tale should probably end at 30. or at least at heroin" would be a 180.0000 moniker but I don't think it would fit in the character limit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684122) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:03 AM Author: drab hominid internal respiration yeah, i'm sharper today than last night. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684139) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:08 AM Author: bat shit crazy ceo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684167) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:10 AM Author: deep erotic fortuitous meteor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684171) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:52 PM Author: Motley lilac address (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34685006) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:04 PM Author: Onyx library patrolman YNY (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34685577) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 10:58 AM Author: Sepia People Who Are Hurt What would you bring to the relationship, apart from a willingness to get married?
I would imagine drug addicts are not a popular option in the marriage market. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:00 AM Author: Navy business firm voyeur Huge tits, Yale degree hmm I'm gonna stop there looks like she already has you beat. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684114) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:01 AM Author: Big range knife To be fair, Fish could easily upgrade Mandy to huge tits. In fact, I've encouraged this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684119) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:04 AM Author: Navy business firm voyeur Buying a set of tits is no better than the Chinese cheating on the GRE. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684140) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 4:13 PM Author: Wine Contagious House Double Fault (guy who runs chinese GRE cheating company) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34686636) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:02 AM Author: garnet base quadroon Yale degree in a woman is probably not an asset in the dating scene. Some men will be intimidated by this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684123) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:04 AM Author: Big range knife It's not intimidation; it's more that men don't care about proxies in the way that women do.
If you say Yalies come from good successful families, well I can figure out whether a girl comes from a good, successful family without relying on a Yale degree,
If you say Yalies are smart, well I can tell whether a girl is smart or not just by interacting with her. The fact that she went to Yale vs Wisconsin on a full ride makes little difference to me and most men. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:41 PM Author: jet-lagged temple Counterpoint, AA Yale degree only counts as a Tufts degree.
(Unless you will have kids who can use the legacy boost, but here that's not the case) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:00 AM Author: Big range knife >> I don't need a rich guy. I just want someone with a college degree. A librarian or teacher making $50k a year for example would be fine. <<
>> He should...be willing to befriend my friends and enjoy going out to restaurants, bars, lounges, clubs, shows, sporting events, etc. I love travel and he should be willing to accompany me a couple of times a year. <<
These two seem in conflict to me. That or you're naive about what shit costs. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:02 AM Author: drab hominid internal respiration she's lying. in her mind she wants a tall, rich, probably white male to whisk her away.
but i'm honestly being too harsh. i have problems as does she. so i do have a lot of sympathy. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:07 AM Author: Big range knife It's totally fine to care about money to some degree, but it's hard to live in an expensive urban area and go to lounges, clubs, and sporting events and travel multiple times a year on $50k. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684160) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:11 AM Author: drab hominid internal respiration i think she just wants a tall professional white man. which i get. she's a black woman heroin addict. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684174) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:05 AM Author: sooty razzle-dazzle den athletic conference BS never pays for anything. She's been open about using match.com just to get free dinners at nice restaurants (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684153) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:08 PM Author: orchid vibrant stain crackhouse she denies this now. sort of like how she ardently denies that she used to claim she was mixed-race. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34685602) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:07 PM Author: orchid vibrant stain crackhouse she doesn't know what stuff costs because she has never really supported herself with anything more than subsistence earning.
it's clear she expects the dude she settles with to have some cool job where he makes decent money. lol at $50K. okie dokie BS, you're totally going to settle down with some guy who works the graveyard shift putting out road cones making a modest union wage.
this is like her demanding that XO tell her she can have a smoking hot 9+ body if she just gets into shape. "oh hey guis, anyone want to assure me that a tall, fit, smart, social, cool alpha guy who can rail me like a pro and will fund my late-in-life travel shrew fantasies is well within my reach?"
are people always this pie in the sky the second week they're off heroin for the first time in 8 years? |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:07 AM Author: Milky philosopher-king Do most Black guys who stayed single until their 30s or got divorced in their 30s want kids? I would guess less than 20% of White guys in that cohort want kids. IME 90+% of never married or divorced and childless 30-something females want kids. E.g. my next door neighbor spinner ypga shrew that I've mentioned on here before is the archetype of your competition. Not wanting kids ought to give you a huge advantage, but I think the best thing you can do is to hie to another city. Move to a big city not in California, Florida or Texas with less strivers (e.g. Atlanta, D.C., Chicago, Philly, Charlotte, Boston if you want to just focus on White guys, etc.) and you'll maximize the amount of guys who fit your preferences while preserving your competitive advantage against other shrews. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684162) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:12 AM Author: drab hominid internal respiration pretty sure most black men spawn their several children in their teens, then die.
might be wrong. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:15 AM Author: Slate circlehead old irish cottage Im a firm believer that its never too late to find love/get married. Plenty of people get married or re-married late in life.
That being said, I think its important that you think about what youre looking for and keep an open mind. Listing "college degree" as a requirement may seem reasonable, but in reality if you refuse to date anyone without one that eliminates half of men right there. Requiring a college degree specifically is just you internalizing societal/GC flame that you need a college degree to be successful or "educated". Plenty of blue collar guys are reasonably intelligent and theyre more likely to have the manly traits youre looking for. Just a thought.
This is jcm btw |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:16 AM Author: drab hominid internal respiration as the bort's devoted zevon genius, he has a good one on this topic:
it's never too late for love.
look it up. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:20 AM Author: drab hominid internal respiration Who am I to say I know the way you feel I've felt your pain And I know your sorrow You could try to let the past slip away Live for today Don't stop believing in tomorrow |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:24 AM Author: drab hominid internal respiration it's sarcasm, i think, which makes it all better (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684244) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:18 AM Author: Judgmental Laser Beams Corn Cake ljl
it's too late to find real "love"
you'll just find a beta provider you can use. your description of what you want indicates this. "doesn't need to be rich ... but needs to provide me with three international vacations a year, plus constant disposable spending"
also in on 200+ thread |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:22 AM Author: drab hominid internal respiration (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684227) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:26 AM Author: orange brethren candlestick maker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684262) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:22 AM Author: yellow arousing sanctuary water buffalo Lmaooo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684228) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:17 PM Author: pearl domesticated round eye (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684756) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:28 AM Author: bossy karate fanboi i'll date you bluesmoke. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684276) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 11:33 AM Author: concupiscible lavender associate codepig 1. Learn to cook healthy tasty meals 2. Keep a clean home 3. Be open to having kids if conditions are right 4. Demonstrate that you are fun / friendly with family. That you can hold ppl down in a pinch. 5. Fuck em good 6. Dont nag the guy to do bunch of instagram shit. Let him do him and you do you. 7. Be cute. When he is talking about stuff open your eyes wide and give him laser attention like hes sooo smart and wow interesting. You have to respond with things that show that you are listening.
If you do these things you will likely find a man and have him so dependent on you he wont even know what to do. If you are a psycho you can prolly start abusing him at this point as he is your mind slave. If you are nice you will see him for the puppy dawg that he is and help each other grow and share and love dovey.
Addiction will basically gurantee that the person you attract will have problems. Also you have to show that you are a fighter. Nice in day to day interactions but not afraid to lay down the law. If you seem timid then you will attract whacko abusive men.
My 2 cents gl girl |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:03 PM Author: trip translucent corner hissy fit this is not wrong. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684621) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:28 PM Author: concupiscible lavender associate codepig Its takes work and discipline..suprise these are required to "perform" in any sphere of life...but if done correctly a woman can lock down a good man who will start to see his life as pre and post this woman. You can even capture chads with this...though breakdowns can occur with chad always risky (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684842) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:28 PM Author: frisky racy french chef cruise ship 180 advice for women and gay bros (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34685759) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:02 PM Author: aphrodisiac idea he suggested ;) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684611) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:24 PM Author: bisexual jewess You will die alone (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684810) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:31 PM Author: filthy generalized bond locus I heard the Gadsden mall is a reliable place to find future spouses. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684867) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:50 PM Author: Adventurous Heaven i'm 6'3", make $450k+ and am in my late 30s (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34684994) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:57 PM Author: Buff Narrow-minded Ticket Booth Lettuce I saw pics of the ex who married the fat Indian girl. If that’s your definition of a catch, I don’t think you’ll have problems finding a guy. Most girls I know who are still single at 33 have unrealistic expectations. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34685040) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 12:59 PM Author: jet-lagged temple Yeah. First thing first is for her to GTFO of NYC though.
Go up to Albany or Rochester or Buffallo and will be in much better shape. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 1:19 PM Author: Gaped Rehab Windowlicker Lol what kind of brutally autistic flame is this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34685186) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:09 PM Author: orchid vibrant stain crackhouse daaaaaamn nutella is CATTY AS FUCK
lol at your reflex to always subtly shit on other people |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 6:40 PM Author: Buff Narrow-minded Ticket Booth Lettuce lol sorry but that guy was just fug:
http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3700811&mc=212&forum_id=2#33994025
BS can do better esp since she doesn’t look 33. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:43 PM Author: flushed insanely creepy personal credit line school Insanely bitchy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34685882) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:44 PM Author: Crystalline blathering factory reset button jfc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34685885) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:02 PM Author: Onyx library patrolman Holy shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34686039) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:03 PM Author: Sick dilemma roast beef why are you so mean to her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34686053) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:41 PM Author: Razzmatazz startling cuckoldry kitty That woman has a family! Well she wants one...well actually she doesn't but still. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34686327) |
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Date: March 2nd, 2018 2:49 AM Author: exhilarant indigo really tough guy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#35518822) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:42 PM Author: bronze bull headed tanning salon tattoo Candidate for cattiest poast of the year (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34686339) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:48 PM Author: Ruby irradiated spot jew hate nutella but this is 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34686395) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 5:12 PM Author: Judgmental Laser Beams Corn Cake 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34687007) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 6:56 PM Author: carmine charismatic parlor becky absolutely devastating (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34687600) |
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Date: November 15th, 2017 9:41 AM Author: green public bath rawr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34691656) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 1:08 PM Author: Crystalline blathering factory reset button NJ is too far. I only date hot guys who live in MFH (Bluesmoke 2010)
Person with a penis will do (Bluesmoke 2017) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 1:08 PM Author: jet-lagged temple Women who hit 30 not married are isane. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34685110) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 1:14 PM Author: Slate circlehead old irish cottage For women that want kids this is definitely true (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34685149) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 1:18 PM Author: Crystalline blathering factory reset button yeah, while it is technically true that a woman could meet someone at 30 or so with whom she has babies, it is unlikely to go through all the stages of meeting, dating, exclusivity, engagement, marriage, babby formation with someone you've just met at that age before it's too late.
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Date: November 14th, 2017 4:41 PM Author: crusty salmon property Meeting -> marriage is a 3-4 year process (maybe less if the couple wants kids). Seems totally doable for a 30yr old. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34686840) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 5:01 PM Author: Crystalline blathering factory reset button ok but im talking about the likelihood someone who is already in her 30s and hasnt net that person will immediately meet him abd start that process is low. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34686953) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 2:06 PM Author: Big range knife yes, but i'd revise to say not in a marriage-track relationship. yes some of those don't work out, but at least they are in good position. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34685589) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 1:55 PM Author: orchid vibrant stain crackhouse "I'd prob date up to 45"
wasn't the aspie polish dude you were dating 6-7 years ago already older than 45? |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 3:29 PM Author: Razzmatazz startling cuckoldry kitty Target much older divorcemos with kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3796937&forum_id=2#34686250) |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 4:59 PM Author: Idiotic Plaza Thank you for all the responses. Just a few things to clear up.
Re: height I'm a very tall girl myself, like 5'9. This is why I said I wanted a guy who is 5'10 or taller.
I would date a guy with no degree if he were otherwise intelligent and curious about the world.
A houswhold income of like $120k is enough to travel and go out sometimes.
Finally, I might be open to kids if I met the right guy. My mom had my brother at 38 and my grandmother had an unplanned pregnancy in her mid-40s (this was during the 60s!) So I'm not that worried about being able to have a kid in my late 30s or something. |
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Date: November 14th, 2017 5:09 PM Author: flushed insanely creepy personal credit line school 5'9" isn't really that tall, large majority of guys are not going to look small next to you by comparison unless he's tiny. I know you like to be dominated sexually and you're attracted to more typically masculine dudes but you should be open-minded on height, particularly in NYC, the true homeland of short people.
$120K doesn't leave much for your leisure travel if you guys live in a major metro. What is the most amount of money you have ever earned in a year and what was your living situation (read: did you pay bills or were you kept) at this time?
On the issue of kids, consider that it's not just the physical ability to have a kid. It's the increased risk, the compromises you make later in life by waiting, and the fact that you overall have less energy and natural ability to keep up with the demands of raising a child at that age. The upside for most people is that they're much better off financially and can do more for the kid, but it's still a compromise. This is all said as a committed childless-mo. |
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